OurTimeReviews 450

So sorry I signed up with this site. And this is only after 5 days. Thank goodness I only paid for one month.

Each time I uploaded a photo and it got approved and placed in my profile, it would DISAPPEAR the very next day. I did this TWICE in 4 days.

And... As a joke I guess, they alerted me that I had messages. When I clicked to read them, there were NONE to be read?

I wouldn't give this site another chance if it were totally free.

I've certainly met a number of women on the sight in a relatively short period of time... With that said, there are numerous factors that make this site frustrating as heck! There is a steady stream of scammers that deluge your profile [10-20 a day], I make sure I mark them as 'scammers' and block them; it's an easy enough task... The website is very clunky and doesn't refresh itself... The ap has a few nice features, but by today's standard is poorly developed...
I too had issues with their billing, they billed me $107 / 3 months when all i wanted was one monthh... credit card complany hooked me up with OT's customer service and they were quick to correct it [there is an extra $3.95 fee when you sign up].
I don't think I'll go past my one month, but beware, the pay system auto-update and you'll need to contact them to cancel payment!

I was flagged for saying "No drug use" because I used the word "drug". Since I was flagged once, I'm no longer allowed to have a completed profile.
I have been emailing back and forth with CS (after 2 weeks of trying to get a live person) and after several emails, I still haven't been told how to correct this issue, only that I was in the wrong. Why would anyone pay over $100 for this aggravation?
Save your time, save your money, if you want to meet someone, join a meetup.com group! They're free, fun & have no cat fishers as you're actually meeting people in person with your same interests.

They are useless and manipulate profiles. My outbox has dozens and dozens of messages sent to men (and women!) that I never even viewed, had no interest in, some I never even SAW! How dare they send messages to all these people saying I am interested in them! Unethical! They also send old photos of people no longer on the site to your visited list, or as "Flirts". One of them I was very interested in, and when I did not get a response from a few messages, I sent another message asking if he was real or not, and the photo was removed the next day. I know this was just an old photo because the profile was empty. People leave the site and clear out their profile, but their photos remain and end up getting sent to 'beef up" the matches. BEWARE!

I signed up for ourtime 2-14-2017. I think the site is mass confusion. The company or someone is sending out fake flirts and messages to the members. When a man sends you a message that says like your pic. Then you know its not real. I got 12 or so that said the same thing. Some of the men look like they came from the pages of GQ. They all have wonderful jobs, make lots of money, and will love you till the day you die. If you doubt that they are legit check facebook' If the account has the same picture and has no history its fake. They are out to woo you untill the sun comes up and take all tyour money Its not worth the time even bothering with them just block them. I was immediatly sorry that I joined. You may luck out and meet someone. But be careful

I have done online dating for a long time, on and off. I have never previously encountered such verbally abusive men as what I have experienced at this site. Perhaps this corresponds with the general abusive behavior going on in the US right now with the political situation, I can't be sure. But whatever the reason, it does not make me inclined to ever use this site again.

Besides that disconcerting problem, there are also some pretty user unfriendly aspects of the site. First, if you have your account set to not automatically resubscribe, you will get an annoying popup with every single email message you open. Second, there are tons of people with no photo and no profile. Your mailbox can be full of messages from such people. You will get a message with each photo they "like", meaning many email messages to wade through with no content from a nonexistent person. The site does not allow you to set it up to globally block messages from people without photos or profiles. Third, navigation and deleting of messages are not user friendly and cause unnecessary work for the user.

All in all, a poorly designed web interface, annoying popups, and mean angry people are what you can expect from this experience, should you pay for a subscription.

You pay your Membership fee and then they pull you in to SCAM you for even more Money. You can't contact other members unless you pay All Kinds of Fees. They Site is a Phony Scam and so are the Member Contacts. I had almost 100 contacts before I paid my membership fee for 3 months. After they got my MONEY I had only about 15 and NONE of them where from where I lived in my area. Then the 2 or 3 I tried to contact I Couldn't. Our Time said I needed to PAY ADDITIONAL FEES TO THEM to be able to talk and get Mail from the women I was interested in. Our Time Dating Is a SCAM RIPOFF PHONY DATING SITE PERIOD!

