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EliteSingles has a rating of 1.1 stars from 555 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about EliteSingles most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and credit card problems. EliteSingles ranks 650th among Dating sites.

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  • Value
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  • Quality
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Top Positive Review

“Elite singles not scammers by experience”

Lucky Y.
4/9/21

Elite singles are not scammers that is why I am correcting my review here, yet they are not clear that they only serve US clients, it is not an international service, they do not have a mobile application. You meet non matching profiles. The finance are very reluctant to reply so for a quick response I finally reached this email *******@elitesingles.com My advise don't waste your money over paid dating sites, there are lots of free apps to check.

Date of experience: 4/9/21
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Top Critical Review

“Waste of money”

Zeinab A.
10/21/24

I paid almost $80 for one month subscription! I don't believe, it doesn't even match me with the correct people. Why it is advertised that it is one of the best apps for professional singles. It's so expensive even for $5!

Date of experience: 10/21/24
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Thumbnail of user nd170
Canada
1 review
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July 18th, 2022

Complete waste of money. Glitchy. Decline matches continue to show up due to technology issue. Anyone I matched with seemed to lie about their location, as their area code didn't match with the location noted on their profile. There's only an option for a 3 month subscription, not one. They clearly state there isn't a refund after use but didn't specify the timeline upfront. I later find out, it's 3 days after using the app. They do not hold up their end of the deal, so why not extend the refund policy.

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Date of experience: July 18, 2022

Thumbnail of user elim47
Kentucky
1 review
1 helpful vote
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April 20th, 2019

I signed up and went through and incredibly long process only to get to the end and find I couldn't finish the process due to a glitch in the software. It wouldn't accept my home address. There is absolutely no customer support available. I got charged $172 for an account that doesn't function. Stay far away from these thieves

Date of experience: April 20, 2019

Thumbnail of user lauralynner
New York
3 reviews
3 helpful votes
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January 3rd, 2021
Verified purchase

Unfortunately I didn't look close enough before I bought into a 3 month premium subscription. What I joke... a really bad joke, of a dating site.
1st of all you have to pay through a 3rd party, pay pal... right there you're screwed. I tried to cancel my subscription in less than 24 hours.
3rd party... good luck with that,
My reason it's absolutely ridiculous. You can't do anything beyond give what they taught sad you most of it gentleman aren't even in my the sanity that I would consider and even if they are not a one of them is attractive to me in anyway. Who wants to start the new years with regrets while it doesn't matter what time of the year don't subscribe you will be so disappointed. If there was a rating beliw ZERO, I'd give them that.
After 39 minutes on hold... And because I can't hold with in they 72 hour., I was issued a full refund.
*******026

Tip for consumers:
Whatever you do do not sign up for this site there's gotta be so many others that offer so much more this one is a complete rip off and you get nothing.

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Date of experience: January 3, 2021

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California
1 review
8 helpful votes
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August 26th, 2019

I signed up for this sight because I was very pleased with the amount and content of questions they were asking. However, once on the site, I found they censored about half of my profile! There was absolutely nothing controversial in my writings unless they are right wing facists! Plus there's nothing "Elite" about the members. Just as many dirtbags as on other sites and hardly ANYONE in my area and I live in freaking Silicon Valley! The website is a scam, stay away. I am asking for my money back. We'll see what happens

Date of experience: August 26, 2019

Thumbnail of user prenticeb5
New Mexico
1 review
1 helpful vote
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March 8th, 2022

Mar 8,2022
Joined as a Premium Member then shortly thereafter observed a scam pattern of being furnished many attractive model looking persons showing an interest but no response. These people interested mostly resembled European models. The numbers were greatly disproportionate the area of interest. I simply wanted OUT of the website, & tried to take my profile OUT. Their system simply would not let me. I've noticed other observers state that they do not have that many members, thus I suspect that they keep everything they can. I rate this site less than 1, and will file complaints to the US FTC & FCC litter8

Date of experience: March 8, 2022

Thumbnail of user douglass696
Rhode Island
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January 14th, 2022

You will get random recommendations from far away faceless people, scanners seem to run unchecked and should your subscription run out you will be blocked with no notice. And you can't talk to a human

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I think You're really dealing with 2 companies elite singles and silver singles who seem to share info
I also don't think - based on the way they write dates- that they are based in the USA. They seem to pay little attention to your preferences and you will get a lot of fake contacts. They don't seem to care

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Date of experience: January 14, 2022

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Nevada
1 review
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July 13th, 2016

If you say anything negative about the site. Like, the uploading of photos email blasts are not real to get you to buy or join faster. They create a false sense of excitement in popularity to get you to join now... They will freeze your content and remove your rights to Freedom of Speech. I did a test on my content that was approved and placed an (a) in a sentence. It was scrubbed and the change was not approved. Once a website decides the content you can post, it's over. The company only cares about the bottomline, your cash. It's a foreign company that doesn't like the laws of the US but like's it's currency. Elite professionals in Hollywood run away from this operation. I did...

