i don't understand why none of the guys text me, and the ones to whom I send the first message they do not reply, why do we match then?

asked by katia g. on 10/18/16

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Statistically, based on the high percentage of fake profiles on Tinder, you are more likely to be shown fake or scammer or abandoned profiles. When you only match with these amazing profiles, the ones too good to be true, you are likely to get negative replies or bot replies.
Next, look at the bait you are fishing with. Real people won't be interested in a profile with nothing written or that is not interesting. They won't be attracted to bad or doctored or filtered pictures. Real people don't care about seeing pictures of your animals or cars or kids. Be interesting and interested in your replies. Don't let all the fake amazing man profiles go to your head. If you go into a conversation with the idea that you deserve more than you are getting, you may be eternally unhappy as the real single guys are nothing like the fakes. I won't reply to unverified profiles, empty profiles with nothing interesting written, profiles that have poorly written on word replies, entitled women and women that are too difficult to get to know. Guys don't know how great you are and have no reason to chase you until you show them and give them a reason to chase you.
There are many reasons you are having a bad experience. You may be messaging fakes or you may be sending, "hi" messages, or there may be something in your profile that makes guys reluctant to reply...

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Thumbnail of user johnd340

It's a scam, like all these other sites. Maybe not as bad as other ones, but in the long run, you still get robbed.

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Thumbnail of user michellef107

I have a number of men text me, I am 59. I have even met a couple that were both perfect gentlemen. I have suspected a couple men were fake profiles. I ignore them. I feature to delete the questionables would be helpful.

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Thumbnail of user rajesj

I agree. Even i pay for tinder plus but no response. Its fake..

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Thumbnail of user michellen61

I think it's fake app I have similar problems

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