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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user janew217
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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May 5th, 2021
Verified purchase

I felt like writing a review of the dating site, SecretBenefits.com. I've been on the site since last summer. I've been casually dating fairly regularly, and I'm starting to see a very kind and generous man consistently on weekends.
The site is well organized and very easy to search and chat with men. It's also great that they don't charge women to use the site. Who doesn't love things for free? Haha. Anyways, I've found using Secret Benefits an enjoyable experience that has produced many successful dates for me. I have also recommended this site to a couple of my close friends, and they said they're having fun as well.

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Maryland
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October 2nd, 2018
Verified purchase

Everything you pretty much expect from a good dating site can be found on SB. I really appreciate that the site is super fast, and the design is modern. I've been on other sugar daddy sites, and most of them just feel kinda sleazy and dated. I don't think Secret Benefits has as many profiles as SA does, but I also noticed this site doesn't have as many bots and weirdos. Of couse, it's great that's it's totally free for sugar babies, and I have reached out to the support on the site, and they did get back to me farily quickly. All around solid sugar daddy dating site. I hope they keep up the good work.

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Thanks for the great review Alnika, I'm really glad to hear you're enjoying Secret Benefits. We put a lot of hard work into the site so it's great to hear from our users that it's worth the time and effort.

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Virginia
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July 22nd, 2022

It's a pain to navigate online dating sites and separating the good from the bad, but after using SB for months now, I've determined it really is a high quality social platform to meet real and relatively mature and successful men.

Tip for consumers:
There seem to be many guys willing to travel so look outside your area to expand options to choose from.

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Thumbnail of user michaelc5096
Florida
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July 7th, 2021

I met Marta on Secret Benefits a few months ago and she's exactly the type of woman I wanted to meet.
I have been dating SB ladies off and on for a couple of years but I want to make this work long term with Marta so I'm deciding to take down my profile.
SB is a great dating website. Thanks, Michael.

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Thumbnail of user henryf71
Kenya
1 review
1 helpful vote
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December 29th, 2018
Verified purchase

There are plenty of hotties in my area. Site has been running smoothly. I was happy that it was left up to me as far as what personal info I wanted to share about myself and I wasn't required to go through a lengthy sign-up process. I've been seeing a couple of young ladies on the regular on a very casual basis. I also get contacted by women every week which allows me to be picky and select the best of the bunch. Would recommend.

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I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site and have found what you were looking for. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Thumbnail of user bellab45
New York
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February 18th, 2021
Verified purchase

Lots of guys, who, in general are polite and willing to put their money where their mouth is. Not sure what else to write here... I have met several guys, two of them have become more of a regular thing but I wouldn't take them home to meet the parents.

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GB
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4 helpful votes
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November 24th, 2019

Feel for those having a tough time. Online dating can be rough sometimes.

Since signing up on Secret Benefits a couple years ago, I've been ghosted twice, dumped once, and I think catfished at least once but I cut those lines once I get that feeling.

On the other hand, also have dated some of the most diverse and beautiful women I've ever met off of one dating site.

Main thing is you play your cards right, write a nice profile, be upfront, load some good photos showing off the best of you, and be polite. Don't be trying to get in her pants or trade nudes right off the bat. If you wouldn't do it in person, don't do it online.

Not everyone will be a match, and not every hot chick you got your eyes on is going to respond to you. Gotta imagine how many dudes are hitting them up. But I think as long as you are not a creep, you can score here. Peace.

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Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and great advice.

Thumbnail of user kassawondmnew188
Canada
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June 7th, 2023

I was wasting a lot of my time on Tinder on guys that really had nothing to offer.
At least the dudes on SB are happy to pay for the date and can bring something to the table and not just promises of a good time.

Tip for consumers:
You can call shots as a woman so be assertive.

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Thumbnail of user daveb850
Texas
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6 helpful votes
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January 21st, 2020

If you've tried online dating sites as much as I have you quickly realize how much of a competitive sausagefest most of these sites are. Secretbenefits.com has done alright by me. I would say out of every 10 ladies I contact 7 write me back and about half agree to meeting. Not all of those I meet are home runs but you could say I'm satisfied with my odds here.

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That's great to hear Dave, thanks for taking the time to share your experience. Sounds like the odds are playing in your favor.

