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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user nothingseriousc
India
1 review
0 helpful votes
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February 18th, 2021
Verified purchase

All around I would say this sugar dating site is one of the best I've tried. It doesn't have as many members as some of the big ones do but the site has decent guys. Plus I think there is probably less competition on my side of the aisle. I would say give it a try.

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India
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August 5th, 2018
Verified purchase

I've been on SB for over a year now. I haven't gone on for a while since having found a nice young woman. We recently moved on, and after coming back on to SB I noticed there are a lot more women on the site. I don't know if it's the economy or what, but it's great to have so many babes to choose from now! My only suggestion is I would like to see more photos on profiles. Hard to tell how some of them really look like in real life. I do appreciate that some profiles have verified identities. I find it assuring I'm acutally messaging the person I see in the photos. It would be nice if all the profiles were made to be verified.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for your feedback, we do encourage all users to verify themselves and find that more and more do so as it becomes more common on the site.

Thumbnail of user alyciatareineeij
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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July 4th, 2023

I met a truly beautiful man on Secret Benefits. It started as a casual dating relationship and it grew into an amazing relationship. He takes such good care of me and is truly a dream. I am so thankful to have him in my life. A million thanks to Secret Benefits!

Tip for consumers:
True love is possible, so don't give up

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Thumbnail of user piercey4
California
1 review
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June 25th, 2020

I guess I'm a conservative guy because when I first signed up for this service it was purely out of curiosity but not something I thought would work.
At first glance it seems like a normal dating site but once I warmed up to actually testing the waters and messaging a couple of women the responses and how easy it was to arrange a date was a bit mind blowing.
I wouldn't say this site would be for everyone but I'm definitely pleasantly surprised.

Thumbnail of user mableb19
Canada
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May 28th, 2023

I'm going back and forth on Secret Benefits a lot lately as the guys I'm choosing just are not doing ot for me for various reasons.
The plus side is there are a lot of active guys on my area and I am enjoying my user experience on their dating site.

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Worth the try especially since it's free, haha

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Thumbnail of user joser1539
GB
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September 27th, 2022

Very good dating site if looking to casually meet hot women for dates. Many open to ongoing relations but don't expect to find a future wife. Many superficial women, but I guess its possible as some I met looking for long term security with a man.

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Thumbnail of user danns9
Illinois
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June 29th, 2022

SB has managed to keep beautiful women coming to the site.
Women in general are very responsive and eager to meet.
Not exactly an elite and exclusive site for wealthy and attractive but if you are neither you most likely won't have game.

Tip for consumers:
*stick to contacting quality completed profiles

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Thumbnail of user michaelf582
India
1 review
2 helpful votes
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September 23rd, 2018

My profession keeps me traveling a lot within the US. I found out this is the perfect way for me to date hot chicks while on the fly. This is the only sugar baby site I've been on, but it's been working great for me. I just pick up a nice gift for my date, usually at the duty-free, enjoy a nice meal, pick up the tab of course, and have a carefree great time with a beautiful woman. Keep up the good work and keep em coming guys!

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for sharing your experience Michael, I'm glad to hear that Secret Benefits helps make your business travel a more pleasant experience.

Thumbnail of user robert.johnson868686
Wisconsin
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
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June 12th, 2023

Site is a great way for older and successful guys like me to meet young and attractive young ladies. It really is whatever someone wants it to be. Yes, it can get a bit more expensive if you use it a lot but you have to expect it. If you compare it to some of the other "bottom feeders" in the industry, I think it's largely a bargain. I suppose my biggest aggravation - and this is not the fault of SB - is that many ladies are not truly the "size" that they list in their profile. Not a bad idea for SB to require full body shots of everyone to save a lot of wasted time.

