Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 444 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 654th among Dating sites.
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Was a little skeptical about what to expect since this is my first time joining a sugar dating site, but its been a great experience so far! Their blog has been really helpful in figuring out how to message the guys and giving other tips like what to look for in an arrangement, how to tell real daddies from the fakes, etc. - awesome for a newbie like me. Ive got a few conversations going with different guys that Im really into right now well see where it goes from here!
Date of experience: November 29, 2017
Cool sugar dating site. It's super easy to use, and free, so who doesn't like that? Like every other dating site I've tried, there's a mixed bag of apples.
The filters they provide do narrow down things for me pretty well, but you never really know if you're chatting up a splenda or salt daddy until you basically go out with them, so you need to have a real nose for that so as to not waste your time.
Date of experience: October 30, 2018
Thanks for taking the time to submit a review of Secret Benefits. I'm glad you have enjoyed the site and that it's helped you find what you are looking for in a date.
Hi. Yes, I agree with many reviews that Secret Benefits is a quality dating website.
The reason is not only does secretbenefits.com work seamlessly for me, true success in this sense, at least for me is, finding someone you like to date and maybe form a relationship. In my case I have found a very great guy and we've been going great and the agreement is we are monogamous and see each other every weekend. We've talked about moving in together but I think we both appreciate having our own space for now.
Date of experience: August 25, 2022
Hello. My name is William Terrance. I would like to add that I started a free profile about a month ago and after a bit of searching and many notifications I decided to purchase a basic credit package to give some women of interest a shot.
To my pleasant surprise, many responded back, and I continued with a few interesting conversations.
Last night I met a very friendly and beautiful young woman at our local coffee shop and it was a slam dunk date. We came to an understanding of what we are looking for and she has agreed to continue to see me.
For me personally, it was my proof in the pudding that Secret Benefits is indeed a legit dating website.
Thank you,
William
Tip for consumers:
I think many appreciate a verified and completed profile.
Date of experience: March 21, 2023
Just feel the need to share that I recently took my profile down on Secretbenefits.com. After a lot of searching I finally met my match. She's more than I could have dreamed of. This site worked. Sometimes discouraged but perseverance paid off.
Date of experience: January 16, 2020
That's great to hear Ronald. Thanks for persevering and giving the site a good test drive. Sometimes things don't work out immediately so I'm glad you stuck with it.
It was recommended by a friend that has been on this site and had good luck.
I've been on several dates with great guys since I've been on. The site is easy to use, free for us gals which I love and seems to attract real quality guys. I'll also recommend to friends.
Date of experience: May 17, 2018
Great to hear Karlee! Thanks a lot for taking the time to submit your review and for recommending Secret Benefits to your friends!
As far as delivering on what you would basically expect from a decent dating website, Secret Benefits does the job. I appreciate the clean and modern design of the site, and it seems like they have a decent customer support. I have hit some dead ends that ended up being a waste of my time, but I've also had a handful of great experiences with a few local hotties. Buying credits vs a monthly membership is a bonus. I would say it's worth checking out if you're on the fence about it.
Date of experience: August 31, 2018
Thanks Gary for taking the time to submit the review. I'm glad to here Secret Benefits has "delivered" for you and that you've had some great experiences with local women.
It's been really good. Lots of men have shown me interest. Nice to be able to have some decent options. Seeing 1 guy on the regular and another kinda randomly. Still looking around and chatting guys on the site. Good fun.
Date of experience: May 4, 2020
I'm glad to hear you've been meeting guys and that the site has worked well for you. Thanks for taking the time to share.
I was skeptical at first as I've tried other sites with no success. However I've been on this site for about 3 months now and although it took a while I did make a very positive connection with a very nice gentleman. As with all sites you have to be patient and diligent if you want positive results.
Date of experience: December 4, 2017
Hi TW, thanks for taking the time to submit a review of SecretBenefits.com. We are really glad to hear you've had positive results and wish you the best of luck!
