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Charmerly has a rating of 1.7 stars from 29 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Charmerly ranks 603rd among Social Network sites.

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Top Positive Review

“It is as real as you can afford it to be”

Richard M.
5/15/19

I have been to Ukraine 2 times for a week each time. I have met the lady from the site. It is not cheap to be on the site. The letters are about $6 each and the gifts are 2 times more than list price in the U S. I had to spend $1000 on the site before I could meet the lady. There seems to be no way around the Agency that runs the website. The ladies must follow the rules of the Agency to make their money. I think the ladies get a share of money that they lure to the site. I think the ladies have a vested interest in getting letters and gifts. I have spent around $4000 on gifts and over $600 on the letters and I do not know if the relationship is real. I say pay your penny and take your chance; it may be great. I am expecting a great outcome. The 3rd visit is late summer; this will be the beginning or the end. I will see! The photo is from the Pottery Museum near Poltava, Ukraine.

Top Critical Review

“Men pay”

dave b.
1/12/21

The primary purpose of the women on this site, who are mostly in Ukraine and Russia, is to keep the men busy spending money looking at videos, reading letters, reading messages, etc. Their photos are sometimes doctored to look better. The men speak English, the women speak slavic language. It costs $600 for the men to make real contact with the women. How would you rate this?

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1 review
4 helpful votes
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January 12th, 2021

The primary purpose of the women on this site, who are mostly in Ukraine and Russia, is to keep the men busy spending money looking at videos, reading letters, reading messages, etc. Their photos are sometimes doctored to look better. The men speak English, the women speak slavic language. It costs $600 for the men to make real contact with the women. How would you rate this?

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February 26th, 2020

Everyone loves to have someone to talk to, but the signs are there. Notice everyone on there has professional photos and are all professionals themselves. Like lawyers, doctors ect. Ya right. You don't even need to put a picture of yourself on there and all of a sudden you have tons of hot women liking you. Okay. Ask this simple question and they flip. Ask them to post a new photo with 3 things. Glass of water, a rock and a stick for an example. Not gonna happen. Because it's not the person you're talking to. They most likely bought those photos or run a talent modeling company. Try it. They give you 20 credits free.

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March 17th, 2019

I`ve been at Charmerly for about 3 months. During this time I`ve been fooled of 3 ladies. The pattern is that they stick with phrases from daily life until you have paid to receive their private information. When this is ok they disappear, or make a misunderstanding and start a quarrel for a trifle. Then they say you are junk and disappear. Or they quit the contact just before paying full pot. This is a vicious and cynical industry that harms people at the most vulnerable in the soul. The longing for love and closeness. Prostitutes are much more honest, everyone knows they are selling an illusion. This is evil at its worst. STAY AWAY FROM ALL THESE PAGES!

Tip for consumers:
STAY AWAY FROM THESE SITES:
CHARMERLY, VICTORIA BRIDES, VICTORIA HEARTS, ANASTASIA, UKRAINIAN LOVE,

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1 review
9 helpful votes
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July 4th, 2019

Spent $60 just to test it out. So obviously a scam. Women this beautiful don't sit around desperately texting strangers. When you're that beautiful you have thousands of men chasing you and offering to spend money on you. Don't delude yourself it's a total farce and a criminal site that needs to be shut down.

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2 helpful votes
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November 16th, 2021

I talk to a lady name Helen I lived in Kyiv for about six to maybe eight months give or take a few months. Well my point is we just pretty much figured out we were not compatible no she didn't get a nasty attitude when I first brought up that we were incompatible. I also was talking to a lady in Russia got her information but she never really emails me she wants to sit on the site all the time make you want to say hmm. She uses the excuse that she doesn't have a cell phone has Internet really. Only thing I can really say is you might just have to go over there but it's still all about money.

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Stay away from children age 18 that’s too much of a age gap.

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SupportTeam C. – Charmerly Rep

Dear Phillip,

We're saddened to hear about the situation that took a place.

Kindly note, that we have no influence on the member's preferences or her/his behavior.

Nevertheless, we'd be glad to check the situation you described.

For that purpose, please write us at support@charmerly.com

We'll be looking forward to hearing from you.

