Seeking Arrangements

Great site...but a hit and miss...huge database of fake profiles trying to scam you.
Please, please...if you're on that site stop sending money to people cause that why they think everyone else will. Do a video chat always! 9/10 within US will refuse. That's cause they are fake. They won't agree to texting but resort to WhatsApp and telegram etc...its a direct indication of them not being real!

Currently 8/26/24 there are 2 known prostitutes, drug abusers, and child abusers in the Myrtle Beach area. Their screen names are Milly and Ashleigh. Milly is Paige Hemelrick from PA. She has a known history of abandoning 4 children after drowning one of her children while having sex with a man for money after her husband left for work. She put her 4 kids in the tub and 1 of them drown. She currently lives in Myrtle Beach with Ashleigh who is Danielle Manco who is 41 and says she's 29. These 2 ladies live together with 2 more children Paige has had a that are 9 months and 5 years old. Danielle has a 7 year old son. These ladies were recently witnessed performing oral sex on each other while the 5 and 7 year old watched. The 2 ladies told the onlooker that it's ok they see it all the time and tell them it's an act of love. Subsequently they are being investigated by the Sheriffs dept for prostitution and child abuse all of which is verifiable. Seeking.com has been notified and has yet to terminate these 2 ladies. We are posting this as well as igniting great awareness with the S C child advocacy group. They both are meth users in front of the children and should be stopped. Please complain to Seeking and other groups to stop them. If you know them your arrangements and communications will be made public.

The site is full of highly suspicious gentleman with highly suspicious profiles and scammers. In fact, so many scammers that the genuine guys are too nervous.
In my first two days I was contacted by fake profiles offering online arrangements for $1500 a week all I had to do was "kindly send me your phone number". That's a scammer!

The chat system is the only mode of contact between paid members and no one is ever on the site at the same time, it takes days if not hours for anyone to respond, and typical for men their communication ability is highly limited.

It could literally take you a year to have a genuine conversation with someone on that chat system!

If you offer them your email address or any sort of chat off of the system they are so accustomed to being scammed, that they will absolutely freak out and think that you are some sort of a scammer and the run away!
And, last night, I did that with a gentleman who apparently lives one hour from me and woke up this morning to find that my account has been deleted.

I paid them $50 for a premium account and I got to use the site for 10 days!
They do not offer refunds!
(updated, I received an email stating that I would receive a refund.)

I grew tired in my first week of trying to make contact with anyone.
Basically, it's just a bunch of lazy men pretending to be wealthy and getting their egos stroked by women chasing them on that site. Everyone lies on the Internet but especially men, who are trying to be someone they are not.

You can pretty much guarantee that most of them are lying about their income status and marital status, and if you look at the photos and the age that they say they are, you know they're lying about their age! L O L

There are other free sites that do the same exact thing, have the same exact elements such as chat and video; and a photo approval system that's not nearly as picky.
Why couldn't I have a photo of my self in a dress but cut my face off when men are allowed to have photos of themselves with just their torso's in their heads cut off in the photo?

I do not suggest anyone bother with seeking arrangement.com, or any of their affiliated websites, which they have many of, nor if you do use it, not paying them!

I paid for 3 months of premium service, and started messaging women on the site, then got a message that I sent to many messages in a short period of time and that I would have to wait 24 hours before messaging someone again. It's now been 3 days and I still can't message people. I entered a support ticket, received no response, I tried to chat with someone no response. I sent an email to support asking for a refund, received no email back. The site just doesn't work and there's no support, it's run by thieves.

That's problem number 1. Problem number 2 is you get messages by bots all day long, none of them are real people. When you talk to an actual person and get a number none of them will meet you, they're all scam artists with no intention of meeting you, probably guys from India pretending to be girls in your local area. The site is a pure scam through and through! Avoid it at all costs!

These guys stole my money, I registered for the site paid $150 then after a week said that I got some complaints, sent tell me what complaints and now my account is banned?

