AdultFriendFinder

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Mississippi
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Just like the subject. With that, I'll add I've fooled with this in the past and not even one week, I was with someone. The last time I gave it a go with no issue was 2016. The two times after was in 2020 and 2021 and it seems to be fake asf now. I'll pass indefinitely after reading the other reviews below.

Date of experience: September 1, 2022
GB
1 review
10 helpful votes
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AFF is not a scam
March 28, 2012

AFF is not a scam. I've banged around 5 women from the site. Yes, they false advertise with fake profiles, but once you're in the profiles are all genuine. Here's the trick to it: You have to send a PM to EVERY SINGLE woman in your area. You'll get around 3-4 replies to every 100 emails and all but 1 will fizzle out to nothing. IMO a batch of 100-200 PM's will get you sex at least once.

Date of experience: March 28, 2012
California
5 reviews
117 helpful votes
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Nasty men
February 5, 2016

I think whether a dating site "works" or not depends on the person using it. That's a fairly obvious statement, but I don't mean any sarcasm by it. I guess my point is that one should really consider which dating sites are right for them as well as the male to female gender ratios on the sites. In my case AFF wasn't good enough because men on the site were rude indeed.
As a single girl in my mid-20s living in a large metro area, I actually get tons of messages. I try to respond to most of them but it's not too easy. As for one of my college buddies, who's a dude in a suburb of PA, it hasn't been so easy

Date of experience: February 5, 2016
Germany
1 review
8 helpful votes
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How to get laid using AFF
September 13, 2016

Guys need to know that it takes more than just to join to get laid using AFF. Men outnumber women on every hook up site so what you need to do is to stand out from the crowd! Create a nice profile and upload some nice pictures. Don't ever send d#$ pictures. Never ever! Be patient and be creative.

It is also very advisible to use more than just one hook up site. CasualDating4u.com is an absolutely amazing site which will give you access to many female profiles. You may wanna use more than just one site to maximize your chances.

Whatever you do, don't expect to hookup within a week or so. It takes more time. You may be lucky and hook up faster but from my experience it takes a few weeks before you will have your first date.

Date of experience: September 12, 2016
India
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Really takes some time and effort to figure out the best approach but after a few weeks I started seeing results. Hooked up with two nice chicas and chatted with a few I am about to arrange a date with. Together with CasualDating4u it is one of the best I have used so far.

Date of experience: August 18, 2017
Michigan
1 review
5 helpful votes
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This is alot like real life. Women get to do everything they need for free. View profiles, send messages... Only so many per day, but still free. If you are a woman, you will meet somebody. If you are a guy... not so much. If you are less than a 9 or 10 with a ripped body forget it. You will not meet anyone, and you have to pay to even try.

Date of experience: October 24, 2009
Canada
2 reviews
17 helpful votes
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The site is what it is, i saw on the news the whole group of sites they have has claimed bancruptsy. The problem i had was i made a new email address for this site which ive never used elsewhere, just for registration and one day later im getting 30 spams a day. Which means they sell email addresses to spam companies for money.
Every day 30 spam emails. Its very irritating.

Date of experience: October 21, 2013
Massachusetts
1 review
4 helpful votes
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They lure you in with things like pics and live chat which never work. Then they log you out remotely and when you try to use your password to reenter they reject it. They then reject the code they themselves emailed you. If you complain enough, they remotely log you back in again but it only lasts awhile. When you try complaining they suggest you upgrade to GOLD service. It's a scam. The escorts are not even real. Avoid at all costs!

Date of experience: August 17, 2023
India
1 review
5 helpful votes
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No scam!
August 2, 2017

You get out what you put in! As a man you sure need to catch attention. Been a member of AFF for three years perhaps. Had plenty of dates and hookups. IMO not a great site but a good site. If you weren't lucky I guess CasualDating4u is a good alternative. Been lucky on there too. But really, AFF is pretty good.

Date of experience: August 2, 2017
District of Columbia
16 reviews
67 helpful votes
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At least here, there is no mystery to the motivations of the guys here. It's a sex site. The guys are mostly sex addicts and drug addicts, etc. So you know at least this site does not PRETEND to be a dating site. It is what it says it is, and at least it has that going for it. If interested, you will also want a kik account. Bring on the d! Ck pics! Let the games begin.

Date of experience: July 15, 2016
Washington
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Concerns
December 10, 2016

Have noticed that my profile is showing an increasingly large number of profiles that it states we are viewing. In viewing history it shows many profiles that we are not viewing. In fact we have watched the number go up while we are on the site and not actively viewing profiles. Does this site automatically do this.

