• Secret Benefits

Secret Benefits

Write a Review

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

This company responds to reviews on average within 7 days

Positive reviews (last 12 months): 66.7%
Positive
20
Neutral
0
Negative
10
1
See all photos
How would you rate Secret Benefits?
Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

Reviews (442)

Rating

Timeframe

Other

Reviews that mention popular keywords

customer service (22)
Thumbnail of user karenr665
California
1 review
5 helpful votes
  • Send Message
November 21st, 2019

Was in an LTR for 7 months with a guy I met on this site. Recently parted ways.
Jumped back on and surprised at how many more guys are on the site within my city.
Chatting with a couple nice guys now. Haven't gone out with anyone yet, but might see one of them this weekend. Would like an option to request guys verify their profile photos. Some have pics that are really tough to make out what they really look like.

Thumbnail of user kevinr516
Texas
1 review
5 helpful votes
  • Send Message
March 5th, 2020

I officially got ghosted by a chick I was chatting with for the past 2 weeks... I thought we were hitting it off but maybe I was too forward or who knows? Anyways, trying not to keep score, but I suppose Secret Benefits can't be really to blame for my relationship success. I have been out with a few really cute girls from the site that are still of interest more or less. I'm not exactly looking for anything real serious, and I don't think the women I've met are either, so it's been fun for the most part.

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Sorry to hear you were ghosted but glad to hear you have had good success with the site in general. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Thumbnail of user paulr2502
Massachusetts
1 review
8 helpful votes
  • Send Message
February 15th, 2023

Similar experience to others. Spent a fortune on credits got some short one word responses or one line response. After you get pictures they disappear. Many posts have pictures that seem too professional. Had only one conversation after sending dozens of messages.

Thumbnail of user gretchenp14
Ohio
1 review
12 helpful votes
  • Send Message
September 21st, 2018
Verified purchase

I'm still on the search for a man that can pay the bills, but is not old enough to be my actual daddy, or grandpa for that matter! The last couple of men I went out with were for sure older than they said. Ok, whatever, I understand that's typical in the sugar daddy world. Personally, I just wish Secret Benefits would try to get some younger affluent guys on the site. Otherwise, the site works as it should, but for the aforementioned reason, I feel 4 stars is fair.

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for your fair review Gretchen. If you've seen someone who is being dishonest on their profile please report them to our customer support team. There are lots of different sugar daddies on the Secret Benefits, including the young affluent type you speak of, keep at it and I'm sure you'll find one that suits you.

Thumbnail of user sashat58
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
  • Send Message
April 4th, 2023

Loving SB! Tons of cute silver foxes. Happy to take me out to really nice places, travel, spoil with gifts. Last guy bought me a versace purse and still happily seeing each other. Also free to use and very fast but no app in App Store.

Tip for consumers:
Not traditional dating, so be prepared for guys wanting interesting types of relations.

Thumbnail of user kieranm12
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
  • Send Message
September 10th, 2018
Verified purchase

I signed up last week and I have had a great experience with Secret Benefits. I appreciate the site feels more modern than others I've tried in the past, and it generally feels intuitive and is very easy to navigate. I had no issue purchasing credits and communicating with a couple ladies right now. Only 1 successful date so far, but she was a bombshell, so I hope to see her again next week. I just paid for the date and her taxi. She basically said she needs help with her school debt, so provided we end up seeing each other on the regular I have no problem helping her out along the way. Exciting stuff!

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for the great review Kieran. I'm really glad to hear you appreciate the hard work we continue to put in to the design and functionality of SB - we are really committed to making it the best sugar dating site in the world.

Thumbnail of user dons563
Ohio
1 review
4 helpful votes
  • Send Message
May 21st, 2020

SB itself is a functional website and the service they provide is quality. It's really what you make of it.

I can see how not everyone that joins this website will find a relationship that meets their expectations, but that's just the name of the game with online dating in general.

Personally still dating around, having fun, and trying to stay open minded about the relationship possibilities.

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I'm glad you have enjoyed the site and thanks for sharing your positive experience with others.

Thumbnail of user susanc772
Texas
1 review
2 helpful votes
  • Send Message
September 6th, 2019

Refugee from seeking.com. Was getting a bit too rough on that website. Digging this one. Only been on for a couple weeks and have several interesting men messaging me. Went out this past weekend with a really funny guy. Super nice to me. Telling my friends to try it out. Cant really go wrong when its free...

