Yes, Brian, I would like to think the persons we are trying to meet maybe left the site or found someone. The bottom line is this, I have never ever heard anything positive about this Web site. It makes me ill sending you messages you can't read until you pay more than as you look at the advertising the clock is running.
No worries we all got ripped off it happens

I don't put a lot of faith in flirts. It is very easy to send one by mistake. The only thing it really tells you is that the other person is a paying member. Women generally get a lot of messages. Many go unanswered. When you view someone an entry will appear in their Viewed Me section. I don't know this for a fact (customer support has never answered my query), but if that person deletes the Viewed Me entry your view of them in your My Views is also deleted.

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Brian, cut your losses and try another site. This one is a scam. I answered Karen, read that if you are interested in my experience.

They could have been scammers, and once reported by others, have been take offf the site

I wish I could explain that for you and it is strange. The same thing happened to me and I cancelled my subscription. What a waste.