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OurTime Reviews Summary

OurTime has a rating of 1.5 stars from 446 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 52nd among Senior Dating sites.

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Ohio
1 review
16 helpful votes
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Save your money
February 15, 2017

I signed up for ourtime 2-14-2017. I think the site is mass confusion. The company or someone is sending out fake flirts and messages to the members. When a man sends you a message that says like your pic. Then you know its not real. I got 12 or so that said the same thing. Some of the men look like they came from the pages of GQ. They all have wonderful jobs, make lots of money, and will love you till the day you die. If you doubt that they are legit check facebook' If the account has the same picture and has no history its fake. They are out to woo you untill the sun comes up and take all tyour money Its not worth the time even bothering with them just block them. I was immediatly sorry that I joined. You may luck out and meet someone. But be careful

Date of experience: February 15, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Despite my initial skepticism, this online dating malarkey isnt so bad. I use this site and also primetimelove and must say its living up to the (considerable) hype so far. Worth a bash, after all why should the kids have all the fun?

Date of experience: January 23, 2017
Ohio
2 reviews
17 helpful votes
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I have done online dating for a long time, on and off. I have never previously encountered such verbally abusive men as what I have experienced at this site. Perhaps this corresponds with the general abusive behavior going on in the US right now with the political situation, I can't be sure. But whatever the reason, it does not make me inclined to ever use this site again.

Besides that disconcerting problem, there are also some pretty user unfriendly aspects of the site. First, if you have your account set to not automatically resubscribe, you will get an annoying popup with every single email message you open. Second, there are tons of people with no photo and no profile. Your mailbox can be full of messages from such people. You will get a message with each photo they "like", meaning many email messages to wade through with no content from a nonexistent person. The site does not allow you to set it up to globally block messages from people without photos or profiles. Third, navigation and deleting of messages are not user friendly and cause unnecessary work for the user.

All in all, a poorly designed web interface, annoying popups, and mean angry people are what you can expect from this experience, should you pay for a subscription.

Date of experience: January 19, 2017
Florida
1 review
13 helpful votes
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You pay your Membership fee and then they pull you in to SCAM you for even more Money. You can't contact other members unless you pay All Kinds of Fees. They Site is a Phony Scam and so are the Member Contacts. I had almost 100 contacts before I paid my membership fee for 3 months. After they got my MONEY I had only about 15 and NONE of them where from where I lived in my area. Then the 2 or 3 I tried to contact I Couldn't. Our Time said I needed to PAY ADDITIONAL FEES TO THEM to be able to talk and get Mail from the women I was interested in. Our Time Dating Is a SCAM RIPOFF PHONY DATING SITE PERIOD!

Date of experience: January 12, 2017
Massachusetts
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Not very helpful
January 3, 2017

Lots of men younger than 50 (early forties, looking for 45 year old women...). Lots of really poor pictures - they should not be allowed to be uploaded if they are blurry, or downright scary. One guy looked like a serial killer!. Oh, don't get me started about the men that have no picture and have filled out no information and then they message me! Also, they match me up with men that are 10 years older than the max age I specified, or they smoke, or they live in Maine! I have had my share of catfish to scare away as well but I'm good at spotting this now (try POF if you want to get a scammer every 2 minutes!). All in all I have been on Our Time for about 2 months and had one date. That's it!

Date of experience: January 3, 2017
Illinois
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Can't sign in
December 29, 2016

Won't let me put my email in you people need to get a hold of me very unhappy my email is *******@Gmail.com

Date of experience: December 29, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Maybe its my age but im still one of these people that are a bit sceptical and reluctant to hand my credit card details out on the internet. Unfortunately online dating is pretty much a non starter if you dont do this, so I read a lot of reviews and do a lot of checking before I choose an online dating site. So far the only sites that have passed my test are this one (ourtime) and primetimelove.com (ive done some reviews on that site before you should be able to find, its 9/10 in my book, really has everything you need). For this one I had no concerns about paying for the 6 months as its a well known brand with a lot of reviews and even if there are quite a lot of negative points, having your money pinched is not one of them. Its a good site, not the best ive tried but ive met some nice people on the site and even gone on a date. For me its 8/10 and worth a try if youre looking for a site you can pay for that you wont lose sleep over.

Date of experience: December 26, 2016
Washington
1 review
9 helpful votes
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SCAM
December 15, 2016

I have tried to cancel and have tried to remove the renewal portion of my account and they keep renewing me. How can I make them stop renewing me?

