AdultFriendFinder

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Czechia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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The number of real genuine people on AdultFriendFinder is extremely low. The rest are fake or outdated profiles who are automatically shown online in order to attract new users. After having wasted some money on AdultFriendFinder I joined AFFlirts.com
And it was the right decision because there are so many gorgeous girls! Despite their model looks, they are real, trust me! I had many face-to-face meetings there. I wish I had spotted the plot on AdultFriendFinder earlier!

Date of experience: March 11, 2025
Indiana
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Bad website
March 5, 2025

This website is more aggravating than it is useful in the beginning standard members used to have a little more freedom than they do nowadays. I've had points accumulated on this website to come back to visit to find that they have all disappeared. Contact the company they give you no explanation nor do they fix the issue when you try and contact them. All they do is give you the runaround without no resolution and the same goes with all of their other sister Websites

Date of experience: March 5, 2025
New Jersey
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Worthless
January 15, 2025

Something on the site is always not working. Too many things to mention. The IMs work half the time. The Live Models feature cannot be changed. The numbers on notifications are off. Some messages don't send or receive half the time. Etc. Etc.

Date of experience: January 15, 2025
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Legitimacy?
January 6, 2025

I question there legitimacy, joined and paid a years membership, filled out a profile and a little over 3 weeks was locked out of my account for soliciting. I asked what they were talking about and they said I mentioned massage for pay and I advised them I and another member were talking about the cost for a massage in our area. They then said there was something in my profile page that got me blocked but they would not say what that was. Initially they said I was blocked and would not get any refund but I kept bumping up the chain advising I would use every social platform I could find to call them out which did get me a refund.

Date of experience: January 5, 2025
Massachusetts
1 review
0 helpful votes
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The girl pretend to work for a company from the Philippine so they always ask you to send Money to the philippine, by PayPal or wester union. This game will never stop and even if they say they are in the city you is a lie. So they always promise great sex and great time but you never going to meet or talk to any of them. It cost me a lot money, a complete scam. I hope nobady will go true what I did

Date of experience: December 9, 2024
Pennsylvania
1 review
0 helpful votes
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No messages
November 25, 2024

Despite all the naked photos I will very seldom receive a reply back and they don't care to meet you.The site seems to be taking money to see videos and live woman who make money from the site that you never meet either.

Date of experience: November 25, 2024
Washington
1 review
6 helpful votes
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I was on the site for 2 years. Met 39 people. Of those, only 1 was a decent person. The rest fell under pedophiles, stalkers, creeps and perverts (in a bad way).

Now they charge u just to reply to someone...what a waste of time! Using a friend's login I actually calculated bots vs real people. For guys, you get 11 bots to every real person. For FREE you can get better odds on almost ANY other dating site.

Also I work in cyber security and my opinion of AFF from a security view...well they're at the bottom of the barrel. There's no way I'd put my credit card into their server! Or my private info if I wanted to keep it private!

Date of experience: September 17, 2024
Virginia
1 review
9 helpful votes
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I tried aff for 45 days.
1-Lots of bots to keep you interested
2- scammers
3- prostitutes
The only good thing about this site is you can pay via prepaid gift cards. That eliminates the site from automatically charging your credit card.

Date of experience: August 25, 2024
Connecticut
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Scam
May 11, 2024

Adult friendfinder is one of the biggest scams as far as dating sites out there.they charge you 35.00 for a gol d membership then you have to pay another 15.00 to be able to send winks,then another 15.oo to view photos.out of 30 women I talked with only 1 turned out to be legit.the rest want to continue talking but on a different platform such as signal,Google chat.whats app and adult friendfinder doesn't nothing to verify the member in the first place.i don't know how in the world its rated number 1 for best dating sites,it should be #1for best rip off sites I even think their in with the women to scam.my advice stay the $#*! away!

Date of experience: May 11, 2024
Sweden
1 review
3 helpful votes
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AdultFriendFinder has become too hysterical and too political. Nevertheless they are pretty loyal to scammers, they allow them to do anything they want. If you decide to use AdultFriendFinder, please be very cautious with overcharges and automatic renewals - it's their favorite trick to get your money!

Date of experience: May 4, 2024
North Carolina
5 reviews
12 helpful votes
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Total scam and ripoff DO NOT SIGN UP
June 26, 2024
Updated review

Today is June 26th, 2024. In the morning I signed up for a year and by the afternoon realized there were no prospects near me. There was one, but never responded or received my message. Realized it was a scam and a ripoff because they kept asking for more money.
Hard to use site and I do not recommend. Stay away or your wasting money and time. If I could give a zero I would. Even after cancelation they still charged me over $184.00.

