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Florida
1 review
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I meet my girlfriend through this website 4 months ago. And i just wanted to take time out to say thank you.

Date of experience: June 15, 2017
Oklahoma
1 review
25 helpful votes
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You can read the first letter from each lady for free.
You can view the first picture they attach to their first letter for free.

I had a profile with nothing but my date of birth, nothing else at all about me...
In a few weeks I accumulated 60 letters from ladies telling me how they had all these feelings after reading my (empty) profile.

Every letter came with 2-4 pictures. But only the first picture is free and you can't pick which one.

To view the additional pictures costs "10 credits" per picture. Replying to a letter costs 10 credits.

Every first picture looks like a professional photo (no self pictures, no have a friend snap a picture).

Here is where it gets interesting:
If you have $400 to spend, you can get 1000 credits. That's the CHEAPEST credits you can buy. If you buy the minimum number of credits, you get 20 credits for $16.

So to reply to a message is $4-8. To view the second picture the lady sends in her first letter, $4-8.

Sad to say it, but with nothing in your profile, you'll get a few letters a day from ladies "moved" and "passionate" about your profile. Each with 2-4 pictures. Just to reply or see the second picture costs you, and while I can't say for certain none are legitimate, I seriously doubt that any of the 60 letters I've received are legitimate.

Who would send a letter to a man introducing herself as "so-and-so your future wife" if all she knows about him is his age and country?

If I viewed the additional pictures (beyond the free professional picture) attached to these letters, I would have paid over $300 just to see pictures of 60 ladies. No assurance what the content of the pictures are. For all I know they could be pictures of a sunflower or a rainbow or anything else.

Save your money and go elsewhere. Certainly this isn't where you'll find what you're looking for unless you just want to waste time and money on what seem to be fake women.

Date of experience: August 7, 2014
Greece
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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Wedding is coming soon!
January 27, 2016

I wanted to say to all the people out there that I found my future wife on this site. So yeah - I loved it, but now it's time to quit! ;)

Date of experience: January 27, 2016
Nevada
1 review
29 helpful votes
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I have been on and off Asian Dates for a couple of years, and I can assure you that it is the biggest rip off site online. First of all, the pictures are all made to look great, all you have to do is look at the videos underneath their pictures or the ones they send you and you will get the shock of a lifetime. Of the 6000 + letters I have received that I could read for free, only one actually read my profile and remarked about where I really lived. To read a letter and answer is 16.00 dollars. One girl has written me 455 letters over the last 2 weeks. If I was actually stupid enough to read any of them, that would have been over 3,200 alone. And if you notice their profiles, especially if they try and chat with you, they are all doctors or business owners and millionaires. :) Of course, if you read their profile, they are 20 years old and the profile says they are a student. I did have 3 women on there out of thousands, actually Google me and find me to write me an email which of course is against their rules. Also, don't fall for the 2.99 sign up deal. What they don't tell you is that once you go over your time limit, they automatically start charging you 16.00 and you will find 3 or 4 of those charges taken out of your bank. I wish there was actually a real dating site like theirs that wasn't anything more that a total rip off. If you look at the pictures of the parties that they try to sign you up and get you to come to China. There isn't one pretty girl at all in attendance. That should tell you enough. The testimonials are all made up. Not sure how they get away with being such a scam website, but hopefully one of these days they will be shut down.

Date of experience: January 30, 2016
Texas
6 reviews
24 helpful votes
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Average rating
April 11, 2019

Overall, Asiandate was okay. The site was easy to use. Got to meet atleast 2 scammers. Just be smart about who you're chatting with.

Date of experience: April 8, 2019
Sweden
1 review
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AsianDate is great
March 6, 2018

Never thought I would meet my future wife on a dating site. Guess who is about to get married to a girl she met on Asiandate.com

Date of experience: March 2, 2018
Germany
1 review
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After many months of looking and talking to many woman and meeting just a handful of them I have found the very best match for me!

Date of experience: July 24, 2017
Singapore
1 review
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Site was so simple to use and had so many features, online dating would be way easier. Found many girls and we continued conversation there too.

Date of experience: October 14, 2017
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I looked through different dating sites to get only the true one. Without any scam or some other negative information. I think I finally got one!

