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BlackPeopleMeet has a rating of 1.4 stars from 439 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about BlackPeopleMeet most frequently mention credit card, customer service, and fake profiles problems. BlackPeopleMeet ranks 684th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Found my mate”

K J.
9/2/20

After rumbling through a few profiles, one stuck out with a question... Do I work for transit? Lol Talking to him was like having a twin sister, we clicked instantly with our personalities, interests in same things, etc. Sometimes you gotta be patient and the right one will find you.

Top Critical Review

“Fake Profiles”

Ann H.
10/26/24

Don't waste your time on this site. All these paid clients have the same old storyline. Save your money, their stories are so similar, their photos are fake, they lie to get the you paying for a subscription. Do your homework concerning this site and most men live hundreds of miles from your location.

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Thumbnail of user michealw9
Texas
1 review
16 helpful votes
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September 24th, 2014

BEWARE! This site is full of scammers in the Dallas area. Came across several guys attempting to get money from women. I guy stated he was a preacher and needed money to keep from getting evicted from his apartment. The next guy stated he was the personal doctor of the Bush family. He needed some tax write off for his business. So he offered to purchase you a car and you would only be responsible for the taxes on the car. BEWARE! - The doctor goes by the name of Micheal Williams. He will send you pictures of him and the Bush family together, him in his scrubs, etc. The other guy goes by the name of Malcolm

Thumbnail of user luisitol
Pennsylvania
2 reviews
16 helpful votes
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July 28th, 2018

Well first of all i joined thinking it was going to be for 1 month. Did not notice but then i started thinking its been more than a month. Thats when i found out i was Auto Renew for 3 mos. I was able to cancel the 3rd month but it took a bit of a fight. Of course shortly after i cancelled i have a ton of Flirts and messages. I never met anyone and only had 1 brief conversation through the App. No one else ever responded to my messages.

Thumbnail of user tracyc75
New York
1 review
33 helpful votes
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February 3rd, 2016

9.% of the men on the site are looking for Sex, one night stands or friends with benefits. It's a fun place to meet guys if your bored but don't expect e real love connection or to meet a good man that is marriage material. It's good for free food, boring conversations and flirty text if your bored. Philly0609 seemed to be a catch but after face timing me while he was masturbating and sending me $#*! pics I knew he was in it for the sex. He called me babe and baby from the beginning which is a No no. He took me out on a date and attempted to have sex with me without a condom. I didn't let that happen. No sir. Plus I think he has a gambling problem. Lol I've dated emotionally unavailable men & short men on this site and a lot of fake acting men which is horrible in itself. I'm attractive and a real catch but I'm also smart enough to know that this is just fun. Nothing more. Sorry Ladies. These aren't good men but thirsty bums. Proceed with caution.

Thumbnail of user johns1434
Ohio
1 review
13 helpful votes
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August 23rd, 2016

There are a lot of rip off dating sites on the internet now days. A lot of them have fake photos, fake profiles, I don't know about this one but I have my suspicion. This is my last payment to blackpeoplemeet.

Thumbnail of user denises129
Illinois
1 review
21 helpful votes
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July 12th, 2017

I joined bpm twice. I was looking for a friend that could lead to something special. I went through the men with a fine tooth comb. It was like a needle in a haystack. I don't like to judge men but I come to realize we're living in the last days. The word is filled with so much lust and pervertiness Worldly possession the love of money being the root of all evil. Real love is no where to be found. God has blessed me so much if I never find my soulmate it probably was a blessing in disguise. Bpm is not the way to go. If it is meant to be god knows. Wait on him he's never failed us yet LADIES! Never settle

Thumbnail of user keithg350
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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March 11th, 2021

Blackpeoplemeet site has been useless from the time I joined. They have charged my credit card $16.95 each month for something I don't use. They want to charge extra for something call boost I guess to have greater use. The only thing I want is to cancel and I don't see where on this site to do that.

Thumbnail of user miltonp5
Tennessee
1 review
12 helpful votes
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July 9th, 2015

I cancelled my membership for renewal on a section of the site that allowed it but they renewed it anyway and for six month, then I was told that there was activity on my page after renewal so they could not help me. The activity they were talking about was someone sending me a flirt, sending flirt are as easy as just liking someone's picture, that flirt is in message form so that you think the other person actually messaged you. Well I ask to speak to a manager but was told non was available and that they would have someone call me back, there was never a callback and my future calls somehow got dropped.

