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Abf Heaven has a rating of 1.6 stars from 29 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Abf Heaven most frequently mention chat room, front page, and good people problems. Abf Heaven ranks 705th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“A lovely growing community”

Chuflay Z.
1/2/23

On ABF Heaven I have found a lot of lovely fellows, male and female ones. I can hardly understand the bad ratings in here as Michael works hard to make the site a save place for any ABF friend. Surely there are strange people sometimes but you will find them everywhere. And yes, the sight might not be the most blingbling one but it is functional, stable, made with love and practical. Besides I don't know any side where you can suppose the owner ideas for the site - and some of them get implemented. I truly like the site and the people filling it with life & love. Chuflay

Top Critical Review

“Yuck”

Holly C.
4/15/24

Hate this place </3 The 1 man that owns the website and his little gang can break site rules, push people away from the chat room and generally act in a nasty manner to their hearts content but if anyone else dare to say something, offer an opinion or criticism or step out of line then your account will be deleted with no chance of defending yourself!?! It's super sad to see a space with actual potential rotting from the inside out cuz of thin skinned, hypocritical management on a power trip and a few 'loud' bullies who have the backing of the management. A handful of women who get their kicks encouraging men to treat us ladies like objects, and a handful of men who act like your classic white knights but I swear they are under eeevery woman's photo on that site in the comment box saying sleazy, shameless things. At times its kinda hard to agree if they are doing it out of malice/mental issues or out of sheer short-sighted ignorance smh -_-

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1 review
6 helpful votes
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April 15th, 2024

Hate this place </3
The 1 man that owns the website and his little gang can break site rules, push people away from the chat room and generally act in a nasty manner to their hearts content but if anyone else dare to say something, offer an opinion or criticism or step out of line then your account will be deleted with no chance of defending yourself!?!
It's super sad to see a space with actual potential rotting from the inside out cuz of thin skinned, hypocritical management on a power trip and a few 'loud' bullies who have the backing of the management. A handful of women who get their kicks encouraging men to treat us ladies like objects, and a handful of men who act like your classic white knights but I swear they are under eeevery woman's photo on that site in the comment box saying sleazy, shameless things. At times its kinda hard to agree if they are doing it out of malice/mental issues or out of sheer short-sighted ignorance smh -_-

Tip for consumers:
not safe for women....
not safe for genuine men who actually care...

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1 review
3 helpful votes
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April 24th, 2024

I have been very upset about the shift in mood here. My friends list has dwindled down as members have been deleted by the power mad admin or they have just left because of the depressing vibe.
It wasnt always like this...the admin actually used to be a fun guy who would hang out in the chat with us and be friendly but this all changed a couple of years ago and the only people he will banter with are this small gang of people who are responsible for said shift in mood.
So, he has sided with a gang of people who, in his eyes, can do absolutely no wrong! They get to run the chat room (and as such, no one wants to go in it anymore), they get to say and do what they want with no consequences and everyone else better shut up and not complain or share concerns because you will either be bullied off the website or, which is happening more and more frequently, the admin will simply delete your account with no way for you to stand up for yourself or argue your point.
This means everyone else has to now walk on egg shells...dont you DARE say anything remotely out of line or little Hitler will pop an erection from being able to delete someone else off of his crumbling website and laugh about it with his gang of, honestly, utter $#*!s

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A lot of the good men have left...a scary amount of the men still remaining have profiles with awful spelling, no grammar and no punctuation. You know, basic things you learn as a child. They also can't seem to hold a conversation that isnt just the word 'tits' over and over again.
A lot of the good women have been deleted....thanks to little Hitlers gang of women who hate other women and are jealous to the point of getting others deleted so they can stand out. Disgusting place at the moment :(

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1 review
3 helpful votes
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May 15th, 2024

The guy running the site is a total dip$#*!. He's irrational and a bit creepy.
Avoid this site. It's a total scam.

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Avoid.

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1 review
9 helpful votes
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December 22nd, 2023

Every time I register my account gets deleted within 24 hours. No reason or explanation given. I have emailed them several times and have no response. Why can't they just tell me why? It's a little weird.

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1 review
11 helpful votes
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December 15th, 2023

Michael protects females (Jessica… who he also removed from the site lol) who violate his own rules and promote their OF subscriptions and breast milk for purchase.

And if you make a comment against one of "Michael's Angels" he will hold a grudge.

After being warned in a private message to behave, Michael antagonized me in a public chat and when I wouldn't bend to his will, I was immediately deleted.

The man has a lot of bias and does not know how to manage his own temper.

PS - there's some serious technical issue with the audio.

