Meeting these girls is impossible. Theoretically you need to get their contact information. This is when they lose their interest in you. They are only interested in commission which they get on AsiaMe. When you use a legit site like http://J4love.net you don't have to deal with scammers. AsiaMe is one of the lamest services I have ever dealt with. Took me three months to pick up on this, get out of this rubbish and find a decent dating site.

I PERSONALLY KNOW 3 MEN THAT WENT TO CHINA TO MEET THE WOMEN THEY WERE TALKING TO. IN ALL CASES, THE MEN THREW AWAY A TON OF MONEY AND NEVER GOT TO MEET THE WOMAN THEY WENT TO SEE. ONE GUY GOT LUCKY AND MET A WOMAN NOT ON THAT SITE AND THEY ARE ENGAGED NOW, NO THANKS TO THIS CONNING WEBSITE!

You can try, but if it's a fake, You will not meet because the lady gets sick

You need to converse with her telling her your coming, then you need to go to her country to meet her. I would arrange with her if you can but they have a arrange a date option on the site, with a fee of about 130$ US. You likely will be told by her she cant share info with you and to go through the site so she can get you to pay the 130$ fee, good luck! Gonna need it.