Secret Benefits

Not enough women in my area. I don't live in a big town, but I was expecting more women to choose from.

Scam site... Get messages so you have to use credits, then never get replies back. I think the fake profiles get credits for there messages

I've been enjoying SecretBenefits, I'm currently chatting with 3 girls who are out of my league and hope to meet up with them on my next trip.

The team contacted me and resolved the credit buy issue and I was also compensated. Kudos to the team.

Joined Secret Benefits based on other reviews.
I confirm it is a good one unless you are after random hookup or marriage material.

I just closed my account on secretbenefits. After 6 months on the site and staying on point, I finally met an amazing woman. Many thanks!

Fantastic option for those looking to arrange an agreeable relationship without the drama or expectations of something more taraditional.

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I HAD WASTED SO MUCH TIME AND MONEY ON OTHER DATING SITES. SECRET BENEFITS HAS ATTRACTED SERIOUS SINGLES AND IT'S A FABULOUS WEBSITE.

I'll admit it can be a bit of a crap shoot, but c'mon guys, so are the regular escort sites. The difference is that if you happen to luck out, which I did (beginner's luck possibly), you can score really big. I'm going to shill for the site, even though they aren't paying me, which they should, in all fairness, for what I'm going to say, because even they have not yet thought to pitch their service in quite that way. So here goes:
1. I really don't think they're lying or bull$#*!ting - I got laid with benefits, man, by a cute, basically reserved, college student

2. The service is a cross between regular impersonal escort sites and those highly frustrating dating sites where you end up begging and pleading for a little bit of a**, and going round-and-round with this
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3. To the guys who don't get callbacks after spending credits (I'm one of them too), that's where the "crap shoot" aspect of the service comes in - making it similar to regular dating sites with one big difference, your odds of scoring big w/o strings attached are almost infinitely better

4. Don't blame SB if you don't get callbacks - it's like a lottery - you keep buying lottery tickets, don't you, even though you keep getting stiffed. As they say in that business, YOU NEVER KNOW.

5. For guys whose basic interest is getting laid in a meaningful way by desirable females, It might help to think of the service as a SEXUAL LOTTERY, where "you pays you money and you takes you chances/choices". Boo hoo to those crybabies expecting more - do you go crying to the lottery companies calling them scammers, even though they regularly "scam" you out of gadzillions?

Yes Secrets Benefits did try to contact me but as I only check that email account occasionally I read and replied to about a month later which they did not respond. But really they would have to change their business plan to resolve my issues.
After an arrangement with a lady that I met on Seeking ended suddenly I decided to give Secret Benefits another go so I purchased 200 credits (if you read my previous article that's effectively 20 actions) for $US89. I intially contacted 2 ladies who didn't respond so a day later I purchased a months membership with Seeking $US89. I used the same photo's and profile on both sites. On SB I received just over 50 messages replying to 16 of them. Which means I have 40 credits left or 4 actions) as I have not opened any hidden photo's. Six ladies responded but I only got into one conversation. I actually don't know if the others even read my messages because SB now charge you 10 credits (1 action) to allow you to see if the person you have opened a conversation with has read you messages. Along with the fact that any messages that are older than 28 days old are removed for "security purposes" I now have to reduce SB to 2 star.
I realise that a reader may be thinking its my approach. But.
After 10 days of my $US89 on month renewed membership on Seeking. Exact same Profile, Exact same initial message and language. I initiated 60 conversations to ladies whose tags matched what I was looking for. I probably got into conversations with 20 of them. Some didn't read my message, which is ok (thats their choice) but at least I knew. And I received access to 20 hidden photo's at no extra cost.
Yes some promising discussions stalled and there were ladies wanting to rip me off but I have started an arrangement with a lady who is "way out of my league" and will be seeing seeing her for the third time in a few days. The real telling thing is that I have told since told 3 interested "way out of my league" ladies that I am taken. I am still receiving (another 3) very positive enquiries 8 days after I stopped initiating conversations.
Yes I can see the issues that others raise about being kicked off the site but for the life of me I can't understand why SB is rated in the mid 4's while Seeking is in the mid 2's.

This site scams you. Also if you leave a review and they can determine which SB account you have, they'll delete it.

You will encounter numerous SB accounts simultaneously viewing/admiring/requesting+granting gallery access/messaging you but when you spend credits to send them a nice reply to their short and generic message, you never hear back, even if your reply was only a minute after their message. Then these profiles will some days later again request private gallery access and grant access to their private gallery, while still not replying to your messages (because I write again after their gallery request). One person finally wrote back and said they had never sent the original message to me and had not logged into the site for some weeks (their last login info said they'd been visiting the site regularly).

I kept a second blank profile as a test (didn't add a picture, didn't fill out the stats). I even wrote a line about this profile not being in use and don't bother contacting me. It still got people admiring and messaging me, inc several people who'd also admired/messaged my main/complete profile.

When I complained to the site support, saying I felt scammed, they decided the best way to "fix" the problem was to deactivate my account. On the plus side they also refunded all the money I'd wasted which I really appreciated. I got my account back to finalise some unfinished conversations.

Now if I want to buy credits, I cannot. I had credit card payments disabled by Support and I get told I need to contact Support to pay with Bitcoin. I wrote to Support saying their help section still says we can use credit/debit cards. They responded saying they will update the help section but made no effort to allow me to buy credits with Bitcoin. If I create a new account on the same PC - still Bitcoin. If I change my IP address and create a new account on a different device, guess what? I can buy credits with my credit card.

I also noticed a large reduction in the number of people viewing/admiring/messaging/requesting gallery access.

I suspect some profiles are not legitimate as they seem to have the same headlines and I have never found a SD site before where most sugar ladies seem to only want "a helpful mentor" or "weekly dinner dates".

That said, there are a number of real people you will converse with. Just be thoughtful before deciding to buy credits as you'll waste the marjority of them trying to find a legitimate lady.

You're better off going to seeking.com. More cost effective; 1 flat all inclusive monthly fee rather than a fee for every little thing you want to do including blinking and breathing. You'll spend more money on Secret Benefits in 1 to 2 weeks than you would in a month on Seeking.