Secret Benefits

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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value
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quality
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Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This site is nothing but a relatively crafty scheme to lure suckers into a credit card data entry form. What's even more annoying is how stupid you'll feel when you realize how easy it was for them to take you for a ride. It seems plausible at first: Chat with some babes and set up a deal for a "secret benefit" Haha Cute. Except none of the pictures are real. If the operators were smart, they would keep the scam going with some phony chat bots. The whole thing is stupid. All around.

Date of experience: March 6, 2025
Colorado
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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Fake profiles 4 you to$$
December 12, 2024
Updated review

I literally put several pictures of my c**k that is blurred out by the site and I keep getting dozens of messages every day the site is fake all Bots geared for you to spend money to read the messages complete scam

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Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: December 2, 2024

Scam
December 2, 2024
Previous review

Mostly fake profiles and bots sending you lots of messages and matches to just spend money total scam Mostly fake profiles and bots sending you lots of messages and matches to just spend money total scam

Date of experience: November 22, 2024
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Update
They have refunded my payment without argument which was a nice surprise. That doesn't change that their appear to be no actual people in their site so, caveat emptor.

I started using this site pretty recently. It took a while to decide to buy some coins because I am skeptical. Before buying the coins, I was getting attention from different accounts so I thought I would get a read on the site and paid my dues.
I have messaged a number of accounts that had already "liked" me thinking they would be the most likely to respond. No responses but new people were liking my account, trying to separate me from more coins. I suspect the women get a share of the coins for a first message. Bear in mind that each person contacted costs a few dollars for that first message, a few more to see private pictures, etc... it would be better to directly pay for some attention.
The attached pictures show a couple who "Liked" me, though there were more, those I messaged, many of whom had liked me, and my last 10 credits. It takes 10 to do anything and they cost less the 💰 rebyou buy. My 100 credits was $59 or.59/credit. Each first message is almost $6.

Date of experience: December 3, 2024
Illinois
1 review
1 helpful vote
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SWM, I've used this site off and on for about 4 years with varied results. One of the most annoying things about it; The site automatically sends out messages and likes from dormant female accounts just to get you to spend credits. Now lately they won't take credit or debit cards which I've used for years. They only accept Bitcoin to purchase credits to contact other site members. What a load of crap!

Date of experience: September 22, 2024
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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After over 3 years of almost daily use of this site, you begin to notice strange things happening that are not legitimate because there are advanced bots on this site, as well as very good photoshopping. I've received replies that will vaguely answer one question out of 5, or none at all. Also, if photos are sent to you and any of them are the same as what they already in their profile, it's a bot. You will also see photos that are reversed, with a negative image, like the person is in the exact same pose, but the background has moved from the right to the left, and her watch has magically moved from the right arm to the left, as well as the pink bracelet on her other wrist, which is totally an A.I. Deep Fake image. In 3 years, I video chatted with one woman, and she was at a desk with 2 monitors. The chat lasted 6 minutes and a week later I was ghosted when I only wanted letter writing. Also, some received letters will have paragraphs that are repeated, as well as repeated, identical sentences in various profiles. Note the screenshot of the woman in the red dress. The background is reversed, but the woman is in the absolute exact same pose. If you write a negative review on this site, or any other, you will get a reply from them within minutes, asking for your profile name and email, offering you a bonus. If the bait is taken, automatically, your I.P. Address gets permanently banned. It's extremely difficult to tell which profiles are deep fakes unless you know how to detect them, but there's many on this site.

A.I. Photoshopping / woman in red dress, background reversed as negative image.
Date of experience: September 9, 2024
Pennsylvania
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Redemption
July 5, 2024

I've been ghosted twice from chicks on this site, but the last one just majorly redeemed herself yesterday. Tbh, I was about done with trying on here, but just like that, I think I just met my match.
Amy and I have found a great arrangement that works for both of us and I'm actually excited. Upward and onward!