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed your experience on the site. Thanks for taking the time to share.

Thumbnail of user anans1
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
  • Send Message
September 11th, 2020

I was curious to see how others find SB and maybe get some tips. I'm fairly new to the site, but I want to confirm that my experience so far has been similar to others. The site works good, I got verified easily, and I'm getting a good amount of interest. Not sure what I'm looking for yet, or what I can find. I did have my 1st date a couple nights ago. We are talking about meeting again this weekend. Just still a bit unsure how to navigate my way in the dating process, expectations, etc. Tips?

Thumbnail of user mercyd5
New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
  • Send Message
November 14th, 2018
Verified purchase

Super fun to jump on in the mornings and see who's messaged me last. It's actually become part of my daily routine; check in the morning and check before bed (and sometimes throughout the day lol). I've met some really interesting guys. Love being spoiled! It's a refreshing step up from dating penny-pinching guys that don't truly value my company!

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

That's great to hear, dating should be fun and you have the right attitude.

Thumbnail of user richardr245
Florida
1 review
6 helpful votes
  • Send Message
April 19th, 2018

I knocked around sad and lonely for a while tried the other dating sites for that special on. Accidentally I found Secret Benefits one day so I decided to try it. I had several dates was dissatisfied with them until I found this last lady. I did a match on her an almost immediately she responded to me. We made arrangements to meet and she just happens to be a local woman to me. Less than 20 miles away. We meet for lunch and wound up staying 7 hours in the restaurant. I know it sounds crazy but we were both into each other that much. We really like each other have a lot of fun together what more could I possibly ask for. Ive placed my profile on Away for a while Im just having to much fun to mess it up. Thanks Secret Benefits for making my hopes and dreams come true. Im no longer alone happy to have a beautiful lady half my age going places being my partner. I no longer a lonely unhappy man any more.

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Awesome, we're so glad you found such a great match on the site and thanks for taking the time to share your experience.

Thumbnail of user lorelley
Virginia
1 review
4 helpful votes
  • Send Message
May 9th, 2019

I've met a few nice guys here and currently have a great month-to-month arrangement with a guy who really is very good to me. I highly recommend to any girl, honestly it feels a lot more normal than you'd think.

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

That's great to hear, I'm glad you've been able to find what you were looking for on Secret Benefits and thanks for sharing your experience.

Thumbnail of user patrickm880
Massachusetts
1 review
0 helpful votes
  • Send Message
July 15th, 2020

I would say it was an incredible site except I'm still looking and hoping to finally meet "the one".
Site works great. They do have responsive customer support. The site noticeably has new profiles most times I look. Just nobody has really met all of my expectations fully. Happy to keep looking on the site, but I hope the right one comes into my life soon.

Thumbnail of user elic200
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
  • Send Message
February 8th, 2021
Verified purchase

Real nice. Top notch dating website that I find myself using nearly every day.
Women are very receptive and many hot options in my area.
I have been a repeat customer here and have purchased credits several times.
Lasts me some time as long as I am particular with who I want to have relations with.

Quality
Thumbnail of user dalorasbin753576
Australia
1 review
1 helpful vote
  • Send Message
June 30th, 2023

I met someone on a different site while on SB but he was no good. Back on SB and very pleased with my interactions. Totally different caliber of men compared to Tinder. Also feels like more serious people looking for a real human relationship.

Tip for consumers:
you have to fill out all the fields to start a profile but it's worth it

Service
Value
Quality
Thumbnail of user mb525
Tennessee
1 review
3 helpful votes
  • Send Message
August 10th, 2020

Read some others reviews here. Glad to see most see Secret Benefits the same way I do.

It is a fine venue to use if you are looking to casually date. I'm on and off myself when I get bored with my personal life. Can't really go wrong as long as you play it safe and are smart in general with the ins and outs of online dating. Still one of my top picks as long as they don't start charging monthly fees like most date sites do.

Thumbnail of user barbarag1242
New Jersey
1 review
0 helpful votes
  • Send Message
June 22nd, 2021

Lots of love to SB for helping Tommy and I find each other. He's an amazing man and I truly don't know what I would do without him. Trippy to think we live in the same area and could have crossed paths many times.

Tip for consumers:
Stay safe and smart, follow your heart.

