Ashley Madison

Its not easy. It does take a certain amount of tact, humor and smarts to stand out and get notices but i've had no problem meeting women, building great friendships and having great sex. There are hot smart funny women that are real. Again, just takes patientence and at least a modicum of intelligence and charm to get their attention. There are 10 dudes for every woman. Luckily most of the guys set the bar pretty low. Avoid single women on the site. Also, you only get charged credits for the first message. Not the follow ups. Just remember to unchecked the priority message back. I regularly get immediate responses on nonpriority messages. Its not true that they are delayed 12 hours. I think most of these reviews are from bitter dudes that just suck at online dating. It is a different skill, especially on AM.

Guys stay to the old school of meeting girls... face to face. I tried this site and its takes your money. Women don't pay for anything. Guys have to buy credits, they charge the men 5 credits for initial contacts, 5 credits to show your pictures, and be careful when you write back to a contact because there is a priority check that is automatic and you are charged 5 credits for that.

When your credits are done, and you wanted to contact a person you already paid for, you can't, you have to buy more credits.

I kept sending out messages and only got two replys and the people I met, I would NEVER EVER meet or have a second glance at. This site plays with your fantasy hopes, but crushes your dreams. Its as they say, "buyer beware."

R

I'm a woman on the site & in a bad place in my marriage so I signed up was curious. I met men on there who wanted porn star looking women when they are hairy, old & fat! I had on my profile I was looking for a long term affair but men of types who wanted one night stands, threesomes, hit & quit would all contact me. Some men would lie about their age, height,& weight. They would even insult you by not responding to them. I met some men in person most were douche bags! I had an affair with someone for about 1 1/2 he was sweet but a cheater like me where could it go really? I don't recommend this site@ all. P. S I don't cheat anymore life is better. I'm no angel but stuff happens sometime :)

Ive been married to my husband for 7 years and we have two kids. I love him but its not like it was when we were teenagers. Sex is pretty much non-existant (anniversaries/ birthdays) and I think hes happy that way. I could never leave the father of my twins but when I heard about sites like Ashley Madison, nostringsaffair.com, etc I knew I had to give them a try, just to see what theyre like. Ill be honest and say I havent met any one in person yet on the sites I use, but I do like chatting to guys and flirting with the idea. Id have to feel completely confident of keeping it a secret if I did meet up and im not ruling it out. But I love the naughty and discreet talks I have with guys who clearly want me when my husband does not. Cant really give it 5 stars because ive never gone all the way yet but im happy for the moment.

I tried quite a few extra-marital affairs websites and there were only a few sites I really liked. I'd probably rank Ashleymadison as the best in this category (or maybe Saphrina, not really sure if I like it more or less cuz I found an affair partner on both sites but it seems to have less members). With a little patience you can find real women looking to hookup. Most are mssing passion at home and are desperately looking for some acknowledgement. Yes, there are some dubious contacts but ignore them and you'll be fine.

Some things need a bit of controversy to become the best they can be airlines (think United), cars (think skoda used to be pretty much hated and nowadays has shed that image), donald trump (ok, the jury's still out on that one my fellow americans!) and now cheater/ affair dating sites. I like the new ash mad. I've been using nostringsaffair.com for years and had a lot of luck on it and tho id never stop using that site, I am now considering paying the extra membership fee for ash mad because it really aint half as bad as I was expecting. I like when companies come back stronger and I really do think that could be the case here folks. Check it out!

Been AMing for a year meet two women and wanted more then discreation, spent most my time buying more credit to send messages. Most women are escorts using this platform as another way to get $$$. $#*! AM $#*! is straight trash!

This web site is nothing but pure unadulterated BS. It's a scam and a fraud. The government needs to take these people down and jail. DO NOT EVER SIGN UP. The profiles are mostly fake and you will get no responses.

I just read an interesting report on FusionNet about the AshleyMadison Hack a few months ago. Jesus, I totally missed it. An affair website should be safe. You are dealing with sensitive information! I am still a member of AshleyMadson but have not logged in for a long time. Just now I realize how dangerous it is to use this website.

1. There are not as many women on here than you think.
2. AM uses fake ads to make men spend $9-$14 credit
3. If woman is more than 12 years your junior she's a scammer.
4. If she is super attractive she's a scammer and chances are she is a porn actress stolen pic. Janella Jensen she is a real stage name and real life scammer, ut makes money off lonely men. Danger, I did research and paid private eye.
If you are over age 40, especially over age 55 stay off dating sites. You have no SMV to offer ladies. Go to bunny ranch.

