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Secret Benefits has a rating of 3.2 stars from 442 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention customer service, sugar baby, and last night. Secret Benefits ranks 695th among Dating sites.

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Positive reviews (last 12 months): 66.7%
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Top Positive Review

“Redemption”

Dennis A. P.
7/5/24

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match. Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Top Critical Review

“Scam profiles and only accept Bitcoin”

Mike W.
10/2/24

SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

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Thumbnail of user weisgerberabobby66
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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December 21st, 2023

I am giving a shout to Secret Benefits for their service particularly support today getting back with resolution.
I haven't found serious log term but there are some real people looking for connections from my experience.

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Not really. They run a good operation

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Thumbnail of user dauglasrea2
South Carolina
1 review
1 helpful vote
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February 20th, 2024

This hasn't been my first choice, but 2nd time giving SB a try, and I'm actually meeting women now.
This site is restoring my faith in finding someone special to share my very fortunate life with.

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Spell check. Be respectful.

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Thumbnail of user lavitaa
Alabama
1 review
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January 31st, 2022

I don't normally expects these kind of date sites to have such good support for its members, but the last 2 interactions via email was super fast and very courteous. Means a bunch to me where I've tried similar dating web sites and responses would often be unfriendly if at all.

Tip for consumers:
They verify your video verification fast which boosts interest. Don’t hesitate to contact

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Thumbnail of user brandyf22
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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December 3rd, 2018
Verified purchase

Everything on SB is thoughtfully done. There are enough guys to choose from I guess. Could always use more. I'm just dating around right now, so I do appreciate the casual date atmosphere without the sleazy feeling.

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Glad to hear you are enjoying your experience on Secret Benefits.

Thumbnail of user freddyk14
New York
1 review
7 helpful votes
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August 15th, 2019

I had a great relationship from Secret Benefits that lasted about 8 months. We recently parted ways, so I jumped back on recently and I'm blown away at how many more women joined in my area since I was last on! Chatting with a couple of beauties right now. Looking forward to a date with one this weekend. Very happy the site is still going strong and attracting more women. Maybe I won't look for anything too serious this time. Looks like there are plenty to play around with and have some fun for a while. Keep it up!

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Thanks for taking the time to submit a review about your experience. I'm glad to hear you are enjoying yourself, welcome back.

Thumbnail of user karenm735
Missouri
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 28th, 2018

I tried out several sugar dating sites with not much luck. After a month of being on Secret Benefits the man of my dreams contacted me! We have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. No offence, but I just hope I dont need to go back on that site again anytime soon. Lol

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That's great to hear Karen, sorry we won't have you around any more but really glad to hear it's for the right reasons :)

Thumbnail of user hortenciar
Florida
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February 18th, 2021

I tried out several sugar dating sites with not much luck. After a month of being on Secret Benefits the man of my dreams contacted me! We have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. No offence, but I just hope I dont need to go back on that site again anytime soon. Lol

Thumbnail of user timk261
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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October 8th, 2019

Very happy with Secret Benefits. Didn't know what to expect, but I knew the type of woman I wanted. Signing up and searching is free so no commitment until I found the one that made my heart pound. Didn't mess around. Bought some credits, messaged her, next morning I got a nice message back from her. After our first date it has been pure magic. So happy words can't explain. Feeling reborn! Thank you Secret Benefits!

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That's great to hear. It's nice to know that your date was magic and I hope future ones are just as good.

Thumbnail of user kevinb2617
Australia
1 review
10 helpful votes
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June 15th, 2022

True I earn good money but it does not mean you have to charge me "almost": $10 for each message, $10 to see her photos, $30 to be her top admirer, $10 to highlight my messages in her message list… this is a rip off in the broad daylight. After sending messages randomly 99 percent of the girls even do not bother to look at your profile let alone replying back… interestingly some message you but when I reply back then they either disappear or go into ghost mode. You have no privacy and they continually edit your profile information for their own benefits to make people ask and message each other as much as possible. For example I put " weekly allowance for the loyal girl" and they removed it because it's against their " guidelines" and people should exchange messages to know about each other's condition which means more benefits for the website…obviously not fair at all in my opinion. Looking for other options

Tip for consumers:
Save your time and money …

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Thumbnail of user juliaf149
Nebraska
1 review
4 helpful votes
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October 2nd, 2020

I would like to share that I did meet a wonderful man on Secret Benefits!

Started slow but was obvious we had something right away.

You should always use caution when meeting people online, so use your good common sense, but if you are wondering about this website, I give them an enthusiastic approval!

Best of luck to everyone else out there looking for someone special!

Thumbnail of user ajf33
Canada
1 review
7 helpful votes
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June 29th, 2022

I've tried it two different times about a year apart. And haven't ever received a response whether I initiated it or a woman did. Sure get lots of messages but there's nothing there. Don't waste ur money. On upside the customer support team was amazing. Refunded my purchase and gave me free credits.

