AdultFriendFinder

AFF is your typical hookup dating site. Does it have its problems and frustrations? You bet! But is it better than other sites out there? Goddam right it is! Theres no way I could handle using just this site for getting laid though Id go blind from self abuse in between the actual sex meetings as there are so few. The general rule is if you want to get regular action on these kinda sites you cant just pick one and expect that youll need to buy a mop for when the ladies all turn up at your door desperate for actionthat does not happen guys! Wake the hell up dudes! The way to make this stuff work for you is to join a few sites. Heres what I do (and its not just me, most of my buddies do the same):
1. Join at least three of these sites (AFF, hookuphangout.com, flirtydater.com, etc, etc)
2. Spend time on your profile, its your shop window and if you dont care about it then why should the limited number of chicks available give a damn about you?
3. Go to TOWN! Send messages to girls like there is no tomorrow and you want your last day on this planet to be spent ball deep in some gorgeous chicks clunge.
4. Get rid of any subscriptions after a 2-3 months that arent working for you and switch to another site but remember if youre getting replies then be patient and dont cancel just because you havent had any catfights over you yet.
Thats the way I play and it works for me. But then im a studmuffin so maybe thats the real key to this stuff! Either way dont give up and be realistic!

AFF is a bot/scammer site. Every profile I've interacted with has asked me to add them on another platform just to chat. Some bots don't even try to hide the fact they're catfishing (profile is that of a man, but the bot is sending you pictures of an OF model)

After weeding out and blocking all the bots, all that's left are people that can't possibly be real. AFF advertises as a casual sex site, but 99& of the profiles (that actually have a Gold membership) are from people literally looking for love... I swear. And it's not a particular type of profile. Doesn't matter the age, body type or location, most of those particular profiles demand to be swept of their feet, teased intellectually and swooned like prince charming.

The DTF profiles and "need it rn" don't answer back because most of them don't have Gold status. So even if you send them a message, or flirt with them, the person on the other side won't see it and won't be able to respond. So you all do the math.

The site claims it's free, but you can only communicate and hookup with people that pay. The people that pay are way past the margins of reality according to their own profiles because they want a connection you can only get through marriage while claiming to be ready for casual sex and exploring new things. And tech support does not help. I've reported many profiles and all of those profiles are still up.

So save your money. Stick to MAs, LL and wtv isn't complicated in the process. If these dating sites were serious about making money, they would charge a monthly subscription up front instead of claiming free but charging just to read a message. When you take it all in, these kind of sites could not have possibly been created, managed, or used by women. I think it's bunch of men at the top and mostly men behind the fake profiles trying their best to keep up the illusion that at some point, you can score, but all they do is lead you along.

This website is ok i havent had any meet ups with anyone in years but i was online about to make online dates and my account was deleted for no reason. No response from customer service. Im thinking of flirting in person maybe trying a new online dating website. It just sucks i got a email saying my account may have been compromised i need to change my password after it was deleted. Not sure what thats all about i havent done anything i shouldnt have on there website so maybe also try going out drinking at a bar if i want a casual relationship:)

Yeah they sent me another email saying a huge lie about me i was popular i had 5000 points and i was only flirting i didnt do anything but flirt and try to go on dates and you know what they said i was reported for what i didnt do anything so they deleted my profile i didnt do anything at all i would absolutely not reccoment this website for online dating they just deleted my website and all i did was flirt people were having sex online and other things i havent done you know what im saying

Its like i heard people are doing drugs on webcams online and all i did was flirt with guys why was my profile delete for inapproraite behavior i dont drugs and im not a prostiute

They suck $#*! and i can get a casual sex one night stand at a bar or nightclub plus i already have fwbs it was a joke anyways

Good thing my profile was free :)

75% FAKE PROFILES with a high rate of people getting stds from other members

Ever since penthouse bought aff out this site has gone to $#*! fast. There are a lot of people on this site spreading stds and lying about it. The amount of overweight women in comparison to fit women is about 99:1 (yes for every ONE fit woman there are 99 FAT one's) the majority of the unicorn profiles are fakes, the majority of the SBM profiles are either liars, fakes, flakes, wife $#*!ers with no condoms or all in all men who will say anything just to $#*! then when they show up they CAN'T $#*! for $#*! and have zero personality. The majority of the couples are as usual CLIQUE they stick to what and who they know and even when they do set up dates with you they will NOT SHOW UP and will never apologize for it.

My advice, stay away, don't waste your money because as a free member you have NO ABILITY to do anything. They will spam you to death as a free member with the most beautiful of women, men and couples trust it is just CATFISH profiles. The STAFF are required to make and maintain FAKE PROFILES just to keep your interest and it works for some.

I am a male Frenchman living in Texas and surveyed the cities of Houston, Austin, San Antonio and Dallas for women. I had a 2-weeks gold membership for free b/c I had my ID verified. I didn't even use my 2-weeks gold access and had enough of AFF after 10 days.

I was very surprised to find the following kinds of members on that site: Most women are 45 or older. Few are still hot but most are of average looks and body types and have little education. I didn't survey the men but according to the male pictures female had on their profile as 'friends', there are a lot of big, muscular, ripped guys apparently younger than the women and showing off their huge c**k. Sure enough, these older women close to the end of their sexual life go crazy and do not respond to you if you don't have these incredible assets. Many average or lower older women require that men be a certain height, at the very least 5ft10 but 6ft is better. And they expect you to look like Brad Pitt.

I'm 45 but look younger, I'm fit and educated. I'm not a Don Juan but I usually date women ~10 years younger with above average looks and who are also fit. On aff, I had written what I thought was a fairly nice profile and posted 1 pic of my upper body (no face) to show off my fitness. 1) Few women ever checked my profile. Some started talking to me but never checked my profile. 2) Some checked my profile but never replied. 3) For those who replied, after a couple of e-mails, they would ask me for some face pics... and never talked to me again! So here I was, thinking I was lowering my standards a bit with some of these women... but it was they, 5-10 years older w/ average body type and little education, who rejected me! It was laughable!

So gentlemen, if you're tall and really good looking, you may be very busy on this site. If you're above average but below a 8/10, you will remain lonely.