Date of experience: June 26, 2024

The site states "FREE". Wrong, it's not and the ladies are fake. A fake front to blackmail you. They threaten to post all your information on the web, but don't fall for it. They place very attractive pictures and a chart will start. You think you are taking to a lady but you are not. It's a scam. Do not send any photos of yourself.
Avoid this site at all cost. I canceled and deleted all my information within a half hour.

Date of experience: February 11, 2024
Canada
1 review
5 helpful votes
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The site is now just one, big scam. It's dead, dead, dead. The majority of the profiles are inactive, yet are still there. Scam profiles are starting to populate the server as well.
The pay system is a HUGE joke. You get the nickel and dime process everywhere. Pay for a gold membership? All you can do is view the basic profile and send messages. BUT, unless they have a gold membership they can't even reply. You can't view any photos on the profile anymore, you can't hotlist, nothing. EVERYTHING now costs. Even though you pay for a full membership.
So, the site is just one huge scam now.

Date of experience: June 22, 2024
California
3 reviews
21 helpful votes
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All of their AIs cannot answer simple yes or no questions do not respond for at least a week or two threatening to illegally sue you if you try to cancel your credit card stay away from this site. Complete joke.

Date of experience: November 6, 2023
Wisconsin
1 review
15 helpful votes
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Adult Bot Finder…oh yeah
May 25, 2022

When I first used this site in 2012 I had no problems whatsoever meeting real people it was just narrowing it down to who I would choose. I started up an account again about a month ago with a paid gold membership and haven't come across ANY real people. They're all fake. A couple conversations went as far as sure we can hook up but I have to pay up front first either with cash or an apple gift card. What a waste of time and money.

Date of experience: May 25, 2022
California
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Evil energy
October 25, 2022

90 % of anyone who will ever reach out is trying to take your money and f you over. I was basically manipulated and attacked by someone out spite or hate or whatever ruin my relations by sharing my naked body's self with everyone on face book. It's disgusting. I can't believe I paid thirty dollars to try and find some love in my life some fun together, I am stressed to the max and ultimately just surrendering up all my relations as ruined. Worst choice I ever made in my life please for your safety, everyone, please do not use this ever. Trust your heart's will guide you to the right people. F this technology. Why are people so spiteful and why does this site allow so many scammers and hackers and bull$#*!. Needs to go. Forever. Ease delete this blasphemous site

Date of experience: October 25, 2022
Arizona
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Scammers Galore
November 30, 2021

I struck up conversations with six women. All but one were either out of town (inaccessible), or they had to leave town on an emergency. In both cases, their inaccessibility was the excuse for their not being able to meet in person. It took all of one day for each of them to fall madly in love with me and want to spend the rest of their lives with me. Then, the emergency comes. Now, they need money.
Every one of these operated exactly the same.
One out of six. That's 18% success rate.

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Date of experience: November 30, 2021
Spain
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Poor service! When I registered on Seek4Match
I started enoying the benefits of having a hot sugarbaby - that's a real thing with a slew of model-looking hotties who are genuine. The most difficult thing was just chosing my sugar baby among plenty of my stunning matches who were all ready for action.
The majority of AdultFriendFinder women aren't blessed with good looks, but they are pretentious and self-absorbed. My time with them was quite boring and quite pricey (they want too much money for that kind of poor service).The most complicated thing is to cancel your subscription, it is convoluted, they deliberately make it this way.

Date of experience: June 17, 2024
Wyoming
1 review
10 helpful votes
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If you are normal, this isn't your site
June 19, 2022

Too many fake multiple profiles. No way to filter out homosexual or tranny people from searches or from contacting you. Too any young women attempting to scam older men. The almost $28 for one month gets you access. Everything else is added purchase including allowing free members to contact you. Should that not be my option if I am paying for full access? By not allowing free members to access me, it denies my purchased full access!

Date of experience: June 19, 2022
California
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Every contact is a scam
June 29, 2022

Out if 65 contacts and conversations with the women on AFF 100% of them have asked me to either join a pay for chat or pay for verification or directed me to some other pay for site. I have come to the conclusion that not only does AFF know this but they actually condone this. Making AFF a scam site as well. Save your time effort and money. It's not worth any if it.

Date of experience: June 29, 2022
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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99% of profiles are fake. Everyone is a scammer asking for money. 6 months 3 free and 3 gold. Resulted in 0 dates 0 real conversations hours of time wasted hitting on bots and I believe the same scammer thousands of times

Date of experience: April 17, 2022

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.5 stars from 613 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and gold membership. AdultFriendFinder ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
111
value
112
shipping
33
returns
50
quality
97
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