This site has got to be a scam! I signed up, had a couple guys IM me, and a couple click pics. NOTHING in 5 days. Worst online dating experience ever. I guess they think if you're over 50 you're stupid... grrrr! But the worst of all, I had my credit card accessed 3 times! Supposed to be $80 US for 6 months, first they charged $115CDN, 5 days later $113 CDN, 2 days later they credited me $108? WOW! I called, got a connection that keep fading in and out with the excuse of 'it's raining hard here'. Yes they will credit me, but can't guarantee it will be the $126CDN they still have. PLUS they have my cc#! DO NOT
So sorry I signed up with this site. And this is only after 5 days. Thank goodness I only paid for one month.
Each time I uploaded a photo and it got approved and placed in my profile, it would DISAPPEAR the very next day. I did this TWICE in 4 days.
And... As a joke I guess, they alerted me that I had messages. When I clicked to read them, there were NONE to be read?
I wouldn't give this site another chance if it were totally free.
Terrible site. When you go to a person you want to message. You get a bunch of windows open. You get a message that someone is interested in you or messaged you or flirted with you. When you open that window, you get "no new messages". Don't waste your money. Big big ripoff. Someone should class action sue this site. Luckily I only paid for one month.
Site is a scam does not let messages connect to other patrons. Blocks messags and tampers with profiles. Has not let any messages with anyone for a week. Contacted customer service several times and no response or anything done. Nobody seems to want to make this site work. Very unreliable very misinformed most definitely is a scam.
Cant log in after paying for a membership. Can't get help. Can't get it fixed. They want to send me to a 3rd party site to PAY for help. Very frustrating. They send me emails and questionnaires about how they did, but won't respond to my comments and pleas. Useless.
Complete and utter waste of time for anybody who is looking for a real relationship, 95% of the people are not real and those who do respond are Scammers! Do not waste your time, money or effot on this web site.
It only took 12 hours to discover this site is horrible, No live customer support. The FAQ page DOES NOT include a link to search for answers to simple questions. I.e. Why does the program inform me that a 4 digit code was sent to my phone when it wasn't? These people are scammers and would like for it's customers to be weary of scammers, but they are the real scammers here. DO NOT, repeat DO NOT throw your money away on this site. THIEVES and they hide behind the technology wall of anominitey!
I was excited about the prospect of joining a dating site geared toward my generation (I am in my early 60's). I thought the men would be more forthcoming and transparent; as we age we learn and show up as we truly are sharing what we can offer in a partnership.
My experience on this site:
**Many fake profiles and scammers. People with multiple profiles; using different names. I uncovered a couple of these right before my eyes!
**Many non-paying members so you cannot get a response unless YOU pay more to allow them to respond.
**Many men who will simply like you based on your photo, and not take the time to read whether or not there is any compatibility.
**Many men in their 60's who have never been married. I'm sorry, but what?! LOL.
**The matches showing up as matches recommended for me do not meet my dating criteria AT ALL.
**I tried contacting customer service and their e-mail is auto-generated (including their responses based on key words used your e-mail outreach). In other words, you are not interacting with a live representative, ever! I know this as in my auto-mated e-mail exchange, it actually took me back to the VERY first response I got from them. We went full circle.
I wanted my money back within the first 2 weeks. Only, there was no way to get your money back.
I'm approaching my 3 months on the site. Nothing came out of it at all. I had more luck in the past on Match.Com (which isn't saying a lot...).
This site sends random multiple flirts to your profile professing to come from people who like your site. Rarely does your "interested" flirt return your message.
Occasionally the profile pic looks 40yrs younger than they claim to be( see attached picture).
Another example: After only two days aquaintance, Annie from Galveston, TX tells me she will be moving to TEXAS soon and wants to know if she can stay with me for free! Really!?! RED FLAG!
These people are preying on senior's loneliness. Please save your money!
I am returning to old-school techniques for meeting new people. I may still get scammed by an insincere lady, but atleast it won't be a computer assaulting me with random false profiles!
After several months i needed a verification code to log on. Never asked for it. Don't answer their phone. Wanted it removed and they did nothing, just lip service. Terrible site.
Answer: Not sure what you mean by the shaded areas. But never mind, I agree with Alex H, don't get involved with them, they are just after your money. The reply rate is extremely low and the site is full of fake profiles. You will just lose your time with it ( like I did and I regret it). It's important to find a legit site, the site that should suit you best and I found mine: https://j4l.com/402007 It's 100% legit and valid and they don't resort to bots and fakes. I met my girlfriend through them so I know it's a working site!
Answer: They are charging me and I cannot get on this site, I want a refund as I have not been able to use this site,
OurTime has a rating of 1.5 stars from 432 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 52nd among Senior Dating sites.