BlackPeopleMeet

Once I checked the box in my profile to Not Auto Renew, everything in the details of my profile was deleted! Only my pictures remained.
The matches could not have been worse from the full preference profile that I created.

I joined to meet black men, I continuously get hit on by white men. I joined to meet men, there's a bunch of boys sending flirts and picture likes, no confidence, just cowards. I made it clear in my profile not to send a bunch of likes and no flirts. I also stopped bpm from emailing me every time on of these cowards send a flirt or like and they removed me and won't refund me. Go to POF, at least it's free. BPM is a joke!

I tried this dating sight for only a month or so. Oh, how I wish I hadn't. I met a guy on this site that turned out to be a psycho. We went a couple of dates. I started to avoid him because I could sense severe mental problems. He started stalking me. I moved out of the area. Where I moved to he had a cousin. We somehow came in to contact for business purposes. I did not know that this was his cousin. To make along story short about 3 months after I conducted business with this psycho. I was raped by this psycho. Be aware be very careful people are not who they seem to be.

Not perfect but good. If u weren't lucky u may wanna use blacksingles4u highly recommend it. My opinion: u can't meet someone using one of those two sites u should really just go out and meet people in a bar. In that case online datin is just not for u. My opinion Those are the only 2 sites worth joining, forget the rest.

While I have met a few good men and remain "just friends" with them. The other 95% of men on BPM are shallow and superficial. I have given them the benefit of the doubt, and over and over again. Unfortunately, they fall short of my expectations every time. These men on BPM are such a huge disappointment and I would NOT recommend BPM to anyone. Waste of time!

I signed up.It was okay, didnt get alot of responses.
When my membership ran out. I kept in as a member but not a paid customer.
Few hours after my paid membership expired. I looked in my inbox with them.It showed I had 99 messages and 35 flirts!
Impossible. They hold back views and send you fake likes and flirts. I learned that most of these dating sites do to get you back as a paid customer.
DONT BE FOOLED!

Don't look for perfection. When I first saw my husband on BPM, it wasn't love at first site. But we exchanged "picture likes," talked on the phone and then we met. He turned out the be the sweetest man I have ever met. We will be married in 11 days and I am so happy. If I could have sat down and written exactly what I wanted, I could not have done better than what God has done. Thank you God and BPM!

This site runs and promotes fake profiles. If I block a profile it just comes back up and able to still communicate. Which is a security and safety issue. Women should be able to block harassers but this site just regurgitates a profile every 30 days or so. You will also know fake profiles are sending fake messages as their verbiage is all the same. Shame on you peoplemedia.

All them haters, LOL! No idea what all ya were expecting by joining a dating site but this is pretty much one of the best. I've used it in the past and it ain't perfect, but it's pretty damn freakin good. I guess using this one or BlackSingles4u will get the job done. Both are by far the freakin best dating sites and I've used both of em and theynever disappointed me. You ain't happy using one of those sites you're doing something wrong and should avoid online dating.

I cancelled my membership, didn't even go on the site for 9 months are more, then found out that they recharged my account after the first months for 10 more months for about $35 each month. When I reported it to a Supervisor, I was told that I should have written down the employees name at Customer Service and their employee ID number also, because the paperwork was not done. But since I did not know her ID number they would not refund my money, even though it shows I have not been on the site in almost a year. I would have to eat the $350 dollars.

... I'm seeking men, in a particular age group, mines... they put women out for me, NOPE! Don't wanna experiment. The things that come out these dudes mouths, b4 u even talk to them. YEARS AGO, they were the bomb.com, don't do it, and if you put yur main card in there, they will kindly take out for next month, rather you want it or not... DON'T DO IT... not worth it, the selection of men... OMG, & you know how most black men talk/treat us... DON'T DO IT, & you welcome.

2 years ago got scammed Big Time... My fault. Client name (supposedly) Douglas Mcarthur Goodgridge. Originally from Barbados... so he said. Scammed ( Or Talked me out of $2000. 00) 3 meets face to face. First meeting I believe I was drugged. Woke up with injured ear and toe with NO RECALL.He kept asking me if I had a headache? If I could post his picture I would. He should be criminally charged. DO NOT USE THIS SITE!