Date of experience: October 16, 2014
Louisiana
1 review
19 helpful votes
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Total Scam
June 4, 2018

Site uses model pictures, which are real, but the person you speak with is mostly a man or woman, paid by the site to represent the pictures. I've spoke to interpreter from this site that was brave enough to tell me this information. She also stated if you want real experience don't believe ladies on this site. I found one from this site that sends letters to me and others everyday. When I spoke to her on facebook, she was married 2 years ago and was mad at the site for still using her image to attract men. Her profile is still up on site and she "sends" letters out every day.
If you pay close enough attention to this site you will find some groups of ladies are on everyday about the same time. This is because they are working shift work for this company or branch of company used for communication with men.
Also noted a lot of the women wear the same thing in their profile pics. Also some of the women have 2 or more different names on this site. Same poses, same vehicles they stand in front of. Most woman will not send spontaneous pics in places you ask them to take them or in clothes (such as blue dress, or other items to prove they are real) you ask them to wear.
Why aren't the ladies charged if they are real? It seems that you can make just as much money from them as you do from men if charge them. Would also cut down on fraud also; but we all know the workers get paid by company hired by parent company. I have almost 2000 letters from some of the ladies from this site, each would cost me 5 to 10 dollars a letter to read.
Closing site is for fantasy and not for real dating. Is fun but very expensive. If you are looking for love go someplace else. I will challenge the company to see how many person, of the millions that visit the site, have gone on real face to face dates. I bet. 0001 percent. Also note several woman that have computer generated messages and responses, say the are in the United States, or France, England, or other places when the allegedly send out messages or mail, but try to find out where they really are in the place they say they are and they will never give you a straight answer.

Date of experience: June 2, 2018
Maria M. AsianDate Rep
over a year old

Hello! Thank you for detailed comment. We are sad that your experience with our site was not successful I hope I will be able to clarify some pints of your review. The verification team we have checks the photos and make sure they belong to the person in the profile. It is forbidden to chat on behalf of any member. In such case the profile will be delited without a chance to restore. One person can have only one profile, any duplicates are deleted within several hours. The fact that ladies on our site do not pay membership fees makes it so popular and lets us have thousands of new members every months so every person who comes can find someone to talk to. The Team works every day to provide your safety on the site. We check every complaint from the members and take action within several days or even hours.
If you have any question regarding the site or any process, please contact our support team, they will be able to clarify all concerns about any member you have.

Washington
4 reviews
49 helpful votes
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I have written conversation from this company regarding their immorality of their women and them saying they do not allow sexually explicit words to be discussed on letters or chat. If you want to see proof I will show you through your email. All of these girls most of them are looking for sex. I had one person said that she met a guy who was given it to her really hard. For all you stupid guys who say you had success on Asian date.com, you are liars. You are all paid by the website or someone you know from that website. This is how this website works.

What they will do is ask you to call them using "call me" or send a gift which costs about $100-$400 of American money just to be able to send them information like your email or telephone number. Once given them your email or telephone number. They may only contact you once by email and all the other times they are going to contact you on Asian date.com. Also, if you tell them that you will only talk to them once by phone to exchange information, like email and telephone number. They said oh, that's invading their privacy, which is very sure sign that they are trying to only get money from the guide customers.

Only use their free minutes to get one to talk to you tell them that you are strictly going to give them a call once to exchange phone number and email. If they do not want to exchange information. Tell them to F off and move on to the next girl using your free minutes. When you do find the right one, and she replies, constantly to your email off the site, then you know you have a real thing. If the only reply wants to your email and insist on talking to you on their website. Then you know if they are paid on the website.

When you are also online on their website, look at all the chat boxes on the right hand column of the screen. Those chat boxes that says they want to talk. You are all automatically sent to every person that they can try to draw the guy to them. Once you get on their chat box. They will get angry if you leave the chat message, and then come back on after they replied even if you tell them why you are doing that, they still get angry.

Date of experience: May 6, 2015
Ohio
11 reviews
106 helpful votes
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Bottom line, they are just luring men to spend money on messages and live chat. If there are any real, sincere women on this site, it will be virtually impossible to form a realtionship with them.

