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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user johannas56
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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December 10th, 2019

I joined after my friend recommended. I was on Tinder and found it almost impossible to find a decent guy that would follow through with a real live date. Still encounter an occasional perv but the overall higher caliber of men on SB is night and day. Meeting real men that treat me nice is a nice change.

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That's great to hear, I'm glad you've been able to find some classy dates thanks to SB. Thanks for sharing.

Thumbnail of user maggiem102
New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
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October 11th, 2018
Verified purchase

I've been having a great time on secretbenefits.com. Currently seeing 2 guys and chatting 1 guy long distance. They all provide support in some way and have all been gentlemen. In all honesty, I like older guys. They know how to treat a lady and are not just trying to weasel their way into my pants. To each their own, but I'm loving this so far!

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I'm glad to hear you are enjoying the site and have met some nice guys along the way.

Thumbnail of user rexl40
Tennessee
1 review
1 helpful vote
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August 10th, 2021

Str8 up best site among a few of these sites I tried in the past 2 years. I can usually open a chat with a cute babe and get something out of it worth my time 6 out of 10. My trick is going for the 7's and 8's, much easier that way.
I also tried SD and SA with some luck as well. I prefer to avoid the monthly charges.

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Thumbnail of user sunnyd63
GB
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March 21st, 2023

I had to go through a lot of chats and dates. Some became friends and others were duds.

It can at times be discouraging, but I the motivation to no be alone kept me going and after about 6 months of being on Secret Benefits as well as a couple of other dating apps, I met someone really special on this site and we have been going strong for 3 months now.

I would say to others about this site that it does work and there are plenty of options at least for me in a fairly populated area. I wouldn't lower my standards but I did have to learn to be flexible and more open minded with what people wanted. All in all a great site as long as you have patience and a good amount of social skills.

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Thumbnail of user kevinj1256
Texas
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3 helpful votes
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March 23rd, 2023

A lot of girls sent me messages, once opened, they are just junks, basically I wasted my credits to see the messages. I sent out quite a few messages after they pinged me, no response anymore. This is just my experience.

* Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond

Thumbnail of user pamelaa379
Michigan
1 review
5 helpful votes
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June 2nd, 2020

It's been fun for me. I'm on Secret Benefits almost every day. I am chatting with a couple of really attractive guys. I also get new messages often. I'm not going out as much because of the coronavirus but I'm thinking about meeting with one of these guys that lives nearby me for lunch this week. The 3 best things about this site is that it's free, active, and has worked well every time I go on the site.

Thumbnail of user jaimeej1
Canada
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September 6th, 2018
Verified purchase

I just wanted to say that not all the SD's on this site have money. The last guy I went out with from this site wanted to eat at Red Lobster! I was like, uh, for reals!? There are some real deal sugar daddies on here, but you have to sniff them out.

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Oh no, sorry to hear that, there's not much we can do about people's poor taste in restaurants but we always suggest you get to know the person a bit before meeting up so that there are no surprises like that. Hopefully the next one will know what wining and dining should be all about.

Thumbnail of user marys1101
New Jersey
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December 20th, 2018
Verified purchase

There are a few things I really like this dating site for:

It's free for me to use! An obvious reason to like anything.
It's fast and easy to use. It's a no-nonsense service.
They seem to be getting lots of new profiles every time I look, so I'm not getting bored yet.
I'm meeting cool guys. They have, for the most part, been who they say they are and have treated me very well.
There are a couple of things I'm not crazy about:
They don't have a mobile app. I heard it's coming, so hopefully that happens soon.
Guys have told me they have to pay to open a conversation with me, so I think that's why several guys that I've been interested in haven't written me back. Although, that might also mean they're cheapos, and dutch treat ain't my thing.
All around a great dating website worth the time in checking out!

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Thanks for the thoughtful review of Secret Benefits. I'm glad you are enjoying the site and hope you continue to do so.

Thumbnail of user candyj61
Oregon
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May 13th, 2023

Super happy having recently found a great guy that has ticked off most of my boxes. Kind, handsome, generous and fun to be around.

Thanks and a big hug to SB for providing a great date site for singles!

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Forgot to mention the support peeps are very good and was very happy the site offered free membership

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Thumbnail of user sommerr2
South Carolina
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May 3rd, 2022

Hi, my name is Sommer. I'm loving on the Secret Benefits website. I'm getting lots of attention and met a few really good guys. It's kind of shocking that it's completely free... I guess the guys pay, which is how it should be, hahahaha

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Thumbnail of user myrlk1
New Jersey
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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March 18th, 2020

After going through the possibilities of men I was willing to date from this website, I can report that I have committed to a very special man. The timing couldn't be better with everything going on. It's so nice to have someone that cares about me and that I can rely on. Thank you SB for restoring my faith in online dating!

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That's wonderful to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and good luck with that "special man".

Thumbnail of user aprilm317
Washington
1 review
2 helpful votes
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July 24th, 2019

So far so good seems like it's going somewhere and I'm actually going to find myself a sugar daddy. The men seem really kind and genuine and seemed pretty honest about what they're looking for summer absolutely not on there to be a sugar daddy but so far everyone I talk to you has been completely honest about their relationship status what they're looking for

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That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to submit your review.

Thumbnail of user gloriah91
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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June 4th, 2019

I like that it's free and easy to use, I don't usually write reviews but I had a great experience with their customer service and I think it's good to recognize stuff like that. Online dating can be a bit scary and it's good to know they take safety and security very seriously. I won't go into details but definitely recommend checking out the site.

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Thanks for taking the time to submit a review. I'm glad customer service was able to help and I will pass on the kind words to them.

