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Ashley Madison has a rating of 1.4 stars from 893 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Ashley Madison most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card, and real women problems. Ashley Madison ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Still #1 affair site”

Daniel W.
2/27/16

AM is still #1 affair site. Huge database of members, very well established brand. There are few cons though: - High price - Recent security breach - You have to pay to have your personal data vanished However, I still regularly use it (and if you know how to treat housewives, you'll get to the 4th base), but to double, or even triple up my chances, I use another great affair website recommended by lots of other guys here: Nostringsaffair.com. Happy hunting!

Top Critical Review

“A site that draws romance scammers.”

Dennis P.
10/27/24

I was contacted by 10 women using Ashley Madison and all 10 were "romance scammers". Some waited 5 minutes to start asking for money some waited a few days but they all were scammers. The site is not worth your time or bucks!

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Thumbnail of user rons54
Germany
5 reviews
72 helpful votes
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January 18th, 2015

Nice design, great idea, good concept...

AM is not perfect,... but it is not as bad as most reviewers try to tell you. If you have not been lucky, you may try Saphrina. But again: This site is also not perfect. So generally speaking: Use your common sense!

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Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 6th, 2013

I have used AM for many years. It is not a scam. I have yet to come across profiles that weren't real. I have been to scam sites in the past. When a man creates a profile with no information and no pictures and gets dozens of responses within a day, you know it is a scam.

I have met roughly about 6-7 women over a 10 year period on this site.

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5 reviews
19 helpful votes
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March 15th, 2015

I've used saphrina.com, nostringsattached24.com and this site and thisis by far the most expensive (but still had more luck on the other two sites). When you send message it takes 5-10 credits. Those credits will be gone fast. Guys, go for other sites.

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Illinois
5 reviews
111 helpful votes
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February 9th, 2016

My wife and I never got any luck on AM, but we have had great luck finding like minded people on NoStringsAffair. We would greatly recommend it to anyone looking to find friends and explore. A lot of people there are open minded and willing to talk about alot of topics. They have a good variety of all types of people and interests, something for everyone.

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Virginia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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September 8th, 2018

Your inbox will be flooded of enticing messages such as:

TransRVA could be the answer to your fantasies. You should send her a message and start flirting.

There are no real messages from any woman, these are all 100% computer generated and intended to charge you $5 for every message that you reply, or more if your "by default on" Priority is active.

Also if you pay attention, these woman are online 24x7x365, that is ridiculous. AM is well known for these unethical practices. Stay away from it.

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Illinois
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 9th, 2023

If you want to get sent a bunch of scantilly clad photos from guys pretending to be girls, this is your site, for this they want the venmo/cash app sent. Don't they realize you can video chat pornstars for less and with better hacking protection.

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Massachusetts
1 review
26 helpful votes
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May 18th, 2015

This site is a scam, don't ever give them your credit card number. When you sign up, the "fine print" authorizes them to make charges to your credit card, they will even charge $19.99 to delete your account.

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Tennessee
1 review
1 helpful vote
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May 28th, 2022

Most of the Profiles on the site are fake and only send you messages until you buy credits to see them and respond, then after you purchase your credits the messages are generated thru a bot, as in they give the same responses.

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Nevada
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
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January 20th, 2016

I wonder why anyone would not like AshleyMadison.com? Yep, I agree with most reviewers: It is expensive. Sure, Saphrina will cost you less. Sure, I agree. But on the other hand Saphrina is not popular in every country of the world, as far as I know only in the US, Canada, the UK and Australia. So if you are from another country, like a country ib South America, you really want to use AshleyMadison.com and it works pretty good. Coem on, people! AshleyMadison may not be the number one anymore, but its still a cool cheater site!

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Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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December 23rd, 2021

I joined Ashley Madison beginning of December. Earlier this week I purchased credits and Mobil access.
When I signed off I 183 credits and payed for mobel access in full.
Next day I signed on I had no credits and mobel access.
They just took my money and in return I got nothing but the bill.
I've tried to contact them at Ashley Madison. Com but it says there contact us feature doesn't work.
Don't use this service there is no way to contact them, it's a scam.
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Tip for consumers:
Don't use this site there is no way to contact them at there email or phone

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Minnesota
1 review
3 helpful votes
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October 26th, 2010

Ashley Madison will charge you credit card without authorization and then refuse to refund the amount of the fraudulent charge. They will share your data and contents of private messages as a means of intimidation

Thumbnail of user aaronc81
India
1 review
6 helpful votes
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September 30th, 2017

One guy wrote that it takes time and commitment to have success with this site and I can't agree more.

But let's face the hard facts here: 90-95% of all cheater websites are a waste of time! There are only a few sites which are worth joining such as Ashley Madison and Saphrina and every guy joins those sites looking for an affair. No big secret that there is a surplus of men and only patient guys get rewarded. That's just the way it works!

If you are looking for a quick 24h-hookup this site ain't the best place to find it. Ashley Madison DOES WORK but it sure ain't perfect. Sure you can also check out Saphrina but don't expect faster results. It also works but same story here: Patience!

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New Jersey
1 review
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October 26th, 2019

AM is one of these clever sites that you dont know whether youre joining a dating site or some kind of online Italian clothes store! It could be a fashion brand as it's nice to look at (and really very easy to use) but when I compare it with sites that have actually came through for me in the past (NoStringsAffair the clear example) then it falls short. I'm all for my dating sites to be big businesses and look professional but they need to get me results within 3 months or I move on. In fairness, if NSA stops working for me I would probably come back and give it another try.

