OurTime

Horrible experience on this site. Talk about rejection. I'd get regular emails from the company warning me of fraudulent people that had contacted me. I'm thinking this was a safe site and these men were on the up and up. This was very alarming. Do not sign up for this!

I could have taken the 108.00 and went on a date by myself. I was on the site for 6 months, in that time I had 2 successful dates. You need to screen, your applicants more better. I've had perverts, men looking for a one night stand /booty call. When if they had read my profile they would have seen, that was not what I was looking for. Pictures that were not what they really looked like, I have met some very good liars on your site. I consider the time on the site, a waste of my time.

I'm a 65 year old guy... very active... walk a lot of rounds of golf. I keep fit. I joined OT and immediately got deluged by sweet young things who 'faved' me... 30-ish types. Really? And they all had gorgeous pics. Uh huh! I have met 3 ladies for lunch as a first meeting. They ALL describe themselves as 'athletic and toned.' Not so much. One of them told me to be very careful because some people weren't totally truthful with their profiles. No kidding... SHE identified herself as 5 years younger. I won't renew my membership. My chances of meeting a very cool lady are better at the local Publix! Besides, if I win the lottery, they'll find me.

Ken, Franklin, TN

I've certainly met a number of women on the sight in a relatively short period of time... With that said, there are numerous factors that make this site frustrating as heck! There is a steady stream of scammers that deluge your profile [10-20 a day], I make sure I mark them as 'scammers' and block them; it's an easy enough task... The website is very clunky and doesn't refresh itself... The ap has a few nice features, but by today's standard is poorly developed...
I too had issues with their billing, they billed me $107 / 3 months when all i wanted was one monthh... credit card complany hooked me up with OT's customer service and they were quick to correct it [there is an extra $3.95 fee when you sign up].
I don't think I'll go past my one month, but beware, the pay system auto-update and you'll need to contact them to cancel payment!

I went on OurTime for one month, just to check it out and ended up entertaining myself by catching the scammers. Not even inventive, but outright stealing pictures off the internet of someone else. I finished the month out searching the pictures and then once I found the real owner of the face, I responded to the email as if I was a friend of the person. Within minutes, without fail, the profile picture was changed.

Made me feel real icky about the whole thing. I am utterly surprised how many men don't know how to write, smile, shave or take a selfie. I refuse to believe that my generation of men took so little care of themselves.

It's bad enough that people put a picture that is 2 or 3 years old, but some don't even try. My favorite line that I ran into on someone's profile was: "If you don't look like your picture, you're paying for dinner until you do."

Yes, the usual suspects of a scamming site: Fake profiles, ghost profiles, "views" (so what?) from people absolutely miles away from your designated distance parameters. Every woman seemed to have a Masters Degree in somthing but hey looked like they may well be a university cleaner, not a post-graduate! They all seem to like the bloody theatre, do me a favour! I recognised some faces from another site ( actually worse than this one can you believe!) from about five years' ago; do you really think they'd still be members? No, neither do I. Avoid and accept that 'you've been had' and delete it from you computer and wish it good riddance!

1) search facility is very limited
2) Upload of photos leave a lot to be desired
3) I realize that it all depends on new people joining but it's the same every day
4) nobody replies except scammers, are the other profiles very old or are they current members

All in all, this site is not good (as most others)

I conclude at least for me, dating sites are not worth the effort. I suppose if you have chiseled model like looks, you may get a reply but then you wouldn't need to join a dating site

Ive always found this review site very helpful for deciding which sites to try and which to avoid. After I read a lot of good reviews here regarding Primetimelove.com last year I joined it and really love that site. So this time I thought Id check out OurTime after seeing some good things again here about it. Im disappointed to say my experience hasnt been quite as positive as with primetimelove, but it was good to try two sites at the same time to see if that lead to more dates. Ill probably be dropping ourtime now, but its a good back up and I believe its made by the people at match, so you know its reputable. But for me, I just didnt get enough replies to justify the cost.