Date of experience: July 13, 2016

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James K. – EliteSingles Rep

Thank you for your review. We are sorry that your experience was not as satisfying as expected. We have no intention to deny anyone of their rights to Freedom of Speech. We simply have a code of conduct which we request all members adhere to. Therefore any written content which is deemed inappropriate or offensive to be published on the site can be denied. You are welcome to contact our Customer Care department at anytime for clarification as to why certain text was deemed inappropriate, as well as receive advice and support.

Sincerely,
EliteSingles

Thumbnail of user juliannew27
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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October 19th, 2021

First of all, they scam you to sign up, tell you that you have a time period to cancel. You can't cancel or delete the account. There is no one in your radius to date. You can't select filters to keep people from other countries or provinces messaging you or old men for that matter. Password never worked. You would have to re-set it every time. You can't even delete their account. There are sooo many technical issues. This app is a piece of crap.

Date of experience: October 19, 2021

Thumbnail of user kathleenr341
Texas
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June 15th, 2020

Ladies... be careful who you connect with. I was offered an invite my a member who had a friend that said he didnt like online dating. Well he woos you with compliments, promising you dinner, to meet, to buy you a house on and on all to end up saying he was in trouble with his business and asks for your help. By then you are so hooked that you can hardly pull yourself away. I almost lost $20,000 dollars to a man i thought i trusted! Please please dont give him any money no matter how desperate he appears. It will be a lie. These guys are so smooth at getting you in a trap. He is a Professionsl Scammer. And the photos he will send you are stolen identity... so you dont know what he really looks like.

Date of experience: June 15, 2020

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Canada
1 review
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July 29th, 2020

HUGE SCAM! Horrible selection, ignores your preferences, steals your money. They only focus on taking 6 months of your money without offering you a refund if you have only used it for a few days. Do not waste your time with this webiste

Date of experience: July 29, 2020

Thumbnail of user nadiam89
Massachusetts
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 25th, 2020

I have tried five different credit card to purchase a membership, but and successful. When a chat with the customer service do referred me to a third-party where I have to pay $39 extra to get help with the payment. I believe this is the worst website ever! They don't wanna take your money, wanna to refer you to someone else to rip you off!

Date of experience: November 25, 2020

Thumbnail of user jillp272
Connecticut
1 review
1 helpful vote
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July 2nd, 2021

You have to pay a membership and then that is the end of the relationship with this dating site. They allow men to post without photos so you who have paid to join have to ask for the photo which in most cases is a waste of time. What am I paying this site for when I have to do all of the work.
The site is difficult to contact
Of course they send you people from all over even though that is not what you are looking for. This site is a waste of time and money.

Tip for consumers:
Try it for free first. Perhaps you will have better luck

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Date of experience: July 2, 2021

Thumbnail of user emanuelae2
New York
1 review
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October 20th, 2021

This is such a joke... after they ask you all the questions, they match you with smokers, drinkers and on and on. All the things you said you don't want. And what about elite: most of the people have high school diploma. Not to mention the scams: 2,3 a day! Stay away! These people have 3 subscribers and they rotate them in the match page

Date of experience: October 20, 2021

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Ohio
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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December 11th, 2019

I've been on here and sometimes, these "men" say things as if they are sharing information in the background on another site and finding you on other social media sites. I even used a fake name but the questions they ask are not just unusual but sometimes linked to direct thoughts you share on social medias. Sometimes I worry if it's a form of sex trafficking.

Also, I got charged an international fee. I wasn't expecting to be charged one.

Date of experience: December 11, 2019

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New York
1 review
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May 19th, 2019

Once your payment is made and you hit the 3 days you get nothing from the site. They lure you in and once your payment is locked forget about it.
Member since

May 14,2019

Type of membership

6 months Premium membership

Contract since

May 14,2019

Monthly cost

$34.95

Total amount

$209.70

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Nov 14,2019

Tip for consumers:
Don't bother, it's not worth it. Most people are 200 + miles away.. drive that for for a date.