I asked for a refund then and then absolutely no response. Stay away from this site

After 8 months on this site, I still give it a 4 stars rating. If you can afford it, you'll meet gorgeous women. You're basically spending several hours or a whole night with a temporary girlfriend that is 20 or 30 years younger!

Blatant rip off! I switched to FlingEasy.com
And things turned around for me pretty quickly there. I met several genuine and very beautiful women and I really fell for one of them. Now she is my girlfriend.
Please don't believe SeekingArrangements "tales". They are really fairy tales, but no happy end is possible because all you do is chat with paid employees who are happy to separate you from your money. My recommendation to everyone: stop wasting your time and money on SeekingArrangements scammers, don't feed these rascals! They are nothing but pack of crooks.

Hey! Im Alice! Me and my girlfriend (Katie) joined the site and before our profile was approved got instantly deleted. Tried 8 different times and all got deleted. Sent messages to their "support" team. Zero response.
Sent their Instagram page a message and they said they like gay women etc etc and support will fix it. 24 hours later got an email saying sorry your account and any future accounts will be deleted. WITHOUT reason lol.
F this site. They don't like gay women at all.

Like many others I got banned after 2 weeks and after I paid 100 €. I even did not write any girls for several days, before I suddenly got banned. And got same automatic mail like many others. There is something very weird going on. Because the owner should be glad of paying customers. But there seems to be a problem when maybe a woman is stopping writing you or reports you (because you do not write back), or even scammers report you because you tell them they are fake, the system just bans you. So good for scammers, bad for real people. Anyway in the one week I could exchange numbers and meet 4 girls and had some nice experiences. Sad the site is pro scammers! So in general, stay away!

Primarily now many of the profiles are fake or bot. Not because its created by some outsiders, but it seems like they are old profiles or profiles just spun up by seeking themselves. When you contact these women, which is a lot, you will initially see immediate response and interest. And after few lines of texting in few days you will see absolutely no response. Its like almost seeking wants to keep luring you with messages and after spending a week or so chatting even say 1-2 messages per day the messages will go dead. This is a strategy for them with bot profiles to keep you dragging and give the illusion of interests and keep you there to take your money for long term subscription! Total fraud. I have been there on and off for few years. But it has hit the bottom!

0 results. I wish Seeking had cleared out all their scammers, fakes and empty profiles with no pics. It has all the potential to be a normal dating service, but it's run extremely poorly.
Basic membership gives you nothing. But when you upgrade it, it also leads to nothing: fake views, outdated profiles, scant search results with no regard to your filters.

Beware there is a scammer in London who is recording girls on face time and face to face meetings without their consent. I was smart not giving my details out he tried to blackmail me. Be warned. He pretended to be an white american guy and faked his accent for weeks till we saw each for the first time. Then he changed his accent to an abusive road guy accent. When I saw him I saw a short Pakistani guy with smelly rotten teeth who tried his way to scam me. He changed his story line from being from Cyprus and married a Pakistani lady. I saw comments already from other girls here who sounds similar to my story. He deleted his number after I reported him to the police

I had a membership and they banned me for no reason only because i refused to have sex for money with some escort on the site and then they report you and you get ban and they keep your money do not waste money here it is all fake and thieves

This big looser Wade AKA WEY is a fraud he need to go to jail so men in there can treat him like he treats men on the site.
The minute you pay this low life auto bans you like a predator to get next guy who falls trap to his fake site loaded with bots and old profiles.
He has been sex trafficking since the day he started the site.
He don't charge women and rips off men to feed his life style the government is watching this looser and will get him he thinks he can skate the law for ever.
We can't wait look at the way this looser look just like a predator that he is.
Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your money you will be banned the minute you pay also he uses algorithms and facial recognition to keep you off because he's collecting all your data don't think you can ever get a copy lol

A ton of prostitute and fake profiles. Most of the girls photos are shopped with filters. Total fakes asking for money before meeting. You're probably talking to a man catfishing you. Don't join save your money

Have tried this site several times and my experience has always been disappointing.