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Thumbnail of user janes390
New Jersey
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October 25th, 2018
Verified purchase

For any girls out there, I wanted to share my experience on SB. I've had a profile on their website for nearly a year now, but within the first couple of months after joining, I met a really great guy that I've been seeing regularly since. We first chatted back and forth for about a month, but after we went out on our first date I think we both knew we were very happy with each other. I haven't had a desire or need to see anyone else since then, but if for any reason it doesn't work out any longer we both understand each other's positions, and I know I wouldn't have any problem meeting someone else on the site if I chose to. Personally, I feel nearly anyone could find what they are looking for on SB with a little effort and honesty.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks a lot for sharing your opinion of Secret Benefits. It's really nice of you to take the time to write the review to let others know that real happiness is a definite possibility!

Thumbnail of user ashleys692
Illinois
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June 12th, 2020

I tried out 3 SD sites out over the past 6 months. SB takes the cake for a nice site aesthetic, customer support response, and most importantly, I met the most quality guys from this site. Guess the proof is in the pudding so dont take my word for it, hahaha.

Thumbnail of user giovannil42
Indiana
1 review
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March 29th, 2022

After you buy 50 in credits it takes that option away and forces you to spend 89. Customer service never responds... They have a secret picture stash where you can only put regular pictures which is dumb after you have seen regular pics pay 10 credits to see more regular pics smh... Them they wont let you post any pics unless its just has your in it and don't try to put any nudity in your secret stash they will delete it right away... The reason they don't have a mobile app is so they can't really be easily discredited as a scam

Tip for consumers:
Buy the first package and pic who you want if they respond go for at if not leave site alone period

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Thumbnail of user keithm43
Maryland
1 review
12 helpful votes
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August 30th, 2018

The site is a total scam. They send bogus messages to trick you into using credits. I verified it with a woman who supposedly messaged me. I asked if she sent a message or the system, and she replied the system.

Even if it was legitimate, the cost to send messages is absurd. Stay away and go to seeking arrangement

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Hi Keith,

Sorry you didn't enjoy your experience but we do not send "bogus messages". Please send us
A private message with the details of the other member and we will look into it immediately.

The cost to send a message and unlock all future correspondence with another member is about
The same as a cup of coffee and we feel that's a fair price to ask.

Thumbnail of user alvinp48
Florida
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August 27th, 2020

I initially created my profile specifically to find a nice and attractive girl to travel with me. That's clearly much more difficult with all of the travel restrictions... I did recently change my profile to find someone to date locally. I just set my first date with a sweet girl named Angela. We are going to do take-out. Got my fingers crossed.

Thumbnail of user caseyh181
Pennsylvania
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August 20th, 2020

I would like to share that I've been on SecretBenefits.com for 2-weeks now and it's proving to be a legit quality dating website.
Easiest sign up process I ever experienced. Jumped right into searching, lots of profiles, many new, updated, and verified.
Reply ratio from my first 10 messages was 6 nice responses, 3 ongoing chats, and 1 in person date. Not bad for what little effort I put into this.
Next step is to up my game and improve my profile once I find the time. I expect my results wilk improve.
Very impressive for a date site.

Thumbnail of user mitchc37
California
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December 2nd, 2018
Verified purchase

I'm scoring dates here. Some have been spectacular, and some have fizzled out quick. Clearly, when I spend more time scoping out the ones that have put a little more thought into their profiles, and I chat them up a bit longer before committing to a date, I do much better.

The other truth to the matter is I am a bit more meticulous when choosing to hit up a chat with someone since that's when I pay in credits to open up the messaging, so maybe that's helped me make better decisions with women too. I do wish more ladies would verify themselves on the site since it does put me at ease knowing that I'm talking to the real deal.
I'm having a good time on the site, and I'll probably stick around using it in the foreseeable future.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I'm glad to hear you'll be sticking around. It sounds like you've been enjoying the site and I'm glad to hear that. We do encourage all members to verify their photos and would suggest you help by asking users you contact to verify as well.

Thumbnail of user timothyh454
GB
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October 20th, 2020

2nd week on Secretbenefits.com. Everything is going along well. Have a few nice chats going. Timing catching each other can be a crap shot.
Just got verified. The customer response was timely, professional, and kind.
Worth a go if you're looking for something a little more interesting outside the more mainstream dating sites.