If you have already made the mistake of buying credits, you can have some nice, intelligent conversations in live chat. You can see some of them live on webcam, and they will respond to commands so you know they are really live, not pre-recorded (they seem to find this amusing.) Just realize you have no chance of meeting them.

It is prohibitively expensive to communicate on the site long enough to get to know a woman. You could not exchange the information necessary to arrange a visit, unless arranged by the site. The site is extreme in blocking any attempt to get direct communication. They even block mentioning Facebook, Google, etc, let alone giving an email address -- even when I tried posting one backwards! This implies an actual person censoring the communication, not just a computer.

Reasons for doubting the women are real: 1. The majority of these women have large breasts -- not consistent with Asian bodies. The ones that do not have obviously large bosoms are photographed to make their breast size unclear. If you select to put responses or searches in order of "Beautiful Ladies", it equates to larger breasted women first. Obviously the site is catering to what they think every Western man wants. (If a man were looking for women with large breasts, why would he be on an Asian dating site to begin with?) 2. You will often get many letters from the same woman, even though you have not read and responded to any of their previous letters. What attractive woman is going to keep messaging you when you don't respond? 3. You will get letters saying they like your profile or picture, even when you have not yet put anything on your profile.

I dismiss the arguments about it being unreasonable for attractive young women to be interested in older men. The concept of the "dirty old man" and prejudice against age differences in couples are largely absent in Asia. Westerners are largely considered tall, handsome and rich, more faithful than Asian men. But this is not one of the places to find Asian women.

Date of experience: April 28, 2014
Netherlands
1 review
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I had a good experience
September 20, 2017

I had a good experience here met some nice ladies and met a great lady i think its a little to expensive but worth it if you meet someone

Date of experience: September 18, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
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I highly liked this website, very user friendly. It has lots of people to choose from. They give you tons of options to pick from.

Date of experience: October 31, 2017
Australia
1 review
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I like the friends here, because there are many friendly and enthusiastic people. Hope you can find more friends here.

Date of experience: March 28, 2017
California
1 review
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Great Improvement
November 17, 2017

Great Improvement over past few years, great layout, options, most people are real and genuine. Met a great women here.

Date of experience: November 14, 2017
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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It is really wrong for a dating site to charge so much money which is like $8 a picture $8 a letter to read and then they won't even let you give the other person your address or telephone number unless you pay extra even if you can do it then this side actually need shut down in this country because it is most definitely a fraud! And what I find out this even the worst it's whenever you get a lady that emailed you or supposably she emailed you could be decide which I wouldn't put it past him because this site won't even let me put my ID for my email address as well as my knowing password and then it keeps throwing me off before I get there and I paid a few times to apologize to these few women that thinks that I wrote a letter to them when I didn't so they charge too much for what you get nothing they are so greedy to steal money from people it's a crying shame when if you want to cancel me go ahead I'm just tired of the whole thing and for women just want to have some peace and happiness you probably raping them to it's a little bit of money they have!

AsianDate attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: December 16, 2020
Alexander S. AsianDate Rep
over a year old

Dear Butch,

Thank you for your feedback.

I am sorry to hear you feel about our services that way.

The price depends on the services and credit packages you use.

Allow me to give you a suggestion, however. Please remember that we have different credit packages available for you to purchase – all at different rates per credit. For instance:

20 credits = $15.99 (0.80 cents per credit)

160 credits = $96.00 (0.60 cents per credit)

1,000 credits = $399.00 (0.40 cents per credit)

As such, the bigger the package of credits you purchase, the cheaper it is per credit.

Here is the info about the prices.

Letters

10 credits to read or to send 20,000 characters limit

Live Chat

1 credit Per minute charging starts as soon as the first message is responded to

Camshare

6 credits per minute charging start immediately

Bonus Camshare

200 bonus points are necessary for a session without time limit

Virtual Gift 15 credits Per gift. A 100-character message can be attached, the gift expires after 7 days

Send a photo in chat 15 credits per photo

Attach/ view photo in letter 10 - credits per photo, First photo can be attached/ viewed for free

Phone Reservation ≥100 credits for 10 minutes. Minimum talk-time deposit, costs 10 credits a minute after 10 minutes pass, second reservation with the same person costs 70 credits for 10 minutes, and then 7 credits a minute after 10 minutes pass

Flowers & Presents >49 credits per delivery. The indicated cost is just for delivery, the final cost depends on the items chosen.

