Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.
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I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!
SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!
Guys, this is a highly recommended site if you want to go out with high value beautiful women that take care of themselves and respect a mature man. Very happy with everyone that I've taken out so far.
Ive joined a few of these sites in the past which havent really worked out for me, but its been different with Secret Benefits. Its easy to use and Ive had lots of interest from men that Im also mostly interested in. I like that the members can verify themselves as real people, and there are lots of men in my area. Im going on my first date tomorrow!
I joined this site on a whim 6-months ago and I have been using it off and on since then. It's pretty easy to meet guys and most of them seem to understand what the site is all about which means less time with time wasters. I don't really have any complaints but it would nice to be able to filter guys out by their income or job type.
Thanks for taking the time to submit a review of Secret Benefits. I'm glad to hear you're enjoying the site and have met the kind of guys you are looking for.
I joined a few weeks ago and at first it was really interesting but it did force me to verify while I was in the middle of an allergic reaction so I hate my video. There are not many verified guys, I have been stood up twice and no one really replies to messages.
Sorry to hear you haven't had a great first impression. Customer support has tried to provide you with some tips and I hope that helps you have a better time on the site.
I like secret benefits, it's free and there are nice guys. I've been a sugar baby for a few years now so I guess I've gotten pretty good at screening out the riff raff. I met Bill 2 months ago and we've really hit it off, he's kind, smart and successful and it's great being his arm candy! I can't really comment on anyone else cause I met Bill so fast but it looked like there were lots of good SDs.
After reading a previous review I now understand why my SB account is bitcoin only. What a shyster company this is. I've written a bad review elsewhere and they won't take my credit card now.
It's infuriating that you have to spend credits to send or read a message or view photos. Often a woman reaches out to me in a message, I have to pay 10 credits (roughly $10) and when I do, I can read the message and reply, yet 3 of 4, AFTER contacting me, will not then reply. They also freely share their private photos (usually they look just like their public photos) and that also costs 10 credits!
I've complained about their scammish practices, they claim they've given me back credits for these situations, yet I've never, ever seen my account get an actual credit.
Hilariously now that I've complained to them, they remove my edits on my profile. It's what it looks like if people like Donald Trump ran the internet.
Tip for consumers:
They claimed to refund my credits, but clearly did not.
My luck has kind of been all over the place with dating men from this website, but I do like the service all around. The amount and quality of really nice dates do outweigh the duds and lame-o's that I had the misfortune of going out with. Anywho, there are plenty of men to still choose from. I feel if you are looking to date fun guys that know how to treat a lady you can find that here. If you are looking for your true blue honey boo, it might be more of a challenge, but you never know, right?
Thanks for sharing your experience on Secret Benefits. I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed the site. While you haven't met your true blue honey boo yet, I hope you do soon!
The girls I've tried to get with have made me jump through hoops for a date. I'm not a bad looking guy and I have money but their expectations seem to be through the roof. Firstly, they all want my phone number but I need discretion (clearly stated on my profile). Secondly, they seem to think I should pay them just to meet up for a coffee which I don't think is fair. I have no problem coming to an agreement but after meeting to see if we click.
My experience so far has been some guys that claim to be sugar daddies really are not cut out for it. Just because they think they have money doesn't mean they like to spend it. Took me a bit to find a legit daddy that liked to spoil me. Not everyone or everywhere will be the same, but just beware there will sugar daddies and salty dogs on every dating site you try. This one found be a legit man after taking some time, so be picky and don't rush it!
Well said Carolyn and thank you for the review. Very glad you found your man even if it took a bit of work.
Do not waste your money. This site comes up with more ways all the time for the males to spend money or credits on secret photos or secret questions. Fake girls / ladies that contact you so you can reply and they never answer again but you use your credits. Say well away from this site to many fakes some girls have three profiles at one time with same phones. Not worth a look
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I signed a few months ago. I didn't buy the credits at first as I wanted to see what it was all about. After taking the plunge, I bought some credits and starting chatting. TIP! Go for the verified girls first if not you van waste time. It took about 8 conversations and had a real meeting with a girl. She was as per her pics, we got on well and will see her again today. A lot of the girls see I as a way of making cash for uni or just funding a life style. Others are actually looking for dates. Try it, be polite, hold intelligent conversations and you will meet girls. Dont fall in love with them though!
Tip for consumers:
not had to use CS yet.
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and for offering your tips to other users. I hope you continue to enjoy yourself on SB.