Thumbnail of user wills82
South Carolina
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8 helpful votes
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May 17th, 2017

Sometimes I will get a message from a woman and l respond, occasionally within minutes, and they are not even read by the woman. Ever.
I have met four women from this site, but I think a couple of times the site made the first move. Not the woman or me.
I think they trick you into spending more credits than needed. All four women are nice people and l don't think they are professionals.

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I'm glad you were able to meet some nice women on the site. SecretBenefits attracts more and more members every day, making response rates much higher as well.

Thumbnail of user fredk79
California
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June 13th, 2018

If you like spending money to receive teaser emails from bots and scammers, this is the place for you. "Women" (possibly bots) will contact you. You will spend money to read their message. You will reply. You will get no response. Repeat this cycle until your money is gone. This is how the site works. Or, you may be one of the blessed ones who gets a real woman to contact you. She will ask you to send her money via PayPal so that she never actually has to meet you in person. This site is a fantastic place to realize what a fool you are.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Hi Fred, sorry you didn't have a good experience on the site. Please send us a message here or to our customer support and we'll be happy to look into this. Like any dating site, nothing is guaranteed but we try our best to make sure everyone has a great experience.

Thumbnail of user kated89
Georgia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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August 3rd, 2018
Verified purchase

I've been on a few similar sites to sb and this is definitely one of the best ones. A site like this is only good if there are a lot of active guys on it and honestly this is one of only two sites where you aren't scraping the bottom of the barrel just to get a response from someone. In general the guys I've messaged with have been polite. I'm pretty busy with work so I've only had one date so far but it went really well.

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Excellent, glad to hear your date went well and that you are enjoying Secret Benefits.

Thumbnail of user natashag175
GB
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August 16th, 2022

I utilized the dating website, secretbenefits.com, two times now. I met a someone on the site a year ago and maintained a win-win relationship for 10 months but eventually didn't see eye to eye.
My profile to my surprise was still up as I forgot to close it but was happy I had many messages from gentlemen waiting on me. I recently met someone nee on the site and we've enjoyed each other's company.

Tip for consumers:
I believe women don't need to pay anything to utilize SB, at least I never had to!

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Thumbnail of user masukb
Connecticut
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April 28th, 2021

Hello, I'm a 41 year old single Indian-American. I would like to share that I started a profile on Secretbenefits and like my experience using the website so far. It's good that you can have a public profile for others to see and be able to search freely before needing to buy the credits to open chats. It gives you a good look before to make a decision if there are good options for you.

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Thumbnail of user mikef311
GB
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September 21st, 2018
Verified purchase

I clicked through on one of their ads, and thought it looked interesting. I signed-up since it seemed easy compared to other sites I've tried in the past where you have to answer a bunch of questions, blah, blah, bunch of hoops. This site took me only a couple of minutes to get started. There are some decent women in my area. I noticed some of them are verified profiles, and others are not, so that's something interesting to look out for. I purchased some credits to chat up a couple of hotties. Not expensive. I've gone out with a nice girl a couple of times now. She isn't a bombshell, but she has a great personality. Happy with everything so far.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for sharing your experience Michael. It sounds like you've had a good first time with Secret Benefits and I hope you have continued success.

Thumbnail of user christopherf251
Ohio
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April 8th, 2020

I would like to give credit where credit is due.

I've dated women off of dating websites for near 20 years. The ones that worked out have all kind of peaked and dropped off as far as maintaining quality women on their sites.

For the past 2 years, I've been using Secretbenefits.com and aside from being stood up once and caught in a long back and forth with another that led no where, the other women I've met have been outstanding.

It's also wonderful that I can find someone to date and if it doesn't work out for whatever reason I can go back to the website and know I wasn't paying for a monthly fee and my profile I worked so hard on is still up, credits still in my account, and there are even more women to choose from.

I hope they are able to keep it up and wholeheartedly give them 2 thumbs up for my good experience thus far with this service.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I'm glad you have enjoyed your experience on the site. It's always nice to hear from our longer term users and thanks for taking the time to submit a review.

Thumbnail of user glendemirig17435799
Texas
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April 7th, 2023

I can see why some people would have a hard time with the site especially if you are a guy without the ability to support a relationship or if you are a woman that may not be that attractive. Not to say you got to be rich or a super model, but this is not like Match or POF. Totally different kind of dating, but super fun and fulfilling if you are looking for something more direct and exciting.

Tip for consumers:
Enjoy yourself, be natural, have a good sense of humor.