Tip for consumers:
Don’t waste your time going through the registration process

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1 review
23 helpful votes
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January 12th, 2023

It is fair to say that Michael had a few calls on the site with me and wanted to meet up. When this didn't happen he kept taking my videos down but saved them for his own personal use and restricted my account so that I could no longer reply to messages that I received. I now cannot even log into my account. Sadly it seems that it is being run for the owners own personal use. It was a shame, as a lactating lady it was good to met up with one or two of the more local members.

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1 review
16 helpful votes
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December 5th, 2022

Michael the sites admin bans people if they are men. If you are a user that does anything to even slightly get on one of the female on the sites nerves expect your account to be deleted without notice or explanation. For example I friend requested a female on the site and failed to notice her profile said "not accepting friend requests" so she complained to the admin and he banned me for that. I had months worth of friends and conversations i've had with people on the site gone in an instant for that. Funny how the only other review is almost identical to mine. Don't waste your time and definitely don't give Michael any of your money. The women on this website are not worth it and it really just seems like a playground for Michael to use his admin powers to see all the women's private photos.

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Don’t waste your time

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1 review
9 helpful votes
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November 21st, 2023

The site is poorly managed. I would love to meet and interact with people that are in my area, but it seems as though it might be impossible on a site like this. Competely disrespectful and there is no transparancy. If you ask questions be prepared to be ridiculed and/or banned with no reason attached.

Edit: Please keep in mind that the 5 star reviews were all (minus 1) were created in January 2023; within a day or so of one another. Those part of the clique were told to boost the poor rating, and did so without a second thought.

Tip for consumers:
It might just be better to sift around on FetLife instead. All other dedicated sites seem to have a similar problem. It's either that, or you have to dole out some cash for a mediocre time.

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1 review
11 helpful votes
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March 13th, 2023

Sites ok - Michael is a cuck to certain verified women & they can do no wrong in his eyes - very quick to ban anyone who calls out any of their lies or hypocrisy- its a decent place to learn & maybe chat with a potential partner- lost of Ghosting goes on - not really sure how many folk do meet up.
Shame about Michaels attitude & bias. Good luck if you go on there. Mind who you challenge though.

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2 reviews
9 helpful votes
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January 2nd, 2023

On ABF Heaven I have found a lot of lovely fellows, male and female ones. I can hardly understand the bad ratings in here as Michael works hard to make the site a save place for any ABF friend. Surely there are strange people sometimes but you will find them everywhere. And yes, the sight might not be the most blingbling one but it is functional, stable, made with love and practical. Besides I don't know any side where you can suppose the owner ideas for the site - and some of them get implemented.

I truly like the site and the people filling it with life & love.
Chuflay

Tip for consumers:
Be pollite and honest. And take your time. This topic is all about respect and intimacy. :)

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1 review
5 helpful votes
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January 2nd, 2023

I have been on the site for 18 months (user name "suckbuddyk") and because of the quality of the site and its management I have chosen to pay annually, even though even a one-time payment is entirely optional. It is worth it to me. From what I can tell, Michael puts in long hours and always works on managing the integrity of the site and the contacts. I wasn't looking for something long-term, but I may have met her!

Tip for consumers:
You get out of the site what you put into the site. Don't expect miracles.

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1 review
4 helpful votes
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December 17th, 2022

It's a friendly community ran by people who really care and are very involved. Its free unless you choose to donate. Members are screened to upon joining to verify. The admins also listen to the members and try to resolve any issues such as scammers. Its a big community and some do get throug but if found are shown the door. Admins are very informative on inducing lactation with supplements, pumping, etc. Theres an ongoing chat, personal profiles, blogs, fun puzzles to solve, audio chats and more. Its been crucial in my ANR journey.

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1 review
5 helpful votes
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November 16th, 2023

I joined this site about 2 years ago with the intention of finding an ANR or at very least ABF partner in the UK. I managed to enjoy meeting a couple of ladies thanks to ABFH but over the past year some new members have joined and just sucked the oxygen out of the site, there's no room for fresh live chat or opinions outside of what is controlled. Hopefully the new site owner will get it back on track.

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8 helpful votes
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November 6th, 2023

Do not bother. Any male profile is banned becasue the owner is using it for himself. Spoke to a few girls who have all said he approaches them as soon as they sign up and is very pushy.

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Don't join. It's just the same users as fetlife, reddit and kik

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1 review
5 helpful votes
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February 6th, 2024

I dont use this sight for the community but it used to be fun to jump into chat at times to speak to like minded peeps. Not these days, Theres a handful of awful peeps who are happy to create drama and throw there weight around in chat and bully any1 who doesnt fall in line with there way of thinking.

Unfortunately, the admin has made clear that he is on there side and this vocal minority (mebbe around 10-15 of the same names that spend all there spare time in chat) are not only protected by the admin but allowed to break site rules whenever they want whereas a lot of peeps in the past year have had there accounts deleted and blocked for even daring to bring up these double standards.

