PositiveSingles

If you're a jungle bunny you're gonna LOVE this site!

Free to join, just go look through the blogs to see what sort of discussions are to be had. That's your primary way of getting to know others on the site and as mentioned, it's filled with (mostly) one demographic - African Americans, who all seem to be caught up in complaining about the opposite sex - women complain about the men being players and nothing more, men complaining about their baby mamas or women who didn't reply back to them. All democrats, even the whites, who mostly use the blogs as a conduit to complain about Trump and hating America. Very alienating experience if you're not black and/or not caught up in US politics.

There is NO intelligent discussion to be found anywhere on those blogs - or on that site - for the matter. My experience on there reminded me of watching violent chimpanzees in an enclosed area.

I'd like to add that the app is not Chinese owned as some other contributors here have claimed. It's owned by a company based out of Ontario, Canada called Successfulmatch inc. who owns and runs several other dating sites that are predatory in nature. They own both of the largest herpes dating sites (PS and MPWH) as well as other 'kink' sites like olderwomendating.com and seniormatch.com which I assume aims to prey on older women looking for love? You need to PAY to message other users on all of these sites.

There is a special place in hell that's been reserved for the people who run and operate these websites.

Do NOT go to Positive Singles or MPWH if you're sad or feeling insecure. The experience leaves much to be desired and may cause you to fall into deeper despair.

I have been a user for over a year now, and have used both free and premium versions. Although there are plenty of legitimate people on the application and I have met with users in person, it is VERY heavily monetized. The app is basically useless unless you shell out $33.99/mo. In my experience, you are unable to message and chat with a match unless *both* of you have premium. This is very frustrating, to say the least. The app will try to mislead you and at the very last second request a credit card swipe. Furthermore, the app seems totally unmoderated. Chatrooms are filled with so much hate speech and vulgar insults that it is reminiscent of 4chan. Some users in those chatrooms even openly promote pederasty. I am a male, and have not received any negative attention on my profile. However, many of the women I match with have their photos and profile flooded with vile and degrading comments that all users can see. Although I still have the free version of the app installed in the hopes it will change, it seems to be on a downward trend playing host to trolls, bigots, pedophiles, misogynists, and pretty much anything else you can imagine. Some moderation from the dev team would do a lot to help clean up the app.

One of the worse dating sites out there. The women are not very attractive and they act like snobs. Also, they are all covered in tattoos and live far away. This site is a waste of time.

This app is garbage. Unless you pay $34 a month, anyone can message you from anywhere in the world constantly so my DM's are overwhelmed with people I have no interest in. If you don't pay for premium, you can't talk to any other members who aren't premium either. You also can't add any info to your bio such as Snapchat to help someone contact you if you aren't premium. This just feels like a kick when you're already down. This app is clearly profiting off of manipulating a vulnerable group of people and it's $#*!ed up. Not worth it, even the free version.

I belive this site is run by a bunch of racists. I created an account some time ago that got suspended after providing the information they requested. Only to hear that they do not provide service in my country despite having it listed there. Please be careful when sending these people your IDs.

I've had an account on this site for years (probably 10 or more?) that I didn't interact with much. A subscription seemed pretty pricey and a lot of time on the site I wasn't even living in the US. I had noticed a couple notifications that I had traffic on my profile so I tried to sign in only to to find myself suspended. I have not even contacted anyone on this site in years, and hadn't been on the site weeks if not months. Funny that one day they are trying to lure me to the site with activity and the literally next day I'm suspended. I contacted them and they want a picture of photo ID with only my license number blacked out. I emailed back asking for a reason for the suspension as I didn't want to provide my ID without knowing there was a chance I could be unsuspended. I do use a VPN and sometimes it connects to some random wacky countries, so if it was as simple as you signed on from another country I don't see why they can't tell me that and we can resolve an issue like that.

But they emailed back stating they can't tell me why and assuring me my data will stay confidential. To which I said no thanks, you can't actually guarantee that, you could have a bad apple employee or be victim of a hack. That is not really a site I want my association with leaked.

So one star - in part because of the above, and in part because this site has always felt like a bit of a cash grab trying to exploit the situation the members find themselves in.

There are a lot of old/inactive profiles...slim pickings. When ever my subscriptions ends and I do not renew, I suddenly have a slew of views/likes (which I cannot see unless I pay), likes from profiles that are suddenly hidden, and several messages. Where were these individuals when I was a premium member. I think its a ploy of Positive Singles to pull you back in as a paying member so you can see who views or likes you.

Updated: Regarding response from PS Rep: "Additionally, as a premium member, certain features are available exclusively during your subscription period which could contribute towards an increased visibility of these activities afterward." Naw, uht un. Increased visibility afterwards...every time I did not renew...Case in point, My point exactly!

I'm not sure if I just fluked it, but this site saved me from all those others!
I joined PS in Sept 2022 after a brief time on Tinder and being too afraid of telling potential partners about HSV. I had a few messages straight away but one that I particularly liked. We cut the usual never ending messaging short, spoke on the phone easily for over an hour and organised a date the following week. We hit it off instantly.
He proposed on our 1 year anniversary! So for me, this site was great otherwise we would never have met!

