CougarLife

I am a cougar on this site and quite attractive so I get a lot of winks and message. I have met a few men and they were real, a am I. I am not out for anyone's money and I don't have a videocam (video-scam). There are real people on here. Not to sound mean but it may be that some of the cubs aren't getting a lot of responses because not many women find them attractive. Also your profile may be too brief. And keep in mind a lot of cougars on here think they will meet the love of their lives so they want to read a profile that includes romance and the possibility of commitment.
I think their expectations are unrealistic since this is more of a sex site than a dating site, however I have heard a number of men tell me this seems to be the case with a lot of women here.

Having used CL for around a year now, id say I know the site as well as anyone. Its been a mostly good experience, a few little annoyances but mostly ive had them resolved by their support team. Ive met a few cougars over the time ive used the site and even quit the site for a couple of weeks last October when I started seeing one of the women semi-seriously. It didnt last obviously which is why I rejoined. Ive decided to give my membership up now as lately its getting harder and harder to find new women in my area and having tried a similar site (JustCougars.com) im switching to that and will hopefully get back to the good old days thanks to a brand new group of sexy cougars to chase! In conclusion tho, Id certainly recommend the site to anyone who hasnt tried it, it lasted me well for a year and some of the women are pretty smokin for their age. It was the site that got me into online cougar dating and ill always be grateful for that

I have used dozens and dozens of cougar dating sites and it is really hard to find a good one. In my opinion there are only two legitimate cougar dating sites out there where you can find attractive older women. One is Cougars69 and the other one is Cougarlife.

I have noticed some negative aspects of CougarLife. One is that it seems to be a little more expensive than other sites, especially compared to Cougars69 and another one is that it does appear to be a ceratain percentage of escorts using this site. My advise: Use your common sense!
However, what makes CougarLife one of the best cougar dating site is that it is really huge with millions of members. I think you won't find any other cougar dating site with a comparable number of users.

Conclusion: You will almost certainly have a good time on CougarLife. It is a legitamite cougar dating site with many users and it is widespread throughout most parts of the world. Always worth a try.

How about some real profiles, without the constant scammer interventions on most sites? People will turn away and forget any referrals on these, right?

TERRIBLE, DON'T EVEN TRY IT. All the women on there are selling webcam shows. If that's your preferred way to waste money, then go right ahead... thank goodness i didn't pay anything. I was and keep being bombarded by scamers like the already mentioned.

This website is $#*! when you read the all the other comments and compare it with those fake $#*!ing people saying they somehow met someone while everyone else says that it sucks dont believe any of the four star ratings they're all spam or employees when it comes to this site and many other adult dating sites its just a scam with bots or guys posing as girls to keep messaging you to keep you "hooked" i posted my phone number and not one person called back, now im not the ugliest thing but come on a real person would have said SOMETHING

All spam and you must continue to add money to send messages the 40 bucks for membership doesn't include but a handful of messages. I have had better luck on Craigslist.

I paid for a subscription June 20,2015. I was given 3 options. One seemed more economical, it stated the price and "3 months", nothing else. Clicking on it, it takes you to the payment processing page. I failed to look this page over. The initial price was tripled, and I only found out thru my emailed receipt. The advertised price is PER MONTH, not for 3 months. Added onto this, there is a credit system, which I was not aware of during my purchase. Every time you send me message, you lose credits, so you will likely run out of credits and have to pay even more if you are active. I was really maddened by the marketing scam, deleted my picture and profile information. I called their Customer Service number. Beware: They have a no refund policy, which is apparently available in 3 different areas. They downgraded me to a 1 month subscription, instead of my quarterly, so I got a partial refund which works out to about 40%. This is high end-marketing, bordering being a scam, but they have lawyers write their policies and it's all "legal", just not ethical. Don't expect any customer service from them. I can't comment on the selection from the website. My account shall remain inactive for the month, and I cannot recommend CougarLife under any circumstances. 30 year old professional male

I'm a 28 year old very fit very good looking young men.
I made an account because that's the only way that I could read the messages that were being sent to me, turns out there automated messages by the system.
Ones I paid the account of I finally got to message the older woman in the site all turned out to be looking for a serious relationship with a younger guy are you f****** serious.

I was under the impression that this is a wild side where I could meeting older woman take her of for dinner maybe have some fun.
But as far as I can tell they are all looking for a serious relationship I'm probably marriage.
Boring $#*! $#*!!

The whole time I was in the site about a month altogether I got one message.

Had so much more luck with Tinder and POF that I would never ever try this again nor would I recommend it to any other men unless you're the type of guy who doesn't mind sitting on the computer for many hours filtering through all these women trying to find one who is actually wild and fun.