Kind regards,
Charmerly Customer Support

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3 reviews
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December 1st, 2019

Technically dysfunctional +
Automatic generated messages form non excising big busted women. And if you are lucky to find a real one so stupid it is unbelievable.
These"girls" are online 24 hours a day even in the mid le of the night seven days a week.
The ones that are real are extremely loyal to the site and play stupid if you try to bend the rules the site have set up to be able to make huge sums of money, like 1500 USD to exchange contact data without being sure that you will even get it.
For Gods sake do a Google search on all pictures form this site (and find out that most pictures are famous models form their website or facebook!
Worst of all... you get really pissed off after being on this site ofr ten minutes because they deliberately try to stress you out and overwhelm you... not fun at all!
Be carefull out there!

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November 26th, 2021
Verified purchase

Good place to get your information taken by scammers, they hit my credit card 10 times almost $1000 to get the full card information and once I canceled the card date site now says I owe them over $600 which is a real scam!

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1 review
10 helpful votes
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June 20th, 2019

So long story in short, I have spent like $30 on it, and I wondered why they do not want to give out their info.
I did a little test first a girl sent me a picture told me that it was specially for me, but it was not. How do Iknow it? Because I know that girl. She had the same pic on instagram.

Second I told her to translate something for me on her language. ( I know that language since I am from there). They used google translate and sent me some bull$#*!. So here you go guys, dont spend your money.

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February 24th, 2020

I know for a fact there many many fake profiles and dishonest people here! I had an old girlfriend that had a profile on the site. It was not her! I know for a fact, someone stole her information. The site has independent agencies in the city that represents the profile. The admin of the agencies go on the site and talk to you, it is really not the women. They get you to spend expensive credits and use circular talk to get you to spend credits. Stay away! It is such a fraud. It is the internet, you can not trust and further more it's Ukraine, you trust even more! Don't be a sucker!

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1 review
4 helpful votes
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September 3rd, 2020

Woman just scam u for gifts for1 and if u do spend enough credit to get there email address then they not use email all want to stay there and if u want to meet up with you they will not show it a pure scam stay away from this site go to Philippines dating site u can exchange email with in 5 minute of chat with them

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1 review
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May 15th, 2019

I have been to Ukraine 2 times for a week each time. I have met the lady from the site. It is not cheap to be on the site. The letters are about $6 each and the gifts are 2 times more than list price in the U S. I had to spend $1000 on the site before I could meet the lady. There seems to be no way around the Agency that runs the website. The ladies must follow the rules of the Agency to make their money. I think the ladies get a share of money that they lure to the site. I think the ladies have a vested interest in getting letters and gifts. I have spent around $4000 on gifts and over $600 on the letters and I do not know if the relationship is real. I say pay your penny and take your chance; it may be great. I am expecting a great outcome. The 3rd visit is late summer; this will be the beginning or the end. I will see! The photo is from the Pottery Museum near Poltava, Ukraine.

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1 review
7 helpful votes
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May 18th, 2020

Charmerly is not real these people are professional scammers that are only interested in your money and you are not talking to a real woman at all but a translator. Please avoid this web site at all cost. This web site doesn't care about their customers at all.

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John D.
2 reviews
23 helpful votes
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July 7th, 2019

Well I was chatting with Charmerfly Ksenia ID******* then I found her profile Ksenia ID ******* on Dream Singles, . I started to converse with her there and she said I never talked to me before! Well I fell for the fantasy and illusion. So I just wanted to post an example and how they operate getting guys to pony up for credits. Thank Goodness I never went to these countries to try to meet her!! They will shut your account down and try to discredit you every way they can! Just read the responses that they give to the complaints here! Just watch this you tube expose on Ukrainian/Russian dating sites! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mRDs6etRPs

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1 review
8 helpful votes
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October 13th, 2019

I came to this site because a certain brunette caught my eye. Was getting messages with whatsapp, and hangouts information as well as phone numbers from what I thought were some unusually hot women. Most would ask for steam cards after explaining their dad was dead and they had to move to Ghana to help their moms. I was fine hearing this out of 5 women but when a third said it and they kept begging me for money and wouldn't vidio call I knew they were scammers. Not to mention getting pictutes a few days apart from the same person and they didn't match. Lol I feel bad for all the guys that fell for this bull $#*!! I was a day away but wised up. Remember if it sounds or looks to good to be true then it is.

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3 reviews
41 helpful votes
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April 23rd, 2019

I've been 3 months on this site.
Due to my personal experience, there are two types of accounts in there: Fakes and Frauds!
The fakes are all Ukrainian/Russian gorgeous looking ladies who send endless messages, pictures and videos to you and do anything to make you to send a message or sticker, which you have to pay for them of course.
They Never ever contact you out of that system, even if you put your email address on your Bio or on your profile picture (I've tried both).
I guess if there are real people behind those accounts and if they're who the pictures belong to, they're just some kind of contractors who are paid a percentage of what you spend.
The second group, Frauds, are the ones who are not official members and have their email/phone number on their pictures.
These people are all Americans who live in Ghana! Isn't that interesting.
No need to say that they're after your money and if you have an excuse for transferring money, they would be satisfied with a cellphone, camera or anything you can send them!
Bottom line, there's nothing real in these sites but the "Money for nothing" as Mark Knopfler said!

