AdultFriendFinder

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Maine
2 reviews
22 helpful votes
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Years ago, this site was actually worthwhile, and I met a few really cool girls. Of course that was then. Now, the site is totally pointless, as there are more bots and fake profiles than anything else. Don't waste your money, your time, or even the keystrokes on your profile... you won't get anywhere. If you're a current member, cancel your membership and shut these fools down.

Date of experience: March 23, 2014
Ohio
1 review
7 helpful votes
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So in ox has blown up all day with supposed AFF models who send you to some manager that wants $500 and permission to spend time with them or a date. All the girls were between ages of 24 and 26. Same stories oh I accidentally messed up my gender while creating my profile as the profiles are male ones. They then give you their number which they don't answer and only want you to text through away from the sites built in texting. From there they start out innocent then they ask for nudes. After that they then try to blackmail you with threatening to post your pictures on open forums and to your family and friends if you don't send them $300 now and if you do they will show proof via video of deleting the post. My first day has been swamped with no real people to talk to or even set up time to spend with except fraudulent scammers acting like models and women. Stay the hell away from this site guys.

Date of experience: March 30, 2023
Minnesota
1 review
23 helpful votes
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Don't bother
December 6, 2020

Unless your on a coast, in a major city, a couple, or gay, don't waste your money! 10 months on there and literally encountered nothing but fakes, scammers, email collectors, pay to sext gals, hookers! Single, straight guy in the Midwest? Yeah it's useless! Except for maybe some sis eye candy. AFF "gold" member, 12-5-2020 to maybe 12-5-2021, if I don't just delete a few weeks early!

Date of experience: December 6, 2020
New York
1 review
23 helpful votes
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Don't fall for it!
March 27, 2019

AFF is an obvious attempt to sell magic beans to desperate people. Automated chat bots will spam your inbox with messages. If you pay real money to read them, you will find yourself feeling pretty awful about the world. Don't do it! I have no idea how the site operators can sleep at night. I bet they have no problems finding companionship too..

Date of experience: March 23, 2019
Delaware
1 review
6 helpful votes
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I've been a customer for 7 years (this go-around). My credit card expired. They didn't bother to alert me and instead allowed it to lapse so they could conveniently charge me more. For customer "service" they use low quality off-shore labor and in order to look at your account, you have to give them your password. What type of low quality operation is this? I tried three different email forms to contact them - one worked. Everybody just says "I cannot change it". If you find a better site, run the other way from these guys. They don't value you as a customer. In fact, if you find another site that works better and actually cares about quality, LET ME KNOW. I've had it with these unethical slime balls.

Date of experience: January 10, 2023
Australia
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Possibly the worst dating site in history, abuse is rife, in chat rooms and message form.
Customer service (what a joke) is non existent, they never reply. Chat room is full of people with multiple accounts cyber bullying anyone who does not take their side.
Unless you pay for membership, you can do nothing on the site.
Avoid, save your money and your sanity by staying the hell away!

Date of experience: December 2, 2015
New Jersey
1 review
25 helpful votes
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I'd say that AFF is probably above average, there's definitely worse out there and it has the most important thing - a bunch of women. Id say it's not got as many as hookuphangout.com (in my area certainly) but still has enough to keep you busy. There are occasional time wasters but overall i like this site a lot and will be taking a longer subscription when my month trial runs out. Happy days.

Date of experience: August 14, 2020
India
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Established community
April 12, 2017

AFF has been around for a long time and it is an established community with mostly real users. I have used it in the past and what can I say: I had a blast. Messaged a countless number of chicks but actually hooked up with two of them. My advise. Just send out messages that really work, nothing like hey Hun, What's up?!... just be creative and don't forget to stay active. I usually double up by trying ouT several hookup sites. AFF, CasualDating4u and BN will get the results that you've wanted. Have fun!

Date of experience: April 12, 2017
North Carolina
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Sad
April 13, 2018

Ive been a member of this site for almost 20 years its changed ownership about 10 I remember when it was free for everyone now you cant even view a profile now with Craigslist shutting dow its personals section they now went up 10-15 dollars in membership price...

Date of experience: April 13, 2018
India
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
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It takes patience
March 30, 2017

I've been on this site for almost 5 months now and I've actually had one date out of it. I know what many people claim but actually many of the profiles are real. They're a few fake ones, but they're easy to spot. Works just like on CasualDating4u: It takes patience but you will get rewarded!

Like all hookup websites there are more men than women but most guys just have d### pics so that weeds many of them out. Create a nice profile and use your common sense. If a girl looks too good to be true they are probably fake. Just stop thinking with your d###.

Date of experience: March 30, 2017
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Aff review
August 12, 2021

Signed up paid for subscription and tried to search for nearby members and there are none. Most of the profiles on here are fake or dead, not impressed at all turned off auto renewal after couple of days realising its a complete farce.

