Doublelist

After discovering the DL site, I explored the crowd. Some are very open and follow through with what is agreed-upon. Others will get something going, schedule it, and don't show.

I find most on the site have fairly narrow age grouping, eliminating the possibility of engaging in younger/older connections. Still others not only rule out anyone over 45, but are not open to cyber play.

Those few who are completely open to all have been enjoyable to connect with, and enjoy. So much pleasure is missed when limitations are placed. Then, again, I understand people like what they like. For me, it's all about complete variety.

I use the site and find it successful. Just don't be crude / rude on your first posting - get the point across and wait for a response. Then send that person (direct to their email not a DL server interface) whatever pics and desires you have. I think they are being cautious / smart about not getting into trouble. If you cannot post then reply to a posted ad - I've had success with both, although it took me a few tries to understand what words I can and cannot use when posting.
It's better now than a few months ago - more users.

Hello everyone,
I came across doublelist after reading an ad who recommend doublelist. Since all post from Craigslist has been flagged, I decided to go Doublelist to give it a try. At the beginning my two post were flagged after following the community guidelines
I sent an email to DL customer service and asked for explanation. Since then I have posted ads even with x- rate pictures ( I didn't get flagged). After 3 weeks, I met a cute guy and have sex in a hotel.
I spoke with numerous guys, they said gays pretend to be women at first while chatting online. As soon they set a date to meet, they reveal are men. I assure doublelist is legit, not perfect though. There are a lot flakes, bots, weird people as well.

This is the dating site, the site for quick hook-ups.
Here are grown adults who want to $#*! or get $#*!ed.
However, there are a lot of restrictions on our ads.
Practically, innocent words that are used in everyday people's lives cause "violations" from our side.
And users are forced to make up new "words". Well, provide an acceptable dictionary.
At the same time, for some reason, a different approaches to pictures and photos.
Please let them use any picture- we do not want to waste time asking for them anyway later.
The search is very limited - no age, no distance from me, and no sexual preferences.
This way, the Craigslist list was more convenient and I was getting a lot of dates there.