I have been using positivesingles for two years. Fortunately, I have found the relationship I want. He is very humorous, optimistic and positive, and has always encouraged me to face life correctly. After knowing each other for 3 months, we finally Became lovers.

I am positive for HSV-2. So I'm not even interested in disclosing to a couple at this time! So for now I get the opportunity to play alone so I headed out to positive singles…. Met myself a sexy 22 yr old and I am 31 it was excuse me language $#*!ing awesome! It was so nice during our down time to also be able to talk about herpes together and the struggles we've both had! Before I was married I also met about 3 men off of there! So overall just sharing my good experiences with the site!

You'll get as far as a message, and maybe even a text message to your phone but that's it. There were at least three times I got a message on the website, initial "hello nice to meet you" text message before the conversation abruptly ended. There are several fake accounts on this website which seem to be run by the owners/management to artificially inflate the number of members on the website/keep you renewing your subscription. And they make sure you don't post such information on your profile page. VERY SHADY.

It's right one for herpes positive singles. If everyone answers quite a few questions you get a good feel for the other person. And there are some type of verification process to avoid a bunch of fake profiles on here. I've used many other dating apps before, and the VIP price of this herpes dating app is reasonable and a little bit lower than others.

I have paid for a premium membership but cannot use the service. Most of the day, when I try and log on it won't connect. There's a window in the mid morning and late evening when I can get on. The rest of the time I reckon their server is overloaded. I have tried from multiple devices, and on wifi and data and it doesn't make any difference. I contacted PS customers services explaining the issue in full and attaching screenshots. They replied ' we can see you have logged on'. That was it! There's someone I want to give my phone number to on the site, but after that I will be cancelling my account. Shabby

I just created a profile today. Being a single mom who has HVS is hard and being rejected is harder so I thought let's try it. Had appropriate picture of me.and filled out my normal stuff and then out of nowhere I'm logged out and was said to verify which I did and then get told it's suspended so I emailed to which I was told my account was deactivated and if i wanted to I could appeal. Sad to because it was nice talking to some great people

This site is atrocious. From my experience, most of my encounters were with low class people who are extremely vulgar, practice bullying, especially in the public chat, brag about masturbation, sexual conquests, hunting "pu**y", an*l sex and so many offensive topics it's downright horrifying. The Nigerian scammers have got a pretty good grip on it too. There seems to be no safeguards in place. Do not waste your money.

One gets a lot of interest in their profile until the membership is upgraded and these "people" who winked at you never reply back. It is a common complaint in the blogs. I would suspect that the recent 5 star reviews are fake as well.

Have been on here for a year, paying user, most people will not ever reply, very rarely somebody does, and then 100% of those people "disappear". They have fake accounts to bait you to pay so you can message them.

I signed up for MPWH and Positivesingles, put all my photos and details in both sites. Next day i could not login, my account was suspended. Now i cant go in an delete anything. Send emails to support no response. Big mistake, i should not have put my photos in. Stay away from this site, its a con.

The customer service / "Positive Singles Team" are a bunch of (? 8#$... I received a warning that my membership would be revoked because I asked another unpaid member if they wanted to chat using a different app/website. I've since closed my account as I'd prefer not to give my money to a bunch of greedy/ignorant ####$

I used this site for a couple of years, and then out of the blue, they say I have violated the terms of use. Well I had not, and when asked they gave no answer about what I had done. I protested, they said well send a copy of your drivers license and we will reinstate you. I sent it, was back on, and a few days later, suspended again. Numerous emails and calls to customer service were ignored. Still suspended. I would give zero stars if I could.

I've foolishly tried these charlatans three separate times over a 5 year span and it is a complete and utter con. They take advantage of earnest people's desire to not be lonely by basically forcing you to become a member if you want to have any real results. There's the rub. After increments of one month, two months and 5 months, no hits. Once I canceled my membership I received hits instantly: every time. This obvious ploy to retain your money is so greedy and blatantly clear its shameful. There is a reason these people were sued in a class action lawsuit. Save your money and date normally and just tell them or, $#*! it, spread the love. We desire to not be lonely and these parasites are taking advantage of us. Please don't be a three-peat idiot like me. Also, the same company owns all the top three std/herpes dating sites. It's the biggest clandestine rip off going.

I have been using PositiveSingles for almost six months and met a few interesting people on here. Can't really understand why everyone is throwing s#$' at this site. In my opinion one of the best sites along with HIVdating4u. Sometimes you need to have a little patience. Just my two cents.

The amount of restrictions on that site is honestly ridiculous. Not only can you not message people, but your profile changes are heavily moderated and censored; and even your username!
I wholeheartedly recommend Tingler to anyone considering using PS, because it's clearly designed in a way to not exploit a vulnerable community just looking to find love. None of those restrictions apply.