These bullies have the power of the admin rite behind them, or they are manipulating him really well
The worst thing about this bully clique is that they dont have the spine to do it straight up, they resort to really passive aggressive means of piling on peeps, kinda like they are doing it behind fake, forced smiles and pretending to the rest of the sight that they are good people but there fake friendliness and passive agressive attempts at bullying peeps is so obvious to the other 99.9% of members. This is why no one wants to go into the chat any more! No one wants to converse with these horrible people who have the most boring and flat conversations anyway that always devolve into the cult leader uploading loads of soft core porn pictures of her breasts to get attention off the drooling idiot men. Honestly some of the most pathetic stuff I ever saw. Men, 40+, slack jawed over pics of breasts like they never ever get to see them in real life - totally believable with this lot of degenerates with all the charisma of vanilla ice cream without the vanilla

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Doesnt feel like a safe place for women. Ironically this is completely thanks to the actions of 2 or 3 women who appear to run the sight behind the scenes

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1 review
6 helpful votes
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March 1st, 2024

This site used to be brilliant with a great vibe, great gang of people who supported each other, joined chats and contributed to threads regularly. After my friend list had dwindled down by more then half as they tried to bring up the toxic nature of the site and talk sense into Michael before either leaving or been kicked off I decided it was time to go myself. I could no longer support this site that had changed so drastically to the site i once joined and loved and made many lovely friends on.

Unfortunately one woman Jessica who appears to have him under her dirty claws has turned this site toxic and very dangerous for women. She absolutely lacks class, pretends to be nice but the undertones and digs she starts, which her lapdogs then make sure to finish off have left this site beyond toxic. These lapdogs are the worst most vile men that no woman would go near in real life and most likely live in their mothers basements and only log on to see the disgusting skin covered with gross tacky tattoos and old granny tits which are plastered all over chat daily. Seen them once you've seen them a thousand times and trust me once is more then enough for any normal person.

There is no fun in the chatroom anymore, no new threads of any substance. I do wonder if Michael regrets losing the long term users who actually positively contributed to the site or is he so blinded by this one woman that hes put his whole site in jeprody. Id love to know what this one woman has that has him so blindsided and only hope he sees the light before she ruins his site and him in the process.

There's also a creepy old man Groggman who befriends all the women pretending to be widowed. He sleazes around all the women and pretends to be the nice retired guy there ready to offer support. Think wolf in sheep's clothing if you will.

Anyhow Rumour has it cowboy buddy is in the process of creating a new site. Maybe this will be the end of the road for abfheaven. Out with the old and in with the new and all that. Let's hope this new site brings some class.

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Don't post pictures. Admin keeps them

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1 review
18 helpful votes
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January 2nd, 2023

This was a brilliant site until about a year ago and has gotten much worse in recent months with one female allowed to practically take over chats and hold wank material video sessions with the men. This has led to men thinking this behaviour is normal and pther women are feeling the brunt of this in terms to the messages they receive.

The quality of conversation is down right cringe and i suspect she is a person who needs an awful amount of attention. Allegedly she was previously kicked off the site for taking money from the men but seems to be back louder and prouder then ever before with admins blessings and encouragement. Admin is an old man who reads peoples private messages and deletes any person or thread he doesnt like. Dare you criticise his site and your gone. This site was brilliant and has massive potential with the right admin.

There is also no privacy policy, no safety information and only recently there was a flaw on site that anyone who posted photos location was visible to anyone who knew how to look.

This week alone a number of long standing members deleted their accounts or were kicked out because they dared to say they didnt like the sleazy direction the site was heading.

My advice is this site is no different to fetlife anymore but at least there you know your information is safe and protected.

Tip for consumers:
To get the most from this site join in the chats and forums and make yourself known.

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6 reviews
27 helpful votes
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September 9th, 2022

Where do I even begin? Every once in awhile I will create an account on this site just to peruse the users in my area and if I don't see anyone local I usually just delete the account as I see no point in sticking around if there's no one to meet. I figure no harm in doing that, I'm not bothering anyone. Well the admin (Michael) apparently felt the need to delete my account as a result. I guess he never got to be hall monitor in high school. From my personal experiences on here, a fair number of females on this site are very hostile and angry. I have been nothing but respectful to all women on this site and I was either ignored or met with unwarranted hostility. From the moment you join the site, the forums are overflowing with drama from rabid women foaming at the mouth bashing the men with blanket statements accusing all men on the site of things one or two men have done to them and they decide to take it out on you. Everyone wants to play the victim on here and a fair number of the women want to empower themselves at your expense. If you're even fortunate enough to find someone near you (next to impossible) they will talk to you for a day or two then they ghost you and if you try to carry the conversation further or ask to meet you're suddenly "pushy", "thirsty" and "rapey"... exact words used by some of the judgmental women in the forums. The general vibe of this place is hostile and the women come across as very arrogant and haughty. The only value men have on this site is validating the women's egos with constant compliments and attention after they send you revealing pics until they get bored with you in search of a new male victim and will turn on you. Some of the women on there who I have never even spoken one word to have blocked me for no apparent reason. If you're a male who likes being treated like a doormat and abused, this is the perfect site for you.