Date of experience: December 15, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Im enjoying ourtime for those quiet weekends when ive nothing planned with friends or the occasional weeknights after work but unfortunately the dates have dried up. One of my co-workers who is also a single gent in his late 50s has suggested that I try primetimelove.com but havent got around to it yet. Its likely to be my next port of call though as im finding this site isnt quite living up to the early promise it showed for me. Maybe ive already spoken with most of the ladies in my area or maybe im searching wrong, but im definitely not as popular as I was at first. I do like the process though, logging in and checking messages, sending messages, doing searches; the time can just fly past! Definitely recommend online dating for people of my age who find themselves with some free time (and some disposable income of course) but your patience will be tested at times.

Date of experience: November 14, 2016
Colorado
1 review
12 helpful votes
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They charged me twice
October 18, 2016

I asked for a refund the hour after I signed up. Still have not gotten a response. It looked like $7 a week, and you charged me twice. I will be contacting my bank

Date of experience: October 18, 2016
Canada
1 review
4 helpful votes
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DONT MISTAKE ME FOR ONE OF THESE OLD FUDDY DUDDIES THAT CANT WORK THE INTERNET! QUITE FAMILIAR WITH IT AND NOT HAVING ANY TROUBLE ON THIS ONLINE DATING WEBSITE SO FAR. FOR ME, IVE TRIED A FEW DIFFERENT COMPANYS AND ENJOYED PRIMETIMELOVE.COM THE MOST UP UNTIL NOW BUT OURTIME IS QUITE DIFFERENT AND I THINK IT COULD BE JUST AS GOOD BUT TIME WILL TELL. SORRY FOR ALL THE CAPS JUST NOTICED HA HA. Brian, late fifties

Date of experience: October 12, 2016
Pennsylvania
1 review
10 helpful votes
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I decided to give them another try after a couple of years. Still the same the matches they send daily are not what I put as my search. I have emailed numerous times NO RESPONSE. Yet they keep sending me emails to sign up again. Last time I saw a guy and liked his profile but when I clicked on it another creepy guy showed up with same name.
Also, I sign out when I went to sign back in I was signed onto some guy account. This is horrible site. After this I will not spend any more of my hard earned money on any of these sites.
AS ALWAYS DISAPPOINTED IN OUR TIME

Date of experience: October 10, 2016
Georgia
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Waste of money
October 7, 2016

This is an awful site and a total waste of money. Hard to believe it is still in business. Can't cancel your subscription so if you are going to try it do so on the shortest subscription because it will only take a couple of days that it isn't worth one penny.

Date of experience: October 7, 2016
Texas
4 reviews
15 helpful votes
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Waste of time and $$$
October 6, 2016

I've been on the site for 3 months. I've been scammed twice but smart enough to know they were scammers. I called them out and they stopped communicating with me.

Mostly losers and dirty old men on this site.:(

I rarely log on because it's a waste of time.

A total waste of $$$!

Date of experience: October 6, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
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With all the buzz around online dating, particularly for the over 50s, I decided to see what it was all about. I read an article in a popular British newspaper on the rise of the 'silver surfer' and how my generation is the fastest growing market for tablets and ipads. I must admit I like the idea, as its not like at my age im going to be going out as often as I did when I was younger (im a young 56!) and even if I did, how many of the women out there would be suitable for me? Online dating makes sense, at least to try. So I signed up to two sites (the article suggested that this was a good way to double your chances), this one and also a nice little site called primetimelove.com that I would recommend as a fun alternative with plenty of members. Anyway, joining was very easy and I was able to add a few pictures of myself that I had from a recent BBQ so that worked out nicely. I wrote some information about myself; hobbies, likes, dislikes. Didnt harp on too much as the article had said to keep things light and funny if possible. I've searched the female members and must say I like what ive seen at this point. Had a chat with a lady from Easy Sussex over the weekend and we seemed to get on well which is a good sign and a great start. So its a case of so far so good as far as im concerned and I can see me using these sites for sometime and who knows, maybe romance will bloom for this old timer! Either way its something different and takes a bit of focus away from work. Would recommend to anyone who isnt sure its really not as terrifying as it can seem!

