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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user pamelav44
India
1 review
0 helpful votes
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May 5th, 2021
Verified purchase

The signing up process was really easy. I need to still verify my profile, but nothing hidden or confusing so far. I was able to message a couple of men I noticed. No hidden fees or anything fishy. I'll see how it goes.

Thumbnail of user jessn20
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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May 5th, 2021
Verified purchase

I love the guys I've met on SB. In my experience, I've been wined and dined at some of the coolest places in town by guys who I never would have met otherwise. How else would you meet a millionaire? I'm not sure how this would work if I was looking for something serious as most of the guys I've seen or chatted with are married or too absorbed in work for anything like that. You do have to be patient, sift through the guys who are just trying to collect hot pictures, and be prepared to spend a few hours to find the right type. Now that I have my system down, I can literally login and have my kind of guys chatting with me almost immediately.

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Tennessee
1 review
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June 16th, 2022

I think the point here is if the dating service on this site works or not?
Personally, it's been doing the trick for me by helping me meet beautiful young women around me and just enjoy life more and have a great time.

In this sense, Secret Benefits is delivering on exactly what I want from the site.

Thumbnail of user chuckk46
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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May 5th, 2021
Verified purchase

Met a couple girls but having to pay to write them a message seems kind of lame to me. I'd rather just purchase a subscription instead of messing around with credits just to talk to someone. The girls I've met were hot though so it's not a total disaster, I just don't like having to be selective with who I contact. An all-you-can-eat subscription, even if more expensive would probably do well.

Thumbnail of user addisonb38
Utah
1 review
5 helpful votes
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December 20th, 2020

I am a 23 year old single mom, going to school, working full-time and I really needed a solid man in my life. Joined SB this past summer. Dated around for a few months until I met Andrew back in September. It has been going great with him. He takes very good care of me and has been great with my 5 year old son. Many thanks to Secret Benefits for helping me find a truly great man!

Thumbnail of user marc.martina
Florida
1 review
10 helpful votes
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December 8th, 2023

This is definitely a scam site. My guess is that the girls get paid a commission to up charge you. Example: They send you an email. You pay to read it and respond. They don't respond to your email. Instead they share their additional photos which you need to pay to see. But they never respond to the email.

Tip for consumers:
There are real sites out there. This is not one of them.

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Thumbnail of user josefinec1
Texas
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March 30th, 2021

The reputation for Secret Benefits is good so I took a chance and really enjoying it so far. Guys have been very chatty and proactive in messaging me back fast and usually asks me for a date.

I have not spent a dime to utilize the site or on any dates with men from here.

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Thumbnail of user melissam464
Florida
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September 21st, 2018
Verified purchase

I'm totally on the fence with this site and sugar daddy dating in general. I've been on SB for several weeks, and I'm not having much luck. I am kind of picky, and I would rather just find one sugar daddy to see on the regular, but none of the guys I've gone out with have really matched the bill. I'm hesitant to put everything I really want on my profile because I don't want to come off a certain way. Maybe that's what people really have to do with sugar dating? I dunno. Maybe I'm over thinking it. Glad to see others are having some luck.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Hi Melissa, the truth is that if you don't share a bit about yourself on your profile guys will be less likely to contact you. A complete profile garners far more interest as it shows potential suitors that you are serious about the site and being a sugar baby.

Thumbnail of user jaswantm
Ohio
2 reviews
33 helpful votes
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March 10th, 2022

There are a few individuals on SB that are genuine and looking for a SD, but the large majority are fake accounts, created by, I presume, the parent company to entice guys to spend their money messaging the non-existent ladies. These messages never get read by anyone. Don't waste your time or money on Secret Benefits.

Thumbnail of user tomp291
South Carolina
1 review
1 helpful vote
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October 11th, 2018
Verified purchase

First off, the site functions just fine. I think I gave it a good try, but ultimately, I can't get used to sugar dating. I found that I am way too shy to ask for help financially without feeling weird about it. I've always struggled financially and thought this would be an answer to my prayers, but the guys I've dated don't put themselves out there to help, so I know I need to ask for their help first, and I just can't manage to do it. Sugar daddy dating is sadly just not for me.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Sorry to hear that but perhaps you just haven't met the right person yet who will make you feel comfortable. If your experience changes please update your review. Thanks!

Thumbnail of user ezekielm48
Florida
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May 4th, 2023

SB may not be a site you want your colleagues or family to know you are using, but as far as being a quality site that encourages beautiful young women and successful mature men to find happy win-win relationships, this site delivers.

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Thumbnail of user bobm451
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 23rd, 2018
Verified purchase

My experience with Secret Benefits has been generally positive. Most of the women I've seen from the site have been who I expected they would be based on their pics and general personalities. I have been stood up once and met a couple of chicks that were just not who I thought they would be. It would be great if the site was able to encourage more women to verify their pics... However, I understand anonymity is important for some as it is for me.
The website functionality is top of the line. Smooth, fast, and thoughtfully designed. I was alright with purchasing credits once I found some women of interest. Beats paying for a monthly membership.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for sharing your experience Bob. I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed Secret Benefits and have been able to meet up with a few ladies. Lots of women and men verify their pics and we do our best to encourage them to do so but you can also play your part by asking them to verify their pics as well. Thanks.