Hi, i have been on and off Ashley Madison over the past few years. I live in the UK, I am single and have found the men on this site really nice and intelligent. I have tired to find decent men on traditional dating sites but find most men are game players. At least on AM I know what they want.

'A M' is pretty much the best married dating site together with 'Saphrina' I have been on a few others but the two only sites I've had any success were 'A M' and 'Saphrina'. If you are a man you will face some competition on 'A M' and it can be quite expensive. If you can't afford to pay you can't afford to play. But that does not matter because at least 'A M' has real members.

I was on AM in 2015. I actually met women my age then. Now, however, I am bombarded by girls in their 20s most of whom are from other cities and even other countries. The scam is that these girls will message you and even go off site and then after teasing you with photos, they say they are in town and want to meet but first, you have to process through this site for "their" safety. It is BS. It is just a way for whoever is pretending to be that person - probably a 300 pound dude in New Jersey in his tidy whities- and once you pay the $29, the goal has been met.
Now, it is clear that AM doesn't mind these people being on the site and lets them do their scams. I have reported them before but they are worse now. AM makes money if you accept a collect message or initiate a message with them. Either way, you are burning credits and will need more if an actual flesh and blood woman actually came along. Don't waste your $50. Spend that money at a bar and you will have better luck by far.

Ive been on the site for 5 months. Not one date. My mesage box gets full with what seems to be automated messages, when i reply to the messages (in very respectful ways) i never get a respose. If you use the free wink that is designed to see if they like your profile, you get a reply that says they only respond to full messages. To send full message it costs money.

I agree with most. A lot of profiles are fake to get you to spend your money.
When I spend my credits i will not be renewing. For all the profiles that never responded I just marked popular. So if you see a profile with just popular marked STAY AWAY!

All should do the same.

They are dishonest. They send you fake interest from fake accounts to get your to sign up. No one ever responds when you do.

I should have been smarter. A clear indicator was that I had interest before my picture was even approved. RIGHT!

Do not sign up. They are scammers and dishonest.

AshleyMadison is by far the largest affair website and in my opinion it is the second best affair website after Saphrina. If you are patient and creative you will connect with men and women from almost every part in the world. Yes, you will find fake profiles and yes, it is not easy, especially for men. But it does work!

I spent $50 on a gift card to send 4 messages. None of them were responded to. For the amount of money you spend on this site I would be expecting better results but it is a waste of time and money. They send you a message to bait you into sending a response but when you send a message and you have to pay for every message you send to initiate a conversation then you get radio silence. Also those profiles always seem to be on and the same people keep showing up. It seems expensive and a smoke screen.

Hey,
I have seen worse sites in my life, trust me. AshleyMadison.com is not all bad! Only problem: it is too expensive. Credits are consumed easily. Saphrina.com is cheaper at the end of the day with similiar results, same with NoStringsAttached24.com.

BTW: Men outnumber women by far, on EVERY single hook up site! Don't believe any myths they all tell ya! And keep in mind: They ALL place fake profiles. Be smart and don't go for all the supermodel profiles. Go for REAL and AUTHENTIC women instead!

Complete waste of time. Half the profiles are bull$#*!... yea all the good looking people. I sent out a tester of 40 emails to all the best looking girls on the site and only 2 of the profiles ever OPENED the email. The site is a complete scam unless you want overweight 50 year old women.

I have had great luck on this site. If we met we went to bed! I don't know what complaints others have but this is the most reliable site that I've been on period.
No site is perfect but this one has delivered for me!

RW

Ive had many good times on AM. ive been using it for years... Ive had over a dozen relationships lasting from a few weeks to couple years... Essay was fun... Fanny, many Chinese girls on it. From Vancouver... Also met some when I went to Toronto

I have been a member since 2013. There are so many fake profiles, what is worse is that is costs money every time you write to one of them. So the more fake profiles they create, the more likely you are to write to one of them. It is so rare to get any response. It's hard to believe they are still in business. Once I use up my credits, I'm leaving.

Hidden fees upon sign up that you do not find out about until you get a nasty bill. They tell you to buy token to message other users. That's fine, but then they don't tell you you will be charged an additional membership sign up fee. Really?... This has to be the only "dating site" that charges it's memebers fees to message other members, and has these hiden fees. Really shady how they operate. Never using again. In addition tons of fake profiles of people who add you and then eventually ask you to help them as they are a single mother and "send a bit of money". It's sad that people fall for this.