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Date of experience: May 19, 2019

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New York
1 review
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April 6th, 2020

First of all the website is horrible. Then you can't cancel. They automatically renew you and you can't get in touch with anyone. DO NOT GIVE THEM any account information. They are located somewhere in Germany.

Date of experience: April 6, 2020

Thumbnail of user careyh41
Texas
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June 30th, 2020

I am a professional male looking for a professional female and signed up with EliteSingles. I felt I was getting some great matches at first. After about a week, I noticed a couple of "fraud" entries of messages I never wrote to other ladies. When I mentioned to these ladies that I did not write these messages and was going to report it, my membership was mysteriously canceled about an hour later. Then they had the nerve to bill my credit card for the balance. I can see why these clowns do not have a support line... they would get too many complaints. Definitely not on the up and up.

Date of experience: June 30, 2020

Thumbnail of user debis33
Washington
1 review
6 helpful votes
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September 5th, 2019

If you are a professional, attractive and active woman seeking professional, attractive and active man... DO NOT pay for this site. Half the "matches" did not have photos. 9/10 of the men are not attractive. They are not elite... the site kept matching me with men 5-10 years older than me no matter how many times I set the filter to not more than 2 years older than me. I tried to get my $ back after 3 days... they refused. I could have thrown the money in the lake and that would have been a better use of it

Date of experience: September 5, 2019

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GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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July 31st, 2022

Totally unacceptable terms and services. No updates on renewal and refuse to refund the money. The website in general is also pathetic, I hadn't used it in 4 months and then they decide to take £170 from my account with no prior intimation. Poor service and I'm very dissatisfied and disappointed in it. I even said that I couldn't afford it so please refund the money, but they didn't bother at all, just pure brutal.

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Please don't bother, it is a total waste of time.

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Date of experience: July 31, 2022

Thumbnail of user joes1351
South Africa
1 review
2 helpful votes
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April 18th, 2020

Nothing but a rip off and waste of money. Elite it definately was not. Even though my settings was set at very important in religious end ethnic meaning I was not interested in meeting other ethnic or religious people most of my matches were from other ethnic and religious people:-(

Date of experience: April 18, 2020

Thumbnail of user marciam172
New York
7 reviews
20 helpful votes
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May 28th, 2020

A lot of dating sites have fake profiles, but they do not call themselves www.EliteSingles.com. The name makes you think they are actually vetting people for their qualifications, but they do not. There are profiles with claims of having a master's or doctorate, but full of broken English! The best: A guy with a doctorate wrote sentual instead of sensual. Elite does not deliver on its name. Don't be fooled.

Tip for consumers:
Do not use this site. They do not review the profiles for legitimacy.

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Date of experience: May 28, 2020

Thumbnail of user stevens2355
New Jersey
1 review
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February 1st, 2022

Elite has you fill out a detailed questionare, such as age requirements, distance desired, Most almost 95 % of those they provide live to far from you, are to young or to old, do not suggest people you desire e.g. no african americans yet they send you African americans to choose from

Very frustrating to find someone you are interested in while the possible candadtes are not who you desire.

Forget Refunds and they make it hard to delete your profile and never give a refund

Date of experience: February 1, 2022

Thumbnail of user donnar386
North Carolina
1 review
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October 25th, 2019

Yesterday 5 out of 10 matches were missing photos. Today 6 out of 10 matches were missing photos.
The quality and proximity of the matches are very disappointing.
I enrolled 5 days ago., contacted customer service for a refund and they said I would need to contact Apple., which I have done. Hopefully they will do the right thing!

Date of experience: October 25, 2019

Thumbnail of user jamesf2583
Colorado
1 review
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October 7th, 2021

I have yet to have a match in the same state as where I live and not one of their so called matches will reply to me.
When I requested a refund I received a runaround and still don't have the information I need to get a refund from them

Tip for consumers:
Don't use it

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Date of experience: October 7, 2021

Thumbnail of user frankp536
Pennsylvania
1 review
1 helpful vote
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August 3rd, 2020

Your first week is getting pics and looking at your 'matches'. In a few days you will be getting the wrong matches. Then the so called 'visitors' will be mostly the wrong type you asked for. If you quickly cancel your subscription you
Will then succumb to the harassment of the 'cons' of their revenge. Ai at it's worst. Rate it as it should be out of business.

Date of experience: August 3, 2020

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