I jumped on SB mostly out of curiosity to see if I would have better luck than I was with a couple other major dating sites I'm on. I understand I'm the "new girl" in my area right now, but I've been getting a lot of positive attention so far. I went on my first date from the site last weekend. Really nice guy, a bit older than I normally date, but he was really fun and generous. I agreed to see him again. Happy with how things are going so far.
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with others. I'm glad to hear you found a nice guy and I hope that continues to go well.
I've met a few hot girls on here. I'm not one to kiss and tell but let's just say a guy like me has no business being up in that! To those who think sugar dating is gross, it's just a more honest version of something that has always been normal. All this site does is put me in contact with women who want a guy that isn't a loser and picks up the check.
You have earned yourself a very happy customer. After being on your site for two months, using 60 credits on a handful of conversations, and being very amused along the way, I found myself the girl of my dreams. We have really hit it off with each other, communicate all day with each other, and our time together is amazing. Many thanks!
Yes, my ladies, u can find very nice men on Secret Benefits, but some are very mysterious because maybe they have other women, but also many good guys are happy to meet and do fun things. Don't be discouraged easily but also be careful. This site works and is free but you can't find an app.
Tip for consumers:
U will get many messages but pay attention to the men that show you real interest
Took my profile down today. I met the man I was hoping for! We are currently working on moving in together and figuring out some small details but everything is working out perfectly so far. Haters will be haters, players will be players, but when you find someone legit you just know it. Very happy I joined Secret Benefits!
Sorry to see you go but glad it was for the right reasons! Good luck with your new man!
I would say that this one is worth a try. The site works as you would expect it to, super fast, and easy to navigate. Naturally, everywhere will be different, but I found my search area to have plenty of women to choose from. I would say my average right now is a date out of every 3 women I message, and thankfully, the women on here haven't beat around the bush too much with me before I get a date with them, so the odds are decent IMO.
Sounds like you've been enjoying your experience and I'm glad to hear you've been able to go out on several dates thanks to Secret Benefits.
I have had great luck on the Secret Benefit site... in the past year I have had well over 20 dates, and half turned out to be imitate encounters. Two of the women became sugar babies who I dated for five to six months. Some reviews claim some of the woman are fakes... woman put on the site by the people who operate it. I definitely have not found that to be the case. The only problem for me is finding woman in my area... so many live 50 to 100 miles away and distance is an issue. I would give the site 5 stars!
That's great to hear, thanks for taking the time to share your experience. Good luck in the future.
I think this site has some good potential. Verified photos are helpful and so far they've been accurate. I've met lots of girls over the last year but have also spent a lot of money. The girls I've met have had reasonable expectations, something I've had difficulty with on some other sites. I'd give it 3.5 stars but there's not option so they get the benefit of the doubt.
I've had some very good dates with ladies I've met on this site. Sure there are some flaky girls but that comes with the territory. All in all good value for money compared to other sites, and I now have a couple of sugar babies I meet up with a few times a month to keep me happy.
Great to hear George and thanks for taking the time to submit a review, we appreciate the positive feedback!
If you are on the fence about SB, don't sweat it. It's exactly what you would hope and expect it to be. I've been active on the site since early 2017, and I have never had any issues. Yes, I've had a few bad dates, but I can't hold them accountable for that.
My best advice at least for any woman on the site is to just put your best foot forward and be proactive. It's also good to be flexible as you go, but try to get your wish list done and stick to what you really want as long as it's realistic. Oh, and please don't put up with jerks! I've found plenty of really nice guys on the site too.
As a returning user I would like to say that Secret Benefits has been a good service for finding women to date. I found a very beautiful woman here over a year ago. We moved on since, and I joined this site again. I met someone new and things are going great. Very pleased indeed.
Wrote the Secretbenefit support last night with an issue about another member and woke up with an answer back and problem solved. Each interaction I have had with this sites support has been top notch. The only improvement that I would be happy to see is a live chat feature but I understand that requires a lot of 24 hour staff and I'm happy with what I'm paying for as is.
My first impression of SB is a good one. I had been on SA for a few years, and it was getting kind of stale for me. I read about this site from a forum I'm on, and it got some good mentions, so I figured why not? I signed up last night and sent out I don't know how many messages to guys (I think I was a bit tipsy). I was kind of shocked when I checked my messages today which I guess is why I'm writing this. I woke up to several replies this morning, and one was from a really cute guy that looks like he can take care of himself. Needless to say, I chatted him up and accepted a date for tomorrow night at a Bistro nearby me. Kinda stoked on the fresh start I seem to be starting for myself here. I would say it's worth checking out for sure!
Thanks for the great review. I hope your date was a huge success.
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Hi Jane,
Thanks for the great review. We hope you had a blast on that first date and that there are many more in the future.