When is Adam going to realize that freedom of speech includes freedom to criticize HIM, and the site, and the features or lack thereof, and the reaction of those who are pestered for donations? When will he understand that PMs are supposed to be PRIVATE and generate no response from him, even if he does insist on reading every single one? When will he quit being so insecure that he forbids even the mere mention of other sites? And most importantly, when will he get off his pity pot and stop feeling so gosh-darned SORRY for himself, get a real job, and pay his electric bill?