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Overview

Extreme Restraints has a rating of 1.5 stars from 38 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Extreme Restraints most frequently mention customer service problems. Extreme Restraints ranks 77th among Adult Products sites.

  • Service
    4
  • Value
    4
  • Shipping
    4
  • Returns
    2
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Top Positive Review

“Quick at handling my issue!”

Shan J.
12/28/15

My order went through 4 times when I had only hit submit once. I literally emailed customer support right after (mind you this was about an hour ago) and they have already cancelled the 3 other orders that went through. That is the quickest I have ever had anything taken care of by the customer support for anything I have purchased online.

Top Critical Review

“Shop elsewhere”

John L.
5/10/23

Product lines, Order processing, Shipping - 4/5. Customer Service - 0/5. Questions appear to be interpreted as threats to their integrity for which they will bar you as a client. No consideration given.

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Thumbnail of user alicek30
Canada
1 review
28 helpful votes
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November 24th, 2015

Seems like I'm in the minority, lol.

There were problems with the shipping, but it seems more to have been UPS than Extreme Restraints. It was a huge headache. Ended up having to pick it up at a nearby UPS location.

Nevertheless, I've ordered twice from this website, and I've got no complaints. Items are exactly as they appear in the pictures. Good quality -- you definitely get what you pay for.

Sending is extremely discreet. It comes in a simple brown box, taped (so you can tell if someone opened it), with just your name and the initials XRLLC.

4 stars, because I didn't receive an email when it was shipped, so I had to manually check on the website, but that's just being nitpicky.

Overall, excellent service!

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Customer-Service M.

Thank you Alice for the positive rating. We appreciate the recognition. I was not able to narrow down your order number so I could not look into the specifics of your order.

As an FYI, we have heard from customers with hotmail, live and outlook email addresses that they do not receive our email due to our domain being labeled as spam. If that was not the case, we would be happy to look into the issue for you.

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5 reviews
23 helpful votes
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July 22nd, 2008

Fairly large selection with reasonable prices - I like this site as it is one of those purely online stores with fairly good selection of gear. The best part of the site is the large variety of dungeon furniture which is hard to find at decent prices. Overall, I think this site has great bang for the buck. Merchandise is of good quality as well.

Thumbnail of user fishd
Australia
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
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April 13th, 2012

I WILL NEVER ORDER FROM THIS SITE AGAIN! This is by far the worst company i have ever dealt with in my life. Everything about the process was painful. My delivery never arrived and then i was informed weeks later that it had been returned to them. It took dozens of emails and numerous messages left on their phone before i had to finally speak to a manager to even get my order re-sent. During email conversations i had to repeat myself on many an occasion and the information provided from their so called customer service representatives continually contradicted themselves. I WILL NEVER DO BUSINESS WITH THEM EVER AGAIN!

Thumbnail of user kc48
Canada
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
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April 3rd, 2014

Their shipping policy is a SCAM. I'v bought plenty of items that other company ship to your door when you pay for shipping. These guys get ups to ship for an ADDITIONAL COST on top of their shipping cost. It a SCAM to boost prices of their items. Their are better company's to shop for online selling the same products at better prices if you factor in the extra cost of shipping. DO NOT BUY from them unless you plan on paying extra for a item. Their is no discount it's a FRAUDULENT SCAM.

Thumbnail of user jl55
Sweden
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
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January 12th, 2014

If everything works, this site is good. But when it fails? Oh, boy do they suck.

Like DL. Below I ordered some items and chose the standard shipping, but when I looked at my receipt the site had changed it to express. Now I know that I didn't choose wrong because I was extremely careful about my choice because the same thing happened to me in September 2013, but I thought it was my fault back then.

So twice the site has changed standard shipping to express shipping at the last stage of ordering. And since you don't get a confirmation screen there is no way to stop is.

As soon as I noticed this I emailed them and asked them to change the shipping option. The answer I got was that this was not possible. I then asked them to cancel the order. This wasn't possible as well.

I then tried to get their "customer service" to acknowledge that there is a fault on their site (no such luck) and to refund me for the shipping charges. After fighting with them for a week I get told that I'd get store credit. That was a week ago and I've still not seen any store credit.

Oh, and since UPS sucks as well I haven't gotten my package yet and it would have been faster with standard shipping.

When Extreme restraints have your money they don't care $#*! about you. I would stay away from this company if I where you and go shop somewhere that cares about you as a customer.

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Customer-Service M.

Dear J. L.,

We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.

To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?

We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.

Thumbnail of user screweda
Texas
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
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August 15th, 2013

This Junk Is Garbage ( With No Warranty), I Spent Over $400.00@ 1 time, & 1/2 didn't work when i got it & 1/2 Of The Other 1/2, I Used Maybe 5 Times & They Don't Work Either ( Take It Or Leave It, But I Say DONT WASTE YOUR MONEY.

