Secret Benefits

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

After over 3 years of almost daily use of this site, you begin to notice strange things happening that are not legitimate because there are advanced bots on this site, as well as very good photoshopping. I've received replies that will vaguely answer one question out of 5, or none at all. Also, if photos are sent to you and any of them are the same as what they already in their profile, it's a bot. You will also see photos that are reversed, with a negative image, like the person is in the exact same pose, but the background has moved from the right to the left, and her watch has magically moved from the right arm to the left, as well as the pink bracelet on her other wrist, which is totally an A.I. Deep Fake image. In 3 years, I video chatted with one woman, and she was at a desk with 2 monitors. The chat lasted 6 minutes and a week later I was ghosted when I only wanted letter writing. Also, some received letters will have paragraphs that are repeated, as well as repeated, identical sentences in various profiles. Note the screenshot of the woman in the red dress. The background is reversed, but the woman is in the absolute exact same pose. If you write a negative review on this site, or any other, you will get a reply from them within minutes, asking for your profile name and email, offering you a bonus. If the bait is taken, automatically, your I.P. Address gets permanently banned. It's extremely difficult to tell which profiles are deep fakes unless you know how to detect them, but there's many on this site.

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match.
Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

I gotta say something about Secret Benefits. I expected to throw my cash away like I have on other dating apps, but 3 real hot dates in a month off this site is awesome for me.

Hello. I would like to say that I use Secret Benefits when visiting the US. Sadly, it does not operate in Germany. However it is very effective in the States and what's also nice is you only pay the credits and not by the month.

I met my beautiful princess on secretbenefits.com 6 months ago, and I asked for her hand recently and she said yes! A heartfelt thanks for helping me meet my match.

I met a fine woman from the secretbenefits.com site last night and she was great!
I didn't expect to meet anyone on this site, so I want to tell others about it now because I normally don't have such luck with online dating.
Thanks,
Flavio

I have been on a few sites like SB and there's not a lot wildly different or that stands out other than the women I have met. By far, I've had more quality dates from this site and that's why I think they deserve a mention and my 5 star rating.

Lots of users and many contacts. All of whom seem to have ADD and so never reply past their initial contact. It's almost as if they're contacting you to get you to spend your credits (it's 10 credits to reply to a message or initiate contact)
My biggest complaint however is that site administrators will edit your profile info if they don't like the tone. They even removed text from my profile because I said I didn't smoke and didn't want to match with those who do.

Hi. Just for those wondering about secretbenefits.com, it does work. I was on for about 4 months and met many fine ladies until I met my current gf. Could say was love at first site. I recommend to try if curious to find a good match.

I gotta Give a shout out to the SB support. Very fast response and it was clear that I was communicating with a real person that understood and sympathized with my situation. This is one of the things that makes a dating website like this one great👏🏻

Total scam. Took my $170 and deleted me the first day for unspecified violations of their rules. When I specifically asked them how I violated they didn't answer and said I would receive a refund in five to ten business days. But they charged my account the same day. And I didn't get my refund so I'm complaining to my credit card company.

I've been using this dating website for several months now and can attest to it being a good service. Secretbenefits is better than others in the space if you are looking for somewhat unconventional dating

I found sb to be a well balanced date site. Modern with many women in my area. Not all respond to my outreach but the ones that do are pleasant and open to meeting and discussing what we both want. Haven't settled one anyone but having fun with the process

I am writing here to say that I have met a real beauty that has captured my heart. I honestly never thought I would meet someone like Rebecca. Pinching myself right now.
How can I take my profile down or hide it is my question now.

I am happy that I found this dating site. Really fair pricing to start chats with real beauties. Not all have worked out but on average I am doing alright with finding dates when I want to.
Cheers
Karo

I enrolled on SB, wrote a profile with my preferences such as women between 50-65, non-smoker, etc. Not one of the responses was from a supposed woman in this age group (almost all were in their 20s-30s -- I'm not interested in a woman young enough to be my daughter or granddaughter), about half or more were smokers, etc. It was as if the responders didn't read what I had written or were bots automatically responding to every new man on the site. I got off the site quickly, spent nothing, and was glad.

Yeah most definitely bots here, I'm a fan of most Credit systems in general however on this site it seems that you get tons of interest from girls who favorite you, give you access to their private pictures and message you, then seem to ghost you after you unlock the messaging portion. I honestly would not bother. Secret benefits was nice enough to refund me and provide additional credits, I did get marginal success with more credits so there are some real girls out there!

Same experience as other people! You need credits for anything on the website. I mean I don't have problems to pay for the service but the accounts are fake or bot- generated. How can be possible that I sent 30 messages and I barely received one back? Forget it

Gave it a try. Only 1 out of 10 had a meaningful message exchange, other presumably bots just shoot a message, but if you respond with whatever witty or funny stuff, they never come back.
Don't waste your money and time.

After my initial review about presence of bots, SB came back and explained the situation. So I am going to give them benefit of doubt and continue using the site. Will update this again later based on the outcome.

Amazing there's constantly new profiles of beautiful women popping up in your area, no matter where you live. They all message you and have secret pictures you can buy into. Amazing. Don't expect anything after the first message. You can go through the user agreement and see this site is for "entertainment purposes only".

Well, as a guy you do get messages from potential sugar babies. But that's where it gets strange. About 90% write a 5-10 word phrase (or less) that shows very little imagination and you as a male subscriber have to pay to open each message. Then you reply with a nicely worded reply--sometimes within an hour or so--and never hear back from the potential sugar baby. At first it seemed unusual and as time goes by I never became comfortable that the process is legitimate. I can't figure out why you as a sugar baby send a message and don't reply. Perhaps there's some reason that explains that behavior. But it makes the users seem very shallow. Some people may be but SB makes it look like it's 90% of the user base.

I've been on SB for couple years now. I have met a few interesting women but not long term. Some women think very high of themselves and I'm sure some guys are obnoxious as women have told me. I tend to be older and selective so I may not be best judge. There are many different choices if you live in high population area.
I do often wonder why so many women say hi but never respond again even after you keep trying.
Many more misses than hits but isn't that true about dating in general?