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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Positive reviews (last 12 months): 66.7%
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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user lorenc35
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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December 16th, 2019

Had a very pleasant interaction with Kira from the secretbenefits customer service today. Her response was quick, thoughtful, and professional. Idk, guess it really stands out to me when the customer service from sites like this one really take the time and training of their staff to convey that they really care. Makes me feel like I'm in good hands.

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That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with our Customer Service. They'll be happy to hear the compliments.

Thumbnail of user finaa2
Illinois
1 review
1 helpful vote
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October 13th, 2020

Met Marc on SB last year. He's everything and more for me. He asked me to marry him this weekend, and I said YES! Head over heels happy! A miilion thank you's to SB for helping bring Marc and I together!

Thumbnail of user rosef453
Oregon
1 review
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May 17th, 2023

I use secret benefits for free so only can speak from my perspective as I know dudes pay but I am on the site every day and I'm having good fun meeting successful and nice guys in my area so I would tell others that this site is worth trying out.

Tip for consumers:
Just take your time getting to know someone and use common sense

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Thumbnail of user susand600
Georgia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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August 26th, 2019

This is a site that lets you meet rich guys. There are guys who say they are rich but they aren't but I am pretty good at sniffing those ones out. My favorite thing to do is meet the travelling guys. They let you call the shots and take you out to all the places you always wanted to go to.

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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with SecretBenefits. I'm glad you've enjoyed yourself and hope you continue to do so.

Thumbnail of user kevinh571
Canada
1 review
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October 6th, 2019

Cmon guys really?
Every email says the girl viewed my profile then sent me a message. So EVERY girl who views my profile sends me a message and none responds back? Really?
Ima sucker guys dont get fooled this company has every appearance of not being honest.

This review is my opinion based on real transactions that I did with this company, Secret Benefits. It is my intention to give an honest review in contrast with this companies business model.

To secret benefits... I will not apologize for being honest. You have no business taking someones money based on lies.
I am happy to hear this review is negatively impacting your business and I hope it encourages you to make more honest policy changes to legitimize your business model. It is a good idea but dishonesty ruins it. Show some respect for your clients.

Finally stop complaining about this review and start figuring out how to not take what you haven't legitimately earned.

Thumbnail of user jordand366
Australia
5 reviews
16 helpful votes
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April 18th, 2023

I used hundreds of credits that had had to be purchased messaging women. I WAS NOT ABLE TO MEET ANY OF THEM. Messages conversations would look very promising and get to the point of arranging to meet up or giving them my phone number. Then they would stop responding! EVERY single one of them. Not only did I waste my money on credits It wasted plenty of my valuable time. The people who set up these types of sites are absolute scum.

Tip for consumers:
dont get sucked in by the attractive profiles and waste your money

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Thumbnail of user raina
Georgia
1 review
8 helpful votes
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July 23rd, 2019

This site looks like a complete Fake. Seems like it exist only to get you to scribe and waste your credits. Don't waste your Money on this site.

Update (July 30th 2019) - The customer service of this site is actually great. I was really surprised that they not only refund my money for the credits I bought but they also give me much more credits for site to come back. This site is NOT a scam site. This is actually real site trying to get into this type of dating. This site trying to get launch, getting for men's and women's' into the site. They are not here to scam you. They are trying to get into business. I had upgrade them from one star to 2 star review. Still new, still not great, but they are trying and they have potential to be a good site.

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Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I'm sorry you haven't loved SecretBenefits but I'm glad you are continuing to give it a chance and hope you'll have more success in the near future.

Thumbnail of user bergiee
Illinois
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 17th, 2019

"First off, (ahem, revealer), I'm sure I'm not as young as some other women on the site, so I may not be your typical gal here. Although I feel good, I think I look good, and no guys have complained yet, hahaha. My last date was about a week ago. He was like 12 years older than me. One of those that just did not vibe from the start (I actually made up an excuse that I didn't feel good and left). That was my first and only bad date from this site, so I think they are deserving of some recognition for that.
I'm actually doing a better job lately in vetting out the guys that aren't for me. My goal here is to find a life partner that can support and will hopefully give me a great reason to quit my 9 to 5. I feel like this site will give me the best chance to find such a partner so I'm keeping my hopes up high. I would recommend this site to others, but I don't want the competition lol!"