Date of experience: December 9, 2016
Alaska
1 review
22 helpful votes
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I was a member for several years loved it then you change it into a points system and nothing but money hungry $#*!es on there now. And you have started charging for everything your money hungry also i see you have taken a good thing and ruined it, you site really sucks terds now hope you go out of business or come to your senses you have lost a loyal customer

Date of experience: May 25, 2016
Massachusetts
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Horrible!
March 8, 2017

I have been on a few websites but I have never been on a website we're almost every woman there wants to rip you off! Customer service sucks,! I would recommend that any man stay as far away from this site as you possibly can, and any site that is affiliated with them stay away from them you can look it up

Date of experience: March 8, 2017
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I have frequented this site over the past 10 years as both a standard member (nonpaying) and occasionally as a paying gold member. So far I have encountered no one I would seriously consider meeting up with from the site. Do not give these folks your credit card number unless you plan on being a member for life, they will just keep charging /re-upping your membership indefinitely. There is an option to use gift card payments which is the only safe way to become a paying member. Even then you may not get the specific membership you requested/payed for. Ie I paid approximately $100 for 3 months gold membership with an add-on of 3 months of standard members being able to contact me. They gave me a 4.5 month membership without the add-on and refused to correct the problem. The site has some legitimate members actually looking to hook-up and an abundance of scammers, attention seekers, liars and phishers so keep you info close and use an anonymous e-mail address for any contacts. AdultFriendFinder and it's affiliates like Outpersonals, Alt.com, Big church and many others are just copies of this site. Enter these sites at your own risk and buyer beware.

Date of experience: May 10, 2024
Netherlands
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Not the biggest fan of AFF. There are better sites out there. Ive met more girls on hookuphangout in a month of adding it to my rotation than I have in over three months on AFF (although the first girl I hooked up with on AFF was BANGING!). I usually rotate my site use, for example one day on AFF firing out messages, next day im on hookuphangout.com searching and sending, and next im on a free site usually (just because money is tight at the moment) like POF or dare I say it, tinder. Using the rotation system usually works quite well for me and makes sure im giving each site plenty of attention, as you only have to find that one diamond in the rough every few days to end up getting your rocks off pretty regularly with chicks that aint looking for you to send them flowers or promise them a house with a white picket fence! Its the way forward IMO. I like my love life the same way I like my women - cheap and cheerful

Date of experience: May 17, 2016
Pennsylvania
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Used to work. No more
December 28, 2019

A few years ago I used this site to actually meet and hookup with 3 women. They were all nice, sexy and most importantly, horny. I had repeated encounters with them and it was great. It took effort but the effort was rewarded. Over the past 2 years I have come back to this site 3 times and even paid to become a gold member. I only buy $20 worth of gold membership at a time as it either is gonna work or not I posted photos and kept changing my profile to try and attract a woman, literally any woman who wasn't a bot or pro and I have come up empty. As in zero, nada, zilcho. For a man, if you are looking to hookup with other men, this site is a great tool. If you are a man looking for a woman, find somewhere else to spend your time and money.

Date of experience: December 28, 2019
Pennsylvania
1 review
15 helpful votes
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I paid for premium, just the first level, cancelled 2 months later. You do NOT get full access with just the gold, have to get another level to message non members at ANOTHER cost, or they can only get ur message as a blur. AFF has so many fake profiles and bots. The IM program also is very unreliable, but works well for their spam bots! I reported it and they say it works good, but they are checking with a IN NETWORK PC and not log in as a regular user from a out of network pc. Profile views and IM notifications dont work well at all, you may get one out of 10. They know it dont work well and wont fix. I think this site is a big money scam!

Date of experience: June 18, 2019
Canada
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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Aff is easy and straightforward. Some people are real, some people are not. Same as on other good hook up websites like CasualDating4u. Gettin laid ain' easy but it's possible. In my opinion Aff is no scam!

Date of experience: January 17, 2018
Virginia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Female user experience
October 26, 2019

I am a woman using Adultfriendfinder so my experiences may be a little different but in my opinion Adultfriendfinder is one of the few sites which are actually worth joining. I mean as a woman you usually don't have any issues finding guys who are looking for a good time but somehow it seems like most guys on Adultfriendfinder are nicer and more respectful. Don't know why but I usually don't feel very comfortable using those sites- So if you are a woman looking for a good time I can highyl recommend it. Another good options is CasualsexOnly. It seems like a very female friendly hookup site and actually some of my friends been using it also.

Date of experience: October 21, 2019
GB
1 review
4 helpful votes
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My husband joined this site and paid the most expensive rate. He hooked up with very few fat ugly women for web sex. In desperation he paid for the 'models'. Anyone know if these models webcam? If not surely he coulda got this for free on other sites is porn hub?

Date of experience: November 4, 2014

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.5 stars from 613 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and gold membership. AdultFriendFinder ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
111
value
112
shipping
33
returns
50
quality
97
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