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on 7/6/15Don't waste your money. Don't be a fool. A dear friend has pissed away over $35,000 in the last 20 months, including $7000 in one month. I have offered to take him to church with me, as he claims to be a good Christian man, to scope out the lovely ladies who attend there and get involved in church-sponsered activities. He refuses as it is easier for him to live in his fantasy world of Anastasiadate.com. Absolutely pathetic.
How can I tell if she is real? GOOD QUESTION...
EAST European women are Beautiful young women. The Agency Photographs are air brushed and Photo- Shopped, But the ladies are Beautiful in real life, just realize that they do have small blemishes. It is difficult to believe live Cam, because Video cams can be recorded.
ASK the lady to Do something unexpected ( like stand up and show me your new shoes...) If you have been to Ukraine, then you KNOW that the ladies are real flesh and blood, but the question really is this...?
Is the Lady really on the site for a real connection, or is she just here to make extra money by enticing male subscribers in Letters, Chat, and phone conversations?
LOOK for RED FLAGS! Is she on Chat for hours every day? If she really has a job and a career, then how can she possibly be on Chat everyday?
When she sends you a Chat Request, does she message you a canned Question or request? Even though she is a real person, that does not mean that she is the same person who is communicating with you. Agancies and the web site only make money if they can get you on the hook, and manipulate you to keep buying more credits for Chats, Letter - writing, and Letter - reading, Gifts, and phone calls...
I noticed last year that a few of the ladies would start conversations, and have no memory of previous conversations. If you think this is happening to you, Guide the conversation to ASK her specific Questions, if she cannot asswer your questions, then you are communicating with someone else. From time to time Agencies will use a members profile to attract male interaction.
Even after you have made the trip to Ukraine, the agency will still continue to use this members profile to communicate. If you have met in real life, face to face, then you should have exchanged emails, Skype, VK.com, Facebook, HangOuts, WeChat, etc... other forms of communication, So that you No Longer have to use a Dating web site to communicate.
If she continues to ONLY want to use the web site, then her only interest in you is to make a paycheck from the Agency.
So, even though she is real, her intentions are not real and genuine.
Dump her, save your money, and move on with your Social life.
Get her to Skype with you. If she can prove she is real in cam by like standing up and move around and give you some personally message bothin writing and in live speech, she is real. However remember its not enough to wave or do simplier tasks as recorded video can obey some commands, I know but its true. Many scammers is using fake recorded videos by Simulation software that fools Skype and other messenger programs etc to believe its a webcam and by that play recorded videos that can obey certain commands, in order to scam fool the victims...
You can't know just by using the site. Read all the reviews and you will find the answer. 99.9% of the women are either fake or scammers. Most will bank on the idea that you will never visit their country. If you do and they are fake, there will be a multitude of excuses as to why they can't meet you. If they are real and a scammer - be prepared for an expensive time with no outcome at the end of it. STAY AWAY from this site and save yourself disappointment, grief and $hundreds if not thousands...
Set up a profile at VK.com, it's similar to facebook, and down the bottom on the right hand side you can put the lady's date of birth in, and I find in about 70% of cases the woman is on there, without photoshopped pictures! Alternatively, see her in cam when you are chatting, but not for too long because of the cost involved. Hope this helps!