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Customer-Service M.

Dear Customer,

We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.

To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?

We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.

Thumbnail of user sierrah
Kansas
1 review
6 helpful votes
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March 13th, 2014

I purchased a toy, but what I got was NOT what was advertised. It was advertised as 4" fully inflated, but it was 5" DEFLATED. It was terrifying and completely unusable except as a weapon to scare of intruders. When I contacted them about it, they offered me a 15% refund FOR THEIR MISTAKE. I was expected to take the financial loss for them! DO NOT BUY FROM THESE PEOPLE.

Thumbnail of user ft8
Canada
0 reviews
1 helpful vote
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October 2nd, 2013

Do NOT buy from this company. They don't respect or care about their customers in the least. They are simply the greediest, rudest company I have ever bought from.

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Customer-Service M.

Dear F T.,

We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.

To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?

We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.

Thumbnail of user liritp
Nevada
0 reviews
5 helpful votes
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February 5th, 2014

DO NOT buy from this site - THEY WILL STEAL FROM YOU. I put in an order for about 35$, which was all I could afford at the time. I did not get a confirmation email from my order, but I did check very carefully and read the return information because money is tight for me right now. When I received my order, 3 items had been added to it (and charged to my credit card) to total well over $200. Again - $200 that I did not in any way authorize to be charged to my credit card. When I emailed several times and again when I called, I was told that there was "no way" this could have happened and I "must have" put the items in my cart (even though I had never put these items in my cart), and that they could not accept the items back (even though I had not opened or touched them and was ready to send them back immediately in their original wrapping) or refund my money. No one that I talked to was willing to listen to my story or even discuss options - I was basically told I must be incapable of reading a total before I enter my credit card number.

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Customer-Service M.

Hello Lirit P., I was glad that we were able to work things out and issue you a refund. Thank you for working with us on the issue.

Thumbnail of user danielp135
Ohio
2 reviews
24 helpful votes
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February 4th, 2017

Spent 157 dollars and 2+ weeks later i have not received my goods. Sent a message and never received a reply back.

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Customer-Service M.

Hello Daniel, I see that you had placed your order on 1/21 and it shipped standard on the next business day on 1/23. Standard shipping takes 5-7 business days. I see that you had emailed us late at night on 1/31 and we responded the following morning providing you the tracking information on your order. Upon reviewing the tracking, it appears that your local post office received it, then no further updates which means they either lost it, misplaced it or delivered it and did not update the information. In cases like these, we usually work with our customers on reshipping their package free of cost since it was not your fault the post office lost your package. But, you would need to contact our customer service and they will work with you on a solution. I will put notes on your account that they should expect your call or email so they can help resolve this issue.

Thumbnail of user razonl768
Israel
1 review
1 helpful vote
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April 19th, 2023

My order was canceled without an update and I found out by myself. They did not return the money either.

Thumbnail of user fixc2
North Carolina
0 reviews
3 helpful votes
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October 5th, 2015

I had recently made an order valued at $214.25 to ExtremeRestraints and was soon sent my order confirmation e-mail. All appeared correct, my full order was listed in the e-mail. A day or so later, I received my shipping confirmation e-mail with shipping code... Out of all the products I ordered, only two items were listed (which mind you, were the two cheapest items). Assuming this to just be an error, I waited for my packaged only to be disappointed to find that I had received only those two orders instead of my full order. Checking my statement, I found that they had taken the full order price out and had not refund anything. I sent them an e-mail with copies of the order confirmation and the shipping confirmation for comparison explaining exactly what happend.

The company responded and told me the order had been shipped and that it states it was left on my porch.

I wrote back and told them that I had explained that in my previous e-mail, that I had received a packaged, but the order was incomplete, and informed them of the items I was missing.

After several days, I received this e-mail

"Thank you for your email. We are only able to locate one order under your name. In your order EX********** which was placed on September 24,2015, this order only contained items ST100 and AD699. Please advise if you have placed a second order containing the items you have listed below.

We look forward to your reply."

It appears that this site/company may be a scam and I'll have to dispute this order. I sent them one more e-mail clearly explaining the issue, and once again copies of the order confirmation and shipping confirmation... Highly disappointed because I had hoped the items would have been here before this weekend...

Tip for consumers:
Don't use this site

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Customer-Service M.

Hello Mr. C.,

Using the information you provided (date and items) I was able to find the order under a customer with the same initials F. C.

The order that came into our system only had the two items on it. Unfortunately, the CSRs in Customer Service cannot see the orders in the backend of the website so they can only go by the orders they see in the order system. I, however, can.

I found your order in the backend of the website. And you are 100% correct. You ordered 5 items. The order that came into our system only shows 2. I have our IT department looking into the issue to prevent this from happening again.

For the issue and trouble you have experienced, I will refund your order.

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