Date of experience: September 27, 2016
South Carolina
2 reviews
16 helpful votes
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Pathetic rating 0
September 11, 2016

Scam, filters for matches worthless lot of time wasted and further tries to get more $ for added features once you sign up, should be shut down. From someone that got suckered in.

Date of experience: September 11, 2016
Washington
1 review
14 helpful votes
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SCAM SITE
September 7, 2016

This is the WORST FAKE site I have ever been on, How can they promote this site is for mature people over 50, when in FACT men 30 and YOUNGER are on here, FALSE ADVERTISING. The site sends me Flirts saying men are interested in me, which in fact is a lie, just a generated computer flirt from our time, which is embarrassing to me as a woman to think I have a flirt and I really don't, another Scam of theirs, Let me find my own man without ourtime time sending me bogus flirts, letting me think a handsome man has flirted with me, its an INSULT to my intelligence to find out no one FLIRTED with me. The mens pictures on this site are hideous, bathroom pics, why don't men@ least dress up and put on some clothes before posting a pic on a dating site? I am not impressed with men wearing a wife beater tee shirt and some old funky looking trouser shorts on looking like you just got out the bed and havnt washed ur azz, its a turn off. Men with cigarettes stuck in their mouth, Who wants to see pics of men with their dog, or men in pics with a lot of other people surrounding him wow. I believe our time must go to the jail houses and take pics of men and post them on their site just to say they have profile pics of men up posted. TERRIBLE looking men I could just CRY. Stay clear of this DREADFUL awful site, FAKE FLIRTS are generated to non subscribers to make you CURIOUS as to see who sent you a FAKE FLIRT, when we all no it was generated by OURTIME to get you to depart with your money. I cant believe this site is still up and running. I got a FLIRT from a man, then when I clicked on his profile it showed he had not even viewed me, again FAKE generated FLIRT from ourtime. RUN fo the hills from this site and don't look back.

Date of experience: September 7, 2016
Oregon
3 reviews
18 helpful votes
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NOT Worth Your Time!
September 7, 2016

Count me in the group who wants to give this site ZERO stars! This site is poorly setup and run. Features are inefficient and largely fake. Even if you make some search criteria choices, the system ignores them. Searching profiles it quickly becomes obvious that there are many duplicates... beyond those people who post their own duplicates with only slightly different titles, etc.

Their system regularly sent me notices that I have new message, but when I checked it was not so. They also have a weird way of identifying communications as flirts or emails or photo-likes, but when you check its jumbled. Often in making a selection to read whatever kind of message it says you have, nothing happens. Often in checking a new message you find the person who sent it no longer exists -- this happens way too often to be a simple matter of someone leaving the site!

If you want help, GOOD LUCK, it's not there, but you can snail mail them...!?!

This is just a poor site with poor business practices -- I would not recommend it to anyone who has a brain and is truly looking for appropriate companionship!

Date of experience: September 7, 2016
Washington
6 reviews
17 helpful votes
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Two thumbs down
August 29, 2016

This site stinks you cant peek at a profile without munipulation, 2 years and no dates. Yes im pickey and thats my god given right. Ladies your body is a temple take care of it! This goes for all! EXERCISE...

Date of experience: August 29, 2016
Connecticut
1 review
9 helpful votes
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TERRIBLE!
August 23, 2016

I JOINED "OUR TIME" IN AUGUST, SINCE THEN I'VE HAD TO CHANGE MY USER NAME AND PASS WORD 4 TIMES AND USE A SET UP A NEW EMAIL ACCT. FOR THIS SITE. MY USER NAME SHOWED UP WITH A MAN'S PHOTO TWICE! WHEN I COMPLAINED I WAS TOLD THAT FOR SECURITY REASONS THAT COULDN'T TRANSFER MY PHOTOS, ANY INFO AND I'D HAVE TO DO A WHOLE NEW PROFILE! SECURITY! WHAT KIND OF SECURITY IS THIS? I LOG OUT EVERYTIME I'M FINISHED ON THE SITE. I WAS ON THIS SITE 3 YRS, AGO AND NEVER HAD A PROBLEM. I TRIED TO TALK TO A SUPERVISOR... ONLY 1 AVAILABLE... BUSY WITH OTHER CUSTOMERS. I WOULDN'T RECOMMEND THIS SITE TO ANYONE! TRY POF. IT'S FREE ANDI'VE HAD NO PROBLEMS WITH IT.

Date of experience: August 23, 2016