AdultFriendFinder

Biggest issue:
Being a man I opened an account as a male. I'm also a crossdresser... but only, at best, part time. When I tried posting pics of me dressed AFF removed the pics citing "Gender Mismatch." I was told I can only post pics of me as a man. WTF?

Second Issue:
There are always technical issues with the site.
Pages/pics will regularly load slowly if at all. Always issues with the chat feature. Bots/fake profiles sending massages, flirts, etc.,

Third issue:
Overseas call center. Language challenges and no room for common sense decision making. Also, if you email customer service it takes forever to get a reply... and those people apparently don't talk with the people answering the phone thus no consistency in the story you get on why the sight isn't working or in actually helping you receive resolution to your question(s)

Probably 80% of the female profiles on this site are scammers, bots or sex workers. Also fake accounts set up by AFF with amazing pics of fantasy sex gangbangs etc to make you think it could really happen for you.

The remaining "real" accounts are not serious about meeting just want sex chat or just people trying to get followers for their own ego.

Also, they claim to be one of the best dating/hookup sites but don't have an app? Why is that? Because they dont want millions of negative reviews on a well known popular platform or website Google Play or Apple Store.

I am a very good looking guy posted alot of pics and content and have been on AFF for several months now and havent met anyone IRL or even chatted with any real profiles off site. Only Scammers.

I clicked on the 1 month premium membership and they charged me for 12 months and did not reply to my inquiries about a refund.

If youve been looking for good sex sites like me then youll have come across (excuse the pun) Adult Friend Finder. It shows up a lot and the reviews can go from great (best ever) to terrible (full of fakes, etc). For me it falls somewhere in between. It's a silver level site in my opinion (gold would be HookupHangout.com, bronze would be tinder) as it's up there but not quite at the top. It's easy to use and there are definitely real chicks, dont get me wrong, it just lacks something that gold level sites seem to have. I would say try it but dont expect too much (although that advice could be applied to any dating site come to think of it ha). Check results in your area and see how it looks before taking the plunge, there are good (gold) alternatives out there. Hope that helps gents.

If it's too good to be true – avoid it. 80% of the good-looking AFF women appear to be scammers. 20% are prostitutes trying to find a client. The site is geared to rip you off. You never know who is real on AdultFriendFinder. I had only one date via AFF. The woman claimed to be 30 years old. Her pics were overphotoshopped and perhaps taken 15 years ago. In fact she was in her 40's, very overweight with body odor, dressed like tramp. That was when I finally stopped wasting my money on AFF.

I signed up for a 1 month trial for 30$. Was instead charged 60$ twice. Called customer service and got a disrepectful indian who cant even speak english. He hung up on me. Maybe if this company stopped outsourcing to sand coones maybe youd get a better rating. $#*! aff

These $#*!s are only after your money, you sign up, pay by credit card, you get a match, you look for more compatible match, up pops the icon looking for more money to look at the match. Big $#*!ing scam, save your money. I think they learned some new words in my last response and I couldn't give a $#*!. Too many of these prick teasing $#*!s online and us suckers are falling for it. I had one woman who told me she was keen to meet. I will keep in touch, but after four emails that have gone unanswered I think that's game over. Guys do yourself a favour, go to the nearest brothel pick some hottie and enjoy yourself. Cheaper and less bull$#*! than these money hungry prick teasing parasites..

Id rate AFF as medium-good. Its busy enough and has everything you need to be able to go ahead and set up some sexy time, but I still think it falls behind a few of the more modern sites that really get results and not just the odd reply. A good example would be HookupHangout.com but there are others too, if youre willing to send the time and money trying new sites then you do find the odd diamond in the rough. But overall I wouldnt think twice about using this site every so often to see the new members that have joined, I just probably not worth paying for every month, all year round.

If you want a real thing J4Luv.com indeed works better because they have real women (as opposed to AFF).
AFF is very scammy. It is not about anything real, it's just fantasy. Most of the profiles are con artists preying on your money. They are very creative about different tricks and methods for conning you out of your bucks. The only good thing about AFF is that you can see a lot of hot spread-legged photos. Although you can see bunch of hotter stuff on the net for free. You can't meet anyone. So AFF can fit you only if you want to see some hot pics, but please apply your common sense before you decide to pay for this!