Dream Singles

Despite all the scam report's, i have yet to read anything that suggest it is actually a "scam". All i have read on here is mostly pissed males who didn't get the barbie doll slave they were lusting after.

I have been on DM for over two years and have had nothing but the best experience. I'm not a gift sender, chatter, or video sender/receiver. I purchase 30 follow up letters a month and that is it. Because the gifting/chatting part of it is questionable, expensive and frankly, meaningless. No woman wants roses or gifts delivered to her by a strange man, they want the man who got those gifts, to deliver them in person. My advice save your money, and buy her the gifts when you're there. Remember odd numbered roses or other flowers and never black. Black roses and even numbers are for funerals. Remember that.

I have been talking with a very lovely young woman thru Dream-Marriage for the last two years. She was one of the first lady's i made contact with. After our first meeting in her hometown of Sumy, in the dead of winter, a winter that broke 100 year old records there, that visit lasted a week, but was originally for two days, i got snowed in. Even the railroads were not operating. We both had a lot of interest and admiration for each other. She, and the agency there in Sumy went out of there way to help me in any way possible. The agency even paid for a driver who was brave(or stupid) enough to face a winter storm to get me into lodging in Kiev, so i could catch my flight home.

DM's Sumy agency also has one of the best translators i have ever met. Her command of the English language was astonishing. She even scolded me for using "worser" to describe the "worse" weather i have ever personally witnessed. I felt like a 5th grader again in English class. I'm from South East Texas, we get snow maybe every 25 years and it's back to 90 the next day.

To date i have been to Sumy, Ukraine 3 times. Once for a week, the second time was for two weeks, and this last month i was there for three weeks. We had a great time. We still use DM for it's translation service, well let's face it, her English is as good as my Russian, and it's horrible. We can have normal conversations, but for anything complex a translator is needed. And Google translator is the biggest garbage out there. Only a "live person" can do a proper translation. Yes i know DM uses Google translate, and some of it's affiliated agencies for chatting online, another reason to avoid chatting.

It is really pretty simple. If you can't get a woman here, you can get one there. If you can't get the younger, taller, slender blond here, you will not get the younger, taller, slender blond there, she will however, show up for lunch and gifts and take your money. Remember that. It's all common sense. Just use your "other" head to think with.

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1 Update Your Picture

"A picture is worth a thousand words" We cannot stress enough how important personal photos are to include in your profile. More photos will cause ladies to spend more time on your profile and make your profile more memorable.
2 Be Honest

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3 Write Your First Letter

There is no excuse for a boring first letter. Make your letter personal and interesting to read. Be creative, make your letter stand out. However, do not make it too long or hard to read. Remember, she has other emails to read. Make sure she will finish yours.
4 Get A Better Image Of Her

If a picture is worth a thousand words, imagine what a video can do for you. Watching a girl live on her pre-recorded Introductory Video will give you an opportunity to get a better image of a Russian lady you are getting acquainted with and to make sure she is the one to go for.
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8 Ask For Her Number

After you have accomplished all of the above and she is still the one, you are ready to take your relationship to a whole new level. Or you might be ready to take that next step and go visit her in her hometown. Go ahead and ask her for her personal contact information and see where it takes you.
9 Keep An Open Mind

Take time to learn about her and her culture. Remember that you two come from two different backgrounds. Do not assume - ask questions. Stay open, be understanding and keep a positive attitude!
10 Don't Give Up

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Okay, where to begin? I just returned from Ukraine this weekend. Ukraine is like living on the polar ice cap during the winter.

I was not born yesterday, and I'm the type of guy that when something appears too good to be true, or seems too easy, I become very skeptical. I have read all the horror stories about women on Dream Marriage (DM) who scam guys, or not showing up when a guy travels to Ukraine to meet them. Yes, I'm sure those stories are true, and have happened. However, I think the DM website, and it's purpose, and obligations to it's members needs to be put in it's proper perspective here.

What is the purpose of DM? Yes, it is a business, and like all businesses it expects to make a profit. I have no problem with that. I do think DM sets themselves up for a lot of criticism by charging members for each letter they write, or video, chat, etc. DM is located in the U.S. and the women are located in Russia, and Ukraine. That translates to mean DM must partner with local businesses to produce these women. I don't object to that either as long as DM does their due diligence attempt to verify these women exist. I realize there are limitations on how DM can verify these women. If a woman lies, I can see where that can be a problem in the verification process. However, if a member pays for contact information, and the information is not correct, I feel DM should reimburse the member that fee if the member receives the wrong information.

I fully understood DM was only a medium to possibly meet a woman I would be interested in. I knew going in there are no guarantees. I only expected that I was dealing with a level playing field. I was also aware there would be women that are trying to scam guys on DM but you're going to find those type women wherever you go. If you are trying to meet women, it just goes with the territory.

Now for the guys that let the little head think for the big head, you are always going to have a problem. If any guy is stupid enough to think these women are going to jump into his arms, and go back to your hotel room when they first meet you, think again. If that is what you are thinking, then you deserve what you get. It all boils down to common sense, and whether you use it or not.

I am also sure that along with the women scammers, the women also get the real loser perverts that contact them on DM. So it works both ways.

The bottom line for me? I traveled to Ukraine. I met the woman I corresponded with. She was just as beautiful as her photos, and very nice. I enjoyed meeting her. We seemed to hit it off well. I am still communicating with her. Is the relationship going to continue? Time will only tell. However, DM met it's obligation to me. Whether a relationship with this woman develops, or not, is not the responsibility of DM. That is up to the people involved. DM did their part, which is all I can expect.

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