Secret Benefits

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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India
1 review
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Really nice!
July 31, 2018

My experience so far has been some guys that claim to be sugar daddies really are not cut out for it. Just because they think they have money doesn't mean they like to spend it. Took me a bit to find a legit daddy that liked to spoil me. Not everyone or everywhere will be the same, but just beware there will sugar daddies and salty dogs on every dating site you try. This one found be a legit man after taking some time, so be picky and don't rush it!

Date of experience: July 31, 2018
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over a year old

Well said Carolyn and thank you for the review. Very glad you found your man even if it took a bit of work.

Colorado
1 review
1 helpful vote
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More ups than downs
November 26, 2018

My luck has kind of been all over the place with dating men from this website, but I do like the service all around. The amount and quality of really nice dates do outweigh the duds and lame-o's that I had the misfortune of going out with. Anywho, there are plenty of men to still choose from. I feel if you are looking to date fun guys that know how to treat a lady you can find that here. If you are looking for your true blue honey boo, it might be more of a challenge, but you never know, right?

Date of experience: November 23, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for sharing your experience on Secret Benefits. I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed the site. While you haven't met your true blue honey boo yet, I hope you do soon!

Australia
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Do not waste your money. This site comes up with more ways all the time for the males to spend money or credits on secret photos or secret questions. Fake girls / ladies that contact you so you can reply and they never answer again but you use your credits. Say well away from this site to many fakes some girls have three profiles at one time with same phones. Not worth a look

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Date of experience: March 5, 2023
GB
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Pleasently surprised
August 13, 2019

I signed a few months ago. I didn't buy the credits at first as I wanted to see what it was all about. After taking the plunge, I bought some credits and starting chatting. TIP! Go for the verified girls first if not you van waste time. It took about 8 conversations and had a real meeting with a girl. She was as per her pics, we got on well and will see her again today. A lot of the girls see I as a way of making cash for uni or just funding a life style. Others are actually looking for dates. Try it, be polite, hold intelligent conversations and you will meet girls. Dont fall in love with them though!

Date of experience: August 9, 2019
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over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and for offering your tips to other users. I hope you continue to enjoy yourself on SB.

District of Columbia
2 reviews
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Great
May 5, 2021

No nonsense or romantic bs just straight to the point ladies who are clear about what they want in return for what I want. I've been using the site a lot for frequent business trips and I've had more success than failure.

Date of experience: August 29, 2018
Nigeria
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Positive start
November 14, 2018

I jumped on SB mostly out of curiosity to see if I would have better luck than I was with a couple other major dating sites I'm on. I understand I'm the "new girl" in my area right now, but I've been getting a lot of positive attention so far. I went on my first date from the site last weekend. Really nice guy, a bit older than I normally date, but he was really fun and generous. I agreed to see him again. Happy with how things are going so far.

Date of experience: November 10, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with others. I'm glad to hear you found a nice guy and I hope that continues to go well.

Florida
5 reviews
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Great
May 5, 2021

I've met a few hot girls on here. I'm not one to kiss and tell but let's just say a guy like me has no business being up in that! To those who think sugar dating is gross, it's just a more honest version of something that has always been normal. All this site does is put me in contact with women who want a guy that isn't a loser and picks up the check.

Date of experience: July 5, 2018
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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You have earned yourself a very happy customer. After being on your site for two months, using 60 credits on a handful of conversations, and being very amused along the way, I found myself the girl of my dreams. We have really hit it off with each other, communicate all day with each other, and our time together is amazing. Many thanks!

Date of experience: August 18, 2020
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Yes, my ladies, u can find very nice men on Secret Benefits, but some are very mysterious because maybe they have other women, but also many good guys are happy to meet and do fun things. Don't be discouraged easily but also be careful. This site works and is free but you can't find an app.

Date of experience: May 3, 2023
Washington
1 review
6 helpful votes
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I'm out
February 26, 2020

Took my profile down today. I met the man I was hoping for! We are currently working on moving in together and figuring out some small details but everything is working out perfectly so far. Haters will be haters, players will be players, but when you find someone legit you just know it. Very happy I joined Secret Benefits!

Date of experience: February 26, 2020
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over a year old

Sorry to see you go but glad it was for the right reasons! Good luck with your new man!

Georgia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Odds are good
December 7, 2018

I would say that this one is worth a try. The site works as you would expect it to, super fast, and easy to navigate. Naturally, everywhere will be different, but I found my search area to have plenty of women to choose from. I would say my average right now is a date out of every 3 women I message, and thankfully, the women on here haven't beat around the bush too much with me before I get a date with them, so the odds are decent IMO.

