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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user reannak2
Arkansas
1 review
11 helpful votes
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March 4th, 2020

I have been on secretbenefits.com for about a year now. I just got back from traveling with one of the guys I'm seeing. Seems like never a dull moment, but probably gonna cool the travel til this virus gets under control.
For any women looking, there are some good men that can legit hold their end up. Just be upfront and expect honesty.

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That's great to hear, thanks for taking the time to share your experience. I hope you continue to enjoy yourself.

Thumbnail of user k.w3
Australia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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July 5th, 2022

Secret benefits has given me dating confidence again. I was down on my luck until I came across the site from a mate's tip on checking it out. 3rd date with a real beauty tomorrow night and could not be happier!

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Thumbnail of user ricks1022
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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April 5th, 2021

I was on secretbenefits.com a couple years back. Not much action and forgot about it.
I came again recently and it's a whole new candy shop. Way more beautiful young women meeting my search criteria and I've been scoring some fantastic dates lately. Whatever they changed they are doing right.

Tip for consumers:
Go for the verified ones.

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Thumbnail of user gisellep9
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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July 27th, 2018
Verified purchase

I signed up about three weeks ago and met a really nice guy almost immediately. We chatted for a bit and arranged to meet for lunch. He's a really lovable dork who thinks I'm absolutely gorgeous and honestly I felt kind of weird at the end of lunch when he slipped me an envelope and said he hoped to see me again soon. I guess I expected something different but it's something I can totally get used to. We've been out a few times since and I enjoy spending time with him. My first experience has been really good, I'm not giving five stars because maybe I just had beginners luck because I've received a few nasty messages from creepy guys who I would never give the time of day.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Great to hear, we're glad you are having fun with your lovable dork and hope any future dates go just as well. Sorry to hear you received some nasty messages, please do report any of those so our customer support team can help out.

Thumbnail of user taylorm115
Canada
3 reviews
5 helpful votes
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November 30th, 2017

Was a little skeptical about what to expect since this is my first time joining a sugar dating site, but its been a great experience so far! Their blog has been really helpful in figuring out how to message the guys and giving other tips like what to look for in an arrangement, how to tell real daddies from the fakes, etc. - awesome for a newbie like me. Ive got a few conversations going with different guys that Im really into right now well see where it goes from here!

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That's great Taylor, let's hope those conversations turn into successful relationships!

Thumbnail of user drewt24
Arizona
1 review
2 helpful votes
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December 13th, 2018
Verified purchase

I'm generally a happy single man until the holidays come around which I'm sure most would understand without going into that further. However, I'm not looking for anything serious and I would hate to lead anyone on.
For that reason, dating women from SB is kind of perfect for me. They have been pleasant and fun and at the end of the day, we all go home happy without any awkwardness. I wish it were free to use, but if that means getting spammed and ads shoved in my face, I'm fine with paying a few bucks to open a message with a woman of interest.

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Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I'm glad to hear that Secret Benefits has made your holiday season a happier one!

Thumbnail of user niks25
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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November 1st, 2018
Verified purchase

Cool sugar dating site. It's super easy to use, and free, so who doesn't like that? Like every other dating site I've tried, there's a mixed bag of apples.
The filters they provide do narrow down things for me pretty well, but you never really know if you're chatting up a splenda or salt daddy until you basically go out with them, so you need to have a real nose for that so as to not waste your time.

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Thanks for taking the time to submit a review of Secret Benefits. I'm glad you have enjoyed the site and that it's helped you find what you are looking for in a date.

Thumbnail of user tabithak59
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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August 26th, 2022

Hi. Yes, I agree with many reviews that Secret Benefits is a quality dating website.
The reason is not only does secretbenefits.com work seamlessly for me, true success in this sense, at least for me is, finding someone you like to date and maybe form a relationship. In my case I have found a very great guy and we've been going great and the agreement is we are monogamous and see each other every weekend. We've talked about moving in together but I think we both appreciate having our own space for now.

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Thumbnail of user williamt2254
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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March 21st, 2023

Hello. My name is William Terrance. I would like to add that I started a free profile about a month ago and after a bit of searching and many notifications I decided to purchase a basic credit package to give some women of interest a shot.
To my pleasant surprise, many responded back, and I continued with a few interesting conversations.
Last night I met a very friendly and beautiful young woman at our local coffee shop and it was a slam dunk date. We came to an understanding of what we are looking for and she has agreed to continue to see me.
For me personally, it was my proof in the pudding that Secret Benefits is indeed a legit dating website.