Thumbnail of user alexanders130
Canada
1 review
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October 6th, 2018

I had my 1st date with a very nice man I found on the Secret Benefits website. I was a bit skeptical as I originally found this dating site from an article I was reading online. Who knows nowadays? I tried the experience from beginning to the end of the date last night. No tricks and no frills. I'm not the best or most patient on the internet and especially with a dating site, so I found this one easy to get started with. I found to my amazement that I was getting messages from guys after the first couple of days. Long story short, I had this date last night. A+ experience. Looking for a date next week, so I'll keep you posted if needs be. Ciao

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Sounds like you are really enjoying the site Alexandra, very glad to hear that. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Thumbnail of user jessicas540
India
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February 18th, 2021
Verified purchase

I had my 1st date with a very nice man I found on the Secret Benefits website. I was a bit skeptical as I originally found this dating site from an article I was reading online. Who knows nowadays? I tried the experience from beginning to the end of the date last night. No tricks and no frills. I'm not the best or most patient on the internet and especially with a dating site, so I found this one easy to get started with. I found to my amazement that I was getting messages from guys after the first couple of days. Long story short, I had this date last night. A+ experience. Looking for a date next week, so I'll keep you posted if needs be. Ciao

Thumbnail of user marcussd
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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March 18th, 2020

I joined in late January with the hope of finding a match to go on trips with me. I had a couple of great prospects but clearly with everything going on, no one is going anywhere anytime soon.
The chats I have open are fun for what they are, but the purpose of why I joined is not being fulfilled at present moment. Will update once this passes and find out if these women are going to follow through or not.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I'm glad to hear you have enjoyed your experience. Looking forward to your update when things soon (hopefully) go back to normal in the world.

Thumbnail of user joshuam290
New York
1 review
1 helpful vote
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December 20th, 2018
Verified purchase

All around decent dating site. I've had a few great dates with legit women. I've also been stood up once, and I think I have a couple of chatty women I most likely will never meet in person. Basically, it's the same kind of run around you might expect from all online dating sites. You win some, you lose some. I guess that's all part of the game.

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Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I guess the dating game is always "hit and miss" but I hope you have more hits than misses in the future.

Thumbnail of user alexzara2231
Georgia
1 review
3 helpful votes
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June 27th, 2023

Looking for a fresh start to my Love life so secretbenefits seemed worth a shot.
So far, I've met a lot of great gals and enjoyed some fantastic dates.
Not all women have presented themselves as they did on the site, but that is an issue with all dating online.

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Thumbnail of user preciouss7
Georgia
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February 18th, 2021
Verified purchase

Not really sure what I'm supposed to put in here but it is a legit site that I keep going back to. I met a guy on it and we now see each other once a week, I stay active on the site because honestly, the money is always nice and I could probably fit one more guy into my schedule

Thumbnail of user donl257
New York
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July 11th, 2020

This is 100%, no doubt in my mind, a standup dating website. 3 years on and countless dates with women. I am not gonna even try counting them. All unique women, some a little off, some too conceded, yet plenty of bombshells in the mix. I love using Secret Benefits. Only been getting better.

Thumbnail of user rexe24
Oklahoma
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1 helpful vote
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October 12th, 2022

I've been using sites like this one for a long time. I'm currently using 3 including Secretbenefits.

I am on everyday and despite half my chats or more not going anywhere, when it's good, it's really good. They consistently attract new members many of which are exceptionally beautiful.

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Thumbnail of user valeried241
Pennsylvania
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March 24th, 2021

This website has served me well. I've made several new guy friends and a couple of hot love affairs along the way. I always stay safe and in control and their support is very proactive in respondíng to any concern or issue but you need to email them as they don't provide a hotline.

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Thumbnail of user shaunnam1
Nebraska
1 review
3 helpful votes
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December 15th, 2020

Wasted waaaayyyy too much time on dating websites.
The least I can say is Secret benefits is producing real men that show up and respect.
More dates that were mostly fruitful compared to other sites I've tried.
If anyone knows what I'm talking bout, sure u can identify.

Thumbnail of user kevinb567
Michigan
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2 helpful votes
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September 6th, 2018

Well a few ladies were there to "be there" I'm thinking. To help grow the site. I was scammed three times in different way. Be careful and think with the rite head!
I can't stress this enough... make sure she's 18!

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Hi Kevin,

Sorry you had some bad experiences on the site. We have a large team dedicated to weeding out scammers and ensuring that Secret Benefits is a safe place where our users can have fun. I hope that you have reported any user who scammed you, doing so helps us remove them and also stops future similar attempts.
Secret Benefits is intended SOLELY for adults so if you happened to find somebody who is underage please report that as well and we will deal with it immediately. In all cases, feel free to send us a PM here or to do so via our support on the site. We take these cases very seriously and have zero tolerance.

Thumbnail of user isabelm53
Florida
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July 31st, 2018
Verified purchase

At first, I really felt like a novice trying sugar dating on this site. But afer doing some research and reading the help emails SB sent me I got a better idea on how to approach men with asking for what you want from the relationship. Wish there was an active forum. Overall, so far so good after I got over my learning curve.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for your review Isabel. We're glad to hear you are enjoying the site and the emails and thanks for taking the time to post a review.

Thumbnail of user reannak2
Arkansas
1 review
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March 4th, 2020

I have been on secretbenefits.com for about a year now. I just got back from traveling with one of the guys I'm seeing. Seems like never a dull moment, but probably gonna cool the travel til this virus gets under control.
For any women looking, there are some good men that can legit hold their end up. Just be upfront and expect honesty.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

That's great to hear, thanks for taking the time to share your experience. I hope you continue to enjoy yourself.

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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