Seeking Arrangements

I've been a happy member of this site for the past 9 years. 9 years ago when it was only 69.95 a month but has since increased to 89.95 with no improvement to the site and in fact features were taken away resulting in an overall worse experience.

SA seem to have taken a sabbatical from advertising over the past 2 years as the number of members locally to me has dried up entriely, forcing one to look further away even in the time of the coronavirus.

Support also seems to have taken a sabbatical and is now seemingly outsourced to authoritarian internet janitors who enjoy denying service to users and never, ever admitting fault or that their bot may have made a mistake.

The site has taken an interesting approach to policing behaviour in that instead of a filtering system to prevent particular words from being used like on say onlyfans, they choose to automatically ban your account with no grounds for appeal. Likely an overreach to fear from SESTA & FOSTA which will eventually get them and I will celebrate the day they do when this happens after their treatment of me as a loyal costumer.

Firstly, their 'support' staff member accused me of soliciting sexual services for money which is blatantly untrue and anyone with any semblance of a brain knows up not discuss this on site. The then told me there would be no appeal, no review and any further emails would be ignored.

I pressed further with evidence to the contrary and then was bizarrely accused of fraud this time around, not solicitation. This shows they have no idea what they're doing and they're unwilling to admit their stupid bot is banning members in error.

I sure hope competition comes along because they've certainly taken foothold as the only semi reputable service there is.

You're running your website into the ground, Brandon and it will end up just like your dead sister sites, misstravel and what's your price.

I've been a sugar baby on and off for about 4 years. I've been in a very successful 3 year arrangement with a generous, established gentlemen, so I know that it's very possible to have great luck on the site. However, since I'm single again and searching, I've come to realize the quality of people on this site has gone to $#*!. There's too many scammers, liars, naive girls who know nothing about this, and men who prey on them.

Key points for the men:

1. I understand that not every male is going to be utterly rich and have a high budget for a good woman, but don't lie about it to impress these girls and then be a complete fake. Being open will help you find the girl who suits you, (and your budget.)
2. Don't expect the most from a woman but offer very little in return, in no way is that "mutually beneficial." That's being a cheapskate. If you think you can get any woman you want for free, then go on eHarmony!
3. Stop searching for the young, naive and desperate. You should have high standards just like these girls should. Lack of standards on both ends is what really drove the site to $#*! in the first place.
4. Always remain a gentleman, the right girl will come around and reward you. Don't scare off a girl who could wind up being the right one for you. There will always be trouble, scams, and lies on both ends, you just need to try your best to avoid it. The right girl will be worth the previous trouble.

Key points for women:

1. Don't be desperate. If you're on tight ends, get a real job, and do this for fun on the side. The more desperate you are, the more you'll be willing to do for the money and you'll most likely meet some bad characters and worst case scenario, you'll get in trouble with the law or get hurt.
2. Don't be naive, or expect everyone to be honest. Don't send your bank info or give your full name. Don't pic exchange unless you know you are both interested and plan on meeting. Don't meet anyone privately right away. Don't ever give him your address. If he's sending you an Uber to pick you up, give him the address to a store nearby. Real daddies will never ask to meet at your place.
3. Have standards. This should be a given and kinda ties into number 1. No one wants a girl who wants everybody. Trouble is everywhere, you just need to avoid it.
4. Be yourself. You don't like when a guy lies or fakes you out, so don't fake out others.
5. Stop falling in love with your sugar daddy. That's just weird, on top of most of them being already married.

DON T GO THERE FOR DATING OR MONEY!

I MET FEW, FULL OF FAKE PROFILS!

I went there just to know how people behave.
I texted with few pretending being enterpreners, businessmen. Travelling. When i met them, even if they were old, they even look fatter, 20 years older, and not normal but dressing poor and having poor behaviors. One pretending to be doctor in surgery. At a restaurant i didn t eat all the rice, he took the rest of that rice and sauce to take away. He wrote he had millions. Others took out tens of 1$ from their pockets to pay.
And others they put 1 a fake profil then when writting you, big presentation and nice Self description, then when you call their voice sounds like super old men of 30 years older than their age.
And some put their pics but 30 years before... and THEY GIVE YOU A FAKE NUMBER!

