Best to cut your losses and run as soon as possible. Don't sink deeper into the mud, get it? I am no longer online on any 'dating' websites. Best decision i ever made. Gather up your courage and meet the girls you can see face to face. You will get some rejections and some will accept you. Just a word of warning, be prepared for rejections. May be saving up some money and travelling is a way of meeting people. I travelled to the UK in January and met some nice people. Some will become your friends, others, you just meet and that is it. Best of luck.