I tend to think that it's scam, but maybe you can find a gem there - a real woman. I found my girlfriend on https://j4l.com/402007
I recommend this service to those looking for relationship, although some really hot chats can happen there too ;) It's not full of scammers like many other dating sites. What surprised me right away was plenty of women actually wanting to meet me in real. It was something I lacked on Idates and other sites.

Definitely a scam I hate their guts they stung me for £10 and I only work part time because of my long term and crippling mental health problems, they can rot in hell

It is a total scam. I received a ridiculous amount of messages each day, but each messages contained little more than menial chit chat that required an answer to the simplest of questions and each answer costs you over £2.00. Ask for a date from someone supposedly living close-by & they respond without answering, but requiring another answer.

Definitely a scam. No question about that! Alongside mydates.com.