Complete and total scam. They fill your site mailbox with bogus emails from fake women, especially when your membership is about to expire. Their instant messaging service works maybe 25% of the time and is the largest complaint from all in the chat rooms. They are known to create fake accounts to generate interest. The majority of women on cam are soliciting from pay per view websites. Don't waste your time.
You have better chances getting laid on a free dating site it is a despicable place with no one who really wants to $#*! so they can just take your 40-80$ and run off like $#*! you loser. It seems like you might be able to get laid until you spend hours on there with no one wanting to reply or meet up and $#*! it's all games and you have a zero chance to $#*! unless you find an escort on there.
The site has an ambassador program that allows women to earn points by sending emails to new standard members who are unable to read the emails unless they purchase a membership. The women can also earn points by interacting on the site via email in general, camming, etc. and the points can be exchanged for cash. Men have no way of knowing if a woman is really interested in them or if she is just interacting to earn points/cash.
I don't believe these people are saying it's fake! I've met LOTS of REAL people on it. If you're a single guy, it's more difficult, granted, but as a couple, it's easy as pie to get other couples to swing with. I live in a small city of only 70,000 people. Can you imagine what it would be like in a metropolis?!?!
Youngsters, pass it by, it's not for y'all :)
Jokes aside this is a great service uniting lone hearts around the globe =)
I used it regularly and have no complaints at all. It was interesting for me how things are done here, but now, after testing the waters, I am like a fish in it. A couple of simple steps and you aren't alone anymore, and next day, and the following too. Ha, thank you guys for creating this dating service, for me it's of utmost importance having a such one under the belt.
I cant quite figure AFF out. Sometimes I get some a bunch of good interactions and numerous replies over a week or so, other times I can go ages without hearing from any girls. I find HookupHangout.com a much more consistent site and better value overall. The problems here are that I dont know whether to stick with it as it does occasionally come through for me, or cancel because of the on / off nature of the success I get on the site.
I joined this site almost 2 months ago and had 300 responses responded to everyone and in return got f*****, and they don't mean literally, so anyone else that wants to throw their money away to any of these sites except for the the basic date sites not any of these f***ing sites then go ahead and throw your money away because you're talking to nobody but a computer and a idiot out there! Good luck to all because the internet is a f****** rip off!
Without a doubt a very crap site. Everything about it is fake fraudulent, a con, customer service is terrible their system is terrible people you block still come back to harass you. Do not believe any good review that you read about them I promise you they are all lies and paid for. I have been on the site for 4 years now. As a top broadcaster I have not had to pay a membership since I have signed up. I have found the site leaves your devices vulnerable to being hacked which mine have been several times already. Your account is very vulnerable your messages are being read and recorded by the site. There is so much more I could say but I've already said enough haven't I?
Have been a paying member for years and have numerous issues including sliding renewal fees through our Visa when we specifically stated "no auto renewal". Now the site is charging $45 per month for a renewal to enjoy the same befits previously enjoyed for $12/month however they don't disclose this on renewal. When you renew and attempt to view other member's profiles you are restricted to viewing their bio and one photo. The balance of photos are blurred out, you cannot initiate contact via email or inst mess, view videos, etc without purchasing further upgrades to your membership. To enjoy the benefits you previously enjoyed numerous additional upgrades are required totaling $45 per month. We have attached a copy of an email we received after numerous requests to specifically outline their new membership fee structure. There are numerous lifestyle sites online that we highly recommend you checkout that offer way more value than aff.
Dear Member,
Thank you for contacting us.
Below are the prices for the new subscription packages:
Voyeur
$14.99 per month
Interaction
$14.99 per month
Chat Plus
$9.99 per month
Advanced Search & Highlight
$4.99 per month
If you have any further billing related questions, feel free to contact the Billing Department directly at:
Telephone: *******364 or *******383
Email: *******@adultfriendfinder.com
Thank you,
Liezel D.
Email: *******@adultfriendfinder.com
Customer Service
I was on just a few days before cancelled. Talked to 3 women from supposed nearby. After a day or two of chatting, each one asked for money to get to US. Two were supposed to be traveling for work and oddly needed money for hotel and/or airfare. People with supposed bank accounts and family in US. But they ask a stranger for one to two thousand dollars.
Buyer beware!
