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I have been there done that with everything that you have described. The first thing that they do is the medical. And if they have children they will even say that their children are sick. What you said about her being hungry and needing food I had to go through the same thing with two of them. That is just something that they do. They feed off of a person with a good heart. (Pun not intended).

Now don't get me wrong there are some really good Filipina out there who really want to meet and fall in love. But a Tell tale sign is when suddenly you have to start dishing out money to continue to talk to them. Do not fall for the things that I fell for like a child being sick or a sick relative. Do not fall for the things that I fell for in sending money for food every two weeks. Do not fall for the things that I fell for in sending money to fix their business transportation.

Christopher N, from 2009 till about 2014 I have sent these women over $10,000 all added up. And I have not received a wife or a happy life. All I received was bitterness from myself and " I told you so's" and pitty from friends and family... and it always always always always always always always starts with a sad story from them about their needing food or medical or something has happened. I could never even enjoy the relationships because I knew in the next few days or week they would need something Financial. DO NOT FEEL BAD. Because that person does not feel bad about fooling you and using you out of your money by promising you a happy life or the security of a good woman.

I'm going to ask you again Christopher. Please do not feel bad. And I want you to be happy that you did not get in as deep as I did and lost many thousands.

You now have experience with what to look for. Because it always starts this way-always. It is like they coach each other on what to do because they use the same tactics. I wish you good luck in finding someone authentic and real.
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Having joined Phillipino Cupid and searched Pino Love and Christian Phillipino., I must say that there are possibilities but it is important that you practice using the websites and gain some understanding of their limitations before you sign up and if you do sign up only do it for 1 month and do not pay by credit card pay by bank transfer. There is still an awful lot of work to do researching and learning to seperate the good from the bad. Photographs from over 10 years or more are often used, nevermind the dreadful selfies that distort a pretty face. For those men that are after a relationship as opposed a hookups, the big question is can they speak English fluently? There a lot of scammers and the websites dont seem to remove them. To prevent wasting a lot of time I suggest the following
1/. Only review profiles with more than 2 photographs. 2/. Ignore profiles with no descriptions as this helps identifying English ability and reducing some fake profiles. 3/. Do not send interest or likes only send messages as this eliminates more scammers. 4/. Get your lady on video cam asap to see if they are real, be very polite about this as many women have been pressured for webcam sex and may think that this is what you want!
5/. Any request for money help etc dump her immediately unless it is a very very small amount for phone or internet. If you do your research and engage your critical thinking I think it may well be worth it but remember that even after you pay your membership that is only the start of the process, you still have to do a lot of work. Regarding the 3 dating sites that I have mentioned I feel that Christian Phillipino maybe the best as it seems to have less scammers on it but it is a lot more expensive. I suppose that it is the old adage "you get what you for". Anyway goodluck and bear in mind that many other seemingly independant reviews are actually being paid if you click on their referal link. Regarding this I do not receive any benefit for this review. Chas A

I met a girl off Filipino Cupid, she told me all the right things to make me marry her, pretended to be religious but sexy, loving and adventurous. All that changed once she got to my country. She never wanted to do anything and insisted we live at my pensioner mothers house to save money "for our future. Soon she was working away 75% of the time and my ability to argue for moving out was even weaker. I became depressed and fell into substance abuse to fill the void where my marriage was supposed to be. I asked her for help but she just threatened to leave.

Of course, she never did-until she received her permenant residency in Australia. She left me and tried to steal all our assets. It took me over 10 months to get my rightful share back and in that time I suffered multiple nervous breakdowns.

This person who was supposed to be my wife showed no sympathy. Dropped all her responsibilities now that she found a way to pass as an electrical engineer despite only having a control systems degree from a third world country. She is unable to apply for jobs with the larger mining firms so weasels her way into subcontractors instead.

I was able to get the support I needed and have been clean and sober since 2 weeks after she left. I was never bad to her, I cooked for her and worked hard to build a life for her here. But she had other plans.

Please be careful on that website. Families of the girls on there encourage them to hook up with foreigners in the hopes of leeching off the good will of lonely people. They are shameless. This person also goes by the names Cindy Salva and Cinderella Salva and Cindy Vandenbeld.

Here are the scams, and they all follow the same script:

Girl wants your email to send you pictures- They are trying to sign up for another dating or messaging site which is very expensive and they get a kickback for every sign up.

Girl want to come visit not knowing it is impossible to get a visitor visa to USA. She has a relative who works in immigration or family member or friend who was able to get a Visa using a Specific travel agent. Rip off facilitated by fake travel website- use Who is and website is in Nigeria but looks very real. This is big M. O. of girls who claim they are in China working as Nanny and are Filipino. Always in the 30 to 40 age range, and are real girls, but they are in the ripoff business.

Woman who are from China and usually in the age of 45 to 65. They will spend a lot of time messaging you and rambling on excessively about love, marriage, and relationship. Their profiles usually present that they are very financially secure (lets them get you to put down your guard). Their ramblings are very non specific to what you are talking about, and I believe they just cut and paste these. They will spend a lot of time messaging you. They will finally tell you they want you to sign up for a website that will help them with the translation of your conversation. Crazy expensive dating site, that they will get a kickback from for guys they sign up. They will also ask you for your complete name so they can claim their kickback in case you fall for the signup scam.

I would say most girls on these sites are scammers. Tell them they have to pay for their own travel and you will reimburse them when they arrive, and they will disappear. Don't send money for any reason- you will lose it no matter how real they seem..

Most of the Filipinas on this site will not only start asking you for money, they will keep asking you for money. Don't bother with it.