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on 6/20/15Find her on VK and talk to her there, if she wont answer she is a scam
They're all scammers bro. Well I can't say that because I haven't met all of them so I apologize for going there but I know the site well and I've got 3,000 messages that I can't answer because I'm not going to spend the money to answer them I know a lot of, Alina's! They all seem to be named Tatiana or Alina or Elena or something of that nature. They don't give you their real names that should tell you something right there. They are all Olga or something that we would think is a Russian name or Ukrainian name or somewhere in Europe. What will really hurt your feelings is doing a reverse image search from a screenshot! Then you would see how big of a scammer some of them really are. I have had them tell me they wanted to marry me and wanted to know if I would meet them at the airport etc etc etc acting like they were ready to go with bags packed. I'm a good looking guy man I'm not trying to sound arrogant but I have had my share of women and I will bet you right now I could go take a screenshot of my anastasia-date.com inbox and it will be over 2,000 messages I bet it would be over 3,000 messages. Possibly over 4,000 messages and that's because I started scamming down with catfish profiles. I got sick of putting my emotions out there because I consider myself vulnerable and looking for love. I'm vulnerable because my wife died in a car accident 3 years ago and I just lost my girlfriend that I had for a year to an OD on fentanyl and Xanax so when I get on these websites I'm already hurt and when you try to manipulate me into spending over $20 to watch a video because it takes 50 credits to look at your video then I'm going to get you back. When you send me questions saying that, I have all these hot pictures of myself that I have just taken for you because you have me so hot and wet from your profile I wanted to share them and get your opinion on them. Would you like for me to send them to you? For god sakes woman I'm a man you don't have to ask me if you want to send me naked pictures okay and then when I answer you yes you reply with something totally off the wall that has nothing to do with the pictures so then I waste another message on you replying to what you said and then asking you about the pictures and you will ignore my plea for the pictures again so then I just tell him $#*! off I'm not wasting anymore credits on you. Bro you're wasting your money! I'm sorry to tell you that but I know and Alina that I had my heart wrapped around and that's what made me reply to you. I don't know if that's her ID number and I really don't want to log into find out. But read my review it's long and it matches up mentions other website like violet date.com a more date.com dream singles is the worst.com e m o livebeam.com and cupidfeel.com
I Don’t know Alina, ( ID: 1760875 Kharkov, Ukraine) but I am sure that other people can confirm her. I have been to Ukraine on 3 different occasions and I have met many other American, Canadian, and European travelers who have also made the journey to meet their Ukrainian Ladies.
I have learned many different ways that the Ladies can scam you, but I can also tell you that it is not uncommon for many of the ladies to make extra money from logging on to Chat. Not All Ladies have a Camera on their computers, but for those that do, at least you can confirm that you are chatting with the real Lady. Many profiles are abandoned and Taken over by the local Agencies to drum up Chat Requests and send out Bogus Letters. Some Chats and Letters are sent out by men, they log on at different Agencies and write you canned responses or write you what they think you want to hear.
If your Lady is serious to meet you there are a few things that you can do to see if she is really serious. There is no way to tell if she is still communicating with other men via phone calls, or regular email. Any man can pay the fee for a phone call, and get her real phone number and real email address, but why pay for this? If you have never met this lady in real life, think twice before spending your hard earned money. If you have met her in real life, than the choice is yours about how much you can really trust this long distance relationship.
Try to get her on CHAT and send her your phone number ( try setting up a Viber account with a Ukrainian phone number +380-(99) 123-4567). I have tried this several different ways, sometimes the Lady will tell me just how exactly to send the phone number. Don't send her your real local number, because she will never text or call a U.S. phone number.
If she is Chatting from a local agency, then she will tell you that she has to follow the Agency Rules, and cannot see your contact info, only Dots……
If she is not chatting with you, and an Agency employee is, then they will Tell you that they cannot see your contact info, and can no longer Chat with you, or they will just leave you in the middle of your Chat. Look for long pauses or delays, this is a red flag.
Look for your Lady on Chat, is she on-line several times a day? What are her work hours, is she on chat during her work hours? If she is chatting 4-8 hours a day, then she is working for or from an Agency and she is scamming you and using up your credits.
Read her Letters carefully, does she answer all your questions, or just one or two and skip the rest? Agency interpreters will never answer All your questions because they figure that Less is more… Do her letters always say the same things, Are her letters usually always short and full of useless information like the weather, and does she just repeat your words from your last letter?
Ask your Lady if she would meet you in real life next week, if she tells you that it is too soon, or that she needs to learn more about you before she can arrange to meet you. If she says it is too soon to meet, Take it as a Red Flag and save your money and your credits and move on to someone else.
I have Talked to many men who asked for a meeting after 6 months of Letters and Chat, only to be stood up after a long Flight to Ukraine and complete disappointment. The Ladies that work the Web site like a business get paid, they make extra money, they are surrounded by friends, family, and their own way of life. Many Ladies will use the same predictable excuse, either their Granny or mother are ill, or they had to unexpectedly go to the country side to help their family.
After 3 trips and many late night Beers at local Bars and Pubs, I have learned more than I have time to share. I have learned to draw a line at Age 30, anyone below 30 is a potential scammer to me, even though I know that many of the ladies are Serious in their search, but the numbers and Odds are against it, only because the economy is really bad in Ukraine and many of the Ladies will do what they have to do to earn extra money. Anyone with a good job in Ukraine is too busy to be on Chat at all hours of the day.
I would advise anyone and everyone to save your credits and your money and use it to take a trip to Ukraine. The experience is priceless and you can still use your remaining credits to set up real life meetings. If a lady really wants to meet you, she won’t need 6 months of Letters and Chats to make that decision. If she really wants to meet you, she will make it happen. Only in real life and in person, can you truly make a determination if you both share a connection. How do you know if you share a real connection if you have never met in real life? Save yourself months of Letters and false communication and see the surrounding Tourist spots.
Good luck to you, save your money, don’t get scammed…
Alex, you are never in any correspondesce with the actual girl in the picture. Three or four different professional chatters may handle each account and plenty of time they don't know what the others may have discussed with you.
You are paying for talking to pictures, and their biggest commissions come from the sale of their tour packages, which the male users of this site buy in hopes of having sex while touring Ukraine or Russia, or any other country on their list.
This is an implementation of P. T. Barnum's "a sucker is born every minute" for the Internet.
None of the girls in the pics will have sex with you there.
Some guys say they do end up with a prostitute there after spending over 10K on the trip.
That'll buy you 20 prostitutes in the US who speak English without any interpreter and you can understand the deal you are trying to enter.
I do not know or correspond with her but I did a quick Google reverse image search on her photos and found out her name is Alina Dobarskaya. She has VK and Facebook accounts with more information and photos. You can try to talk with her on VK or Facebook. If she does not respond to your messages there, then she is a scammer and you should move on to someone else.
They are all scammers. All these foreign girlie websites are just slightly legal. Whatever you do, do NOT send money or you will find yourself broke.
If you need someone to answer that question, you have got serious comprehension issues.
Do you still live with your mother and father?
As I mentioned previously; just because these girls have great smiles, tits and bums, doesn't mean they are the slightest bit interested in some dummy looking for love online. Besides, if you are looking for a girl online, you've are only pretending to be looking for a woman/girl. I was finally able to admit that to myself; that I wasn't serious about finding another woman. The whole thing scares the heebee-jeebees out of me, after what had occurred earlier in my life with my ex-wife. And when I see how females screw men over these days, I don't think I'll ever allow another female near me. And I ain't gay, either!