Thumbnail of user dayanah4
Michigan
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December 22nd, 2020

The best factor about Secretbenefits.com is the active member base. These date sites are usually a waste of my time but at least this site has dudes that respond and most have been able to hold a convo and know what they are doing if they get lucky.

Thumbnail of user lisag262
Florida
9 reviews
3 helpful votes
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July 9th, 2018
Verified purchase

No, I'm not an escort and the guys on this site have never treated me like one. I've been on several dates and I have NOT slept with all the guys I've dated. The great thing is that everything is out on the table, the guy knows that if we hit it off and want to date more I'm going to need to be $ maintained.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for the review Lisa, sounds like you're getting exactly what you want out of your relationships on Secret Benefits - congrats!

Thumbnail of user chrissyc158
Ohio
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March 31st, 2020

I can't believe how my timing in life can be. I joined this website to find me a real man. All good, dated some decent guys, but didn't find the one. Finally went through verifying my profile, got a whole bunch of attention, hitting it off, and now everyone is stuck at their. Cmon, my timing! Can't fault Nyone but I really am ready to make things happen!

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

That's great to hear. I'm glad you decided to verify your profile and that it paid off. Verifying is a great way of letting others know you are serious and mean business!

Thumbnail of user annaw192
New Hampshire
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December 15th, 2018
Verified purchase

As far as dating sites go, I would say I feel it's good. Not as many attractive guys to choose from in my area as I would like, but I'm getting enough bites for now. I also don't live in the best of areas either. I've gone out with several nice guys, but not as often as I would like to, so I would say the site is 4 out of 5 stars for me.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I'm glad you've enjoyed your experience. The site is growing rapidly and thousands of new members sign up every day so please update your review in the future if you find the number of compatible men has increased.

Thumbnail of user johnb2974
New York
1 review
6 helpful votes
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August 30th, 2019

First off, you not gonna find a bunch of beauties waitin on the site. Ya gotta sift through to find a Cinderella between a pack of her ugly stepsisters. With some luck and playing my cards right I have made off well from using this service. At least the gals here are real. Some have crazy ideas and expectations but just set em straight from the get go and they usually play along just fine.

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I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed the fishing trip and hope you catch the big one soon. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Thumbnail of user allanb76
California
1 review
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September 28th, 2018

First, I unsubscribed from emails--not once, not twice, but THREE times. I kept getting emails. Then, I went onto the site to deactivate my account. I saw no way to do that. This is like getting trapped in a bad relationship with no way out! How do I break up with secret benefits?

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Hi Allan,
I looked into your account as soon as the review came in. We have a few different unsubscribe options when you click on the "unsubscribe" link, and it appears you didn't select the "unsubscribe ALL' option. You've now been unsubscribed, and we are sorry that the differences were too great for us to make the relationship work. Sometimes relationships take work, if you'd like to give ours another try please hit me up with a private message and we'll see what we can do.

Thumbnail of user fedors5
Florida
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July 13th, 2022

I have to write this review for secretbenefits.com because I've contacted this site's support a few times and they've always responded promptly and professionally which stands out to me compared to a few other dating sites I've tried where their support is either a void or bot response. Hope they keep it up!

Thumbnail of user deem115
Texas
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November 19th, 2018
Verified purchase

Just gotta say that I was not finding enough men in my area when I signed up like 2 years ago. I honestly just forgot my profile and I didn't really use the email I signed up with either, so anyways, long story short, I opened up the email to check something else and I noticed a bunch of emails from secretbenefits.com. I went back on I guess out of curiosity and whoa, they have some dudes in my area now! Haha I've gone out with a couple of pretty hot guys lately I met through the site. Just fun stuff. Might be worth checking out nowadays even if you're living in a smaller city area.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

That's great to hear, we really have come a long way in the last two years so I'm glad you decided to come back and have another look around.

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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