Tip for consumers:
Don’t waste ur money. All these girls write u and then never answer when u respond.

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Thumbnail of user greenb49
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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May 30th, 2019

There are several sites like this one that promise the same thing but so far I've had most luck finding successful guys on Secret Benefits. I've found two semi-long term partners here and am back looking for a third. The site has changed quite a bit since my last romp through, more guys to sift through but still a great option.

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That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your positive experience.

Thumbnail of user emiliag6
Maine
1 review
1 helpful vote
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June 13th, 2018

I've never had one problem with this site, it's fun, safe, and a wonderful way to get into the sugar baby lifestyle. I really enjoy getting the emails from Stella, and hearing about the other girls stories as well!

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Thanks Emilia, we are very happy to hear you enjoy Secret Benefits and that it has allowed you to realize your dream sugar baby lifestyle.

Thumbnail of user paulv159
Virginia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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June 24th, 2019

As a man, I have started to have luck conversing with promising future dates, when suddenly the login started asking for a "verification code sent to" my email. Despite repeated requests for codes and emailing them directly, I never received anything from them, not even in spam folder. However, upon contacting SB, they responded fairly quickly and solved the problem. This is a really good site with real women on it.

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Sorry for the glitch but I'm glad we were able to get the problem solved. I'm glad you are enjoying the site.

Thumbnail of user tonyj95
Virginia
1 review
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August 22nd, 2018

Run! Three months on site didn't meet one woman. They deleted my profile when I wrote
"this site is fake" to a girl who was a bot or employee, so they read your messages.
This site is a scam filled with bots or probably even paid girls to get men to spend their credits. The girls will look real, probably stolen pics. This site uses the same tactics as able Madison. Real women are few and far between and some asked me for $800 week allowances but expected no intimate relationship.

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Secret B. – Secret Benefits Rep

Sorry you didn't enjoy your experience. There are no bots on the site and nobody is paid to make men spend their credits. As with any dating site, we can't ensure that members will reply to messages. We have thousands of women and men signing up on a daily basis, unfortunately not all of them become active. It sounds like you were unable to come to agreeable terms with another member, sorry to hear that but it hardly warrants such an unfair review.

Thumbnail of user davida3580
Florida
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March 29th, 2022

I've been using dating apps and online classifieds for many years now and have had some great experiences meeting amazing women and also some very horrible/nightmarish experiences.

After using this dating website for the past couple of months, my opinion soley based on how it's worked for me has been great. I'm seeing 2 very beautiful women and currently chatting a couple others. I'm not ready to settle on just one person at the moment and the ladies I'm seeing are ok with that as well.

The site itself works like a charm, no bugs, chat is fast, very responsive site all around. It does take effort on my end as anything does if you want real results. I would say the only issue I have is I would like to see a more comprehensive filter section. Otherwise, I'm very please and would recommend to anyone considering this site.

Tip for consumers:
Go in with good attitude, make a good profile, and keep the convos upbeat and clean.

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Thumbnail of user jennyj86
Florida
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February 18th, 2021
Verified purchase

I reported a guy who wanted my bank info, supposedly to pay me before meeting - that's a big NO ladies, don't walk. RUN.

Customer service was very fast to respond and seemed genuinely interested in getting the guy off the site as soon as possible. There are scammers everywhere, good to know they try to remove them.

The site seems good, haven't met anybody yet but I haven't decided if this whole scene is for me or not.

Thumbnail of user helenj75
Maryland
1 review
1 helpful vote
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September 12th, 2018
Verified purchase

I started a profile on Secret Benefits just out of curiosity mostly. I honestly had no expectations. I've used other more vanilla dating sites but never a sugar dating site before, so I don't have a similar site to compare from. However, all-in-all, I like that it's free, signing-up was super fast, I do get replies from guys every day I go on, chatting with several, and 4 successful dates this past month. Some guys are more generous than others, but they have all been sweet and acted like gentlemen. It seems I have more interest coming in from guys I've messaged before hand vs guys approaching me first.

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Thanks for sharing your experience Helen. I'm really glad to hear you've been enjoying your foray into sugar dating and that Secret Benefits has allowed you to meet some nice guys.

Thumbnail of user jens148
Massachusetts
1 review
5 helpful votes
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October 13th, 2018

I see mixed reviews on this site. My experience is that I set up shop talked to a bunch met a few with no issues and just like a review below it sudden stopped working. I no longer got likes or messages when no activity nothing. Then when I asked someone else I talk to from the site they said my profile isn't active. I contacted customer service several times over the course of a week and a half and I've gotten no reply. I even made a couple more accounts which the pictures are still waiting approvals days later and still no customer service response. Kind of shady if you ask me

Thumbnail of user karlenek3
New York
1 review
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October 8th, 2019

Not too sure why a few here give this site a bad rating. I feel it's really one of the better date sites I've tried mostly because I'm actually meeting legit men here. I mean, we're all here for the same reason, right? I rarely feel I'm wasting my time and most of the men I have a good chat and connection with online follow through and meet in person. Seeing 2 men regularly but also going out every once in a while with someone new. Don't listen to the haters. It works if you give it an honest go and have some smarts regarding online dating.