Thank you,
William

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I think many appreciate a verified and completed profile.

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Thumbnail of user ronaldf148
Florida
1 review
4 helpful votes
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January 18th, 2020

Just feel the need to share that I recently took my profile down on Secretbenefits.com. After a lot of searching I finally met my match. She's more than I could have dreamed of. This site worked. Sometimes discouraged but perseverance paid off.

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That's great to hear Ronald. Thanks for persevering and giving the site a good test drive. Sometimes things don't work out immediately so I'm glad you stuck with it.

Thumbnail of user garyj120
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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September 2nd, 2018
Verified purchase

As far as delivering on what you would basically expect from a decent dating website, Secret Benefits does the job. I appreciate the clean and modern design of the site, and it seems like they have a decent customer support. I have hit some dead ends that ended up being a waste of my time, but I've also had a handful of great experiences with a few local hotties. Buying credits vs a monthly membership is a bonus. I would say it's worth checking out if you're on the fence about it.

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Thanks Gary for taking the time to submit the review. I'm glad to here Secret Benefits has "delivered" for you and that you've had some great experiences with local women.

Thumbnail of user karleeh1
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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May 18th, 2018
Verified purchase

It was recommended by a friend that has been on this site and had good luck.
I've been on several dates with great guys since I've been on. The site is easy to use, free for us gals which I love and seems to attract real quality guys. I'll also recommend to friends.

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Great to hear Karlee! Thanks a lot for taking the time to submit your review and for recommending Secret Benefits to your friends!

Thumbnail of user tw353
California
1 review
7 helpful votes
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December 5th, 2017

I was skeptical at first as I've tried other sites with no success. However I've been on this site for about 3 months now and although it took a while I did make a very positive connection with a very nice gentleman. As with all sites you have to be patient and diligent if you want positive results.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Hi TW, thanks for taking the time to submit a review of SecretBenefits.com. We are really glad to hear you've had positive results and wish you the best of luck!

Thumbnail of user janed536
Michigan
1 review
1 helpful vote
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June 24th, 2019

I have tried out several different dating sites but I unfortunately mostly get pervy and generic messages from guys that get to be very exhausting to waste my time on. Found this site kinda randomly while searching for alternatives on google. It's been a legit site so far. I've had some better intros from guys here although I've had some stereotypical messages as well. Seems like I can't completely avoid that. Had a couple of fun dates out. Would meet them again. Really the best things about this site are its a free membership and there are plenty of decent guys to choose from.

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I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site and have had some fun dates.

Thumbnail of user jand212
Nebraska
1 review
1 helpful vote
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May 4th, 2020

It's been really good. Lots of men have shown me interest. Nice to be able to have some decent options. Seeing 1 guy on the regular and another kinda randomly. Still looking around and chatting guys on the site. Good fun.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

I'm glad to hear you've been meeting guys and that the site has worked well for you. Thanks for taking the time to share.

Thumbnail of user calebm98
Rhode Island
1 review
5 helpful votes
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April 27th, 2020

Took a gamble trying out yet another dating website. This one was a bit different from others that I've tried which I guess is why I gave it a shot. The signup was quick and easy, plenty of good looking women in my city area, I've messaged a couple of the ones that stood out to me and they both responded and we are currently chatting back and forth. Everything seems to be on the up and up and I'm satisfied with how things are going so far.

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That's great to hear, I'm glad your gamble paid off and that you've enjoyed the site. Thanks for sharing.

Thumbnail of user rachelc247
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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December 5th, 2018
Verified purchase

If you are not looking for anything too serious and you're also not into hook-up sites, I feel Secret Benefits would be a great fit. If you're a woman, everything on the site is free. Most of the men are generally 40's-60's. I personally really appreciate going out with more refined men that know how to truly treat a woman. Of course, there have been total lame-o's too, but surprisingly I've only run into a couple of them. My radar for jerks is pretty good. The only thing I wasn't really thrilled with is the lack of verified men's pics.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks for sharing your experience Rachel. While we do communicate the importance of verifying pictures and videos to all our members in a variety of ways, nothing provides a stronger incentive than the request of a potential match. With that in mind, please encourage the men you contact to verify their pictures and videos.

Thumbnail of user afsana8093rei8
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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August 8th, 2023

Me and my friend recently joined because it's free and we saw a video about this site being free and a good site to meet guys that will treat you out to nice places. Maybe not looking for anything serious but love meeting new and interesting guys.