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I wouldn't personally advise using it.

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1 review
15 helpful votes
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January 12th, 2023

The site could be so good, but its run at the bear minimum.
It's never improved or updated and the one time the admin (yes there is only ONE person running and maintaining this website) tried something simple which was to change the font in the chat room, it ruined the whole site, it had to be taken back to an old version and a weekends worth of messages were lost for everyone. In other words, the ONE person running the site hasn't got a clue what hes doing, yet he has the audacity to charge people $25 for a blue tick like on twitter...which does nothing by the way except point you out as a gullible mark to everyone else.
The admin refuses to listen to suggestions and will straight up ban and delete anyone he doesnt like and has admitted to creating the website in order to harvest pictures of women. Creepy as hell.

It is ok for talking to like minded people but you get what you pay for, in this case a website that is 20 years out of date, an admin who cant and/or wont perform any upgrades or updates but the worst thing is the cliques - the front page chat and the forums are dominated by the same 5-6 bullying women and the same 15 thirsty boomer men who trip over themselves to publicly type out awkward innuendo and cringe flirting while these women string them along. They start the most inane and pointless forum threads and seemingly sit in the chat 24 hours a day, bullying anyone new and taking it in turns to see who can end a sentence with the most exclamation marks and emojis...something thats even more cringe when its 50-60 year olds doing it but the admin refuses to create MORE chat room or at least quarantine the horrible boomers off to their own disgusting section

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all you can do is try to ignore the pathetic cliques

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1 review
3 helpful votes
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January 4th, 2023

Great spot to meet like minded people. And it's freeeee, free to post free to message. Who the eff can complain about that?
A very active site. Active moderator who has always been cool af.
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Did I find that perfect ANR partner on ABFHeaven or ANY site? Nooooo

This guy blasting all this hate is lame
Like we've all said on the other sites
Stop hating Get a life dude!

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1 review
3 helpful votes
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January 3rd, 2023
Verified purchase

The site is great and the members are wonderful. Just like any place you're going to have people join that don't behave themselves, the admin deals with it. The site is not overrun with trolls and scammers, and I have never seen a bot.

The layout is indeed simple, and that is a huge part of the appeal. It's an easy to navigate site that is not loaded with unnecessary fluff and there are no ads popping up with every click. There is a live text chat on the home page, a forum that everyone is able to participate in, several blogs to read, and the puzzles are a really fun feature. The site also has scheduled audio chats that are hosted by different members, and an audio chat room that is open for everyone to use. The best thing about the site is the owner/admin actually asks users what they want, and makes upgrades based on feedback given.

You can make a one time donation to get the blue verified badge, no one is banging on your DMs asking for them. I have registered on all of the other sites out there, and I paid to use 2 of them for 2 months, it was a complete waste of my time and money.

There is no guarantee that anyone is going to find a partner on any platform, but in my search I have met some really wonderful people on ABF Heaven and I've made lasting friendships. What more could anyone ask for?

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Be respectful, and be yourself.

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1 review
6 helpful votes
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January 1st, 2023

I've found this site (much more than any other that I've tested out in relation to this topic - MSM, LOMH, FL, etc…) is a pleasant experience. ANR/ABF is such a seemingly small subset of the kink community (if it should even be called a kink), and it tends towards supporting those that are interested in it as a true experience/relationship. I've noticed that there are number of people who join thinking it is a "fetlife" experience specifically for boobs, but that is not how most of the members tend to approach it. The moderators and many of the members (male and female), strive to keep it a place for healthy and respectful interactions between those truly seeking a partner. I suspect that many of the poor reviews are from persons who may not be serious in their search of a relationship. And, as a woman, I'm thankful the moderator works to make it a pleasant and safe space for women who are interested in this topic, and putting a lot on the line by sharing themselves and their bodies in the process. I've been a member for just over a year, and I've donated to the site financially, as it's a "free" site. It's also a site that is continuously trying to make technical improvements for the member experience and education.

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1 review
3 helpful votes
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January 3rd, 2023

This is free forum for ANF and ANR enthusiasts and people into the lifestyle.
Admin has done excellent job at keeping site free of bot and disruptive people.

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Free site. Donation is acceptable.

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