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1 review
11 helpful votes
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March 17th, 2020

I will keep it brief, as it has all been said in previous posts. These fraudsters rely on the trust of honest men out there. They are clever people, I am sure they have psychologists on their staff, as they know how too manipulate men. S minds. I CAME TO THIS SITE VIA. A POP UP ON GOOGLE MAIL. Like many others I was initially fooled. Luckily I did NOT spend too much money. GOOGLE & OTHER ORGANISATIONS NEED TO SHUT THIS SITE DOWN. THE ONLY POSITIVE COMMENTS YOU WILL FIND ONLINE ARE WRITTEN BY CHARMERLY STAFF. ( WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. THEY WILL PAY FOR THEIR DISHONESTY LATER

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4 reviews
40 helpful votes
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September 9th, 2020

Charmerly, Victoria Hearts, Matchtruly, Ukrianianchram, Valentime, and more depending on region are all the same site operated by the same company. Charmdate is a separate company that operates similar fraudulent schemes with a lot of the same ‘validated' profiles. Read my review on here about Victoria Hearts or elsewhere about Alina Tkachuk to prevent yourself or ones you care about from becoming a victim to this extremely manipulative fraud like I and many others already have.

Before you join ask yourself these questions:

Do I want to pay to be lied to?
Do I want to pay to be emotionally manipulated or mind-f**ked?
Do I want to pay to become another victim of fraud?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, I am truly sorry that myself or anyone else warning you didn't prevent you from becoming a victim.

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1 review
7 helpful votes
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November 25th, 2019

I purchased many over 3000 of their credits to be able to get a lady's contact information and applied for it was only supposed to take 7 calendar day, I contacted then 2 times by phone and 3 times on their live chat service dept on the site and always got the same answer by different people, they were over whelmed with processing contact information of the ladies, which was a bunch of BS, one time they sent a notification said the lady refused
The request, I contacted the lady and she said she never refused nothing, the lady also wanted me to purchase their learn to speak English program, thank God I was not that stupid to fall for that trick also! Charmerty. Com site is ONLY a MONEY SCAM!

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1 review
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May 24th, 2019

Victoriahearts is the same way I spent a whole bunch of money I spent $3,000 to get a girl sent took plus Hotel I'm had one day to look very promising and it was supposed to last week and she disappeared because she had her. And could not call or answer me anymore she disappeared I mean it was so obvious it was a rip-off Apes happened to me time and time again they love me more than my life but when you get there problems arise they're hooked up with a bunch of other websites they all share money that you don't get straight answers when you ask them for it questions and the site perfect match is in on it too that's where I met and the Masters Anna Masters sir lady Anna it's a big joke but they're beautiful I'll give you that
Ks. As much promises it shows they have so many loopholes written into the there real book that a validated member which is supposed to be the real person could be a man you can't sue if you'll read carefully you might spend a year on a girl and then to go to meter and find out that's not her I'll give it a-2 star rating I mean less than zero it's Criminal my bank screams fraud every time I send money over there so I can buy time

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1 review
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July 22nd, 2019

I bay so many credits that I could get the contact info from The woman with who I wason chat., but her internet was not so good, so I couldnt use the free email adres. I went also at Krim to meet her and finaly she didnt spoke Englisch and I had to pay translator anytime we went uit. Nice woman, likes honest., but she was playijng her rolle. For the money.
Dont buy not even one credid!

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August 11th, 2023

I am Indian. And a cool man.I want a good life partner.my business a technical work. And big work shop.

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SupportTeam C. – Charmerly Rep

Dear Ramy,

Thank you for posting a positive review about our website, we appreciate your feedback!

We wish you a pleasant time on our platform!