Date of experience: August 12, 2021
France
2 reviews
77 helpful votes
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Don't be stupid!
February 19, 2016

As soon as I joined AFF I got messages from lots of girls and some of them were super hot. Come on, guys! It is very unlikely that 'tens' and 'nines' will be looking for a shag using hookup sites. Have you ever heard of Nigerian or Romance scam? Google it if you haven't! If you have never gotten laid using AFF - try other decent sites (HookupHangout.com to name one). Still no luck? Well, try to improve your profile and change your approach maybe. Don't lay the blame at someone else's door. Just think of amount of members joining these sites on daily basis (and you're one of them) and you still don't believe it works?! Well, good luck then! :)

Date of experience: February 19, 2016
Florida
1 review
9 helpful votes
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This website is $#*!ing disgusting. It destroyed my marriage. I won't listen to the haters who say my sex life blew, well bc it didn't. Sometimes in life people have filthy habits. Absolute disgust. For all you single people out there get a real $#*!ing person stop playing on internet freaks. For all of you nasty $#*! trifling internet troll whores, go $#*! yourself. Oh wait that's all your doing, and that's all you will ever do!

Date of experience: October 18, 2015
California
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Entertaining but...
March 13, 2022

Out of numerous profile's I met, maybe, 5 women who's pics matched the person. Mostly fakes and scams. If you're actually looking for someone look elsewhere. If you're bored and don't mind wasting some money, go crazy.

Date of experience: March 13, 2022
North Carolina
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I stayed on aff for approximately 2 months, and just could not withstand anymore! I got offers, at least between 5-10 daily, but they all (men, in my case) were either fresh out of the insane asylum, married trying too cheat, or just total losers! They all lie, never once had a man give it too me straight, or be real. On several occasions, I actually got up and walked out of a restaurant, and left him sitting there, because it was easy too tell they were scammers, or egotist. Ladies, I don't recommend aff, unless you want a man nobody else wants either!

Date of experience: September 22, 2017
India
1 review
7 helpful votes
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It worked for me!
September 27, 2016

AFF has been around forever and anyone claiming that it's a scam really needs to explain what he or she was expecting. Certainly there are several fake profiles but I'd consider that 'normal'. I haven't found any hookup site where I did not find fake profiles, not even on CasualDating4u.com, which is famous for the huge number of real and active members. I have been using AFF a few years ago but I was an active member and trust me: I got laid! And I am pretty much sure that this site still delivers and provides quality hookup dating.

Date of experience: September 26, 2016
Australia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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My experience
October 21, 2020

I have been a member of adultfriendFinder on an off now for around 10 years. If you are joining as a male, You need to be - realistic - that's the key word here. Something like 80% of members there are male... There might only be maybe 20% of genuine female profiles there. Beware of fake fem profiles! If it looks too good to be true it usually is. Stay away from $#*! pics on your profile! Women will hate them, If you do contact a profile make sure it's respectful. I just use the site to enjoy the live cams and videos... hook ups will be as rare as hens teeth.

Date of experience: October 21, 2020
Jim D.
California
1 review
21 helpful votes
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totally fake !!!!!
July 9, 2018

I joined AFF to see what it was all about. I left my profile blank. No pictures. No info at all. I got over 100 "responses" in two days. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize these are bots misleading you into thinking it's a real person. Waiting for my cancellation code to come by email (which takes about an hour) before I can cancel and close my browser. Total pain in the $#*!.

Date of experience: July 9, 2018
Netherlands
3 reviews
26 helpful votes
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Ultimate scam!
May 12, 2020

It's a complete scam! I wish I read all the negative reviews before I joined AdultfriendFinder that is full of fake profiles, who use sexy photos of Instagram stars, to seduce you and ask you for money. There are no chances of meeting these sexy chicks, cause someone's just misusing their photos. Don't risk putting up you credit card details on AFF, they like to add unauthorized charges. Just stay away from this scam, there's nothing to do there if you want to hook up with a sexy girl.

Date of experience: May 12, 2020
Oregon
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Beware of this site!
June 7, 2022

This site is full of scams! First off, I've been out of the online dating scene for 10 years and man have things changed! It all started with trying to meet the so called women here. They would meet but had to buy these prepaid cards, scratch off the codes on the back, take a pic and send to them. Then they wouldn't show for the meet. What a scam! My fault for not checking that scam out. Got wise to that one real fast. Then, some more contacted me and started texting each other. I thought this is pretty cool! NOT. Long story short, during texting with these so called real women, t did research about on line dating scams. Should have done this first. And they all followed the warning signs to a tee. Guy's, please don't make the mistakes I did. Do your research. This site is full of scams! Flush it.

Date of experience: June 7, 2022

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.5 stars from 613 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and gold membership. AdultFriendFinder ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
111
value
112
shipping
33
returns
50
quality
97
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