Thumbnail of user alexanderm61
France
1 review
14 helpful votes
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April 10th, 2016

There's a lot of "noise" on this site, and it's true: you will find some escorts, some fake profiles, and some African scammers. But beside Saphrina, this is the only site which will give you access to real women seeking affairs!

The trick here is: Just be patient! It's a numbers game. I takes some time to create a good profile and upload nice pictures.

AM is a little expensive but it is worth it! I have met several real nice women on here! Of course there are more male users! But it is not true that there are no real women on AM! Trust me! Again: I have actually met women on here!

I don't care what all the other people say: There are hundreds and maybe even thousands of affair sites and only two sites worked for me: AM and Saphrina! Give it a try: It is worth it!

Thumbnail of user dred9
Illinois
1 review
5 helpful votes
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July 7th, 2020

Absolutely, positively, loaded with fake profiles! Also, the ones that do respond to you, will be scammers trying to lure you to another site. Or they get your phone number and try to get you to spend money of some phoney verification I.D. they say they need for you to have.
Lastly, I've been on on AM off and on for approximately 4 years. My last hiatus lasted almost a year. I couldn't believe the amount of the same women on there for the last 2 years. I'm convinced they're fake.
Would lkmd to find a really legit site similar to what AM is supposed to offer. No doubt, this will be my last go round with AM. It's gotten progressively worse over the last 4 years!

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Georgia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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July 3rd, 2021

Seems like a rip-off. So many fake profiles that AM should be embarrassed. No responses from what I think are real people, so I may be wrong and they are fake. If they are fake, then AM stole my money and which is just pathetic.

Tip for consumers:
i this is the best that can be offered in 2021, stay away!

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Thumbnail of user tjf3
Arkansas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 25th, 2013

Don't waste your hard earned money.
Responses are few and far between and most possible matches they
Send you are no-responsive.
They had the nerve to charge me $20 for canceling & deleting my profile.
Waste of time & money!

Thumbnail of user joeb2052
New Mexico
1 review
2 helpful votes
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October 28th, 2021

I was on AM 9yrs ago. Back then there wasn't as many escorts or catfish online. I did find several honest to goodness ladies online and had a long term affair with one of them.

Just now, I was on for about a month. I chatted with several real ladies, met 2 that really seemed good at first but ended up being very strange and I had to cut it off. The last straw was a catfish, but it was very apparent that it was fake. LOTS of young escorts peddling their wares on there now.

You have to be careful because AM has hidden fees that will be charged unless you opt out. Quite a few traps like that.

If you are really serious about finding the perfect match, it will take lots of your time and credits (money). But I think most will find someone if you are not really picky.
Remember, those of us on AM are cheaters, liars and not the cream of the crop, lol. Beware of scammers, catfish, fakes, etc.

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Thumbnail of user dalem643
North Carolina
1 review
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October 3rd, 2022

Don't waste your money.
I am a nice looking guy that lives a nice lifestyle.
I created a profile with a pic and wrote a little about myself.
I even gave the females a way to contact me for free.
I wrote to several females... no response and no messages received.
This site is a joke

Tip for consumers:
don't waste your money

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Thumbnail of user shailam
Pennsylvania
3 reviews
9 helpful votes
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January 26th, 2023

Name is RAWBURU

This guy will go out of his way to reach out to women he know that is out of his league. Will get your phone number get you all excited to meet up and then at the last minute tell you that he knows that you're out of his league and he can't afford you. This man is a flake. Do not waste your time. Here is his number so you can block it *******551

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Canada
1 review
14 helpful votes
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February 15th, 2017

My credits were running out. Then out of the blue 2 women send me "collect" messages. I respond to both. Three more messages flow both ways. I run out of credits and cannot read the last one arranging a meet. I buy more credits. Both women's profiles disappear in the next 5 minutes. The messages "history" of both disappear. Fool Me!

Thumbnail of user joycej16
California
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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January 25th, 2017

There are a bunch of scammers on this website. The ones that try to hook you in with unbelievable photos of themselves. Tell you right away that you are the love of their life. Then it's not too long before they tell you that they need money for something and that they are very sad until it gets resolved. Of course, they are asking you for the money.

Thumbnail of user joes1028
California
1 review
5 helpful votes
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January 8th, 2019

Wanted to try this site out, it's partially legit, but mainly a scam. They send you messages saying they are from a user, these are canned messages that are not from a real person, their system sends out these messages. Was able to chat with a couple women, out of 100 a few are real, and these ladies were expensive sugar babies. Most profiles are bogus, and most the negative reviews here are true.

Thumbnail of user dexters1
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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October 15th, 2011

I tried this site and would agree it is very expensive. Most of the women never even replied to emails and some were even right out abusive. Like any other site, the men to women ratio is like 1000:1 and unless you look like Brad Pitt or the wallet Donald Trump, you have no chance...

Dex

Thumbnail of user cynthias14
Florida
1 review
28 helpful votes
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August 24th, 2014

You men that need to use a site like this to cheat on your wife are a bunch of disgusting pathetic a$$holes who probably have tiny $#*!s. This is so disgusting and I hope you all catch a bunch of sexually transmitted diseases. Oh... and I hope your wife finds out and takes you for all you have too. :)

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