Date of experience: June 25, 2024
New York
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Lots of users and many contacts. All of whom seem to have ADD and so never reply past their initial contact. It's almost as if they're contacting you to get you to spend your credits (it's 10 credits to reply to a message or initiate contact)
My biggest complaint however is that site administrators will edit your profile info if they don't like the tone. They even removed text from my profile because I said I didn't smoke and didn't want to match with those who do.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: April 9, 2024
Florida
5 reviews
9 helpful votes
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Total scam
March 29, 2024

Total scam. Took my $170 and deleted me the first day for unspecified violations of their rules. When I specifically asked them how I violated they didn't answer and said I would receive a refund in five to ten business days. But they charged my account the same day. And I didn't get my refund so I'm complaining to my credit card company.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: March 19, 2024
Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Hello. I would like to say that I use Secret Benefits when visiting the US. Sadly, it does not operate in Germany. However it is very effective in the States and what's also nice is you only pay the credits and not by the month.

Date of experience: May 28, 2024
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I met a fine woman from the secretbenefits.com site last night and she was great!
I didn't expect to meet anyone on this site, so I want to tell others about it now because I normally don't have such luck with online dating.
Thanks,
Flavio

Date of experience: May 6, 2024
Connecticut
1 review
1 helpful vote
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As I hoped for
March 9, 2024

I found sb to be a well balanced date site. Modern with many women in my area. Not all respond to my outreach but the ones that do are pleasant and open to meeting and discussing what we both want. Haven't settled one anyone but having fun with the process

Date of experience: March 8, 2024
Michigan
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I gotta say something about Secret Benefits. I expected to throw my cash away like I have on other dating apps, but 3 real hot dates in a month off this site is awesome for me.

Date of experience: July 2, 2024
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I have been on a few sites like SB and there's not a lot wildly different or that stands out other than the women I have met. By far, I've had more quality dates from this site and that's why I think they deserve a mention and my 5 star rating.

Date of experience: April 22, 2024
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Functional and fun
March 25, 2024

I've been using this dating website for several months now and can attest to it being a good service. Secretbenefits is better than others in the space if you are looking for somewhat unconventional dating

Date of experience: March 15, 2024
Georgia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Hi. Just for those wondering about secretbenefits.com, it does work. I was on for about 4 months and met many fine ladies until I met my current gf. Could say was love at first site. I recommend to try if curious to find a good match.

Date of experience: April 11, 2024
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I am writing here to say that I have met a real beauty that has captured my heart. I honestly never thought I would meet someone like Rebecca. Pinching myself right now.
How can I take my profile down or hide it is my question now.

Date of experience: March 5, 2024
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Kudos to the support
April 15, 2024

I gotta Give a shout out to the SB support. Very fast response and it was clear that I was communicating with a real person that understood and sympathized with my situation. This is one of the things that makes a dating website like this one great👏🏻

Date of experience: April 4, 2024
Texas
3 reviews
45 helpful votes
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Bots? Probably a lot.
March 10, 2022

Yeah most definitely bots here, I'm a fan of most Credit systems in general however on this site it seems that you get tons of interest from girls who favorite you, give you access to their private pictures and message you, then seem to ghost you after you unlock the messaging portion. I honestly would not bother. Secret benefits was nice enough to refund me and provide additional credits, I did get marginal success with more credits so there are some real girls out there!

Date of experience: February 8, 2022
New York
1 review
15 helpful votes
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Scam!
April 6, 2023

Same experience as other people! You need credits for anything on the website. I mean I don't have problems to pay for the service but the accounts are fake or bot- generated. How can be possible that I sent 30 messages and I barely received one back? Forget it

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: March 7, 2023
Maryland
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Updated review
March 30, 2023

After my initial review about presence of bots, SB came back and explained the situation. So I am going to give them benefit of doubt and continue using the site. Will update this again later based on the outcome.

Date of experience: February 28, 2023