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Thumbnail of user patrickl329
Argentina
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June 17th, 2020

Beginners luck I'm sure. 1st and only conversation I started on Secret Benefits and I ended up with the woman I wanted to be with from the moment I joined and saw her. Salina is an amazingly beautiful woman with a very deep and intoxicating personality. Dare I say this could be love. I encourage others to stay light and reach for the stars! Blessed.

Thumbnail of user alinab26
Florida
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November 9th, 2018
Verified purchase

I don't know why some people feel like they have to excuse or explain why they are looking for a good guy on SB? Personally, it's not an issue for me. I don't feel guilty or weird about how I prefer to date men. Anyways, secretbenefits.com, to me, is a great venue that has allowed and even encouraged me to go for exactly what I want in dating and even relationships. Not recommended for judgmental or coy peeps. I would say it's worth trying for those of you interested in going for what you really want with a partner.

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Thanks for the review, I'm glad you are enjoying the site and thanks for sharing your experience.

Thumbnail of user florab11
Illinois
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July 12th, 2019

I've been pleasantly surprised by the quantity and quality of the men on the site. I've been out with a few real gentleman who have really shown me a different part of the city. Being new here that really helps and gives me hope.

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I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed your experience on SecretBenefits and thanks for taking the time to share it.

Thumbnail of user alexb681
Canada
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June 12th, 2020

I was attracted to the site as I am a married man looking for some fun on the side. One would think with "Secret" in the name, this would be the ideal site for this situation. I bought credits and reached out to about 12 women. Not a single response. The women are very good looking and the photos do seem real. So either the profiles are fake or this is not the site if you are are looking for a relationship outside a marriage.

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Thumbnail of user websterc10
Texas
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January 6th, 2019

Most of the reviews on here are too Rosey and smell like total B.S.to me.
I signed up and bought the 100 credit package even though I was a bit skeptical.
The girls on here are mostly very attractive and they will message you first and then you have to buy "credits " from the website to "unlock" the message and be able to read it. Once a message is unlocked all future correspondence in the future with that girl is free and unlimited.
It ends up costing $6 or $7 to unlock a message and so far only 1 of the girls has responded back to me. So it's pretty obvious that the website owner pays people to sit behind a computer and post new profiles of hot girls & then has the "hot girls" reach out to all the guys by picqing their curiosity with a message from them. Meanwhile the guy's credit balance is lowered by 10 credits each time ( about $6 or $7)

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I’m very sorry to hear you haven’t enjoyed your experience on Secret Benefits.

Customer service has offered you assistance but they haven’t heard back from you.

As a new user to the site, please keep in mind that sometimes people can take a few days to reply to their messages, hopefully you’ll receive replies from more women in the coming days if you haven’t already. People do get busy with their lives off the site and don’t always check in every day, especially over the holidays which is when your review was submitted, so it’s worth giving it a chance.

If you are ever concerned about any profiles please use the report function and we will thoroughly investigate the profile.

Again, sorry to hear you didn’t enjoy your experience, please do check your inbox as customer support is eager to help you.

Thumbnail of user bobc469
Australia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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May 13th, 2020

I have met two women on this site so far, one was intimate on 2nd date and now i see here every week, the other was intimate on the 1st date and looking forward to meeting her here again this week, no other site has ever given me this kind of success, I can't speak highly enough of this site, I am in my fifties and hooking up with 20 to 30 year old women, it's a dream come true!

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That's great to hear, thanks for taking the time to submit a review and share your positive experience with others.

Thumbnail of user barbaral2278
Virginia
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December 21st, 2022

I joined SB with the goal in mind to meet a really good guy that would want to spend Christmas and New Years with me and make this holiday really special for me. I was alone last year during this time and I knew I did not want that experience again. So long story short is that I didn't Timothy, 12 years older but looks great for his age, and he's a real charmer and kind man. We are going to Mexico together for the holidays, leaving tomorrow, and I couldn't be happier!

Tip for consumers:
This is a free website for finding upscale gentlemen for all sorts of dating and relationship desires.

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Thumbnail of user tamb5
Colorado
1 review
1 helpful vote
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August 21st, 2019

I joined last month since it's free and I heard a friend mention it. Put up a quick profile but not much action. I guess they promote getting verified but you need to send a selfie video. Kind of annoying but i get it. I went ahead and did it. Big difference in the amount of guys contacting me! Lots of good lookin ones too. Glad to have found a free and active site!

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I'm glad to hear that getting verified improved your responses. Thanks for taking the time to submit a review and good luck!

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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