Thumbnail of user ta199
New York
1 review
15 helpful votes
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August 15th, 2019

I don't usually write reviews, but I don't any women to feel the way I did on this site. I had to " report" and " block:" two males within 1 month for harrassing me. Their profiles were not removed. The one created a new profile and continued to harass me. I called customer service and was told that they could not refund the rest of the balance because I wanted to get off the site due to the harassment. I checked today and both males still have profiles on the site.

Thumbnail of user crobinson90210
Tennessee
1 review
5 helpful votes
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June 26th, 2023

I never signed up for this site, but I have been charged for almost 6 month. I would try contacting them after 4 months they finally answered, said account was canceled but another month and my bank statement says differently. DONT DO IT!

Thumbnail of user ednag26
Alabama
1 review
4 helpful votes
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November 8th, 2017

It shows that I viewed people who I have not. I can hide my profile and it shows how many people viewed it (how can they view a hidden profile). Good site but need to be honest. I have met friends which is a good thing but hope BPM will stop trying to make a sale by doing these sneaky inside jobs. I contact them but they are in denial.

Thumbnail of user jennyb62
Texas
1 review
8 helpful votes
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May 21st, 2017

I'm not a member her but I know many guys that are. Ladys be careful. These men are desperate with low self esteem and self worth. There is a guy with the initial GLS he is a black fat pig. That poses as a handsome friendly guy. On when he is standing up and sucking his stomach in. Lost of these guys move from other states with non visible diseases to stress them and there pain. There are broke as a joke. With the illusion of wealth. Don't be fooled. Drives a black Christler 300: Comes to sex you up and tried to take your money. And when he can't. Will do everything in his power to destroy you. Why th lots of threat to harm you in ever way. Be careful ladies. And men. I believe he is also bi sexual

Thumbnail of user sarronaw
Florida
1 review
2 helpful votes
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November 15th, 2021

That's kind of odd how a person put in there choice of age group preferences of men but the only messages that you'll receive is from ugly old broken down men that know one want or have Interest in & that's not on your preference age group of choice bpm lie about how many messages you received and send ugly old men false messages saying a female viewed them or likes them the whole site is a lie bpm also hold back all the messages that men sent you that you really would be interested in, that dating site sucks! It's boring & lame infestation of old unattractive men & they wouldn't even allow me to post a picture quote and every dating site have pictures quotes really strick rules considering the high membership fees

Tip for consumers:
Find a decent dating site and steer clear of this one , it's fake profiles dishonest, deceptive activity being committed by the owners as well as false misleading information that they provide & also a extremely high membership fee with very strict rules, it's not worth it

Thumbnail of user tyw10
Texas
1 review
16 helpful votes
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April 17th, 2017

Filled wit overly aggresdive, psycho men, with anger, gross sexual issues, rude, false. The site using the system to send flirts for you, review profiles on men you never look at. Just to generate conversation with loosers. Waste of money stay away. All of he profiles are not real.

Thumbnail of user ceeh
Virginia
1 review
34 helpful votes
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August 13th, 2012

I met my husband on blackpeoplemeet.com. I had to surf through a few frogs to find my prince but he was literally the only person I'd met in person. It was definitely worth it. We had a connection from our initial contact.

Thumbnail of user johnk98
Pennsylvania
3 reviews
5 helpful votes
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November 26th, 2013

This is a racist website ran by a racist company. They also own asianpeoplemeet.com and whitepeoplemeet.com. Guess which one of the 3 they don't use? That's right, whitepeoplemeet.com isn't used, but they own it so no one else can use it. I'm mixed, white and Asian. I will not use any site geared towards a specific ethnicity. If someone would have registered that name first, this site owner would be pissed saying it's racist.

Thumbnail of user tonis11
North Carolina
1 review
17 helpful votes
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August 10th, 2014

The absolute worst! I was new to online dating but scanning through all the profiles I just did not feel comfortable. So after three weeks I had enough. When I originally signed up I saw they had removed 6 months of payment. I called customer service and explained I was uncomfortable and did not wish to continue the subscription please refund the balance. To my surprise no refunds under no condition I explained I did not want free service I want to pay for what I used but I should not be force to spend my my money on service that I did not want. This went from the customer service -rep all the way up to the manager on duty.

