Secret Benefits

I joined after my friend recommended. I was on Tinder and found it almost impossible to find a decent guy that would follow through with a real live date. Still encounter an occasional perv but the overall higher caliber of men on SB is night and day. Meeting real men that treat me nice is a nice change.

I've been having a great time on secretbenefits.com. Currently seeing 2 guys and chatting 1 guy long distance. They all provide support in some way and have all been gentlemen. In all honesty, I like older guys. They know how to treat a lady and are not just trying to weasel their way into my pants. To each their own, but I'm loving this so far!

I had to go through a lot of chats and dates. Some became friends and others were duds.

It can at times be discouraging, but I the motivation to no be alone kept me going and after about 6 months of being on Secret Benefits as well as a couple of other dating apps, I met someone really special on this site and we have been going strong for 3 months now.

I would say to others about this site that it does work and there are plenty of options at least for me in a fairly populated area. I wouldn't lower my standards but I did have to learn to be flexible and more open minded with what people wanted. All in all a great site as long as you have patience and a good amount of social skills.

Str8 up best site among a few of these sites I tried in the past 2 years. I can usually open a chat with a cute babe and get something out of it worth my time 6 out of 10. My trick is going for the 7's and 8's, much easier that way.
I also tried SD and SA with some luck as well. I prefer to avoid the monthly charges.

A lot of girls sent me messages, once opened, they are just junks, basically I wasted my credits to see the messages. I sent out quite a few messages after they pinged me, no response anymore. This is just my experience.

It's been fun for me. I'm on Secret Benefits almost every day. I am chatting with a couple of really attractive guys. I also get new messages often. I'm not going out as much because of the coronavirus but I'm thinking about meeting with one of these guys that lives nearby me for lunch this week. The 3 best things about this site is that it's free, active, and has worked well every time I go on the site.

I just wanted to say that not all the SD's on this site have money. The last guy I went out with from this site wanted to eat at Red Lobster! I was like, uh, for reals!? There are some real deal sugar daddies on here, but you have to sniff them out.

There are a few things I really like this dating site for:

It's free for me to use! An obvious reason to like anything.
It's fast and easy to use. It's a no-nonsense service.
They seem to be getting lots of new profiles every time I look, so I'm not getting bored yet.
I'm meeting cool guys. They have, for the most part, been who they say they are and have treated me very well.
There are a couple of things I'm not crazy about:
They don't have a mobile app. I heard it's coming, so hopefully that happens soon.
Guys have told me they have to pay to open a conversation with me, so I think that's why several guys that I've been interested in haven't written me back. Although, that might also mean they're cheapos, and dutch treat ain't my thing.
All around a great dating website worth the time in checking out!

Super happy having recently found a great guy that has ticked off most of my boxes. Kind, handsome, generous and fun to be around.

Thanks and a big hug to SB for providing a great date site for singles!

Hi, my name is Sommer. I'm loving on the Secret Benefits website. I'm getting lots of attention and met a few really good guys. It's kind of shocking that it's completely free... I guess the guys pay, which is how it should be, hahahaha

After going through the possibilities of men I was willing to date from this website, I can report that I have committed to a very special man. The timing couldn't be better with everything going on. It's so nice to have someone that cares about me and that I can rely on. Thank you SB for restoring my faith in online dating!

So far so good seems like it's going somewhere and I'm actually going to find myself a sugar daddy. The men seem really kind and genuine and seemed pretty honest about what they're looking for summer absolutely not on there to be a sugar daddy but so far everyone I talk to you has been completely honest about their relationship status what they're looking for

I like that it's free and easy to use, I don't usually write reviews but I had a great experience with their customer service and I think it's good to recognize stuff like that. Online dating can be a bit scary and it's good to know they take safety and security very seriously. I won't go into details but definitely recommend checking out the site.

My friend told me about Secret Benefits a few months ago and I would like to share that my personal experience in the the past 2 months using the website has been fantastic!

The only things I would add is an app in the apple store and the ability to video chat. Everything else about the site is perfect including the price, free!

Shout out to the secretbenefits.com support! I had a bunch of silly questions and some difficulty getting my profile rolling to the point of feeling confident I could go live and dive into finding my match. The lady that helped me from the start was very kind and patient with me. I feel really bad that I didn't get her name. Really great support though. I can tell this site cares.

Bottom line: it costs a minimum of $59.00 to respond to or send any communication with a prospective SB, and you will be relentlessly e-mailed by these bots that "have left you a message".
Now ask yourself if you are a dumb$#*! or sucker enough to throw away $59 to have your lack of intelligence verified.

I do agree with several other reviewers that SB is a pretty darn solid site for arrangement dating.
I been getting solid action on the dating scene with few disappointments.
Site is solid all the way around.
Yeah, you got to use credits to message and not all will respond but from my experience, not a lot of funny business with the women as most seem eager to carry on a convo and meet up.

There are a few similar dating sites like Secret Benefits. So far, I've tried Seeking, Established Men, and Secret Benefits. My feelings on them are kinda mixed. EM was ok but not much to choose from in my area, SA was definitely busier but it seemed like a lot of bots and old profiles, SB has been a happy medium for me. Not as many profiles as SA but more recent signups and responses to my messages. The men I've met in person have been nice to me and for the most part look like their pics. I hope this comparison helps those looking.

I'm enjoying SB. I work at home, so I have virtually no social life making this site one of my "go tos" if I'm bored. I feel SB is a good site to use if you are not looking for something super serious. Although, I have been in contact with a couple of guys that were clearly looking for an LTR. Also, if you have issues with married guys there might be a few here and there.

I like it a lot. It is the first site that really works and has only genuine verified profiles. I gudge from men`s side but I believe for women it should be same comfortable. I read in previous reviews that video verification took too much time for somebody... For me it was less then one day and I think it is not long time to wait.

After a long stint of being single and stumbling through the odd world of modern dating I finally found who I think is perfect for me. Great chemistry, shared values and still very attractive as a silver fox, hahaha.
We are very happy as a couple and are both very grateful to have found each other on the Secret Benefits website.

I recently put up a profile on secretbenefits.com, and I wanted to say that everything checks out so far.

It was easy to create an account and I was taken straight to searching for women in my city.

I live on a boat, so it's not easy finding someone to date a guy like me especially since I like to sail to different locations and be out on the water for extended amounts of time. I'm pleased to have already met a couple of women that seem very receptive to this type of lifestyle. I appreciate being able to view videos of these ladies and be able to decide on messaging someone before there's any talk of using my paid credits. Very reasonable website.

Hello. I really like this dating website. I started with my friend last week and had a dinner date last night that was super fun. The guy was a bit older than me but he looked and smelled great and treated me better than any guy has my age.

All around I would say this sugar dating site is one of the best I've tried. It doesn't have as many members as some of the big ones do but the site has decent guys. Plus I think there is probably less competition on my side of the aisle. I would say give it a try.