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I'm glad to hear you are enjoying your experience with Secret Benefits and appreciate you taking the time to write about it.

Thumbnail of user shm75705
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 8th, 2023

I signed up and took the chance at finding a companion on SB, and only after 2 months searching and going out a few times, I found an absolute bombshell that vibes perfectly with me and my lifestyle. Cheers to this site for helping bring us together.

Tip for consumers:
There are some gems on the site. Due diligence required.

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Thumbnail of user rayo111
Florida
1 review
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January 28th, 2022

I was having trouble getting photos of female profiles to load on a competitor dating site. Gave SB a try out of frustration and it's been going great. Several very attractive women are interested in pursuing a relationship and I've met 2 so far in person and both were the real deal!

Tip for consumers:
focus efforts on verified with full profile

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Thumbnail of user misss35
Oregon
1 review
6 helpful votes
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June 8th, 2019

I'd be using the site as a woman for the last week. I've got a ton of a messages, admirers, matches. Out of nowhere I got a notification that my account was limited and I needed to verify myself with a video. No problem, submitted a video. Verification is only suppose to take 24-48 hours and now it's been 120. I'm livid. I had a few dates set up through the site and I can't even message them back because the stupid site won't verify me. I've messaged support at least 4 times with no response. This issue is killing my chances of meeting anyone and ruining any chance I did have with the men I was talking to. Completely unacceptable and $#*!ty customer service.

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Hi Miss S,

Customer Support have informed me that your account was verified and taken care of. Sorry it took longer than expected and I hope you'll enjoy using the site and update this review when you do.

Thumbnail of user davidv442
Ohio
1 review
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November 28th, 2019
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After the site gave me 200 credits, I decided to keep on trying and see what happens. As normal with this site, a lot of women here are 1 timers. They make a profile, use it for a week then disappear, they may have found someone or decided being a SB is not for them, who knows. Most of my messages under "new members" go unanswered, with some never showing to be read. Again, seems like a lot of girls get on this site, and move on. So my next plan was to only contact women who were "online recently", I actually did have 4 girls contact me back. So there's a start. Unfortunately, 2 of them never came back online. So, after 2 months and almost all the credits gone, I have yet to meet anyone, and have 2 girls that just want to text. SB is a real hit and miss, at-least in my area, maybe it will get better with time, one thing I would like to see as far as sending messages - if they go unread don't charge me for them. That would actually give me back about 100 credits.

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Who want to cam for you or just chat/text (no meet up_).
August 21st, 2019
• Previous review

This is getting wide spread here, I find it to be girls 24 and under so far. They message you, wanting to be a Sugar Baby. But infact they don't even want to meet, they just want your money a very little in return. Some want to chat, others want to sell pics. They are on the wronge site. Here is a short list so far to saty away from.
Felicia_098 wants to private cam for money
Kyrsten_210 Wants to text or chat for allowance - no meet up.
SweetBabyGirl45 wants to chat - no meet up

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August 14th, 2019
• Previous review

Like others, i created a profile and had girls contact me. So I purchased the minimum, and checked one out, that messaged me. Of course no response when i get back with her. After a few weeks, I realized that every new profile that was made - I would get an automated email from her. So there it is, Automated emails. I used half my credits up already on girls who messaged me 1st, just to find it was a scam. Also, if you pay attention, they but on a new girl a least once a week, and the others show the girls never sign in again after the first week. I thin they pay them to make a profile. I only see 3 girls that may be real. Oh, then they say verified members, - do a search under verified and it cuts about half them out. Go somewhere else and save your money. They wont refund...

Thumbnail of user timk283
New Hampshire
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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October 21st, 2019

I gave this site a try a couple years ago. Ended up getting serious with someone until recently.

Single again and happy they kept my profile. Jumped back on the horse and blown away by how many more ladies are on the site since I last looked.

Got a bunch of favorites and having a great time chatting a few right now. Got a hot date lined up this weekend at a new restaurant nearby. Pumped about the prospects here. Gotta be one of the best dating sites I've tried.

Tip for consumers:
Be honest. Put up good pics. Write a good opening message.

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Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I'm glad you decided to come back and that you like what you've seen!

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Secret Benefits is a dynamic online meeting place where generous and attractive people can find their dream relationship. Millions of people have used Secret Benefits to find adventure and companionship, creating unique relationships that are mutually fulfilling. Find your ideal date today.

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