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I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site and thanks for taking the time to share your experience.

Thumbnail of user lenniej10
New York
6 reviews
0 helpful votes
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February 18th, 2021
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I'd never heard of SecretBenefits but I came across it while Googling and I've been presently surprised. I'm not the best looking guy although I do take care of myself but the girls I've met here seemed to really dig my vibe. I'm happy to have found a place where I can find girls who are into me even if I don't expect to find my soulmate.

Thumbnail of user danielh2236
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 1st, 2022

Columbian Mexican flakey girl but knows how to put the charm on. Take it for what it is, if she wanted you 100% that'd be a red flag. Enjoy the girl you like and let them live their life unless you're ready to be their sole caretaker til they find deeper pockets. You can meet genuine women but alot of your outcome deals with what you're bringing to the table. I mightve spent 1500 over a year and hung out about 10x. Tons of intimate pics and pleasantries thats been fine for me since women are not the focus of a productive life to me, theyre an adornment of your good life and who knows maybe you'll meet an untainted feminine woman to make a wife and mother of your kids.

Tip for consumers:
Be weary of reading messages from people you haven't vetted. The girl I met wanted to use whatsapp almost right away...I thought that meant scam immediately but she was real and wanted to get more personal. Another one that gave me.her # wanted 1000per date , be weary. No woman is worth that unless you know her very well.

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Thumbnail of user johns3291
Texas
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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October 12th, 2018
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I've learned not to have big expectations, but I was bummed when I went on secretbenefits.com to find a sugar baby, and I didn't find any of the women in my town to be very attractive. I looked outside my area in a couple of the larger cities that were closest to me and there is a handful of women that looked interesting. Might give it a try if I feel like traveling, but not very convenient for a guy as busy as I am.

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Thumbnail of user tf458
Florida
1 review
7 helpful votes
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August 11th, 2022

I have used SA for years. It is not a perfect site. Especially with the changes they have done over the years and gradual monthly price increase. $99 a month most recently. So I decided to try SB and I must say it is a GALACTIC rip off for the money. The credits and "a la cart" menu, in combination with OLD outdated profiles, BOTS literally scamming you into starting to dialogue to a fake profile is CRIMINAL and fraudulent in my eyes. Its nearly $6 a conversation with a bot. Beware. Your odds are EXTREMELY stacked. Have much better odds in Vegas that running into a legit profile.

Tip for consumers:
Monitor the site for a few days before you purchase. That way you can take note and help filter out the fake, obvious, bot profiles. The legitimate profiles usually stay in for a week before they realize the garbage it is.

* Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond

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Thumbnail of user squiroza7
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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December 13th, 2023

I Can appreciate that SB has grown and now has many more profiles within my area.
I have come back to the site, and finally meeting up for real dates.

Tip for consumers:
More luck with new and updated profiles

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Thumbnail of user lisab910
Illinois
1 review
4 helpful votes
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July 28th, 2019

I have been on this site for 2months and have gotten 2 admirers but the 1st one wanted a threesome and 2nd.one, we talked back and forth for 2days and he wanted a topless picture of my boobs and i haven't heard from him since. But other than that. Nothing! Haven't had any real dates

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I'm sorry to hear that. We have tried to reach out to you to offer some assistance but you haven't answered our messages. Please do check your inbox if you are interested in giving the site another chance.

Thumbnail of user nucleusa
Arizona
1 review
5 helpful votes
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July 2nd, 2019

I'm a man, 40s. The website has weak support services. I tried to message them to buy credits for more than a week in vain. You can't buy credits except for bitcoins and through their support system. Without credits, you do nothing as a man. I don't think a dating site with weak support to be a safe place for people. You can get a problem without any response from their side. This is riskful. I don't advise people to go there.

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Sorry you had problems making a purchase. Customer support has contacted you in order to resolve the problem.

Thumbnail of user laurentp23
Texas
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
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March 28th, 2023
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You will only have 1 way conversations with bots. It is a pure scam. If you find the one human on that site you just found the 1 needle hidden in a huge pile of hay. Stay away and save your money.