You can exchange contact information with a lady via Call Me reservation. Here is the way:

Please follow this link to access the Call Me tab. https://www.asiandate.com/callme.html

1. Press Order New Phone Call

2. Put the Lady's ID number in the field "Lady's ID" and press "Check"

3. Verify if that is the correct person you want to call.

4. Select your time zone (If not sure find the time zone that displays your current time)

5. Select the date when you want this call to take place.

6. Select the time of the phone call.

7. Provide the phone number which our system will be calling to connect you.

NOTE: Phone numbers MUST be provided with the Country Code.

I. e. For USA: 1

For UK: 44

8. Provide your contact email address.

After the information has been put in, please check that everything is correct and press on Order Phone Call.

You will be prompted with a confirmation message.

After the call is set up, you can check the status of the order by clicking on Call Me or visit the Call Me link https://www.asiandate.com/callme.html

Please let me know if you have any other questions.

Singapore
1 review
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Very hot and romantic
August 17, 2017

I met a lovely babe on this website, and we had a very hot and romantic love making on our first date. I can never forget that day.

Date of experience: August 14, 2017
Colombia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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For me Asiandate is a premium dating service I think. I never thought I would see so many different beautiful girls.
I am sure my happiness is here!

Date of experience: October 17, 2014
Texas
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Not a legitimate site
January 7, 2024

I was on Asian Date for a little over a year and thought that it was legitimate as I was talking with a couple of ladies and believed I was getting serious with one. They offer the chance to share personal contact information after a period of communication (you must complete an IMBRA form) I believe they do this only to make you feel it is legitimate. In hopes to truly meet the woman and communicate away from the site to build a lasting relationship. I did this and was given what I thought was legitimate contacts. Only to find out later that they were just falsely created contacts. I even went so far as to fly to the ladies country to meet her only to have her not show up. Later in contact with another profile, I was contacted separately outside of the site (she found my social media page) from someone who told me she was an interpreter for the site and was actually the one I was communicating with on the site and not the actual woman. She contacted me because she felt bad for me after communicating with her profile. She informed me that the site is owned by men from Ukraine and they have women that apply and they help them build profiles and some of your letters actually make it to the actual women but most do not. The chat feature is not with the real women and it is with the interpreters. Obviously they want to keep you going as long as possible as you pay for every service and by the minute for chats. The gifts you send do actually wind up in the hands of the real women but not the communications. This is a bonus for the women who create the profiles. Some of the women create profile in honesty but never are given the communication as they are intercepted by the interpreters. Also, many of the interpreters are men. I could share much more on what was told and shown as she provided me screen shots of several profiles of women she was pretending to be while chatting with men all at the same time. But I do not want to type any longer as I continue to get frustrated as I do. I just decided to send this so as to possibly help another man from getting trapped or misled. I thought about providing the screen shots and I may in the future but I am concerned they will wind up in the hands of the site owners and could cause a problem for the interpreter who came clean to me. That is all for now,I may come back and write more and provide some screen shots.

Date of experience: January 7, 2024
Alexander S. AsianDate Rep
over a year old

Hi. I am sorry to hear that you developed some doubts about the authenticity of our services. As a company, we support all anti-scam measures and have done so successfully for a period of over 20 years.
I want to assure you that we are a legitimate site and we do not condone catfishing or any other form of fraud. This site's major goal is to provide a premium quality service to our members which we mainly do by not only providing extensive features but also putting top priority on our members’ safety. We are following certain regulations to make sure this will be observed strictly as possible. We are affiliated with partners that are putting this regulations into effect by screening and verifying the members before registering and while being registered on the site. If we see that someone is misusing the platform we will make sure to take strict measures against such members and reimburse the credits you’ve spent on them. Please do contact us directly at support@asiandate.com to act accordingly on this serious claims. Thank you.

Overview

AsianDate has a rating of 3.1 stars from 1,001 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with AsianDate most frequently mention long time, good luck and great experience. AsianDate ranks 1st among Asian Dating sites.

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