Don't waste you cash

Site still has very few real women. Better to use plenty of fish where you can actually communicate for free. It's a numbers game but when you have to cough up $250 to buy credits it's not worth it

These fraudsters should be prosecuted. They even ADMIT, in their "Terms of Service," to having CL employees post "fictitious" profiles "for entertainment purposes." Haha! These fake profiles are posted by what they call "Cougar's Cs." Read the Terms of Service for yourself before posting your photo and/or personal info, or parting with your money. CL themselves ADMIT that they post "fictitious profiles" for your own "ENTERTAINMENT." What a joke! So sad that some low-life people must cheat other people to make a living. Scum of the earth people who refuse to get an honest job but prefer to cheat us unsuspecting fools! Word to the wise: STAY AWAY!

Cougarlife is loaded with fake profiles. You can find the girls on other sites from other cities. You will get messages and flirts etc if you are not a paying member. Once you pay - it just stops.

Cougar Life is a joke! First of all I get nothing but bullsh** flirts from profiled that all of the sudden are "under review" (fake) then the women on here act like a young man my age of 21 wants something stable snd long term. No 9 times out 10 we are just trying to fu** older woman because of a desire and want to have an older woman. We think that hopefully since they are older they understand the concept of NSA! Now don't get me wrong I respect an older woman and would love to converse and drink wine and really pay attention, buuuut Cougar Life is the biggest waste of time and scam to even get to that opportunity. Smh. I would give that sh** a negative star if I could.

I am a woman who was on CougarLife and it is a great site. I had a few dates with some nice Gentlemen.

Gentlemen, you need to understand: It is more like a regular DATING site. Compared to Cougars69, which is more like a HOOK UP site. You most likely won't find any one night stands on CL but women seeking a long term relationship with a younger man.

Again, if you just want to have a fun time I advise you to visit a different "Cougar Site" but if you want to find a long term age gap relationship: Here you go! It does not get any better!

No ability to filter your matches, what they call matches is enough to not want to date ever again.
Technically an ill devised website,
Talk about false and deceptive advertising

I joined to see if i could get with an older woman a few times just for fun. I have messaged like 30 women on this site and not one of them has replied to me... has this happened to anyone else?

Pretty dope site for hooking up with sexy cougars. If youre into older chick then I would also strongly recommend justcougars.com as ive had more than just hot chats there, if u know what I mean;-)

I signed up and then my accout was deleted with no explanation, I am guessing it's because I said I don't like curry which in fact is the $#*!ING TRUTH! They can go ahead and delete it cause I'd never date anyone who smells like that $#*!. What a LAME website where u cant even be honest cause it might offend someone F that $#*!!

Lets face it guys... Women aren't like men. With all the crazy pervs out there... with the fact that any decent woman can walk into any bar/pub etc. and walk away with a hook up... with the fact that if a woman starts dropping hints in malls, grocery stores etc. she will easily get FWBs. The chances of women paying money and risking men shopping on the site is EXTREMELY RARE!

I still gave it a try... and I am a above average good looking "cub" with an athletic body and all... good pictures etc. The site is full of dead FAKE profiles + SCAMSTERS (Pakistanis doing what they do best. Scamming).

Save your money... go to a 80s music pub, piano bars, wine bars etc. and pick up lovely real Cougars.

This site is a total scam. First they include a recurring charge on your credit card or PayPal account. The PayPal account recharge is easy to spot and cancel, but it's not so easy with a credit card (so never use that for any of this kind of site).
Next, they have tons of fake women. Women are allowed to join free, only men are charged.
Next, they send fake messages to you which makes you want to join up because your few free messages quickly run out.
Next, you will never hook up with anyone. Why? Just join under a fake female account and see where you are on the list of desperate men looking for females. Nowhere, that's where. You won't show up at all to females looking for men unless you also agree to pay a surcharge to lift you to the top of the list (meaning actually put you on the list).
They have a refund policy that only applies to those signing up for the top-tier subscription but the rules make it impossible to collect.
Only a total sucker (me) would join this site. Don't get sucked in like I did.

I joined this site when I was drunk and deleted it about an hour later. The first girl who spoke to me was a cam girl advertising her site. She stopped talking to me when I refused to sign up. The second girl was a 55 year old man trying to blackmail me for $400... TRUST ME, STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE! It's honestly just a scam.

I ve been reading the comments, and i see this guys have someone writing a good comment every time someone else tells the true about how $#*!ty they are. What a scam!

Dont waste your money on these rip off pricks, every msg or flirt i recived the senders profile was "under review " and i couldnt see it. Sent msg to admin and phoned them but NO response. COMPLETE RIP OFF

Terrible website. The majority of the guys on it just want to hook up for sex or are way too young for any self respecting Cougar with a conscious to date.