Date of experience: December 4, 2018
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over a year old

Sounds like you've been enjoying your experience and I'm glad to hear you've been able to go out on several dates thanks to Secret Benefits.

California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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An Awesome site
December 3, 2018

I have had great luck on the Secret Benefit site... in the past year I have had well over 20 dates, and half turned out to be imitate encounters. Two of the women became sugar babies who I dated for five to six months. Some reviews claim some of the woman are fakes... woman put on the site by the people who operate it. I definitely have not found that to be the case. The only problem for me is finding woman in my area... so many live 50 to 100 miles away and distance is an issue. I would give the site 5 stars!

Date of experience: November 30, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear, thanks for taking the time to share your experience. Good luck in the future.

Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Sugar dating
September 5, 2018

I think this site has some good potential. Verified photos are helpful and so far they've been accurate. I've met lots of girls over the last year but have also spent a lot of money. The girls I've met have had reasonable expectations, something I've had difficulty with on some other sites. I'd give it 3.5 stars but there's not option so they get the benefit of the doubt.

Date of experience: September 4, 2018
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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The real deal
May 5, 2021

If you are on the fence about SB, don't sweat it. It's exactly what you would hope and expect it to be. I've been active on the site since early 2017, and I have never had any issues. Yes, I've had a few bad dates, but I can't hold them accountable for that.
My best advice at least for any woman on the site is to just put your best foot forward and be proactive. It's also good to be flexible as you go, but try to get your wish list done and stick to what you really want as long as it's realistic. Oh, and please don't put up with jerks! I've found plenty of really nice guys on the site too.

Date of experience: November 9, 2018
Germany
3 reviews
9 helpful votes
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Great site, great ladies
November 30, 2017

I've had some very good dates with ladies I've met on this site. Sure there are some flaky girls but that comes with the territory. All in all good value for money compared to other sites, and I now have a couple of sugar babies I meet up with a few times a month to keep me happy.

Date of experience: November 30, 2017
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Great to hear George and thanks for taking the time to submit a review, we appreciate the positive feedback!

Ohio
1 review
0 helpful votes
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As a returning user I would like to say that Secret Benefits has been a good service for finding women to date. I found a very beautiful woman here over a year ago. We moved on since, and I joined this site again. I met someone new and things are going great. Very pleased indeed.

Date of experience: July 30, 2020
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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The best support for online dating sites
April 13, 2022

Wrote the Secretbenefit support last night with an issue about another member and woke up with an answer back and problem solved. Each interaction I have had with this sites support has been top notch. The only improvement that I would be happy to see is a live chat feature but I understand that requires a lot of 24 hour staff and I'm happy with what I'm paying for as is.

Date of experience: April 13, 2022
Oklahoma
1 review
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Impressive
November 19, 2018

My first impression of SB is a good one. I had been on SA for a few years, and it was getting kind of stale for me. I read about this site from a forum I'm on, and it got some good mentions, so I figured why not? I signed up last night and sent out I don't know how many messages to guys (I think I was a bit tipsy). I was kind of shocked when I checked my messages today which I guess is why I'm writing this. I woke up to several replies this morning, and one was from a really cute guy that looks like he can take care of himself. Needless to say, I chatted him up and accepted a date for tomorrow night at a Bistro nearby me. Kinda stoked on the fresh start I seem to be starting for myself here. I would say it's worth checking out for sure!

Date of experience: November 15, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for the great review. I hope your date was a huge success.

Ohio
1 review
7 helpful votes
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At first I was skeptical, and didn't allow time to see the system work. Customer service gave some good tips. Not saying all the ads of women are current and updated. But you have to understand that they are skeptical has we are and are weeding out the fakes has well. You be better off getting straight to the point of your intentions. It worked out for me. Thus far. Over all I'm happy with the service.

Date of experience: February 26, 2020
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience Ross. I'm glad you decided to give the site some time and that your patience paid off.

Missouri
1 review
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Can and mouse
November 20, 2018

I'm not sure if I just know how to pick them or my luck is just really this bad, but I have not been able to land a solid date with any of the guys I've been chatting with since I signed up a couple weeks ago. It's like this hot and cold they keep playing and it's totally discouraging to me. I really like the site as far as getting on and using it and there are plenty of men to choose from, but c'mon. Something has to give. Not sure if it's because they are married, or shy, or busy, or bad timing, or maybe it's just me? This is my first online dating experience so I'm not really sure what to expect but I would love to find a good guy on the site that would commit to a time and place.

Date of experience: November 16, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for submitting a review of your experience on Secret Benefits. Sometimes it takes a bit of time to find the right match in the online dating world, hopefully you've been successful by now and if not, I'm sure you will be soon.