I have tried out several different dating sites but I unfortunately mostly get pervy and generic messages from guys that get to be very exhausting to waste my time on. Found this site kinda randomly while searching for alternatives on google. It's been a legit site so far. I've had some better intros from guys here although I've had some stereotypical messages as well. Seems like I can't completely avoid that. Had a couple of fun dates out. Would meet them again. Really the best things about this site are its a free membership and there are plenty of decent guys to choose from.
Date of experience: June 19, 2019
I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site and have had some fun dates.
Took a gamble trying out yet another dating website. This one was a bit different from others that I've tried which I guess is why I gave it a shot. The signup was quick and easy, plenty of good looking women in my city area, I've messaged a couple of the ones that stood out to me and they both responded and we are currently chatting back and forth. Everything seems to be on the up and up and I'm satisfied with how things are going so far.
Date of experience: April 27, 2020
That's great to hear, I'm glad your gamble paid off and that you've enjoyed the site. Thanks for sharing.
If you are not looking for anything too serious and you're also not into hook-up sites, I feel Secret Benefits would be a great fit. If you're a woman, everything on the site is free. Most of the men are generally 40's-60's. I personally really appreciate going out with more refined men that know how to truly treat a woman. Of course, there have been total lame-o's too, but surprisingly I've only run into a couple of them. My radar for jerks is pretty good. The only thing I wasn't really thrilled with is the lack of verified men's pics.
Date of experience: December 3, 2018
Thanks for sharing your experience Rachel. While we do communicate the importance of verifying pictures and videos to all our members in a variety of ways, nothing provides a stronger incentive than the request of a potential match. With that in mind, please encourage the men you contact to verify their pictures and videos.
The site is basic, so that' up to you if you like that, I found it at least easy to get started. There were not many guys I would likely date in my area - in normal life that is. I normally like to be approached, but I realize that messaging is only free to sugar babies, so I went on a limb and messaged a couple guys I thought were decent. No reply. I went for my second choices, and I did get some replies back. You have to both do some investigating to see what everyone is looking for, but I did end up on a decent date that turned out to be fun. I feel like I would see him again. Not too sure about the other guy's profiles in my area.
Date of experience: October 6, 2018
Thanks for your review Alicia. I'm glad to hear you were able to find a good date in your area. There are thousands of people signing up every day so keep on the lookout for more ideal matches in your area.
Secret Benefits has been working out great for me. The women on here for the most part are very receptive and open. I also like the way this site is designed and the credits idea is so much better than charging me monthly fees.
Date of experience: November 4, 2020
The site is basic, so that' up to you if you like that, I found it at least easy to get started. There were not many guys I would likely date in my area - in normal life that is. I normally like to be approached, but I realize that messaging is only free to sugar babies, so I went on a limb and messaged a couple guys I thought were decent. No reply. I went for my second choices, and I did get some replies back. You have to both do some investigating to see what everyone is looking for, but I did end up on a decent date that turned out to be fun. I feel like I would see him again. Not too sure about the other guy's profiles in my area.
Date of experience: August 13, 2018
Well, I've been using Secret Benefits for 10 days now. I get my opinion may not matter much, but for what it's worth, the website is easy to use and there are plenty of women. Been talking to one for the past week via video chat, and she's the real deal from what I can tell. I hope once this lockdown is loosened we can meet in person.
Date of experience: May 26, 2020
Me and my friend recently joined because it's free and we saw a video about this site being free and a good site to meet guys that will treat you out to nice places. Maybe not looking for anything serious but love meeting new and interesting guys.
Tip for consumers:
It’s free so why not? Just be safe.
Date of experience: August 8, 2023
I signed up a couple months ago to find someone to spend some time with. Movies, dinner dates etc. Before buying credits I was swarmed with messages. So, I purchased the smallest "credit" packages. After looking through the messages I picked the ones I wanted to respond to. I've had numerous that would send a message and never respond back. Now, ask yourself. Why would someone send a message and never respond? Why would they send you a message, read it and never respond? Keep in mind that they initiated contact. This is nothing but a scam to get money. Avoid this site at all cost. It's full of fake profiles that I believe are set up by the site to rip people off. It should be set up the where the ladies have to pay and it will only recognize your current location. You can set up a profile and pick ANY state you want. There are a couple sites that are $90 a month but they actually have real ladies in your location to talk to. I'll be filing a dispute with my CC company.
