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Wisconsin
2 reviews
13 helpful votes
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I called a tv station to expose this site but no response. So here I am I found 54 identical profiles. I get site generated flirts the profiles say they did not send all the time. I posted it on my profile all 54 profiles and poof my profile got completely erased! There is no way to contact them. I canceled right away we'll see if they stop billing me. From what I see here that is going to be a problem. Let alone trying to get a refund. Bad site. Rip off

Have to face it at my age they are like parking places all the good ones are taken and the rest are handicapped.
UPDATE I contacted the BBB and They have to respond by the 14th.
The BBB said they did not reply to the complaint of coarse. So now it goes against them with the BBB.
The company is crap just a big rip off.

Date of experience: March 12, 2016
Washington
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Big let down. Dont bother!
February 10, 2023

Im an active member of this site who is actively looking for someone to seriously date. Signed up on 2/1/2023. Today is 2/10/2023. I Was given an introductory price of 19.33 - half off the regular price - for a one month membership, which is the only reason I signed up.

Dont waste your time with this site, however. Since im actually out there looking for a match, my strategy is to write messages to any woman whom I find attractive who ALSO fits the bill in her profile description. That said, I have LITERALLY messaged maybe 150 women over the last three weeks, If not more, just seeing who responds and hoping for the best. Some messages are a quick introduction of myself. Some are quite long depending on what they have to say in their profile. Here's some take aways:

1. Ive heard back from only 4 of the 150 women Ive written.
2. Ive gotten only one like the entire three weeks ive been a member. Perhaps im just ugly...?
3. The site claims to give an indicator flag that is visible when someone has read a message. I dont see an icon from anyone, whether they responded or not. Theres no way to tell if anyone is even getting these messages.
4. There's also no way to tell how long someone has been a member or when was the last time they were logged in.
5. SO... All that being said, im beginning to honestly wonder if the vast majority of "profiles" are fake or just plain so old that they're no longer active. There's no way to know if the person you're writing to is even still alive! Either way, the results have been 100 percent disappointing. Enter at your own risk.

Date of experience: February 10, 2023
GB
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Call me naive, but I could not image such a scamming waste of my time and my money. Every morning carfeully reading profiles put forward as ''matches'' only to find scamming profiles supported by an organisation that uses algorythms to fleece us ''senior'' folk that should be old enough to know better.
Many hours spent writing (I thought!) to ''matches'' that never respond.
Dreadful BS that get even worst - twice I thought I had unsubscribed only to find that somehow my ''membership'' had been reactivated. I have now deleted my profile (I hope!)

Date of experience: June 18, 2022
Texas
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Can you hear me now?
March 29, 2023

I have been a customer since last September. I cannot log on because the verification puzzle times out on time. I have tried 23 times and the people at Out Time make it impossible to call someone on the phone. Their toll-free line is NOT connected right now.

I have also used other sites and this one is the poorest so far because of (THE LACK OF)customer service. Williamc Dallas TX

There is no way to contact these people at Our Time

Date of experience: March 29, 2023
Washington
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Rip Off!
December 21, 2021

Glitchy site, not user friendly, I have my pic posted but some people saying I don't have a pic, no way to make it seen. I get flirts from people that never sent one wasting my time. I paid for basic membership & it's not worth even $1. PASS ON THIS ONE!

Date of experience: December 21, 2021
Maryland
10 reviews
59 helpful votes
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Spammers and scammers
October 7, 2021
Updated review

Update to my last review, after, over 800 messages sent out only got 16 "responses", 11 were definite spammers/scammers. AVOID O. T. and any site part of their SCAM. Maybe one day enough "Customers" will file a Class action lawsuit against these scam,"Dating" sites

Date of experience: October 7, 2021

Worse site out there
September 28, 2021
Previous review

Sent out over 280 messages. Received 14 responses, of those 14,10 were spammers with phoney profiles. Contacted O. T. and reported them, nothing happened.The other 4 were scammers, wanting money.One of them wanted me to send her $50,000 to complete a project? Didnt start asking until "texting for 10 days. Asked numerous tomes for a phone number to "talk", she said her phone was screwed up, will enclose a photo of this scammer.So, if you find her on O. T.,,,,,,, Avoid her like the plague. Here is another scammer on O. T. she calls herself,"Liz" she needs help getting a replacement phone

Date of experience: September 28, 2021
New Jersey
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Bad dating site
July 12, 2023

Customer service is useless
i contacted them 3x to try and rest my password with no help
They then flagged me as a fraudulent user without giving me a reason
I only found out about it because this girl i was seeing forwarded the email she got
Then they keep peoples profiles on there who are obviously no longer active because they dont respond to your messages or likes
Avoid this site at all costs

Date of experience: July 12, 2023
New Jersey
3 reviews
36 helpful votes
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Some comments unfair
February 8, 2016

After reading some of the reviews for OurTime I had to add one, as I think they are a bit harsh. Sure, there are better sites (obviously PrimeTimeLove springs to mind along with one or two others) but generally OT is fine and no where near as bad as some are making out.

Date of experience: February 8, 2016
Arizona
3 reviews
14 helpful votes
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Exploits the elderly
November 25, 2023

I helped my 74 year old grandfather who is a widower and looking for a companion get set up on his site. I took pics for him, filled out the profile and questions with him, got him a login, verified the account with him, and showed him how it worked. All pics were blurred out and you have to pay to see who liked your profile. I paid almost $80 for a 3 month subscription so he could use these features. Again, showed him how to use it and let him loose. Within 5 minutes of him using the app while next to me, his account was logged out and blocked. I contacted customer support- no phone number is available. The response I received via email was that there was a violation in the pages long terms and use agreement. Nowhere in there do I see where he would have violated this agreement within 5 minutes of use. I asked for a reason and the response was they cannot provide more information on what was violated, even in regards to your own account. I met my husband on a dating site and it took a lot to get my grandpa to put himself out here, so it's so disappointing that this was his first experience. This site and app preys on the vulnerable elderly population and is a scam.

Date of experience: November 25, 2023
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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OurTime is a Scam
October 23, 2021

OurTime dating site is ran by dishonest scamming operator(s). I just paid fir a membership and supposedly those messages are coming from profiles, but they enter the messages automatically to send to you and they are all the sane messages.

I can't get into my account when I just paid. There's no automatic changing of password in case you forgot a password. You have to contact them. I want to take down my pictures and I tried contacting them, and no response regarding how I could retrieve my profile so u can take down my pictures.

OURTIME IS A SCAM. DO NOT USE THE SITE.

Date of experience: October 23, 2021

Overview

OurTime has a rating of 1.5 stars from 432 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 52nd among Senior Dating sites.

service
112
value
124
shipping
31
returns
42
quality
103