Lots of men younger than 50 (early forties, looking for 45 year old women...). Lots of really poor pictures - they should not be allowed to be uploaded if they are blurry, or downright scary. One guy looked like a serial killer!. Oh, don't get me started about the men that have no picture and have filled out no information and then they message me! Also, they match me up with men that are 10 years older than the max age I specified, or they smoke, or they live in Maine! I have had my share of catfish to scare away as well but I'm good at spotting this now (try POF if you want to get a scammer every 2 minutes!). All in all I have been on Our Time for about 2 months and had one date. That's it!

Maybe its my age but im still one of these people that are a bit sceptical and reluctant to hand my credit card details out on the internet. Unfortunately online dating is pretty much a non starter if you dont do this, so I read a lot of reviews and do a lot of checking before I choose an online dating site. So far the only sites that have passed my test are this one (ourtime) and primetimelove.com (ive done some reviews on that site before you should be able to find, its 9/10 in my book, really has everything you need). For this one I had no concerns about paying for the 6 months as its a well known brand with a lot of reviews and even if there are quite a lot of negative points, having your money pinched is not one of them. Its a good site, not the best ive tried but ive met some nice people on the site and even gone on a date. For me its 8/10 and worth a try if youre looking for a site you can pay for that you wont lose sleep over.

Im enjoying ourtime for those quiet weekends when ive nothing planned with friends or the occasional weeknights after work but unfortunately the dates have dried up. One of my co-workers who is also a single gent in his late 50s has suggested that I try primetimelove.com but havent got around to it yet. Its likely to be my next port of call though as im finding this site isnt quite living up to the early promise it showed for me. Maybe ive already spoken with most of the ladies in my area or maybe im searching wrong, but im definitely not as popular as I was at first. I do like the process though, logging in and checking messages, sending messages, doing searches; the time can just fly past! Definitely recommend online dating for people of my age who find themselves with some free time (and some disposable income of course) but your patience will be tested at times.

I decided to give them another try after a couple of years. Still the same the matches they send daily are not what I put as my search. I have emailed numerous times NO RESPONSE. Yet they keep sending me emails to sign up again. Last time I saw a guy and liked his profile but when I clicked on it another creepy guy showed up with same name.
Also, I sign out when I went to sign back in I was signed onto some guy account. This is horrible site. After this I will not spend any more of my hard earned money on any of these sites.
AS ALWAYS DISAPPOINTED IN OUR TIME

With all the buzz around online dating, particularly for the over 50s, I decided to see what it was all about. I read an article in a popular British newspaper on the rise of the 'silver surfer' and how my generation is the fastest growing market for tablets and ipads. I must admit I like the idea, as its not like at my age im going to be going out as often as I did when I was younger (im a young 56!) and even if I did, how many of the women out there would be suitable for me? Online dating makes sense, at least to try. So I signed up to two sites (the article suggested that this was a good way to double your chances), this one and also a nice little site called primetimelove.com that I would recommend as a fun alternative with plenty of members. Anyway, joining was very easy and I was able to add a few pictures of myself that I had from a recent BBQ so that worked out nicely. I wrote some information about myself; hobbies, likes, dislikes. Didnt harp on too much as the article had said to keep things light and funny if possible. I've searched the female members and must say I like what ive seen at this point. Had a chat with a lady from Easy Sussex over the weekend and we seemed to get on well which is a good sign and a great start. So its a case of so far so good as far as im concerned and I can see me using these sites for sometime and who knows, maybe romance will bloom for this old timer! Either way its something different and takes a bit of focus away from work. Would recommend to anyone who isnt sure its really not as terrifying as it can seem!