I joined intros a monthly subscription but was billed for a six-month-old subscription talk to customer service it would not help I went through my bank and reverse charges and show my bank but I chose and what they did to my account my bank reversed my charges don't do it don't do it don't do it don't do it not worth your time headache money or energy

I wish I could rate this site lower! I paid for this site and was unable to access any of my messages. When trying to reach out to someone about my technical issues with this site I was unable to get any answers. This was a huge waste of time and money. It's a rip off and they do not care.

This site does not offer any customer service or security. I met someone (mikepell5y)and he hacked my profile/account in 2 days, reported me when I rejected him and Bpm shut down my account without even a warning. This is not a secure site and it's basically a stalkers paradise! I'm not a bitter woman who was dumped or played I was a good woman looking to meet a good man, not a crazy one!

I am a woman looking for a certain type of man. I see a lot of white men on this site along with men living far away from where I live. This site is becoming filtrated with gay people! Its littered with unattractive men. I met one man out, and he was not looking like his profile. The cat fishing is real! I will not pay for another three months of this again. The same men over and over.

This site has desperate, pushy, and broken men. Most of them are married or have long time girlfriends. Be careful of men looking for a wife (ready4mywife). They will tell you exactly what you want to hear and in the same breath ask you about your credit, so they could put their motorcycle in your name. Just lie for no reason at all. Just because it's the thing to do I guess. Someone please help me understand the ratchness.
Shaundal... stay away from this one.

I joined in November 2016 and Ended my Subscription December 2017.The men on this site are perpetrating a fraud about their age, occupation and annual salary, I encountered men who are homeless, petty criminals, and con artist. Please get their name or phone number to do a check on their background on the internet sight and check your local courts to see if that have warrants or outstanding court dates. I'm a professional woman in my 50's and I don't have time for the iSSSSSH.

I was a member of black people meet within the Virginia area. Most people on this site has it confused with a meet up sex site. I met several people all looking for sex. I only remained a member for 4 months and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who is seriously looking for true companionship.

This site is garbage. Also a rip off, I signes up for a "free membership" period which then became a 3 month subscription that my card is still being charged for. The "customer service" number is a fake number, and the actual site is below par. Many of the members are old white men looking for sugar babies or to engage in interracial sex. While the other members are the same from other sites like POF. I truly regret signing up over a year ago. I am forcedto get a new card bc I keep getting charged even though I canceled 8 months ago AFTER my subscription ended!

The site lacks integrity and credibility. The majority of the site is filled with fake profiles, the verbal content of the profiles is the same and/or close too it - just a different pictures. Beware of profiles constantly stating I am God-fearing, I love the Lord, I play Rec football, discovering new places and cultures. Take a goooooood look at the quality of the pictures posted. In addition, site administrators are busy in their attempt to keep paying members occupied with "fake" profiles simply to keep them paying... my thoughts - are you that hard up for money? Where's the integrity in that?

On the scale of rotten tomatoes with 1 being the "best" - Blackpeoplemeet gets 10 rotten tomatoes!

I have had several conversations and can spot the bs rght away. However, Larry Holcombe from Lathrop, CA aka luv2pls caught my attention. We took things very slow and after a year he informed me he was going through the motions. Thanks for your honesty, but after all this time? There are people that are interested in various types of relationships and those are not the ones we had discussed. We were both very clear on what we were looking for and discussed it several times. He is not looking for a long term relationship as his profile indicates. He is still stuck on his ex and can't move beyond it. I will get past this but want others to be aware of his lies and manipulation. He isn't all he claims, talks poorly of his children even when he says family is everything. Claims he is sober (but watch the other stuff he engages in). And can't stay away from the casinos. Just be careful!

The site, and its customer support are total garbage. They will bill you excessively, and overcharge you (example: you pay for an initial account, or renewal, and they will try to double, and triple bill your credit card!). PURE SCAMMERS!