Tip for consumers:
It’s free so why not? Just be safe.

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Thumbnail of user drewj39
Georgia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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November 4th, 2020

Secret Benefits has been working out great for me. The women on here for the most part are very receptive and open. I also like the way this site is designed and the credits idea is so much better than charging me monthly fees.

Thumbnail of user aliciaz10
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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October 8th, 2018

The site is basic, so that' up to you if you like that, I found it at least easy to get started. There were not many guys I would likely date in my area - in normal life that is. I normally like to be approached, but I realize that messaging is only free to sugar babies, so I went on a limb and messaged a couple guys I thought were decent. No reply. I went for my second choices, and I did get some replies back. You have to both do some investigating to see what everyone is looking for, but I did end up on a decent date that turned out to be fun. I feel like I would see him again. Not too sure about the other guy's profiles in my area.

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Thanks for your review Alicia. I'm glad to hear you were able to find a good date in your area. There are thousands of people signing up every day so keep on the lookout for more ideal matches in your area.

Thumbnail of user alisonm106
India
1 review
0 helpful votes
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February 18th, 2021
Verified purchase

The site is basic, so that' up to you if you like that, I found it at least easy to get started. There were not many guys I would likely date in my area - in normal life that is. I normally like to be approached, but I realize that messaging is only free to sugar babies, so I went on a limb and messaged a couple guys I thought were decent. No reply. I went for my second choices, and I did get some replies back. You have to both do some investigating to see what everyone is looking for, but I did end up on a decent date that turned out to be fun. I feel like I would see him again. Not too sure about the other guy's profiles in my area.

Thumbnail of user djr18
Georgia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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May 26th, 2020

Well, I've been using Secret Benefits for 10 days now. I get my opinion may not matter much, but for what it's worth, the website is easy to use and there are plenty of women. Been talking to one for the past week via video chat, and she's the real deal from what I can tell. I hope once this lockdown is loosened we can meet in person.

Thumbnail of user bryanm481
Colorado
3 reviews
44 helpful votes
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July 8th, 2021

All these reviews are likely written by the fake profiles on there. You buy credits to talk to people and share and access photos and every convo will end the minute you respond. Been on SA for two years and was hopeful with this one because of the video verification. Helpful hint. If it's a name with a number behind it, it's likely a fake profile. If this review helps one person not waste their time, it will be energy well spent.

Oh, PS, have had great success on SA. This isn't the answer.

Tip for consumers:
Don't do it. Avoid.

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Thumbnail of user brians800
Mississippi
1 review
15 helpful votes
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August 11th, 2019

I signed up a couple months ago to find someone to spend some time with. Movies, dinner dates etc. Before buying credits I was swarmed with messages. So, I purchased the smallest "credit" packages. After looking through the messages I picked the ones I wanted to respond to. I've had numerous that would send a message and never respond back. Now, ask yourself. Why would someone send a message and never respond? Why would they send you a message, read it and never respond? Keep in mind that they initiated contact. This is nothing but a scam to get money. Avoid this site at all cost. It's full of fake profiles that I believe are set up by the site to rip people off. It should be set up the where the ladies have to pay and it will only recognize your current location. You can set up a profile and pick ANY state you want. There are a couple sites that are $90 a month but they actually have real ladies in your location to talk to. I'll be filing a dispute with my CC company.

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I’m very sorry to hear you haven’t enjoyed your experience on Secret Benefits. Our customer support has tried to contact you in order to help you have a more successful time on the site. I hope you have decided to give the site another try and that you will update your review to reflect that when you do.

As with any dating site, it can sometimes take awhile to find someone you match well with. It’s helpful to have a complete profile that let’s others know your likes, dislikes and what you are looking for. You can also greatly improve the responses you get by sending a good first message that entices them into responding. Please keep in mind that sometimes people can take a few days to reply to their messages and some might join and decide not to stick around for long.

I do hope you’ve been getting better results.

Thumbnail of user bradt205
Ohio
1 review
12 helpful votes
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September 3rd, 2022

Have to buy credits to communicate and then Convo with that person is free. Problem is any message you have opened and responded to you will never hear from them again always new people sending you a message only so you buy credits for bots. Actually see someone I know on site has the same pictures as Facebook does save your money better options available.

Tip for consumers:
Charge per month anything with credits is nothing more than a bot site

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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