Okay, I am a woman currently on this site. I've read many of these reviews by you young guys claiming most of the "women" on here are scamers or you aren't having any luck getting messaged back, etc.
First, and I think the website may be $#*!ing this up because they don't filter out age grouping even though they ask you(?), in my profile I was asked my age preference to which I have listed as 30-45. MOST of the young men messaging me are 18-24? I WILL NOT message anyone back out of my age range. I even say this in my short bio! Show a lady the same respect you would want shown. If you are clearly out of the range she would prefer DO NOT MESSAGE HER AND EXPECT A REPLY!
Second, if all you are looking for is phone/text sex... yes, this has happened. Then don't expect a lot of messages either OR expect that once she is on to you, she will drop you! There are phone and computer sites where you pay a lot for this - we don't do it for free! Most of us women would like to meet someone a bit younger and enjoy each other but that would require actually meeting at some point. If you are nervous about it let us know, we get it - really! Honesty is much more attractive than telling me how hard you are going to f!@# me! It will also get you farther. Dirty talk is great but get to a point where you are in a conversation together, and actually know a bit about what you both want, before you bring the hard-core stuff out. It will also get you farther, especially if you are looking for a FWB type situation.
Lastly, $#*! pics. Myself and a couple friends who are on this site are not into that. We like chest pics, pics of you in your board shorts, even pics with you and a pet or stuffed animal is cute (and NO, I don't mean in any compromising position!). If we want more pics of you and "mini" you, we will ask - as you should ask us.
Look, I know a lot of you are there just for the hook-ups, that's fine! But, there are women who are on there for a bit more (like a FWB scenario). I have had two in my 6-7 months on the site and my current one is a-mazing. You need to read the bios, see what each woman wants, and be respectful. There are many women on here, some want hook-ups and some want a bit more. I am sure there are scam artists on here too - all sites have them. Just use your good judgement and think with your brain - not with your $#*!.