Yes there are photos and profiles of many beautiful girls. But they don't respond. My response rate was very low (1 response for 20 initial emails) and those women who did respond are either scam artists or hookers, and not very good ones.

The site may work for a tall wealthy handsome man in his 30's or 40's willing and able to spend $3000-$10,000 per month.

For the average guy in his 50's or 60's looking for companionship its a waste of time and money.

If you're still going to try it despite my advice, at least don't pay in advance for the girls and don't agree to pay travel expenses without seeing the woman in person-many of the photos are outdated.

If you even put one word wrong in your description they force you to watch this 3/4 minute long video which is CRINGEY as hell, and then they suspend your account for 72 hours anyway. Which basically ruins your conversations and leads. Thing is they don't flag it immediately, could randomly be 3 days after you write it.
I got banned for 72 hours just for saying "I also have an OF account" at the end of my bio.
Also they approve photos (literally email you saying they're approved) and then randomly flag the very same pics days later?

God forbid if you've paid any money on your account you will lose it.

Thanks for suspending me guys, definitely not getting premium now!

That pretty much sums it up... narcissistic selfish. Most are hustlers, out of probably a couple thousand messages I met maybe a dozen over a few months. The men here generally want and need an escort but are too cheap to pay the price... the couple I slept with were horrible in bed... what else can one say

Hi guys

I've used seeking on and off for about 3 years! I'm 33 years of age and didn't use the site for escorting or anything like that. More just dating without the hassle of a regular relationship. I've had some joy and obviously a lot of scammers trying it on.

But what annoyed me the most is I got an email regarding a permanent blocking of my account and they said they have verified criminal activity! I emailed them around 7 times and got 2 replies from different people just saying our decision is final we will not respond anymore and we will work with law in relation to criminal activity? I literally never mentioned sex or did anything like this! And for them to say we will no longer respond? Yet they take the money for the membership but just block my account! I thought Americans were big on customer service? It's a joke!

2 days after taking my money, they "suspended" my account, saying that I used "escort terminology." I emailed them 3 times, asking for specifics but they never responded. I never used any such terminology. Furthermore, I was solicited by several women seeking "pay per meet" arrangements. The site is filled with scammers and prostitutes. I also asked them to remove all of my information from their systems but they did not respond or confirm.

Signed up and got banned three days later right before connecting with someone. Enjoyed the platform and site until I was deleted for absolutely no reason. What a waste of time, money and effort into finding someone.

No real girls. It's run by a pack of crooks who are somehow getting away with scamming people.
Don't waste your time on Seeking and other lame sites. Don't fall victim to this scam! They want you to burn money on chatting with their staff members. This is an utter scam thinly disguised as hookup site. They must be getting huge profits. All their female profiles are fake as hell.

This site is a rip-off. I've been an on and off subscriber for a few years, and while it started off okay it has really gone downhill the last few years. The vast majority of women are scammers, undercover escorts, or suffering from mental health/emotional issues, ie. Crazies. Customer service is worse than none. They don't respond to complaints, and they will cancel your account at the slightest perceived infraction of their rules at any time with no warning. Don't even ask for a refund. You won't get one regardless of the circumstances. All they want is your money. They take it, and they keep it. Period.

I have been a premium member with background verified for 5 months. 80% of the interaction i had been positive. Like any endeavor the more one put into something, better the outcome.
What do i mean putting in time? I have 6 photos and used full allocated space to detail my profile. Took me couple of days to finish writing profile.

My Rules: 1) I provide my latest STD report and expect the same. It eliminates majority of the fakers.

2) I meet for coffee at a public place and if there is chemistry, i show them my ID ( just real name) and expect the same.

3) I block if any one ask money for gas, money for meeting - so called a good faith token.

4) I let women choose netting place which is convenient and comfortable for them. The first meeting is ONLY to meet and greet. I pay for lunch/dinner/coffee. I do not fret about charges.

5) I have blocked around 60 women. It doe snot bother me. It takes one click.

In the end i believe you get what you are looking for. SA is the best.