The end of my story is now I am paying 5 months of service I am not using.
BEWARE. They do not give refunds

Thumbnail of user enidc2
Pennsylvania
1 review
12 helpful votes
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January 28th, 2017

I thought I met the man of my dreams, only to find out later that he is a con man, serial liar and serial cheater. His name is Antonio Davis from Lithonia Ga. He is diabolic and narcissistic. He disarm you with his charming personality and sweet talk but he is an evil character. Ladies beware of Tony Davis. I would try BPM again, I think there are good men on the site the only problem is making the right connection. I won't give up because of that poisonous apple!

Thumbnail of user rosieh11
Michigan
1 review
6 helpful votes
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August 6th, 2017

I was also on BPMeet off and on for 3 years, and each time my subscription expires I get a lot of e-mails. Now mine you when my subscription is valid I don't get any e-mails at all. That's what they want to keep you paying. The worst site there is.

Thumbnail of user lynnw25
Michigan
1 review
21 helpful votes
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October 10th, 2013

I have been on and off the site for 1 1/2 years, and have met two men in person. It did not go well. There are some men on the site, as you will see, have been on there for years and not made a connection. That is because they are not looking for a serious relationship and either wants a phone pen pal or sex. If it's your cup of tea, go for it. It's not me for, and I will not try it again. Even men out of state are treacherous and not serious. I will try my luck in the grocery store. :)

Thumbnail of user zimas1
Arizona
1 review
19 helpful votes
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November 19th, 2014

A lot of the men on this site are liars and mentally $#*!ed.
Ladies be careful of some of the men on BMP. The pictures on their pages may not be their real pictures or who they are. The profile information are false.
Once you meet a guy and he is telling you about marriage or telling you things you were longing to hear, that should be a red flag. Some of them wants to get you excited and convinced of their love for you before they start to defraud you of your money and emotions.
Most of these guys are scammers, please be careful. Do not let your emotions lead you to what you will regret for the rest of your lives.
Once you meet a guy online and he starts to ask you for money, do not waste your time talking with the fellow.

Tip for consumers:
Be careful ladies. A lot of the guys here are fake, $#*!ed, married, liars and scammers.

Thumbnail of user patricias253
Georgia
1 review
7 helpful votes
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February 6th, 2018

I have been on this site for quite awhile. I have gone out with some nice men and also some crazies. I engage them for two to three weeks in phone conversations before I actually meet them. I have been fooled a few times but not many. I have not met a match yet, but I refuse to settle. I have not had a problem with billing

Thumbnail of user soniam429
Tennessee
1 review
5 helpful votes
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February 8th, 2023

I signed up and even got a membership, the first man that I said not interested, he started accusing me of being a fake profile. My account was terminated and I was contacted by a gentleman who I had given my number too that he got an email saying that I was a fraud. Funny thing is we met in person and I am exactly that person. I contacted the site and so far no one can explain to me why I was terminated and why did the dating app send a email to others not even bothering to contact me, but gladly took my money. Smh

Thumbnail of user michellec37
Texas
1 review
14 helpful votes
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April 28th, 2013

I never get any real messages on the site. All I receive are those darn flirts. Then when I reply to the flirts I never get a response back. The site is full of people who send pointless flirts knowing they can't receive or respond to messages because they haven't paid for the service.

Thumbnail of user nicoleg371
California
1 review
24 helpful votes
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April 30th, 2020

The worst dating site ever. The guys on here are crazy. I have had multiple men go off on me for not responding to them, one guy that I never met but exchanged numbers with screamed on the phone at me because I would not tell him who I was visiting one weekend and demanded I tell him because we were "talking". I blocked him after that call. Another guy gave me his number, told me to text him when I'm available to talk, I did and he never responded and another guy I actually went on date with stopped talking to me because I wouldn't let him come to my home where I live with my child
To pick me up for a 2nd date. Do not waste your time. These men have issues and need help. And the out of state men that really think a relationship is going to happen. I know it does happen but with me it won't. I just do not like this website.

Thumbnail of user karenm2340
Texas
1 review
8 helpful votes
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October 29th, 2020

Met my husband on this site. I was on it for 1 day and he messaged me. We met in a public spot days later and we have been together since then. We met in March and married in November. We have been happily married for 4 years on November 5th.

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