AND SOME PEOPLE WITHOUT PROFIL PIC WANT TO MEET YOU AND HAVING YOUR PHONE NUMBER NOP

THIS WEBSITE IS A SCAM FOR THOSE OLD MEN LOSERS AND YOUNG LOSERS.

AND THEY PRETEND TO HAVE PROSTITUTES IN WHO SCAM THEM I WONDER IF IT S NOT THE WEBSITE STAFF MEMBERS THEMSELF SCAMMING THEIR MEMBERS HAHA

ORHERWISE YOU MIGHT HAVE PROSTITUTES GOING THERE BUT I GUESS VERY TINY NUMBERS.

99 % OF GIRLS AND MEN DESCRIPTION ARE ALL FAKE PROFILS. TAKE CARE GIRL
TINDER IS $#*! BUT SEEKING IS REALLY WORSE

I've been on SA for over two months now. I'm an attractive 22 year old female student in college. I saw a lot of advertisement promoted by SA, and it sounded promising well it was all a load of BS! I decided I wasn't quiet ready for a real relationship between working and college, so I decided to get on here to meet some wealthy men who could help me financially, as well as I help them with my presence and so on and so forth. In other words, I knew the name of the game. My inbox was full of promising messages. Shortly in no time, I realize 99.9 percent of these men are all frauds, flakes, and fakes. They lie to you about their careers, income, and personal life. Not to mention, they all have some sort of issues, whether it be they are cheating on their wives, having prior past mommy issues, control issues... you name it. Just a few examples: one gentleman promised to pay me 900 dollars every time we met up. Thank GOD above, we talked for enough days to shortly find out that he was lying about that and looking for a real girlfriend and someone to move in. That's great and all, but hey bud try Match. Com not seeking arrangement where on this site women are looking for ARRANGEMENTS he must have missed that concept. I have another one who lived near by me and seemed promising and we met up for lunch where I did receive 100 bucks which was nice, granite I did drive an hour one way and an hour back to meet him, and we discussed how our arrangement would work out and it seemed to be all set, till he throws a last minute whammy on me that I'm not allowed to see any other men or guys and he will be wanting to know who I'm with, where I'm at, and what I'm doing at all times, so I canned him before that ever began because this is an ARRANGEMENT not a relationship. You compensate for the time I share with you not every moment I'm away, therefore no one is gonna control my life. Not even a real boyfriend, let along some 45 year old sugar daddy. My third gentleman, was just a T total freak, he seemed the most promising of all and we talked for weeks and everything was fine till he got pyscho on me and started making strange demands and telling me to go find random men at the bar, have intercourse with them, call him during it and let hear about it (so in essence he could be apart of it) and then tell them I have a sugar daddy and somehow he got off on that and would pay for me. Who the hell is gonna do that? A stranger is gonna look at you so crazy. Besides, what NORMAL man wants to pay you to be with another random man?! Ladies, don't waste your time unless you wanna deal with flakes, fakes, and frauds. There might be a success story, every one out of million, but take your chances elsewhere. Honestly I've gotten more out of walking into a bar by myself, and sitting next to a classy older gentleman.

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE PROTECT THE WOMEN ON THIS SITE. IT IS DISTURBING WHAT GOES ON THERE, AND THE KIND OF MEN THAT WEBSITE ATTRACTS.

No, you can't meet beautiful women there. Only scammers with fake photos. This site is for those who have more money that brain, so don't go anywhere near this scam. Seeking website is geared to rip you off. They want to know your bank information. Once they know it, they will set you up for recurring purchase and the only way to stop it is to cancel your bank card. They ignore your requests to cancel. Their support team must be based on another planet - it's totally unreachable.

Trans-phobic and outdated! Apparently, it's only allowed to be "straight" and only looking for women. I can't change my gender to non-binary nor trans, and I can't change my location either. They also stole $24.99 when the app glitched and forced me to pay instead of having a legitimate verification process, when I only wanted the single day $0.99 trial so I could try to have dialogue with the "people" messaging me. They're all there for MONEY, well so AM I, but i'm not allowed to because to the app, i'm only "cisgender straight white male interested in women" and nothing else ever.

You'll see in the these screenshots that the pull-down options are non-existent