Best Regards,
Charmerly Customer Support

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2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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May 9th, 2019

Ukrainian beauties like the ones supposedly on this site don't need to be here to het what the want. This is a money drain sinkhole:

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February 19th, 2021

This site is nothing but a money making scheme, stay clear of it, it's easy to get hooked but don't get conned stay well clear every one please

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7 reviews
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May 15th, 2019

This in part of a sophisticated international scam that is designed to lift money from your bank account. 'Charmerly' is the same as 'Victoria Hearts;' 'Victoria Brides;' 'Anastasia;' 'Match Truly;' 'Love Swans;' "Ukrainian Charms" and 'Valentime.' There is no competition between them, they are all part of the same sad syndicate. There are a growing number of these sites. It is a billion $ industry. Incredibly beautiful and sexy girls who are way out of your age range (and actual chance to develop a relationship with) appear to want you; whatever you say, or do or are. Take 'Ekaterina' member ******* on all the web sites mentioned above. She is really Katerina Milevskaya, fashion and glamour model, aged 23 from Kiev/Moscow. On Instagram she is 'milevskate' There she has 457k followers. It is most unlikely 'she' is on-line on all these sites 24/7 (as appears to be)! Instead, 'agents' (men and women) take commission working shifts writing for the profile. They mercilessly encourage you to look at videos, each costing 50 credits (most are available free on her Instagram); write a mail; cost 30 credits, view photos in a mail; cost 10 credits (most again are available on her Instagram) as well as sending astronomically priced gifts (charged through credits). I sent a gift, and received a photo of the gift, but pictured with it was an entirely different girl! Customer support response; "Girl look terrible without make-upI" I only did that the once! Direct questions are rarely, if ever responded to. The girls are implicated as only some of the photos and videos are on Instagram. When you have spent 3000 credits sites promise that you can ask for contact details. When you receive the details, they don't work! The girls are most usually Ukrainian (on the sites listed above), but there are also similarly syndicated sites of women from other areas of the world run by the same outfit, based in Cyprus, registered in America. The scams appear an acceptable part of regular (irregular) corrupt and deceiving business practices. Where ever the money goes (it's a world-wide scam) who knows! Frustratingly no one seems able or want to address the sophisticated deceits with the crooks responsible! AVIOD ALTOGETHER!

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June 30th, 2020

I have been on the site long enough to know that some women have their photos on other sites. Okay, no problem there. However, when contacted on Marmeladies, they seem to have no recollection of chatting on Charmerly. Marmeladies actually had one of the women on their site make a video of herself telling me she was real. However, she did refuse to use my private email address. So was she earning money from Marmeladies, or just being cautious? I have had two women on Charmerly provide a photo of themselves holding a card with my name. So they were real. I have had a woman on Charmerly tell me flat out we were not a match and forget further correspondence with her. So she obviously was honest and was not after a wage writing to men on the dating site. Of the 4 I invested enough to get their email address... one repeatedly refused to release her address claiming she was a bank executive in Kiev and afraid her computer could be hacked. I have enough information on her to think she really does work for a bank. The next was a model from St. Petersburg. She was way too young, but we corresponded and still have an odd email between us. The third quit writing to me shortly after releasing her personal email address. I think she was genuine, but just quit the correspondence because I really am too old for her. I think she finally agreed with me, the age difference is too great. The fourth is in Moscow and she did reply to a couple of messages on two of my email addresses. She claims she can not access her email account and claims to have sent me emails. I am unsure. I just contacted Charmerly support about this. My question, is email really unreliable in Russia and is it possible she never received my emails? On another occasion I found a suspicious profile and notified Charmerly and that profile disappeared. My general impression... the site is too expensive. I think there is likely an element of truth behind the women... after all telling the truth is easier to remember than lies. I am done with Charmerly... it is a giant sink hole for money. Yes, if you use a translator costs will be higher. However charging what they do for a photo or video is borderline to robbery. I will await their investigation on my Moscow contact. I do like the woman in Moscow. She has my phone number and if she really likes me and eventually phones... great. I can understand some trepidation on her part to phoning... being nervous, language etc. Charmerly is like many of these sites eastern European sites... they high grade their women for looks... and you pay for this. If you want a dating site more like what you find in North America, look at Elena's Models or Ukrainian Date. My Moscow contact explained that women in Russia, at least some of them, just want to be married and age is not a consideration. You have to remember the ratio of men to women is lopsided and men are in short supply.

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Charmerly stands as a dynamic and engaging platform, fostering connections that transcend borders and cultures. Within its vibrant virtual community, individuals seeking like-minded companionship can embark on a journey towards meaningful relationships. By embracing the diversity of its users and providing a safe, welcoming environment, Charmerly offers a space where conversations flourish and bonds are forged. Whether you're searching for friendship, romance, or something more profound, Charmerly invites you to embark on your journey today. Join us and discover the endless possibilities that await as you connect with fascinating individuals from across the globe.

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