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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Positive reviews (last 12 months): 66.7%
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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user jenl115
Missouri
1 review
0 helpful votes
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November 20th, 2018
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I'm not sure if I just know how to pick them or my luck is just really this bad, but I have not been able to land a solid date with any of the guys I've been chatting with since I signed up a couple weeks ago. It's like this hot and cold they keep playing and it's totally discouraging to me. I really like the site as far as getting on and using it and there are plenty of men to choose from, but c'mon. Something has to give. Not sure if it's because they are married, or shy, or busy, or bad timing, or maybe it's just me? This is my first online dating experience so I'm not really sure what to expect but I would love to find a good guy on the site that would commit to a time and place.

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Thanks for submitting a review of your experience on Secret Benefits. Sometimes it takes a bit of time to find the right match in the online dating world, hopefully you've been successful by now and if not, I'm sure you will be soon.

Thumbnail of user rossj27
Ohio
1 review
7 helpful votes
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March 27th, 2020

At first I was skeptical, and didn't allow time to see the system work. Customer service gave some good tips. Not saying all the ads of women are current and updated. But you have to understand that they are skeptical has we are and are weeding out the fakes has well. You be better off getting straight to the point of your intentions. It worked out for me. Thus far. Over all I'm happy with the service.

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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience Ross. I'm glad you decided to give the site some time and that your patience paid off.

Thumbnail of user rob781997
Ireland
1 review
10 helpful votes
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December 10th, 2023

You will receive short, ambiguous, bot generated messages from fake users. You must pay to open the messages.
When you pay and respond you don't get a reply.
Sucked into a waste of money...
Don't be fooled.

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Thumbnail of user rogers530
Pennsylvania
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1 helpful vote
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May 7th, 2020

Just basing my rating on my experience on similar sites like Seeking and MillionaireMatch. I tried another one a couple years ago too but can't recall the name. Anyway, as far as getting to meet real women that are not fakers and scammers I tip my hat to Secret Benefits over the others. Maybe these similar ones are washed out or over saturated with wannabe's and posers, but whatever the case may be, this one is the best from my personal comparison. I also appreciate not paying a monthly fee and that this site is not so much on the radar as the others seem to be. The other aspect I noticed is the site seems to be growing with a lot more profiles popping up and that many are getting their identity verified which may be keeping the fakes out as well.

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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience. I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying yourself and appreciate you sharing with others.

Thumbnail of user als380
California
1 review
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April 16th, 2020

Secret Benefits worked for me. I met the love of my life on this site and we recently got engaged! Hopefully, everything will work out for our wedding this September. I thought it would be nice to share and perhaps give a glimmer of hope to anyone looking for the same.

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Congratulations! Thanks for updating us and I hope the wedding is a great success.

Thumbnail of user lucye41
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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January 13th, 2020

I met up with a super sweet guy (Ted) on Saturday. He was just who I was wanting to meet! We are meeting up again for dinner on Friday and I'm really looking forward to it! This is the first guy I've met in like a year that makes me feel really giddy inside!

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That's great to hear Lucy, I'm glad to hear you've met someone who makes you happy.

Thumbnail of user derekb221
Nebraska
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 29th, 2020

Say what u will, but I've never dated such a totally diverse amount of women before in my life since I started my profile on SB. Many amazing women I would never think would work if I had first seen them in a bar.
Course, many don't work out past the 1st couple of dates... but I'm going for the cream lf the crop so I expect that it will still be a challenge.

Thumbnail of user petroh
New York
1 review
3 helpful votes
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March 11th, 2020

I moved for work earlier this year and had a very lonely existence for the first month. I didn't know anyone outside work and I don't do well without a social life. I ran across Secret Benefits on the web and signed up. There are lots of beautiful women on the site within 60 miles of me. Now I can't wait to be done with work each day. Having the time of my life!

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That's wonderful to hear. Moving to a new city can be tough, it's nice to know that Secret Benefits has helped you get acclimatized and enjoy your new home.

Thumbnail of user dianam247
India
1 review
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November 14th, 2018

I feel I had as much if not maybe a little more luck finding real SD's on this site as I have with the other top sugar dating sites I've tried. I think they have maybe less guys but there's a higher concentration of good ones. I did have some trouble uploading my video, but they have customer service that responded and helped me out with that.

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I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying your experience and have had luck finding good guys on Secret Benefits.

Thumbnail of user emam15
New Jersey
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March 29th, 2022

I highly recommend Secret Benefits to other women looking to date up the ladder. The men I have met from this site all understood how to treat a lady. Trouble is, I'm not sure I can settle on one, lol

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Women got the power here. Asserting what u want is key

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Thumbnail of user pricillac1
Tennessee
1 review
5 helpful votes
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November 11th, 2020

Secret Benefits has been super addictive to me. I love chatting the guys. Most have been very interesting and I find myself smiling and laughing a lot at our discussions.
Several guys have gained my trust and I have gone out with a few for dinner, drinks, and it has even got a little steamy with a couple of guys.;)
Thank you for providing a fun website that helps turn boring days into something I look forward to.

Thumbnail of user anneh187
Florida
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February 18th, 2021

There are lots of guys on here but they should do a better job of screening them. I had one guy ask for my bank info so that he could pay me before we met. I guess that works with some girls but no way am I giving out my bank info to anyone. Other guys just want you to send them nude pics and some are just looking for sex but I've met good guys on here too and am currently seeing one a few times a month.