Tip for consumers:
Just stay away from that scam of a website.

* Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond

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Thumbnail of user connorc20
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 1st, 2018

Personally, I didnt think sugar dating would work for me. Im in my 50s, and not a George Clooney nor a Daddy Warbucks, but after trying this site out my view on this has completely changed. Amazing women that were open and felt genuine. Im just dating for fun when I have the time, but I have my eye on a couple of special ones. Good on you Secret Benefits!

Thumbnail of user cyrilp11
Texas
1 review
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February 18th, 2021

Been really pleased with this website, met some hotties, some uglies and some fatties and I love them all the same! I find it easy enough to avoid time wasters and the girls that just want you to tell them how sexy they are and beg them for a bit of steamy action, I can usually figure them out fast and move on to a girl that's actually game. And when you meet up with one of them in the flesh it's a pretty ace feeling as all the hard work pays off. Some of the girls thoughI thought I was a horny b*stard but they put me to shame!

Thumbnail of user glennar28
India
3 reviews
0 helpful votes
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November 23rd, 2018

Don't always trust your bff's judgment on everything. She told me about secretbenefits.com after I broke up with my boyfriend. I checked it out cuz I was curious if it was a hook up kind of site. I really didn't understand it was an actual mutual arrangement with a sugar daddy type of dating. I don't know what she was thinking.

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Sorry Secret Benefits wasn't for you but thanks for sharing your opinion. There are all sorts of people on the site looking for all types of relationships so perhaps you just haven't found your ideal date yet.

Thumbnail of user vanessaa45
India
3 reviews
2 helpful votes
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February 18th, 2021

Don't always trust your bff's judgment on everything. She told me about secretbenefits.com after I broke up with my boyfriend. I checked it out cuz I was curious if it was a hook up kind of site. I really didn't understand it was an actual mutual arrangement with a sugar daddy type of dating. I don't know what she was thinking.

Thumbnail of user maryt386
India
1 review
0 helpful votes
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February 18th, 2021
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Don't always trust your bff's judgment on everything. She told me about secretbenefits.com after I broke up with my boyfriend. I checked it out cuz I was curious if it was a hook up kind of site. I really didn't understand it was an actual mutual arrangement with a sugar daddy type of dating. I don't know what she was thinking.

Thumbnail of user elizabeths572
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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May 26th, 2019

In general this is a good site to meet successful guys on. I felt kind of strange doing the verification video but it really did help me get more responses. I've been out on a few dates so far.

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I'm glad to hear you've had good luck finding the types of guys you are interested in. I'm also glad to hear you did the verification video and that it helped increase your responses.

Thumbnail of user alicen17
California
6 reviews
11 helpful votes
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November 13th, 2020

Wow, nice to meet guys for nsa hookup. All things are secret, that is crazy. Not like other dating apps, you need to avoid the offender or sexual assault.

Thumbnail of user joei250
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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March 12th, 2021

Ok, well, I tried to do SB one by sharing my good experience using their website. I recommend men focus on the realistic women and you're more likely to have success.

Tip for consumers:
Free to start an account and search around to see if someone suits your fancy

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Thumbnail of user janed530
California
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2 helpful votes
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June 6th, 2019

Kind of a slow start since joining. After some trial and error, I've learned it's best to ask for a 'chemistry meeting' in a safe place in public. I usually suggest meeting at a cafe or nearby park to get a feel for each other. Just don't be too surprised if they sometimes want to call the shots as to where as long as it's in an area where other people are around. Better safe than sorry. Didn't have an issue myself but you never know. I feel for me that a big tip for success is to show up looking my best. Like make an effort to look good (not too much fragrance unless you know what he likes), wear something appropriate for the time and place but not too revealing. Just keep it classy, you know? Turn on the charm, and play it cool along his energy lines so he feels comfortable and wants to see me again. Usually after that he should be hooked and up to meeting again. Plenty of men on the site, at least in my area, so don't get put out if things don't start happening for you right away. Took me a few weeks to get my first real date but things have really picked up for me since then and I have no problem finding dates when I'm in the mood now.

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Thanks for taking the time to submit a review and for sharing the great advice.

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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