Some fake profiles, just weed through them and don't waste your time. With a little bit of patience you will sure find some real members. Adultfriendfinder still pretty much kicks $#*!. In my honest opinion adult sites like Adultfriendfinder (or Casualsexonly for example) still work better than any popular dating app. At least everyone on here is pretty much forward and gets straight to the point
Honesty this is not a dating site, it's more for older adults to talk about sex, chat online about fantasies, in my 30 membership I bought gold and standard contacts, costing over 60 dollars, not once did I ever meet someone, I left over 85 messages not one was ever returned, I learned alot while there, profiles with just one picture 98% of the time they are fake, don't waste your time messaging them, and pay attention to local profiles that are on every time you log in, even though they have quite a few pictures, they seem to never leave the site, im guessing that they keep these profiles on so if someone new comes aboard, they will see local women think they can get a date and just play,, this got me aswell, don't buy into it, its fake. I hope that by saying this I have saved a few guys some money. Semper Fi
Red light warning: be wary of AFF, they are money hungry rogues. They have lots of sneaky methods for getting your money without providing any service. One click pay and auto renewals are especially dangerous! I've already found my "adult friend" elsewhere but I'm still struggling to stop AFF from billing me. They say the auto pay box was checked which is not true. I'm always very aware about such things and security on the net. But AFF just do whatever they want with impunity milking people for money. They get away with scamming people. Don't fall victim to their fraud.
I always use three sites at once, been doing NSA sex dating for donkeys years & learned long ago if youre going to do it, you have to go 'all in'. Three is usually enough but takes some time to figure out the good ones so let me help you. This is one of them, hookuphangout is another & personally I go for tinder as a free option but this really depends on where you live and how many women are on sites in your local area. Drew G, Aberdeen
I signed up to AFF last week and have been using it most nights, doing some searches and sending a few messages out. Have to say Im pretty impressed by what Ive seen. From reading other reviews I thought Id be dealing with scammers a lot but it isnt really too bad and the site is easy to use. As for girls in my area, again its fine. Maybe not as many as HookupHangout.com or a couple of others out there, but still enough to keep me busy! Hoping to meet up with one of the girls Im speaking with soon, hopefully this weekend. Overall Id say 8/10 but that could go up if I get some action by Sunday!
I have been a member for ten months. There are way too many camgirls and prostitutes on this site. But if you hang in there you will meet some real girls as well. I personally made the experience that you have better chances joining so called 'women friendly' sites like Vanessa69.com. But it is all about trial and error.
I found this site very similar to a few others ive used like flirt.com and cheeckylovers.com. Then I found out they are all part of the same group! The same profiles were showing up on different sites! Still alright and the girls did respond sometimes and could be quite frisky, but because of this im sticking with hookuphangout.com its not let me down yet so well worth the twenty notes it costs me each month!
I signed up to this to go along with my hookuphangout.com membership to keep me going over this time of year where everyones all loved up. Figured two sites are better than one. Cant be bothered with that soppy stuff, I like a site that gets me laid and HH has done the trick for me numerous times so if AFF is half as good then it wont just be the turkeys getting stuffed this Christmas lol!
The good, you can watch live webcam girls.
The bad, everything else. After paying for one month, which somehow they made three weeks, EVERY woman I have made contact with who answered back has somehow had a phone number from Miami! Even though their listing them as being in my area which is over 1000 miles from Miami. PLUS the phone numbers mostly seem to be associated with escort services. Fortunately I used a gift card to sign up so cancelling the membership will be easy.
I've already found my "adult friend" on
J4Luv.com
(a working site, by the way) but I'm still struggling to stop AFF from billing me. They say the auto pay box was checked which is not true. I'm always very aware about such things and security on the net. But AFF just do whatever they want with impunity. They get away with scamming people. Don't fall victim to their fraud. Be wary of AFF, they are money hungry rogues. They have lots of sneaky methods for getting your money without providing any service. One click pay and auto renewals are especially dangerous!
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Answer: If you see a blue symbol next to someone's profile on AFF indicating that you're friends, but you don't appear on each other's friends list, it's possible that the person has blocked or removed you from their friends list.
Answer: Short answer, YES. Stay away from this site. It is as bad as Ashley Madison and Asia Me, both of which are nothing but frauds and scammers as well. If you are looking for a sex date(?) any place will do. But if you are looking for a relationship go grocery shopping in an area that you like and keep your eyes open. I have met some really nice women there.
Answer: Yes adultfriendfinder.com is secure and within googles guidelines. You can read more about it https://support.google.com/chrome/answer/95617?hl=en
Answer: People can be offline for hours and it will still show them online. I have met and talked to many people who had no idea they were signed on at all.
AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.5 stars from 612 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and gold membership. AdultFriendFinder ranks 656th among Dating sites.