Date of experience: August 8, 2019
I’m very sorry to hear you haven’t enjoyed your experience on Secret Benefits. Our customer support has tried to contact you in order to help you have a more successful time on the site. I hope you have decided to give the site another try and that you will update your review to reflect that when you do.
As with any dating site, it can sometimes take awhile to find someone you match well with. It’s helpful to have a complete profile that let’s others know your likes, dislikes and what you are looking for. You can also greatly improve the responses you get by sending a good first message that entices them into responding. Please keep in mind that sometimes people can take a few days to reply to their messages and some might join and decide not to stick around for long.
I do hope you’ve been getting better results.
Have to buy credits to communicate and then Convo with that person is free. Problem is any message you have opened and responded to you will never hear from them again always new people sending you a message only so you buy credits for bots. Actually see someone I know on site has the same pictures as Facebook does save your money better options available.
Tip for consumers:
Charge per month anything with credits is nothing more than a bot site
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Date of experience: August 4, 2022
All these reviews are likely written by the fake profiles on there. You buy credits to talk to people and share and access photos and every convo will end the minute you respond. Been on SA for two years and was hopeful with this one because of the video verification. Helpful hint. If it's a name with a number behind it, it's likely a fake profile. If this review helps one person not waste their time, it will be energy well spent.
Oh, PS, have had great success on SA. This isn't the answer.
Tip for consumers:
Don't do it. Avoid.
Date of experience: June 8, 2021
My first date came together last night from Secret Benefits. It wasn't terrible, but I would not see him again. The main reason is that he was a total bore, kinda snooty, and I highly suspected he might be married. I can't blame the site for this, and I will give it a couple more tries. I do like the site concept, it is free and easy to use, so I hope things work out.
Date of experience: December 13, 2018
Thanks for taking the time to submit a review Jessica. I hope your future dates are better ones and appreciate you giving it another try.
Review:
A buddy of mine recommended SB after having some luck on the site. I wasn't into the idea at first as I have not always had great luck with other dating sites, and I didn't want to waste a bunch of time, but he told me it was more of an NSA type site, and it was an easy process to get started. Curious enough, I decided to give it a try. I have had a couple of nice dates so far, but I was stood up once as well... yet all around, I'm impressed with the process and how simple it is to hook-up compared to some of my past experiences with online dating. Just keep in mind, it's not free for guys. You have to buy credits to message women, but at least you can search to see if there is someone of interest before you commit.
Date of experience: October 17, 2018
I'm glad to to hear you've enjoyed your experience with Secret Benefits and thank you for taking the time to submit a review.
I admit that I spent a lot of time just looking at the women and considering options. Guess you can call me a tire kicker. Once I finally gathered myself and decided to get credits to message a beauty that grabbed my attention in particular I realized that this site was legit as we struck up a great convo and are currently dating on the reg.
Tip for consumers:
no, thank you.
Products used:
Dating service
Date of experience: January 22, 2024
Not a bad choice for a dating website. It's a much more direct and honest form of dating that everyone, for the most part, seems to understand and embrace. I really do like that I only pay when I want to open unlimited messaging with a woman of interest. They do it in credits, but I think it's maybe the equivalent to like 5 bucks. Cheaper than buying a girl a drink at a bar. All jokes aside, I've been getting dates with girls I wouldn't think would say yes to me, so that's really why I frequent this website so often.
Date of experience: November 26, 2018
Thanks for sharing your experience on Secret Benefits. I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site.
I would like to report that after dating the same gal that I met on Secret Benefits for the past 6 months we have agreed to seeing each other exclusively which I couldn't be more thrilled with. Angie has been everything I wanted in a woman and more so. Very thankful!
Date of experience: September 5, 2022
Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.
That's great Taylor, let's hope those conversations turn into successful relationships!