Thumbnail of user kenh1241
North Carolina
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January 24th, 2024

Secret benefits is not going to be for everyone but for those looking for a more straightforward arrangement this should serve u well as it has been serving me.

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get the verification done

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Thumbnail of user kaylam94
Oklahoma
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November 1st, 2018

So far I've met with 4 guy since I joined 3-4 months ago. They all want daily attention and consistent dialogue every day, and some want intimacy. They seem to think that the SB "benefits" consists of free food, unlimited sex and a free trip to a romantic hotel with a pool. None of those are beneficial to me.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Hi Kayla,

Sorry you haven't met the right guy yet, hopefully you're next date will be more inline with what you are seeking. If you haven't done so already, make sure your profile describes exactly the kind of relationship you are looking for as that should help you attract more of the types of guys you want to meet.

Thumbnail of user christinel194
Australia
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September 4th, 2018
Verified purchase

I'm really liking this sugar dating site. I've had several successful dates with real SD's since I joined a couple of months ago. I noticed if I send the 1st message I get a lot more interest back rather than waiting for a SD to message me first. I also was able to verify my profile pics with their support team, so I think guys like that they know they are chatting to a real person. I also like that it's free! I think the guys have to pay something to message, but they can afford it. Lol

Thumbnail of user adriindahouser
GB
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1 helpful vote
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August 12th, 2018
Verified purchase

Nothing really wrong with the site. The support is good. But I have not had luck. I messaged a ton of interesting guys, but I rarely get a response. Too much effort for little results. Maybe it's different for others but I'm about ready to give up.

Thumbnail of user pammyd
Florida
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January 14th, 2021

I went ahead and took my public profile down today because I met someone here that is a great match for me and I want him to know I am serious. Caleb is a warm, funny, and caring man and one of the best looking guys I have dated in a long time. Turns out older and more mature guys really do live up to my hopes and expectations for a legit boyfriend.

Tip for consumers:
This is a free service for women so I would say you have nothing to lose to try.

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Thumbnail of user jzhao31415
Illinois
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3 helpful votes
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January 24th, 2024

Pretty much all baby profiles are fake. I bought about 200 credits and messaged a total of 20 sugar baby profiles who either messaged me first or Favorited me first. And ZERO replied back. Now, if I was randomly messaging people out of my league, then I understand the low rate of reply. However, I only messaged the profiles that either messaged me first or favorited me first. And the majority of those 20 profiles were considered "Verified" by the site's standards. So among this sample set, my reply rate is 0 / 20?

More evidence that it's all scam. A few of the baby profiles, although they never replied back, they still granted me access to view their "secret" photos. The catch is, it costs money to view their secret photos. Now, if you are so uninterested that you wouldn't even reply back to my message, why then reveal your "secret" photos? The only reason is so that the dumb bloke pays more money.

It's a scam site, stay away if you don't want to throw your money away.

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Thumbnail of user bettys140
India
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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November 1st, 2018

The website is nicely designed. Really clean and modern feeling. I haven't needed the customer service, so I don't know about that. They do send emails every week on tips and stories. The guys on here are not bad. I haven't met my Richard Gere yet, but you never know!

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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with Secret Benefits. I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site.

Thumbnail of user maryk499
Florida
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February 18th, 2021

The website is nicely designed. Really clean and modern feeling. I haven't needed the customer service, so I don't know about that. They do send emails every week on tips and stories. The guys on here are not bad. I haven't met my Richard Gere yet, but you never know!

Thumbnail of user kendricks13
Georgia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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March 1st, 2020

I would like to share that Secret Benefits does function properly, and it does have potential to be one of the best niche dating websites if they keep the riff raff off the site. Most of the women I've personally met through the site have been quality for the most part. It would be nice to zero in on searches more such as relationship type desired but all in all it's a solid option for online dating.

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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience. I'm glad you've enjoyed your experience.

Thumbnail of user johnw687
Argentina
4 reviews
13 helpful votes
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July 13th, 2017

I've been using this site for a few months now and am impressed at the number of legit Sugar Daddies I've met. I communicated with several when first joining and then narrowed it down to 5 dates who I met up with. I now have 2 great Sugar Daddies, a free downtown apartment to live in, and no crappy waitressing job!

Thumbnail of user fransicr
Florida
1 review
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May 4th, 2021

Joint owner over 3 months, not one date set up. Most girls will replay with one-lines. Short to get you to spend your credits. Most of them will not replay back. Try to set up meeting, but most girls live outside the area they advertise. This a total scam I lost over $250 on buying credit. The company is base oversee.

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Thumbnail of user willyw14
California
1 review
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January 4th, 2020

I had to give credit to secret benefits.com. I met the most adorable loving woman a few months ago from this site that has made me the happiest man in the world. I asked her on new year's eve to move in with me and she said yes! I never believed I could be with a woman like her. They have a very happy customer here! Many thanks!

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Wow, excellent to hear! It's wonderful to know that the site has helped you find someone who makes you happy. Thanks for taking the time to share that with us.

Thumbnail of user angelah258
India
2 reviews
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September 21st, 2018

The signing up process was really easy. I need to still verify my profile, but nothing hidden or confusing so far. I was able to message a couple of men I noticed. No hidden fees or anything fishy. I'll see how it goes.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for sharing your initial experience with Secret Benefits Angela. Hopefully you'll update this review at a later date with your dating experiences when they happen.

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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