Service
Value
Quality
Thumbnail of user hikerdaddyw
New York
2 reviews
16 helpful votes
  • Send Message
April 5th, 2023

Don't waste your money. Multiple profiles using same photos. Fake profiles send "hello" messages hoping you use your credits to open message. If you do, and ask a question all.you get is a key, which costs more credits, to open but then you never hear back from person.
One person pretty much admitted in our conversation that this is what they do and thought it was funny.
You are better off going to a massage parlor.

Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your money.

* Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond

Service
Value
Quality
Thumbnail of user marial300
New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
  • Send Message
August 17th, 2018
Verified purchase

Not a lot to say really. I thought being a sugar baby would feel different than a regular date but so far it has been very similar. I've met a few nice guys who I've gone out with. I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment so this suits me nicely.

Thumbnail of user cindyp876
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
  • Send Message
March 27th, 2023

I'm on SB for a couple months now and seeing a couple matches but not yet swept off my feet. I do like that there are no charges, customer service does reply in a reasonable time and are not generic response. Not everyone is so direct so can be annoying to drag info out of certain people but is pretty much expected on these dating sites. Still yet, generally nice guys on SB.

Tip for consumers:
They require to upload a certain amount of photos.

Service
Value
Quality
Thumbnail of user donovank19
Texas
1 review
5 helpful votes
  • Send Message
January 21st, 2021
Verified purchase

I have my 4th date with Crystal today. She's absolutely stunning.
My cousin first told me about this site. Joined up at first wanting to find a nsa deal but after dating a couple of other girls, Crystal contacted me and she changed everything.
Cutting to the chase, I love that this site has helped me find such a beautiful girl. Really pleased with my entire experience here. Thank you for delivering a great service.

Service
Value
Quality
Thumbnail of user joed1306
Texas
2 reviews
28 helpful votes
  • Send Message
May 24th, 2022

Nice looking site. But this whole buying credit thing is such nonsense. How about just a monthly membership? You need credits to do anything. 10 credits to read a message. 20 to send one etc. you could charge 20 a month and they would make a bunch of profits but like every site they want to get as much money as possible. Too bad. I deleted my account. Too much of a hassle. Uh so I guess the website is complaining about this review. Nothing in it is false. They never contacted me

Tip for consumers:
Too expensive and silly. Who buys credits?

Service
Value
Quality
Thumbnail of user jond176
New Jersey
1 review
3 helpful votes
  • Send Message
November 26th, 2018
Verified purchase

Secret Benefits has been a legit site for me to find a few hot young ladies. Doesn't hurt I live near a few colleges. There are a few thousand women listed in my area, but as you can imagine, there are all kinds. If you are a picky guy like me, you gotta do some searching. The search filters help narrow down potential profiles fairly well. I'm not looking for a relationship, but there are plenty of women that are also looking for NSA dating. I've managed to find a new hot date every weekend so far. Not bad at all in my opinion.

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for sharing your experience Jon. It sounds like you've been having a great time on the site. I'm glad you've been able to find the type of relationship you are looking for.

Thumbnail of user terrir94
Indiana
1 review
3 helpful votes
  • Send Message
January 28th, 2020

I signed up to Secret Benefits just over a week ago. I like it. Just sent in a video to get verified and the customer support approved me pretty fast. Lots of talkative guys. Seems like a lot of active profiles. Hopefully can find someone worth my time here. Fingers crossed.

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

That's great to hear Terri. Video verification is a great way of showing guys that you are serious and I'm glad you found the process straightforward.

Thumbnail of user andih4
Florida
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
  • Send Message
May 22nd, 2018
Verified purchase

I've been on a few different sugar dating sites. All in all I think this one has been my favorite. I like only having to buy credits vs. a monthly membership. I didn't have to spend a ton of time creating an elaborate profile. Easy to navigate. Lots of beautiful women to choose from. Only giving 4 stars instead of 5 because I've been on the site for just a couple of months now. If this good experience keeps up I would happily give it 5.

Sitejabber for Business

Gain trust and grow your business with customer reviews.

From the business

Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

Company Representative

Thumbnail of user secretb1
Secret B.
Typically responds within 7 days

How do I know I can trust these reviews about Secret Benefits?

  • Sitejabber’s mission is to increase online transparency for buyers and businesses
  • Sitejabber has helped over 200M buyers make better purchasing decisions online
  • Suspicious reviews are flagged by our algorithms, moderators, and community members
Have a question about Secret Benefits?