Thumbnail of user stellac122
Maryland
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August 13th, 2022

My friend told me about Secret Benefits a few months ago and I would like to share that my personal experience in the the past 2 months using the website has been fantastic!

The only things I would add is an app in the apple store and the ability to video chat. Everything else about the site is perfect including the price, free!

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be sure to read their newsletter, lots of great tips!

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Thumbnail of user elizak12
Arkansas
1 review
4 helpful votes
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August 23rd, 2019

Shout out to the secretbenefits.com support! I had a bunch of silly questions and some difficulty getting my profile rolling to the point of feeling confident I could go live and dive into finding my match. The lady that helped me from the start was very kind and patient with me. I feel really bad that I didn't get her name. Really great support though. I can tell this site cares.

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That's great to hear. I'm glad to hear that customer support was able to help you get things rolling.

Thumbnail of user ratchetr
California
1 review
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April 21st, 2018

Bottom line: it costs a minimum of $59.00 to respond to or send any communication with a prospective SB, and you will be relentlessly e-mailed by these bots that "have left you a message".
Now ask yourself if you are a dumb$#*! or sucker enough to throw away $59 to have your lack of intelligence verified.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Sorry you didn't enjoy your experience on SecretBenefits. As a sugar daddy, you do need to pay in order to message the sugar babies which seems to be where your frustration stems from. There are no bots on the site, just real men and women looking for mutually beneficial relationships.

Thumbnail of user fredrickh54
Texas
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April 27th, 2023

I do agree with several other reviewers that SB is a pretty darn solid site for arrangement dating.
I been getting solid action on the dating scene with few disappointments.
Site is solid all the way around.
Yeah, you got to use credits to message and not all will respond but from my experience, not a lot of funny business with the women as most seem eager to carry on a convo and meet up.

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Thumbnail of user sommerm1
North Carolina
1 review
2 helpful votes
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December 29th, 2018
Verified purchase

There are a few similar dating sites like Secret Benefits. So far, I've tried Seeking, Established Men, and Secret Benefits. My feelings on them are kinda mixed. EM was ok but not much to choose from in my area, SA was definitely busier but it seemed like a lot of bots and old profiles, SB has been a happy medium for me. Not as many profiles as SA but more recent signups and responses to my messages. The men I've met in person have been nice to me and for the most part look like their pics. I hope this comparison helps those looking.

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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience on Secret Benefits and other sites as well. I'm glad Secret Benefits comes out on top!

Thumbnail of user kellig24
Ohio
1 review
1 helpful vote
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December 5th, 2018
Verified purchase

I'm enjoying SB. I work at home, so I have virtually no social life making this site one of my "go tos" if I'm bored. I feel SB is a good site to use if you are not looking for something super serious. Although, I have been in contact with a couple of guys that were clearly looking for an LTR. Also, if you have issues with married guys there might be a few here and there.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for sharing your experience. Members of Secret Benefits run the gamut in terms of the types of relationships they are seeking making it a great place to find a perfect dating match.

Thumbnail of user jasonb771
RU
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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February 18th, 2021

I like it a lot. It is the first site that really works and has only genuine verified profiles. I gudge from men`s side but I believe for women it should be same comfortable. I read in previous reviews that video verification took too much time for somebody... For me it was less then one day and I think it is not long time to wait.

Thumbnail of user sarag686
New Jersey
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October 11th, 2022

After a long stint of being single and stumbling through the odd world of modern dating I finally found who I think is perfect for me. Great chemistry, shared values and still very attractive as a silver fox, hahaha.
We are very happy as a couple and are both very grateful to have found each other on the Secret Benefits website.

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Keep an open heart and mind

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Thumbnail of user brians1242
Canada
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May 12th, 2020

I recently put up a profile on secretbenefits.com, and I wanted to say that everything checks out so far.

It was easy to create an account and I was taken straight to searching for women in my city.

I live on a boat, so it's not easy finding someone to date a guy like me especially since I like to sail to different locations and be out on the water for extended amounts of time. I'm pleased to have already met a couple of women that seem very receptive to this type of lifestyle. I appreciate being able to view videos of these ladies and be able to decide on messaging someone before there's any talk of using my paid credits. Very reasonable website.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

That's great to hear, I'm glad you've been able to find women who are receptive to your atypical lifestyle. Thanks for sharing and good luck on your next date.

Thumbnail of user alifislm79
Canada
1 review
3 helpful votes
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August 24th, 2023

Hello. I really like this dating website. I started with my friend last week and had a dinner date last night that was super fun. The guy was a bit older than me but he looked and smelled great and treated me better than any guy has my age.

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You have to send a video to get verified

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Thumbnail of user dianej76
India
1 review
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October 12th, 2018

All around I would say this sugar dating site is one of the best I've tried. It doesn't have as many members as some of the big ones do but the site has decent guys. Plus I think there is probably less competition on my side of the aisle. I would say give it a try.

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Thanks for submitting a review of secret benefits. Glad to hear you're enjoying your experience.

Thumbnail of user laurenm215
Texas
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October 1st, 2018
Verified purchase

I felt like I needed to leave these guys a good review after how patient and helpful their support was to me. I'm not going to get into all of the details but basically I'm kinda new to online dating and particuarly sugar dating, so I had a bunch of questions and what not. I also was just not getting it as far as what I had to do to verify my profile. They might have been laughing at me with how silly I was being, but they were super patient and got me all set up. I'm feeling pretty good about being on the site now, and I'm starting to chat with a few guys. Thanks for helping me get my training wheels off SB team! Lol

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Thank you Lauren, I have shared your review with our customer support team. They love hear positive feedback about the great job they do.

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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